Anger, aggression and bitterness are like thieves in the night who steal our ability to love and care. Is it possible to turn that negativity around and chill out so we can wish our abuser well? This may sound challenging or even absurd, but it can make life's difficulties far more tolerable.
🌞 Recognize no one harms another unless they are in pain themselves. : Ever noticed how, when you're in a good mood, it's hard for you to harm or hurt anything? But when you are in bad mood, you are more impulsive.
🌞 No one can hurt you unless you let them: When someone hurts us, we are inadvertently letting them have an emotional hold over us. Instead, if someone yells at you, let them scream; it makes them happy!
🌞 Respect yourself enough that you want to feel good: Don't respond to them with negativity, turn it around within yourself and began to wish them well.
🌞 Consider how you may have contributed to the situation: It's all too easy to point fingers and blame the perpetrator, but no difficulty is entirely one-sided. So contemplate your piece in the dialogue or what you may have done to add fuel to the fire.
🌞 Extend kindness: That doesn't mean you're like a doormat that lets others trample all over you while you lie there and take it. But it does mean letting go of negativity sooner than you might have done before so that you can replace it with compassion.
🌞 Meditate: Meditation takes the heat out of things and helps you cool off, so you don't overreact. A daily practice we use focuses on a person we may have difficulty with or have a problem with us. We hold them in our hearts and say: "May you be well! May you be happy! May all things go well for you!"
Been there, done that and I know by first-hand experience that reacting to hate and bitterness is only allowing yourself to feel bad for something you didn't do (in most cases). The best thing you can do is put yourself out of the drama and be at peace.
What do you do when someone mistreats or angers you? Comment below.
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About Waves - an accidental EP I came up with about grief, when I was dealing with the sudden but terminal cancer and eventual death of my most beloved dog, Leif. I lost Leif to advanced lymphoma, and this is all I could do. Music, after all.
I don’t think I am able to perform these songs live. Maybe never. No one can ever tell you how long grief will last. As a matter of fact, no one should ever tell you how and when to feel. Take your time. Just remember, grief comes like waves, if you’re not standing on your feet, you might be swept away and never found again. In time, you might learn to let it become a part of you. You will learn to live again, with a whole new perspective. Or not.
I am sorry, you are all alone in feeling this, but you’re definitely not alone in this world.
Waves come and go. So does life.
Love lifts you up high, pain gives you weight to put your feet on the ground. You are only complete when you have truly experienced loss, but there’s no rush. In the meantime, may these songs give you some comfort, as they did to me.
Love,
Chet Lam
悼念的悲傷,會像潮水一樣來襲。
悼念就是愛。愛有多深,悼念就有多深。
這張有關接受死亡的專輯是一個意外。2021年6月,就在我知道只有八歲的小狗阿富患上末期淋巴癌的時候,我在音樂製作裏找到一點安慰與出口。
有多少心理準備以及理性分析,悲傷來的時候永遠會把你震撼,在受到巨大衝擊之後拾起碎片,你嘗試重新思考生命及生活。經驗不會對你有幫助,頂多只是讓你知道你自己有某些感覺神經,而每一次的體驗也是新鮮的;再多的意見和智慧都只是不設實際的雜音,世上沒有人可以告訴你怎樣感受,什麼方法才是對的,需要經歷多久… 這是一條很孤獨,而只能夠靠自己走的路。
更糟糕的是,它會用潮水的方式來襲,一下一下拍打你的心。我們不能阻止潮水的來去,唯一可以做的,就是感受,讓所有溫度濕度風雨陽光一一穿過你的身心,謙愻地活在這一刻。
給生命裏曾經失去過什麼的朋友,你並不是一個人。
一峰
‘p.s. I took this picture from the plane before landing in Miami few years ago.
#waves
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映画『僕と彼女とラリーと』主題歌「JOYRIDE」
アルバム「WHO LOVES ME」より先行配信スタート!
▼「JOYRIDE」先行配信
https://miliyah.lnk.to/joyrideYC
▼『WHO LOVES ME』プリオーダー
https://miliyah.lnk.to/WLMY2/itunes
-Lyric-
I'll never come back here again
Empty memories
No words can explain it enough
Burnin` inside me like the sun
I want you but no second chance
Remember our days
I was really dumb before
Honestly now I miss you more
Now everything’s so far away
I’m so lonely
I’ve never felt this way
Don’t want to live with regrets
Won’t you come back here to me
I will see you in your dreams
I can feel you even though you are gone
I’ve been searching for a way
Another you is not the same
I’ma make it through and live one more day
In dreams give me a piece of your mind
Stay here with me for one last joy ride
心燃えるような
生まれた意味を探した
夢中になりLife燃やしたい
君の理想は?
