【德多少,就得多少】
YOUR VIRTUES DETERMINE HOW MUCH YOU GET
最近家附近有建築工地,噪音多了。
客人聽我的聲音不會有問題,因為我的耳機有麥克風,但如果他們不戴有麥克風的耳機,我聽他們的聲音會比較辛苦。
幾天前,為一位年輕的保險經紀通過Zoom批八字。
他進入Zoom會議室後,呆看著我。
我微笑看著他,故意不出聲,觀察著他。
幾秒後,他才粗魯的說:「哈囉?!」
奇怪了,貴為一個保險經紀,見人應該無數,打招呼的方式,怎能這麼粗俗?我阿姨阿伯級的客人,雖不常用Zoom,都比他懂禮貌。
我馬上回:「X先生,您好。您進來會議室,怎麼打招呼這麼粗俗?」
「我一向來都是這樣先哈囉,有聲音我才正式打招呼。」
「我倒是從來不會這樣。」
其實,這是個人修養的問題。
「你沒有讀我發給你的貼文嗎?為何你視訊沒有戴耳機?」
「我一向來Zoom都是這樣,沒有戴耳機。我以為你只是建議而已,不一定要戴。」
「我在貼文裡寫關於戴耳機的理由,你覺得不成立嗎?」
他想了幾秒,回:「是成立的。」
「我們都是提供服務的人。客人找我們,需要三大元素。第一個,就是同理心。你沒有同理心,難怪你說你的客人寧願聽別人說,也不信你說。」
「如果你要我戴,我現在就戴。」
他講完後,依然坐在那裡看著我,一動也不動。
後來,我說了幾句,他肯戴上耳機後,藍牙耳機也並沒操作好。
等了我一個月,這麼簡單的事情都不願事先做好。
看著他理直氣壯的模樣,頓時覺得他很可憐。
貴人坐在他面前,他說的一大堆話,都是以「自我」為出發點,完全不懂得「以和為貴」的道理。這不就是親手把貴人轟出門嗎?
「你這樣講話,就算講贏了,你真的贏了嗎?」
換成我是他的客人,我絕不會向他買保險,因為很明顯這不是一位真心為別人著想的保險經紀人。
那天,雖為他看八字,該說的我都有說,但我依然保留許多。
因為他缺德。
許多人把「德」看得很輕,覺得沒做壞事就是好人。事實上,不按照別人合理的要求做事,蓄意破壞規則,只顧自己,也是沒有德行可言。
有些人會吐槽,哎呀你學佛的人,要慈悲,何必跟他計較?不要著相!
我不是在意氣用事。
沒有智慧的慈悲,會害死人的。
祖師有訓 - 看命本來就是依客人的福德多寡,而賜福。品行不端的人,承受不起更多的福報,反而會遭反噬。再說了,對貴人都不好的人,對沒有利用價值的人就會更善良嗎?
不是捐錢的,就一定是好人,什麼事情都是要用心才算。
每個人都想要與眾不同,可是如果你的所作所為和一般人一樣,沒有比他們做得更好,那你的命格只配拿得起一般的命運。
不要迷信,以為什麼都是人家為難你,就跑去求神拜佛要打小人。我們命運裡的每一個障礙,每一粒石頭,都是自己放進去的。
你不改,障礙物就不會移。
在這裡聲明:沒有麥克風耳機的Zoom客人,我一概會取消諮詢,進行退款,沒得商量,沒得瞎掰。
能突然放假,真是太過癮了!
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Recently, a construction site sprouted up beside my place, creating a lot of noise every day.
Zoom clients wouldn’t have a problem hearing me, but if they do not have a earpiece with a mic, I would have a problem hearing them.
Few days ago, I did a Bazi analysis for a young Insurance Agent via Zoom.
After he entered my Zoom meeting room, he looked at me blankly.
I smiled at him, deliberately staying quiet, and observed him.
Few seconds later, he said bluntly, “Hello?!”
How strange that an insurance agent, who probably have met tons of people, would greet in such an abrupt manner. My middle-aged clients, who rarely use Zoom, have better etiquette than him.
I replied instantly, “Hi, Mr X. Why is your greeting so crude, upon entering this meeting room?”
“I always say hello like this and wait to hear a reply, before I greet officially.”
“I never do that.”
Actually, this demonstrates the refinement of a person.
“Did you not read the post I sent you? Why are you not wearing a earpiece?”
“All along, I do Zooms in this manner without a earpiece. I thought it’s just a suggestion from you and it was not mandatory.”
“I wrote about the reason for clients to wear a earpiece. Do you find it invalid?”
He pondered for a few seconds and replied, “It’s valid.”
“We are both service providers. Clients look for us based on three main qualities. The first being the quality of empathy. You lack empathy and it’s no wonder you say your clients rather listen to others and not trust you as much.”
“If you want me to wear, then I will wear it now”
And he sat there looking at me, not moving an inch.
When he finally put on his ear pods, they did not operate well either.
It’s peculiar how despite a month of waiting for me, he was slow to get this simple thing done right.
