For a very long time, I was constantly afraid of letting others down.
Not just with my mom and dad and boyfriend, no. I didn't want to disappoint even the Starbucks barista, H&M sales clerk, and the cleaning lady.
I was a sucker for people pleasing.
Raised to be a "good girl," my self-worth was entangled with what others think of me. I subconsciously made it my job to make everyone happy.
With friends, I said Yes to go out for drinks when I wanted to stay home, drink tea, and read a book instead.
At work, I strived to meet others expectations (and my own impossible expectations towards myself) until I got sick and depressed.
In relationships, when I felt sad or lonely or hurt, I couldn't share with my partners. I didn't want to them to think of me as weak or uncool or difficult. But no vulnerability means no real connection.
If you see yourself in my story, one of the most liberating things you can give to yourself is the permission to disappoint others.
Not out of meanness to others but out of kindness to yourself.
I wrote about this more deeply in my new article.
👉 Read my new full blog here >>https://milenanguyen.com/blog/2020/2/27/let-me-disappoint-you
同時也有60部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過20萬的網紅許靖韻「小背心」Angela Hui,也在其Youtube影片中提到,今集唱嘅歌全部都又Sad又Hurt? 但希望我嘅歌聲可以比返力量大家? 而自己超鍾意祖兒首《煙霞》? 《今晚唱飲歌2》EP4:https://youtu.be/59qzWG2juDM #許靖韻 #AngelaHui #傷心情歌 #小背心 #今晚唱飲歌2 #今晚唱飲歌 #AngeLad...
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Few weeks ago, I had a very serious emotional break down. Guess it's coz after the weeks when the numbers keeps on going up, looking at the news by M’sia gov (you know) and the number of days just staying at home. I could say that the “latest lockdown” is seriously not the same as before.
Those who are reading this would understand how I felt. It's like the feeling of hopelessness living in this such beautiful country, very sad to know that many unfortunate events happened around me. I started to doubt myself ….(omg I m having a teary eyes now🥺)
YES! some might be wondering why will this happening to me? Some even texted me, ”How you can be so happy in social media” , I replied...... “ How do you know I am very happy? this is social media“.
I just want to say “You can never understand a person and what he/she has been through, until they really open up to you“, so if anyone of YOU got a text from someone that you feel this soul needs a listener or someone to speak to, please be kind.
(Remember don’t say such things like “there is a lot of them who are suffering or worst than you, this is one of the most crucial words when they needed someone to talk to) or I should put it in this way “a person looks OKAY, does not mean he or she is OKAY!”
❤️Also, don’t be shy to reach out if you needed one.
This is also one of the thing I’ve learned all this years.
It was such a blessing to feel better after start doing gardening, reading, or perhaps learning more things that I can improve from my business, cooking, watching documentaries, do something I love, silly things that make u smile and some activities of distraction will help too.
Last but not the least, I would like to thank you all for the bday wishes, cakes, foods and presents (You know who you are).
🎂My bday wish this year is just for everyone to be healthy and safe.
“whatever happens tomorrow , we've had today”
xoxo
❣️Love,❣️
Kenny Yee
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January 2020 – The World Mourns
"It’s only been a few days but the passing of Kobe Bryant, his daughter and the other passengers aboard that helicopter still weigh heavy on my mind. I by no means was a big basketball fan. But that just shows that you didn’t have to be to comprehend his impact on the world. Normally when celebrity deaths happen there’s a sense of empathy and sympathy but life carries on. This one felt so different to me... Maybe it’s due to him not being that much older than myself. Or the fact of having a daughter pulls me in that much more. Perhaps it is the reminder that no one will be absent from death’s touch. Regardless it’s serving as a sad & unfortunate reminder that our time here is limited... Thank you Kobe for showing numerous generations the importance of hard work, pushing us to be a better version of ourselves and the importance of legacy.” – Stephen Vanasco / Leica M
The last 12 months challenged how we viewed, interacted, and connected with the world, shaping our approach to the new year. As we step into 2021 with hope and new perspectives, we invite you to look back at the defining moments of 2020 to focus on the promise of 2021 in our last #LeicaBlog of the year: https://bit.ly/LeicaBlog_2020
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今集唱嘅歌全部都又Sad又Hurt?
但希望我嘅歌聲可以比返力量大家?
而自己超鍾意祖兒首《煙霞》?
