Happy 56th birthday, Singapore! 🇸🇬
We didn't do anything fanciful today but instead stayed home to have an intimate family celebration. It was a day that I needed because truth be told, I am still trying to mend the pieces and move on slowly but surely.
The kids and I woke up to catch the ceremonial parade together and then my parents came over for lunch. We ordered nasi lemak for takeaway and spent the afternoon looking through my childhood pictures and all the pictures of popo that I compiled (I did it over the past few nights when I couldn't sleep). We talked about the past, talked about her final days, I told my parents about my regrets and guilt, we talked about death - something which we have never done so - but not in a morbid way. In fact, I was thankful to find out what they would like us to do for them when the day comes. The topics were heavy, but in a sense, the chats allowed me to process my grief and loss a little better and I know we are all in it together.
My dad and I then took the kids to the playground and bought bubble tea before we headed home to watch Mr Unbelievable and ate a simple steamboat dinner prepared by the hubby. We managed to take this photo before calling it a night because I now realise more than ever on how pictures are priceless and can mean so much to me.
Thank you, Singapore, for giving me this home and family that I love so much. I'm always so proud to be a part of you. ❤
We did it before, and we'll do it again.
#ahappymum #happynationalday #happybirthdaysingapore #proudtobesingaporean #familyiseverything
death over dinner 在 Facebook 的最讚貼文
𝟱𝟬𝟲 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀
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506 days
12,144 hours
728,640 minutes
That's how much time has passed since day 1 of our first Lockdown in Malaysia.
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Being a prisoner of time and space in a confined space with 4 walls. Can you hear the ticking of the clock? Or is that in your mind? Are we losing our minds? Can you tell is real anymore? How can one be sane being stuck confined between 4 walls with time eluding us?
What time is it?
When is dinner ready?
Has it been 5 hours already?!
What day is it?
I can't remember the last time I've seen or heard from anyone.
I forgot the sound of your voice, your touch, the warmth of a hug.
Have I smiled today? I can't remember.
Time is a fickle concept. It can take you years to heal, days to grow, hours to assemble. But it can also take you a day to crumble, a minute to destroy, and a second to vaporise.
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The rate of suicides and depressions has exponentially increased during these insane times. It is troubling to see that so many would choose death over life. Imagine the lives that could've been saved with a simple phone call? A text? A meal delivered to their door?
We're all going through our personal battles and we're all at different stages of those battle. Some may be winning those battles and some are struggling. Be kind to everyone because you'll never know if the next words that come out of your mouth would be their saving grace or their next step 6 feet under.
Call up your friend. Facetime a family member. Send food to a colleague.
Not all superheroes wear capes.
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#theillusionoftime #mentalhealth #bekind #howtosavealife #covid19 #kualalumpur #malaysia #staysafestaysane
death over dinner 在 IELTS Fighter - Chiến binh IELTS Facebook 的最佳貼文
[ Phrasal verbs list - Bắt đầu bằng A-B ]
1. Ask somebody out: mời ai đó đi hẹn hò
He asked her out to dinner and a movie.
2. Ask around: hỏi mọi người về cùng một thứ
I asked around but nobody has seen my wallet.
3. Add up to something: tương đương
Your purchases add up to $205.32.
4. Back something up: quay ngược, đảo chiều
You'll have to back up your car so that I can get out.
5. Back somebody up: hỗ trợ
My wife backed me up over my decision to quit my job.
6. Blow up: phát nổ
The racing car blew up after it crashed into the fence.
7. Blow something up: bơm, thổi phồng
We have to blow 50 balloons up for the party.
8. Break down: ngừng hoạt động (máy móc, xe cộ)
Our car broke down at the side of the highway in the snowstorm.
9. Break down: cảm thấy suy sụp
The woman broke down when the police told her that her son had died.
10. Break something down: phân tách thứ gì đó thành nhiều phần nhỏ
Our teacher broke the final project down into three separate parts.
11. Break in: đột nhập vào nhà
Somebody broke in last night and stole our stereo.
12. Break into something: xông vào
The firemen had to break into the room to rescue the children.
13. Break something in: mặc một thứ gì đó nhiều lần khiến nó không còn mới nữa
The new shoes is so tight that they hurt my feet. I need to break these shoes in before we run next week.
14. Break in: can thiệp, làm gián đoạn
The TV station broke in to report the news of the celebrity's death.
15. Break up: chia tay, chấm dứt mối quan hệ
My boyfriend and I broke up before I moved to America.
16. Break up: cười lớn, cười nắc nẻ
The kids just broke up as soon as the clown started talking.
17. Break out: tẩu thoát
The prisoners broke out of jail when the guards weren't looking.
18. Break out in something: nổi mẩn, gặp phải vấn đề về da
I broke out in a rash after eating shrimps.
19. Bring somebody down: khiến ai đó cảm thấy buồn
This sad music is bringing me down.
20. Bring somebody up: nuôi dưỡng trẻ con
My grandparents brought me up after my parents died.
21. Bring something up: đề cập, khơi ra một chủ đề nào đó
My mother walks out of the room when my father brings up sports.
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