Seeing how “self-assured” he was, for a brief moment, I find his behaviour pitiful.
His benefactor was sitting right in front of him, yet his words remained self-serving, totally oblivious to what harmony is about. Wasn’t this sending your benefactor straight out of the door?
“Even if you gain an upper hand talking like this, have you really won?
I would never buy insurance from such an agent, as obviously he was not the considerate kind.
I still read his Bazi that day, said what I should but there were also a lot I did not reveal.
Because he is lacking in virtues.
Many people think lightly of virtues. They assumed that if they do no evil deed, they are virtuous humans. Fact is, if you do not follow the reasonable requirements of other people, deliberately breaking the rules for your own gain, you have no virtue to speak of.
Some naysayers will tell me, but hey you are a practicing Buddhist, so you should exercise your compassion and not be bothered with his behaviour! Don’t get attached to external form!
This isn’t about me.
Compassion without wisdom brings more harm than good.
Since ancient times, it is a rule of thumb that we practitioners allocate good fortune to clients, based on their conduct and luck.
A person with undesirable conduct is unable to bear greater fortune, or there will be adverse consequences. Moreover, if a person is unkind to his benefactor, it is very unlikely that he will be kinder to another person with no value to him.
You can’t define a person as a good man, just because he is willing to donate money. We got to look at how he uses his heart.
Everybody wants to be special and different from others. But if what you are doing is the same as other people, nowhere better than them, then you can only carry a mediocre Destiny.
Don’t be superstitious to think that everybody is out to get you, and you go running to the temples or Feng Shui masters to chase away the villains.
Every obstacle in our destiny, every little stone that trips us, is placed in our lives by no other person but ourselves.
If you do not change, the obstacle isn’t going to budge either.
And here’s an official note: For any Zoom client that does not wear a earpiece with a microphone, I will cancel the consultation and give you a refund.
Having off days out of the blue are so much more fun!
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hey how is it going 在 Dr. Kayla Teh Facebook 的最佳解答
If this were a picture with a positive quote, you would’ve thought I had a great day.
You would’ve thought my life is full of good luck and positivity, and things are always easy for me because of the ways I look at things.
Truth is, it’s not.
In fact, I had a rough day with unexpected bumps & setbacks the whole day. As much as I knew these experience will eventually help me grow, I can’t help but feel a little down & demotivated.😞
But you wouldn’t guessed that if I didn’t say it out…would you?🧐
Just this morning, my patient told me that she’s on a Social Media Detox.
With more time spent on social media, it’s easy to put ourselves in a toxic pressure where we think we have to “live the best life” all the time.
As a person who tend to avoid sharing negative things in life, I can relate to that. I always have the mindset that I should NOT talk about the bad stuff, the negative stuff online, because I don’t want to make social media a depressing space.
But life is not perfect.
In fact, we have and we NEED the “lows”…so we can appreciate the “highs”. It is important for us to acknowledge our negative emotions and accept it as a part of growth. After all, it is never a good thing to hide your devil, but to learn how to co-exist with it.
We are humans. And our emotions, grey or bright, are what make our lives colourful. Admitting that you’re going through something bad in life once in a while doesn’t make you weak, it makes you more human.
I guess this was a long post for saying “I had a bad day”.😂 But hey, it’s me, and I like sharing stuff in my brain. So if you had a bad day, know that it too shall pass, and if Kayla can do it, you can do it better. 😆💪
#Quote #From #My #Mentor #Positivity #Negativity #Are #Inevitable #In #Life #SocialMedia #Detox
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Self-love is paramount to me, and especially so after giving birth. I feel so dejected when I look at my disfigured postpartum body, but hey, it is this body that has grown and given birth to a precious life.
When I feel demoralised, I’ll look at Eli, and remind myself that these scars are my battle scars which I am proud of. They show how strong I’ve been and all that I’ve overcome.
I'm happy to be joining @thebodyshopsg in encouraging everyone to embark on their own self-love journey! Practicing self-love today is all about going easy on yourself and knowing the smallest things can make the biggest difference. There’s no right or wrong way to self-love. Every act of self-love, no matter how big, is brave and daring.
I’ve been pampering myself with @thebodyshopsg Drop of Youth Youth Concentrate which helps me to achieve that healthy-looking glow which I definitely need from being so sleep-deprived 😅 and this could also be a small act of self-love. 🥰
When you learn to truly love yourself, not only can you love others more fully, but life becomes a little more beautiful and happiness a little less hard to find. Start to put self-love and self-care a little higher on your list, I don’t think you’ll ever regret it. You are so beautiful, and you deserve nothing less.
