【德多少,就得多少】
YOUR VIRTUES DETERMINE HOW MUCH YOU GET
最近家附近有建築工地,噪音多了。
客人聽我的聲音不會有問題,因為我的耳機有麥克風,但如果他們不戴有麥克風的耳機,我聽他們的聲音會比較辛苦。
幾天前,為一位年輕的保險經紀通過Zoom批八字。
他進入Zoom會議室後,呆看著我。
我微笑看著他,故意不出聲,觀察著他。
幾秒後,他才粗魯的說:「哈囉?!」
奇怪了,貴為一個保險經紀,見人應該無數,打招呼的方式,怎能這麼粗俗?我阿姨阿伯級的客人,雖不常用Zoom,都比他懂禮貌。
我馬上回:「X先生,您好。您進來會議室,怎麼打招呼這麼粗俗?」
「我一向來都是這樣先哈囉,有聲音我才正式打招呼。」
「我倒是從來不會這樣。」
其實,這是個人修養的問題。
「你沒有讀我發給你的貼文嗎?為何你視訊沒有戴耳機?」
「我一向來Zoom都是這樣,沒有戴耳機。我以為你只是建議而已,不一定要戴。」
「我在貼文裡寫關於戴耳機的理由,你覺得不成立嗎?」
他想了幾秒,回:「是成立的。」
「我們都是提供服務的人。客人找我們,需要三大元素。第一個,就是同理心。你沒有同理心,難怪你說你的客人寧願聽別人說,也不信你說。」
「如果你要我戴,我現在就戴。」
他講完後,依然坐在那裡看著我,一動也不動。
後來,我說了幾句,他肯戴上耳機後,藍牙耳機也並沒操作好。
等了我一個月,這麼簡單的事情都不願事先做好。
看著他理直氣壯的模樣,頓時覺得他很可憐。
貴人坐在他面前,他說的一大堆話,都是以「自我」為出發點,完全不懂得「以和為貴」的道理。這不就是親手把貴人轟出門嗎?
「你這樣講話,就算講贏了,你真的贏了嗎?」
換成我是他的客人,我絕不會向他買保險,因為很明顯這不是一位真心為別人著想的保險經紀人。
那天,雖為他看八字,該說的我都有說,但我依然保留許多。
因為他缺德。
許多人把「德」看得很輕,覺得沒做壞事就是好人。事實上,不按照別人合理的要求做事,蓄意破壞規則,只顧自己,也是沒有德行可言。
有些人會吐槽,哎呀你學佛的人,要慈悲,何必跟他計較?不要著相!
我不是在意氣用事。
沒有智慧的慈悲,會害死人的。
祖師有訓 - 看命本來就是依客人的福德多寡,而賜福。品行不端的人,承受不起更多的福報,反而會遭反噬。再說了,對貴人都不好的人,對沒有利用價值的人就會更善良嗎?
不是捐錢的,就一定是好人,什麼事情都是要用心才算。
每個人都想要與眾不同,可是如果你的所作所為和一般人一樣,沒有比他們做得更好,那你的命格只配拿得起一般的命運。
不要迷信,以為什麼都是人家為難你,就跑去求神拜佛要打小人。我們命運裡的每一個障礙,每一粒石頭,都是自己放進去的。
你不改,障礙物就不會移。
在這裡聲明:沒有麥克風耳機的Zoom客人,我一概會取消諮詢,進行退款,沒得商量,沒得瞎掰。
能突然放假,真是太過癮了!
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Recently, a construction site sprouted up beside my place, creating a lot of noise every day.
Zoom clients wouldn’t have a problem hearing me, but if they do not have a earpiece with a mic, I would have a problem hearing them.
Few days ago, I did a Bazi analysis for a young Insurance Agent via Zoom.
After he entered my Zoom meeting room, he looked at me blankly.
I smiled at him, deliberately staying quiet, and observed him.
Few seconds later, he said bluntly, “Hello?!”