《今晚唱飲歌2》EP4:https://youtu.be/59qzWG2juDM
#許靖韻 #AngelaHui #傷心情歌
#小背心 #今晚唱飲歌2 #今晚唱飲歌 #AngeLadys
Lyrics 歌詞
《 #心甘命抵 #容祖兒 》
還未看到木村 離別當初的隊員
如你我這就算 風光真的太短
還未說到木村 何日變節再熱戀
與你一起給他算算 也許可呃多幾天寒暄
你最初答應過我什麼 我最終錯過了什麼
不見得 曾討好過我 起碼也要憎恨我
你至少怪責我什麼 才清楚你當我什麼
紀念留到夠多 才能甘心將錯就錯
眼淚還有很多 何必要急於背叛我
《 #來互相傷害 #八三夭831 feat. #ALin 》
出去玩 跟誰幾點回來 對寶貝 沒報備像罪犯
點誰讚 滑誰即時動態 夠了沒 控制慾太氾濫
每一次 說的謊 劇情都超展開
我要的 不過是安全感 (有多難)
當被愛 都走歪成悲哀 有一種 悲傷叫做心軟
我們之間 回不去 (回不去)
也沒未來 (沒未來) 沒有愛只剩友善
害怕什麼 愛就愛 (愛就愛)
該散就散 (散就散) 不愛那不如滾開
來互相傷害 來互相傷害 不再痛苦來 死個痛快
來互相傷害 來互相傷害 逝去的擁抱 怎麼取暖
含淚不捨 也不 委婉 狠心無視 你的 哭喊
愛過怎麼 好聚 好散 來互相傷害
當一切 不再依然 當相愛 變成相害
最後一站 是宣戰 誰回頭 誰混蛋
該刪的 都刪一刪 該斷的 肝腸寸斷
傷疤有天 總會淡
來互相傷害 來互相傷害 不再痛苦來 死個痛快
來互相傷害 來互相傷害 逝去的擁抱 怎麼取暖
痛把回憶 燒成 遺憾 重生之後 會更 勇敢
愛過怎麼 好聚 好散 來互相傷害 來互相傷害
《 #說謊 #林宥嘉 》
是有過幾個不錯對象 說起來並不寂寞孤單
可能我浪蕩 讓人家不安 才會結果都陣亡
我沒有什麼陰影魔障 妳千萬不要放在心上
我又不脆弱 何況那算什麼傷 反正愛情不就都這樣
我沒有說謊 我何必說謊
妳懂我的 我對妳從來就不會假裝
我哪有說謊 請別以為妳有多難忘
笑是真的不是我逞強
我好久沒來這間餐廳 沒想到已經換了裝潢
角落那窗口 聞得到玫瑰花香 被妳一說是有些印象
我沒有說謊 我何必說謊
妳知道的 我缺點之一就是很健忘
我哪有說謊 是很感謝今晚的相伴
但我竟然有些不習慣
我沒有說謊 我何必說謊
愛一個人 沒愛到難道就會怎麼樣
別說我說謊 人生已經如此的艱難
有些事情就不要拆穿
我沒有說謊 是愛情說謊
它帶妳來 騙我說 渴望的有可能有希望
我沒有說謊 祝妳做個幸福的新娘
我的心事請妳就遺忘
《 #煙霞 #容祖兒 》
你怎麼會陪著我 被你跑車再挾持我
心跳逐秒逐秒掠過 竟想到最初
我也差半點認錯 被你分手開車接我
可笑是我們忘了 你們座駕
不應再輕率給我坐
遊遍了天下 前路的風景
蓋著了煙霞 蒙閉的雙眼
未明白拈上你是何代價
彼此亦另有他
神秘的煙霞 誰認清真假
你別要用我受不住的鼻音跟我說話
令我的心軟化
證實我真心想有火花
難道我別無異心 完全沒好感
都可以跟你散心 裝作假天真
當我伴侶為我等 我便會憎
憎多心的我太懂累人
難怪我越來越憎 遺忘自尊心
因一個放下良心 三個也傷心
假設若有人求婚 我亦要等
等親多一次你體溫
若你敢挨到極近 原諒我不敢去忍
有幾多苦惱也自甘 前度要再為難我
難道我受不起這個熱吻
遊遍了天下 前路的風景
蓋著了煙霞 蒙閉的雙眼
未明白拈上你是何代價
彼此亦另有他
神秘的煙霞 誰認清真假
你別要用我受不住的鼻音跟我說話
令我的心軟化
證實我真心想有火花
難道我別無異心 完全沒好感
都可以跟你散心 裝作假天真
當我伴侶為我等 我便會憎
憎多心的我太懂累人
難怪我越來越憎 遺忘自尊心
因一個放下良心 三個也傷心
假設若有人求婚 我亦要等
等親多一次你體溫
若你敢挨到極近 原諒我不敢去忍
有幾多苦惱也自甘 前度要再為難我
難道我受不起這個熱吻
若你仍然明白我 若你的車快放下我
因我是這樣傻 回憶比愛戀多
《 #Unfaithful #Rihanna》
story of my life
searching for the right
but it keeps avoiding me
sorrow in my soul
cause it seems that wrong
really loves my company
hes more than a man
and this is more than love
the reason that the sky is blue
the clouds are rolling in
because i'm gone again
and to him i just can't be true
and i know that he knows i'm unfaithful
and it kills him inside
to know that i am happy with some other guy
i can see him dying
i don't wanna do this anymore
i don't wanna be the reason why
everytime i walk out the door
i see him die a little more inside
i don't wanna hurt him anymore
i don't wanna take away his life
i don't wanna be...
a murderer
i feel it in the air
as i'm doing my hair
preparing for another day
a kiss up on my cheek
he's here reluctantly
as if i'm gonna be out late
i say i won't be long
just hanging with the girls
a lie i didn't have to tell
because we both know
where i'm about to go
and we know it very well
cause i know that he knows i'm unfaithful
and it kills him inside
to know that i am happy with some other guy
i can see him dying
i don't wanna do this anymore
i don't wanna be the reason why
everytime i walk out the door
i see him die a little more inside
i don't wanna hurt him anymore
i don't wanna take away his life
i don't wanna be...
a murderer
our love, his trust
i might as well take a gun and put it to his head
get it over with
i don't wanna do this
anymore (anymore)
i don't wanna do this anymore
i don't wanna be the reason why
everytime i walk out the door
i see him die a little more inside
i don't wanna hurt him anymore
i don't wanna take away his life
i don't wanna be...
a murderer (a murderer)
no no no no
yeah yeah yeah
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