Join me in the #SelfLoveUprising by tagging @thebodyshopsg #SelfLoveUprising when sharing your acts of self-love on social media today! ❤️
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本家:Ado様
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YnSW8ian29w
MIX:成宮 亮(なりょー)
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編集:よっちゃん(妹)
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyHevJXqTPQw1LbECz2ZkfA
#Ado #odo #踊
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Lyrics:
Halfway down to KO
(fuwa fuwa)
I’ll float until tomorrow
Time to get it started now
Fall to tears or laugh and jeer, just never let me go
Come and say no
Bellow echo down the road
“Oh, how I wish I could see it”
This life is so damn boring
Lonely logic loading, the lies so slick and flowing
Muddy water slowing, a buzz too bad for knowing how
It kills me, but it thrills me
Hey, keep it (keep it) going
On your feet again
Fight until there’s only power left
We’ll buddy up, you and me, we’ll take the lead
It’s destiny so chill no worries
Alright now I’m in so don’t mind
Waves of struggle? Let’s ride, surfing in the limelight
That’s right, huh
Oh damn, hear the cracks I’m in the zone
Halfway down to KO
(fuwa fuwa)
I’ll float until tomorrow
Time to get it started now
Fall to tears or laugh and jeer, just never let me go
Come and say no
Bellow echo down the road
Yeah, party until the morning
Woah woah
We’ll dance to the beat, we’ll dance to the beat
All us lonely souls will set it free now
Woah woah
The pain from below, likes in a row
Sayonara bye bye let’s go
[RAP]
You know that I’m the best around, and
imma show you right now why you dropped the crown
It's just business, babe; I gotta cop the dough
We at the blackout party so I’ll change the flow
It's just crazy how all of my critics
They call me so lazy but they cannot phase me
It’s all about the gloves on, mask off
You really wanna get down? hands up, lets go
D-D-Destatution, solutions, for feeling inadequate
Solutions of fluids the platelets will clot again
Up and down the tension
You never learn your lesson
That gushing pumping mess is everything that keeps me stressin’ my shot
Love me, I love you not
(NOT)
Watch me or watch me not
(NOT NOT)
Whining until you call out to stop it
Dancing with my lying eyes I purr purr purr
Yeah, come and give me your word, I’ll talk first
Sing ‘til we burn
[RAP]
Ay, get hit with the beatdown
My 1-2 blows and my verses are renowned
Now listen to the ground shakin’ from that bass sound
Get down to the funk, but this ain’t no uptown
Now lemme tell ya, I’m really sick of this hypocrisy
These Mephistopheles’ they probably owe me a big apology
For doubting me I know the fans are proud of me
That’s all I need so let's go
Halfway down to KO
Woah woah
We’ll dance to the beat, we’ll dance to the beat
All us lonely souls will set it free now
Woah woah
The pain from below, likes in a row
Party until the morning
Woah woah
Another round is coming Let’s go
Woah woah
I’ll see you again, survive ‘till the end
Sayonara bye bye let’s go
(https://youtu.be/ZzHiXNS8JPk)
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DISCLAIMER: THIS IS A RECOUNT OF MY OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.
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hey how is it going 在 Daphne Iking Youtube 的最佳貼文
Kopivosian!
As a disclaimer, my husband MANager Joe writes and creates the thumbnail so I was a bit #rolleye but hey! Let's have fun lah. (The reason behind this title is simply because I made a cameo in Marsha and Velvet's much loved hit "Sumandak Sabah" which has lyrics going "Sumandak Sabah ...mana ko mau cari? Semua lawa-lawa pandai masak nasi!")
Anyhoo...in light of the Kaamatan & Harvest Festival celebrations coming soon (Harvest Festival is a celebration to thank a bountiful harvest of rice) - I've themed our D'Varomas Live Cooking Show "Borneon with a Twist".
So what was cooked today?
1. Refreshing Lemonade with Asam Boi by Rifqi
2. Quick Steamed Mantou Buns by Suzie Alias
3. Lazy Mom's Tuna Sushi Balls by Aisyah Wahab and
4. Soup Ayam Lihing by Daphne Iking
I'd like to thank my Sales Advisors Mas Era and her 14 year old son Rifqi, Suzie and Aisyah for being my co-presenters of our #DVaromas Weekly LIVE show, as well as my wonder leaders in D'Varomas for sharing and commenting over the LIVE earlier.
Why the following menu?
1. Lemonade is our a well-known favourite beverage of most Thermomix users. Plus it demonstrates the TURBO power of the TMX where we can grind the rock sugar to powdery goodness in just 2 seconds! Add 2 cut lemons (with peel intact) with cold water, TURBO another 2 seconds and voila! It's done! Popped an asam boi cause we Sabahans love our Kit Cai Ping (kasturi drink with asam boi) so this is the twist in our much loved beverage.
2. Sabah is known for it's seafood. Dip your mantou buns (Steam or fried) with your Kam Heong Prawns or Chili Butter Crab ... delish!
3. Aisyah shows us how EASY and healthier and CLEANER it is to cook rice using the "simmering basket method". No grain of rice is wasted and her easy to make sushi rolls are definitely going to be a hit amongst my kiddos!
and finally
4. Sup Ayam Lihing (Chicken Rice Wine) is a popular soup of the Kadazandusun community. Usually I would use Ayam Kampung, but I only had chicken breasts so I had to make the broth in advance. Add a bit of lihing or rice wine and hmmmmm. Heaven!
Hope you enjoy the show! Let us know in the comment box what recipes would you like on our next DVA show!
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