關於 bond sat ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

Look who came to visit! "It's like we are having a staycation right, Mama? Woohoo!"

The first birth experience usually affects the subsequent ones, doesn't it? For me, I gave birth to the big girl in a small town called Karlskrona in Sweden, where the hubby was posted for naval training. We didn't have to pay for the stay other than a small admin fee, we had a huge private ward with two beds - one for me, one for the hubby, the nurses and midwives were friendly and traditional - they used wooden pinard stethoscopes and measuring tapes, I sat on a gym ball instead of lying down, they asked me if I wanted ice cream to relieve the pain instead of mentioning the word epidural, and there was no such thing as a nursery which means our baby girl was with us 24/7 once she came into this world.

All these were precious memories and learning experiences for me, and I cherished that opportunity to witness a different culture that I might not have able to otherwise. So for my subsequent births in Singapore, I requested for my baby to room-in with me every single time, I had the courage and confidence to say no to epidural and I appreciate the comfort and calmness of my ward.

Yup, this is indeed the only 'staycation' we have willingly paid for (our occasional family hotel staycays are sponsored but you do know I work hard for every one of them in return, right?) and I love it because when the baby rooms in with me, it's just me and him/her and that bond we build right from the start is invaluable and irreplaceable.

Sure, the nurses tell me I should just sleep and let them take care of my baby, or that they can supplement with formula so I don't need to breastfeed exclusively, or that I don't need to change soiled diapers and can leave it to them. But, didn't you just say this is my baby? I was taught to be an strong mum with my firstborn - we had to feed, change, burp and even bathe her ourselves at the hospital too, under the guidance of the nurse - and that's how I want it to be for all my kids right from the start.

Treasuring the close bond I have with each of my kids, especially so today. You are my motivation to persevere. Love you, my babies! ❤

P.S. These two were also born right here 8 and 5 years ago. How time flies!

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NABI MUHAMMAD SAW PERNAH DISIHIR!!!

Sihir tersebut dihantar oleh seorang Yahudi bernama Labid bin Aksam. Ketika itu Nabi pulang dari Hudaibiah. Setelah selesai perang Khaibar, datanglah ketua-ketua Yahudi bertemu Labid, untuk melakukan sihir ke atas Nabi SAW.

Dengan kerjasama daripada seorang budak Yahudi yang juga khadam nabi, mereka telah mencuri sikat rambut Nabi SAW beserta rambut yang terdapat pada sikatnya.

Tukang sihir tersebut membuat patung berupa Nabi SAW daripada lilin, lalu ditikam dengan 11 jarum dan disimpul dengan 11 ikatan dan dicampakkan ke dalam telaga Zarwan, tempat Nabi SAW selalu mandi.

Setelah Nabi SAW mandi di telaga tersebut, ditakdirkan, baginda terkena sihir selama 40 hari.

Satu malam Nabi SAW berdoa kepada Allah. Lalu datang dua malaikat berupa dua orang lelaki menemui Nabi SAW ketika Baginda sedang tidur. Salah seorangnya duduk di sebelah kepala manakala yang seorang lagi di sebelah kaki Nabi SAW.

Maka yang seorang lagi membacakan beberapa ayat dari al-Quran, iaitu Surah ‘Mu’awwidataini’ (Surah Al-Falaq dan Surah An-Nas).

Nabi SAW kemudiannya terjaga dari tidur, lalu mengutus Saidina Ali, Saidina Zubir dan Ammar ibnu Yasir pergi ke telaga tersebut.

Sesampainya di sana, mereka melihat air telaga itu seperti rendaman daun inai kemerah-merahan darah warnanya, manakala pokok kurmanya kelihatan bagaikan kepala-kepala syaitan. Mereka menimba airnya dan mengangkat seketul batu besar, kemudian menemui bungkusan berikat tersebut lalu mereka mengambil dan mengeluarkannya dari telaga itu, seterusnya bungkusan berikat itu disampaikan pada Nabi SAW.

Pada bungkusan tersebut terdapat 11 simpulan bersama sikat, dan 11 jarum.

Kemudian Nabi SAW membaca ‘Surah Mu’awwidataini’ iaitu dua surah yang diturunkan kepada Nabi SAW dalam mimpi semalam.

Setiap kali dibaca satu ayat dari kedua-dua surah tersebut, terurailah satu ikatan, sehinggalah terurai kesemua simpulannya. Maka dengan takdir Allah, Nabi SAW dapat berdiri dan seakan-akan baru terungkai dan terlepas dari belenggu ikatan.

Apabila dicabut pula satu persatu jarum tersebut, terasa sakit dalam tubuh Nabi SAW yang kemudiannya beransur hilang.

Sumber dari MSTAR.

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PROPHET MUHAMMAD SAW HAS BEEN WITCHED!!!

The magic was sent by a Jew named Labid bin Aksam. That time the Prophet came home from Hudaibiah. After the Khaibar war, the Jewish chiefs came to meet Labid, to perform magic on Prophet SAW.

In cooperation from a Jewish boy who also khadam prophet, they stole the hair brush of Prophet SAW along with his hair on his brush.

The witch made a statue of Prophet SAW from a candle, then stabbed with 11 needles and knitted with 11 bonds and thrown into Zarwan's lake, where Prophet SAW always took a bath.

After Prophet SAW bathed in the lake, destined, he was affected by magic for 40 days.

One night Prophet SAW prayed to Allah. Then two angels came, two men found Prophet SAW while He was sleeping. One of them sat on the head while the other one was beside the Prophet SAW.

So the other one recites several verses from the Quran, which is Surah ' Mu ' awwidataini ' (Surah Al-Falaq and Surah An-Nas).

Prophet SAW then woke up from sleep, then sent Saidina Ali, Saidina Zubir and Ammar ibnu Yasir to the lake.

When they get there, they see the water like the soak of the reddish henna leaves, while the date tree looks like the devil's heads. They took the water and lifted a large piece of stone, then found the allied package and then they picked it up and removed it from the lake, the next packaging was delivered to Prophet SAW.

In the package there are 11 knots with brush, and 11 needles.

Then Prophet SAW read ' Surah Mu ' awwidataini ' which are two verses sent down to Prophet SAW in yesterday's dream.

Every time read a verse from both verses, there is a bond, until it unravels all its knots. So in the destiny of Allah, the Prophet SAW can stand up and as if it has just been released from the shackles of the bond.

When the needle is pulled out one by one, the pain in the body of Prophet SAW which then disappeared.

The source of MSTAR.

#MaulidurrasulTranslated

We've been to this playground a few times but this was the first time the little brother dared to enter the 'cage'.

Yup, it does look intimidating and a tad too challenging for a 4yo at first glance and that was why he initially refused to try, I decided to let him wait till he was ready as he went off playing on the slides, swing and trampoline instead.

This time, he was brave enough to go in but he was ready to give up after a couple of minutes because he wasn't tall or strong enough to even climb up to the second tier and felt discouraged.

That was when not one, but both of his sisters rushed to his rescue and encouraged him to go on and not give up. One lifted him by his arms and the other pushed him up by his butt while not forgetting to guide him on how to climb, where to put his footing and constantly telling him "You can do it, Didi."

When he was hesitant to go on, they sat down to wait with him, motivate him and gave him courage. When there was a hole to drop through, they showed him how to do it, carried him down till he felt confident enough to try on his own. Slowly but surely, the three of them made their way up and made their way through not once, but a few times.

Where was I? Well, I was just watching, smiling and feeling thankful that I made the choice to have more than one kid. It was a sweet reminder that siblings are the best gifts I can give to them and I can only hope this special bond they share will last them for life. Happy Sunday, people!

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