How strange that an insurance agent, who probably have met tons of people, would greet in such an abrupt manner. My middle-aged clients, who rarely use Zoom, have better etiquette than him.
I replied instantly, “Hi, Mr X. Why is your greeting so crude, upon entering this meeting room?”
“I always say hello like this and wait to hear a reply, before I greet officially.”
“I never do that.”
Actually, this demonstrates the refinement of a person.
“Did you not read the post I sent you? Why are you not wearing a earpiece?”
“All along, I do Zooms in this manner without a earpiece. I thought it’s just a suggestion from you and it was not mandatory.”
“I wrote about the reason for clients to wear a earpiece. Do you find it invalid?”
He pondered for a few seconds and replied, “It’s valid.”
“We are both service providers. Clients look for us based on three main qualities. The first being the quality of empathy. You lack empathy and it’s no wonder you say your clients rather listen to others and not trust you as much.”
“If you want me to wear, then I will wear it now”
And he sat there looking at me, not moving an inch.
When he finally put on his ear pods, they did not operate well either.
It’s peculiar how despite a month of waiting for me, he was slow to get this simple thing done right.
Seeing how “self-assured” he was, for a brief moment, I find his behaviour pitiful.
His benefactor was sitting right in front of him, yet his words remained self-serving, totally oblivious to what harmony is about. Wasn’t this sending your benefactor straight out of the door?
“Even if you gain an upper hand talking like this, have you really won?
I would never buy insurance from such an agent, as obviously he was not the considerate kind.
I still read his Bazi that day, said what I should but there were also a lot I did not reveal.
Because he is lacking in virtues.
Many people think lightly of virtues. They assumed that if they do no evil deed, they are virtuous humans. Fact is, if you do not follow the reasonable requirements of other people, deliberately breaking the rules for your own gain, you have no virtue to speak of.
Some naysayers will tell me, but hey you are a practicing Buddhist, so you should exercise your compassion and not be bothered with his behaviour! Don’t get attached to external form!
This isn’t about me.
Compassion without wisdom brings more harm than good.
Since ancient times, it is a rule of thumb that we practitioners allocate good fortune to clients, based on their conduct and luck.
A person with undesirable conduct is unable to bear greater fortune, or there will be adverse consequences. Moreover, if a person is unkind to his benefactor, it is very unlikely that he will be kinder to another person with no value to him.
You can’t define a person as a good man, just because he is willing to donate money. We got to look at how he uses his heart.
Everybody wants to be special and different from others. But if what you are doing is the same as other people, nowhere better than them, then you can only carry a mediocre Destiny.
Don’t be superstitious to think that everybody is out to get you, and you go running to the temples or Feng Shui masters to chase away the villains.
Every obstacle in our destiny, every little stone that trips us, is placed in our lives by no other person but ourselves.
If you do not change, the obstacle isn’t going to budge either.
And here’s an official note: For any Zoom client that does not wear a earpiece with a microphone, I will cancel the consultation and give you a refund.
Having off days out of the blue are so much more fun!
同時也有11部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過7萬的網紅王大喜,也在其Youtube影片中提到,2021/04/14生命紀實 「時空環繞金球紀實系列」 2626、 「夢婆的古銅鏡 (照妖鏡;新時代形為相機)」、 「申根、日月重置術」 /.原著及超自然現象紀實 王大喜(Rasta Wang) *夢窗戶打不開,周遭環境關閉,沒有在使用自己的天賦。 /.原著 王大喜 *Dream of wind...
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about our client 在 Benny Price Fitness Facebook 的最讚貼文
This video was filmed on my very first day in the gym with @tompurvisptrts at the tail end of May. He’d never met me before, and we were on the back of an impromptu 1-hr whiteboard lecture 📝 on what most of the world calls “warming up” and at RTS we generally refer to as “exercise preparation”.
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A lot of our later conversations were much more technical 🤓 but I thought this was a really accessible way to introduce Tom to many of you who won’t be aware of the man who is behind so much of the accurate information you’ve learnt over the years.
