「名不正，而言不順，言不順，則事不成。」
孔子的名言，眾所皆知也。可還是有爲人父母者，不去研究，固執己見，跳不出家譜，胡亂的給了自己子女，極凶的名字。
這麼多年來，吾看了實在有夠多。今吾，玳瑚師父，特別再闡示此姓名學，依舊是憐憫，無知的眾生。但願有緣觀讀到的妳你，悉發菩提心，大家告知大家，共襄盛舉，廣結善緣，即是美事功德一樁。善哉!善哉!
何謂不正？字形不端，字意不好，字音不雅，字之剛柔不濟，字之五行相剋，三才配置不吉，五格帶凶等等，謂之不正是也。倘若這些方面，皆無完全顧及到，妳你的子女肯定凶多吉少。當然，若她他不知其名，乃是妳你的賦於，妳你們之間就不會，有任何的不妥。
不過，當悲劇發生時，妳你又於心何忍呢?心平氣和的想一想，這到底是愛，還是害啊!不要將妳你的面子，不要將妳你的執著，不要將妳你的銭財，變成一種賭注，變成一種毒素，變成一種禍害，殃及妳妳的子女。好好地遵守，以上姓名學的準則，給於妳你的愛情結晶，無私偉大的愛。
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"If the name is not proper, then the speech will not be in order, and if speech is not in order, then nothing will be accomplished"
This famous adage of Confucius is well-known by everybody. However, there are still parents who refuse to research and remain stubborn to their own views. They are unable to escape from the confines of their genealogy book and carelessly give their sons and daughters a dangerously inauspicious name.
I have indeed seen a lot of such parents all these years. Now Master Dai Hu is going to specially talk about anthroponymy, out of compassion for ignorant sentient beings as always. I hope that you with the affinity to read this also generate bodhichitta and tell more people about this, partaking and forming more virtuous affinities in the process. That will be an wonderful act of merits. Sadhu! Sadhu!
What is an improper name? It is one with irregular external form, bad meaning, indecent pronunciation, inequilbrium in strength and gentleness, clashes in the five elements, inauspiciousness in configuration of the Three Talents, inauspiciousness in the Five Formations etc. If all these are not taken care of, your children will definitely encounter more disasters than good fortune. Naturally, if he or she does not know that the name is given by you, there will not be any friction between you.
However, when tragedy strikes, how can you bear in your heart?
Think over it calmly. Is this love or harm?
Do not use your pride, your attachment and your wealth as gambling stakes, and allow it to become toxic, eventually bringing harm to your children. Adhere to the above rules of Chinese Name Analysis well, and you will be able to give your children great selfless love.