未来のために今があるなら
こんな痛みくらいJust fine
Gonna find 行くべき道を
遠く離れひとりきり
迷ってもいつもここに
帰る場所がある
ここに集まれ共に笑おう
もう一度此の道を走ろう
君もおいでよ ここにおいでよ
愛する人たちと踊ろう
強く抱きしめるよ
自分を信じるよ
I’m gonna find a way
I won't waste all the pain you've given me
standing strong
to learn from suffering
just live day by day
Won’t you come back here to me
I will see you in your dreams
I can feel you even though you are gone
I’ve been searching for a way
Another you is not the same
I’ma make it through and live one more day
In dreams give me a piece of your mind
Stay here with me for one last joy ride
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Lyrics:
I moved away and changed my number and when I did it
後來我就搬走了 還換了號碼
I’d hoped that cutting you off would make me feel different
我以為離開你就能一切重新開始
I know I'm weaker than I probably seem
我知道我日漸消瘦
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切都怪罪於你
All pins and needles when I meet somebody new and I
我遇到陌生人就會如坐針氈
Get all choked up whenever they ask about you and I
無論何時被他們問你的去向我都無言以對
Feel so pathetic and I wanna scream
覺得自己很可悲 好想喊出聲來
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切錯誤都怪罪於你
I think you know exactly what I mean
我以為你會明白我的意思
You really fucked me up
但你真的把我傷透了
Screaming at my mirror like I’m fucking drunk
我像喝醉了一樣對著鏡子發火
Question who I am and what I could’ve done
質問自己是誰 本該做些什麼
'Cause you're the one who told me that you were in love, oh
因為是你告訴我你戀愛了
You really fucked me up
你真的把我傷透了
Close my eyes and think of anything but us
閉上眼睛 除了我們什麼都可以想
Made me feel like I'm the one who's not enough
搞得好像我才是那個不夠好的人
But you're the one who told me that you were in love
但你是那個告訴我你在戀愛的人
Try to forget how you could never meet me in the middle
試著忘卻再也無法與你邂逅的事實
How all the pain that you inflicted made me feel so little
你給我帶來無盡的痛苦 讓我越來越自卑
A little tired of remembering
不堪回憶
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切錯誤都怪罪於你
You'd change so quick you'd start a fight and make me say I'm sorry
但你會改變得如此之快 是你挑起了矛盾 卻要我來道歉
Make me look like a fucking idiot at every party
讓我在所有派對上都表現得像個傻子
It made sick it’s so embarrassing
那些尷尬的回憶 你讓我感到噁心
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切錯誤都怪罪於你
And I think you know exactly what I mean
我以為你會懂我的意思
You really fucked me up
你真的把我傷透了
Screaming at my mirror like I’m fucking drunk
我就像醉了一樣對著鏡子發火
Question who I am and what I could have done
質問自己是誰 本該做些什麼
'Cause you're the one who told me that you were in love, oh
因為是你告訴我你戀愛了
You really fucked me up
你真的傷透了我
Close my eyes and think of anything but us
閉上眼睛 除了我們什麼都可以想
Made me feel like I'm the one who's not enough
搞得好像我才是那個不知滿足的人
But you're the one who told me that you were in love, oh
但你是那個告訴我你在戀愛的人
You really fucked me up
但你真的把我傷透
Screaming at my mirror like I’m fuckin drunk
我像喝醉了一樣對著鏡子發火
Question who I am and what I could’ve done
質問自己是誰 本該做些什麼
'Cause you're the one who said that you were in love, oh
因為是你告訴我你戀愛了
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Aisho Nakajima “Love me for me”
“Love me for me” on Spotify : https://open.spotify.com/artist/73TJEwnZTYd2p0qRbn2Pi3
“Love me for me” on Apple Music : https://music.apple.com/us/artist/aisho-nakajima/1503461433
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Aisho’s Twitter : https://twitter.com/aishooo74?lang=en
Written by Aisho Nakajima
Recorded/ Mixed by Aisho Nakajima
Produced by ELI
Mastering by Wax Alchemy
Lyrics -
Ohh to be young, dead inside Tokyo city
Holding my tears while I walk down the streets
Ohh Im jealous, you got what I need
Thinking, When will I love me for me
Come and f**k the sadness out of me
Broken hearted bloody bitch like me
Can’t even feel my heartbeat
Dancing in acid rain, do you still feel my pain?
Haunted, my past that I wish could erase
Ohh to be young, dead inside Tokyo city
Holding my tears while I walk down the streets
Ohh Im jealous, you got what I need
Thinking, When will I love me for me
Pretty little birds crying
All my angels dying
I used to let everyone walk over me
Everybody pulling out their phones
Who you gonna do it all for?
The love you give others, not choosing yourself
I hear intuition screaming out my name
Maybe I’m over thinking, devils I’m my head
Demons in mind overtaking
Or am I hallucinating?
All on my neck till it breaks
Something shifted in my brain
Ohh to be young, dead inside tokyo city
Holding my tears while I walk down the streets
Ohh Im jealous, you got what I need
Thinking, When will I love me for me
Had to lose myself to find myself
I Begged for help
“Burn in hell”
Word for word
Hated myself
Gasping for air
Acceptance
That’s all I wanted
Depression
Somebody stop it
A broken star
Wrecking ball
I know it’s hard
Now Time to go up
x2
Ohh to be young, dead inside Tokyo city
Holding my tears while I walk down the streets
Ohh Im jealous, you got what I need
Dreaming, When will I love me for me
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