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Tom’s a big proponent of his own RTS motto of “Think science, speak client” and meeting the person you’re talking to “where they’re at” 🗣 You’ll note how casual his terminology was here because he wasn’t sure yet what I was comfortable with. A month later it would probably sound like French to most of the general population 😂
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Anyway, here he’s putting in quite simple layman’s terms what is happening during a warm-up set ⚡️ He’s just getting his muscles “used to” contracting, because 5 minutes ago they were doing nothing 😴
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Think of those sets in terms of their purpose. They’re to prepare your joints for the range they’re going to have to explore, your muscles to contract and the force they and their connective tissue are about to produce and translate respectively, and your neural system to make all of this happen with maximal effort 💯 Yes, the process will encourage increased blood flow so don’t worry about that🫀
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Lastly, they represent your opportunity to focus on what feels good today and what doesn’t 🤔 and what cues you’re going to focus on delivering in your set this session (based on either an intention bias or something in particular you’re working on or experimenting with) without the distraction of managing and controlling heavy load 🥵
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If you start thinking about your “non-working” sets in this manner, you might just find you stop wasting too much energy “getting warm” 🤒🤦🏻♂️ and instead spend it improving the readiness of your mind 🧠 muscles 💪🏽 and joints 🦾 to execute the sets ahead of you.
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Bonne courage, mes amis préparés. Go forth and contract.
about our client 在 Facebook 的最佳貼文
When client is particular about colors especially in a product shoot, I always got them covered. A color chart is always the first shot of every scene to establish the "correct" color.
In post processing software, like Capture One, I then build a color profile based on the first image captured and apply the same settings throughout. And then, if the color doesn't come out correctly on client's end, I can always push the blame on them LOL. Just kidding because, color management is such a huge topic.
To add more cost to our production, I would have to have a capable monitor (at least 100% sRGB for web delivery, or preferably 100% aRGB), and a monitor calibration device. Yet, the problem doesn't end here because then not all consumer devices (such as client's laptop, mobile phone, friend's mobile phone, etc) are color calibrated.
But hey, at least I have done my part.
about our client 在 王大喜 Youtube 的精選貼文
2021/04/14生命紀實
「時空環繞金球紀實系列」
2626、
「夢婆的古銅鏡
(照妖鏡;新時代形為相機)」、
「申根、日月重置術」
/.原著及超自然現象紀實 王大喜(Rasta Wang)
*夢窗戶打不開,周遭環境關閉,沒有在使用自己的天賦。 /.原著 王大喜
*Dream of window doesn’t open, not In the right elements path close because of the surrounding. /.Rasta Wang
✨✨🐝🥇🤩👇
今日特別代班貴賓:憤怒尊(又稱不動明王)
*=Chakra resetting + Time resetting work. /.Origin Nicole Marks
(時空背景、協助周遭、一位在監獄、一位為媒體人,兩位正經歷桃花劫的朋友, 釋放周遭的仿生獸重量,直接影響客戶深層夢境。)
(Back ground、help with two of my friends , one in jail, the other is a comedian who both encountered disaster in their life both hurt from love circle, releasing the mimicking monster in their surrounding, it shows direct affect client dream and subconscious mind)
2021/04/03(生命紀錄)
「夢婆來與鬼敘舊」、
來看看我神棍老友的「高情商與綜藝道行」!🤩😲😉🏆🏆🥇🤩🤩
當時當紅節目「大學生了沒」的固定班底阿Land, 蕭勤倫當時曾多次創下電視台的高收視率!綜藝能力!創造力!高情商寶刀未老!
*需要開懷大笑的朋友歡迎訂閱!👇
⭐️綜藝節目主持人:阿Land
✨特別來賓與老友: 王大喜 x ☁️❔❗️
https://www.facebook.com/100002626598066/posts/3729788673785316/?d=n
*註:
「要遠避無知的辯論和家譜 的空談 ,以及紛爭,並因律法而起的爭競,因為這都是虛妄無益的。 分門結黨的人,警戒過一兩次,就要棄絕他。
你要趕緊給律師 西納 和 亞波羅 送行,叫他們沒有缺乏。 並且我們的人要學習正經事業 ,預備所需用的,免得不結果子。 同我在一處的人都問你安。請代問那些因有信心愛我們的人安。願恩惠 常 與你們眾人同在!」
提多書 3:9-10, 13-15 CUNP-神
「This is a trustworthy saying. And I want you to stress these things, so that those who have trusted in God may be careful to devote themselves to doing what is good. These things are excellent and profitable for everyone. But avoid foolish controversies and genealogies and arguments and quarrels about the law, because these are unprofitable and useless. Warn a divisive person once, and then warn them a second time. After that, have nothing to do with them. You may be sure that such people are warped and sinful; they are self-condemned.
Our people must learn to devote themselves to doing what is good, in order to provide for urgent needs and not live unproductive lives. Everyone with me sends you greetings. Greet those who love us in the faith. Grace be with you all.」
Titus 3:8-11, 14-15 NIV
「這事以後, 埃及 王的酒政和膳長得罪了他們的主- 埃及 王, 法老就惱怒酒政和膳長這二臣,
到了早晨, 約瑟 進到他們那裏,見他們有愁悶的樣子。
他們對他說:「我們各人做了一夢,沒有人能解。」 約瑟 說:「解夢不是出於神嗎?請你們將夢告訴我。」 酒政便將他的夢告訴 約瑟 說:「我夢見在我面前有一棵葡萄樹, 樹上有三根枝子,好像發了芽,開了花,上頭的葡萄都成熟了。
約瑟 對他說:「你所做的夢是這樣解:三根枝子就是三天; 三天之內,法老必提你出監,叫你官復原職,你仍要遞杯在法老的手中,和先前作他的酒政一樣。 但你得好處的時候,求你記念我,施恩與我,在法老面前提說我,救我出這監牢。 我實在是從 希伯來 人之地被拐來的;我在這裏也沒有做過甚麼,叫他們把我下在監裏。」 膳長見夢解得好,就對 約瑟 說:「我在夢中見我頭上頂着三筐白餅; 極上的筐子裏有為法老烤的各樣食物,有飛鳥來吃我頭上筐子裏的食物。」 約瑟 說:「你的夢是這樣解:三個筐子就是三天; 三天之內,法老必斬斷你的頭,把你掛在木頭上,必有飛鳥來吃你身上的肉。」 到了第三天,是法老的生日,他為眾臣僕設擺筵席,把酒政和膳長提出監來, 使酒政官復原職,他仍舊遞杯在法老手中; 但把膳長掛起來,正如 約瑟 向他們所解的話。 酒政卻不記念 約瑟 ,竟忘了他。」
創世記 40:1-2, 6, 8-10, 12-23 CUNP-神
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戶名:王大囍
銀行代號:808
銀行名稱:玉山銀行內湖分行
帳號:0462968127363
銀行代號:048
銀行名稱:王道銀行
帳號:01000115473288
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戶名:王大囍
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存戶帳號:0015879086033
Dream Walker™: RastaWang.com
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about our client 在 DJ Macky Suson Youtube 的精選貼文
"My advocacies would always be about mental health awareness. I'm creating and establishing Macky Academy for the future of our young talented Filipinos kids and youths. And helping Filipino people, one person at a time."
Update: As of July 30, 2020, I have spent 190,000 Pesos and sent our fellowmen in the Philippines to help them get by. If you would like to donate to my advocacy please send me an email: hello@mackysuson.com
Your support and donation will help a lot of our fellowmen during this crisis. Sharing this video is also your support to everyone.
#MackyQuotes
Live to me is more spontaneous and I'm able to show my real feelings without editing it or worrying about commiting mistakes, any words at all. "
"Recording makes me feel I have to be perfect."
Yana Sy "I'm always thankful and happy that I'm back in the field and I'm always grateful about that one."
"It's not about passing. I'm able to do things that I'm supposed to do."
"I'm just happy,blessed,and grateful about it."
"I was focused on people giving pieces of advice and helping people on Facebook, appears it from prizes, gcash and load. I'm happy doing that. "
"I was really happy doing that sense I believe it became my therapy."
"I'm also grateful that I have my Macky Agents on my group, on my Facebook page because they are the one to make someone friend. "
"I thanking them and I was grateful. The help, support and love they show me even though they don't know me at all. "
"Things that happened to me in the past when I was young. Things that I think no one should feel it. "
"Things happen in the past are worthy in the past."
"Though I look back to the past sometimes, it doesn't necessarily that it contributed to my depressive episode that I have. "
"Im recovering very well and thanks God everything is really really well."
"I'm just thanking God for me giving me a chance to go back to field because that's the only thing that will solve my problem. "
"I'm just thanking God for me giving me a chance to go back to field because that's the only thing that will solve my problem. "
"I'm able to balance my life a lot easier now. My time management go a lot better."
"One of the things that I love to myself is I dont believe to myself but some just one.
"I believe that there is always in this everything like motivational speaking, dancing, and singing. "
"Grew up as a Filipino having nothing at all, I've just wanted to try everything what I could. "
"I've been doing all the things that I love in the past few years."
"Thanks God for my work and thanks God for the blessings that I've been receiving from him. "
"I know that I don't deserved it all that's why I'm sharing."
Be grateful, count your blessings."
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"Do what you love, sharing is happiness."
"Dancing is expression, express yourself."
"Happiness should be our priority."
"Happiness and recovery is still your main goal and priority."
"If I don't like things that I'm not comfortable with or I'm not happy with, I will make sure that I will not do it unless I will prioritize the things that will makes me happy."
"I will just follow what my guts are telling."
"Trust your instinct, science cannot explain it."
"I'm more rational in making decisions. I always counting it weighing things. "
"The process, and the consequences of the things that I will do."
"Making decisions is never gonna be easy. And I'm getting back on it."
"Im getting good on it again. I would say that those are the things I say. I am recovering well. "
"Trust but verify it."
"Trusting but verifying your clients especially when your client is overwhelmingly. Change a lot in just a short time. "
"Your will is stronger than any medications."
"I've change a lot in short time because my will to move on, my will to recover, and to fight are so strong. "
"I'm so strong that's the reason I recovered well."
"Great support system contributes to fast recovery."
The medications, and the prayers that I've got from my Macky Agents, from my friends and my family members, from everyone, and the support of God, and the love I felt from them. Those are the things that contributed me a lot to a fast recovery. "
Knowing and talking to people I don't know. And being able to interact with them and let them understand my situation, at the same time connecting to them, giving them pieces of advice. Knowing that there are people who reach out to me, who have problems not just financially but as well as depression, family problems, love problems, it makes me happy."
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about our client 在 Michelle Lim Youtube 的精選貼文
It’s been a week since I’m fasting. Feeling good and better and my body start to adapt to it. Besides feeling my body is lighter, I also get to learn how to manage my mental health during this period. We’ve been locked down for more than a month at home and still trying to find something new to learn. Me myself get to learn how to edit video and share it here with you all. I hope the editing is not too bad ? Feel free to give comments and I’ll learn to improve my shooting and editing skills.
Sorry for membebel panjang ? for the past one week I’ve been doing this kind of quick workout for 10-15 minutes before break fast. I do practice fasting like how Muslims do (fasting foods and water for 13 hours), so that I can really understand how my Muslims client feel when they workout during Ramadan.
This practice is also benefits to those who want to lose fats and lose weight at the same time. Of course diet plays the biggest role in our lifestyle. Either you want to lose weight or gain muscle, DIET is the main key for you to achieve your goal! Leave your comment below if you want to know more about this. Maybe I can share on my next video ?
Hope you like my sharing ?
Stay home, stay safe and stay healthy ?
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