【一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排】
All Failures & Lacks Are The Best Things to Happen to Us
三個月前,收到來自台灣客人的這封電郵時,開心和心酸交織著在心裡。
開心,因為這是一年前通過Zoom視訊的客人。他居然在我們看八字的一週年,特地寫了封感謝函給我,真有心!
心酸,因為他寫在電郵裡的低落心情,我完完全全明白。
他的經歷,是我的曾經。我當初也是很難,很久才能走出來。
有一回,我為一位芳華正茂的女子批八字時,她很用心的寫下我說的話。
論寫筆記的完整,她是我客人當中的佼佼者。
寫到一半,我注意到她的右手開始微微顫抖。我以為是空調的風太大了,冷到她,便問她要不要披巾。
她說,是她的焦慮症發作。
「我沒在兇你,也沒對你嚴厲,你為何突然焦慮?」
「我.....打從今年疫情打亂了我的計畫,我就一直很焦慮。我覺得我很沒用,同學們都前進了,只有我現在什麼都不是,亂糟糟的。我就一直很緊張,萬一我一直都是這樣,怎麼辦?」
說著,她眼眶一紅,眼淚像斷了線的珍珠鏈似的灑下來。
我的媽呀!是我的樣子長得很催淚,還是我的聲音聽起來很虐心?怎麼客人,不分男女老少,東南西北,看到我好像都很容易哭?
我抓起一張紙巾遞給她。
「所以,我不是來了嗎?你來找我,就是要問個明路,而你很幸運那麼快就看到我啦!你看你的筆記寫得多工整,多齊全。我很多客人都不如你啊!我今天的工作,就是來給你答案的。我沒有把握,也不會接你這份差事。我接了,就代表還可以補救。你照著我的指示去做,一定柳暗花明又一村。」
又另一回,一位四十多歲的媽媽請我看兒子的八字。
我在批著八字時,這位媽媽點頭認同,然後就聲淚俱下。
我轉頭看著她沈默不語的先生。我說錯了什麼嗎?太太哭成淚人,你怎麼連紙巾也不拿給她啊?
「我是個沒有用的母親,很不稱職的母親。我沒有辦法教好孩子。我很愛他,可是很多時候我都不知道要怎麼做,我就會對他發脾氣,說狠話,過後我又後悔。我忍下來,可是後來還是會一樣!」
我沒打斷她,等她的哭聲逐漸小聲後,我柔柔的說:「我來啦!我坐在你前面了。你已經看到我,就是有辦法了。你知道你自己不行,會去找辦法,就代表你願意去學習做個好媽媽啊!」
我把紙巾遞給她,再說:「不要哭了,要不然,別人看了以為是我不要借你錢,才把你弄得那麼傷心。」
曾幾何時,我們都會以外在所擁有的,來定義自己的人生是否值得自己喜歡。
從原生家庭、樣貌、健康、身型、智力、天賦等,到後來的學歷、友情、事業、財富、婚姻、子女......
哪一樣沒有,而偏偏是我們最想要的,我們就會認定自己失敗的一塌糊塗。
我認為這就是普通教育最大的問題所在。父母老師都是這樣把我們「分門別類」的。值不值得父母疼愛或向親朋戚友炫耀,也離不開那幾點。
久而久之,我們也只會以「成功」來定義自己是否有價值,甚至來衡量自己是否有活下去的勇氣。
我比較喜歡佛法的定義。我們每個人都是一尊佛,六道眾生皆有佛性,只因一時的迷,因此墮落在苦輪不停的輪迴。
可正因為我們有佛性,我們都有無窮無盡的可能。每個人的內在有著很強大的力量,等著我們遇到明師後,去發掘、探索和了解。
而這天生俱來的力量,就是你改命立命的資本。
如果人生順風順水,我們永遠不會想要出離,誤把人間當極樂,所以一定要有苦,我們才會意識到,為什麼我們會在這鬼地方?要怎麼樣才可以離開這鬼地方去到極樂?
反過來,我們都應該感恩自己遇到的挫折,因為從這些苦中,我們才能生出智慧。
沒有一個八字是完美的。一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排,如此你才會有出離心,返本歸源。
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3 months ago, when I received this email from my Taiwan client, there was this feeling of bittersweetness.
I was happy because this was the client I did a Zoom consultation last June. He sent me this email on the one-year anniversary date of our Zoom call, to express his gratitude. How sweet!
On the other hand, I could relate to the emotional turmoil he felt at that point in his life.
His experience was my past. It also took me a very long time to walk out from my gloominess.
Once, I analysed the Bazi of a very young lady. She was meticulously jotting down notes as I spoke.
Her detailed note-taking skills easily took the top place among my clients.
Halfway through, I noticed her right hand was trembling slightly. I thought it was due to the cold draft from the air conditioning, so I asked if she needed a shawl.
She replied that it was her anxiety disorder acting up.
“I was not fierce or strict with you. What caused your sudden anxiety?”
“I…ever since the pandemic disrupted my plans, I have been in this state of anxiety. I kept feeling useless. All my classmates are progressing expect me. I have nothing to show for and my life is in a mess. I am very anxious. What if I continue to be like this? What am I going to do?”
As she spoke, her eyes turned red and tears started rolling down like a broken strand of pearl necklace scattering onto the ground.
Oh dear! I am beginning to wonder if I have a tear-jerker face or a heart-tormenting voice. Why do my clients, regardless of gender and age, North South or East West, seem to cry easily when they see me?
I grabbed a piece of tissue and handed it to her.
“Ain’t I here already? You came to me for a roadmap and you are very lucky to see me so soon. Look at how precise and neat your notes are! Many of my clients aren’t even on par with you. My job today is to give you answers. If I didn’t have the confidence, I would not have taken up your request. Now that I did, that means there is still hope. If you follow my instructions, you will see things looking up very soon.”
On another occasion, a mother in her forties came to me for her son’s Bazi consultation.
As I was analysing, the mother nodded her head in agreement. The next thing I know, she started weeping loudly.
I turned to look at her husband, who had been silent all along. Did I say something wrong? And hello, your wife was crying. Why weren’t you gentleman enough to give her a tissue paper?
“I am a useless mother. I am incompetent. I do not know how to teach my son well. I love my son very much. But many times, I do not know what to do and thus I flare up at him and speak harshly. I always regret afterwards. I tried enduring but it still ends badly!”
I did not interrupt her and waited for her cries to soften, before speaking gently, “I’m here! I’m already sitting in front of you. You are looking at me now and that means help is here. You know that you are incompetent, so you went looking for solutions. That means you are willing to learn how to be a better mother!”
I handed a piece of tissue and said, “Don’t cry anymore, otherwise, other patrons will think that it’s because I refuse to lend you money.”
Since young, we have been using external possessions to define whether our lives are worth liking.
The family we are born into, our looks, health, body shape, intellect, talents, and then we move on to compare our academics, friendships, career, wealth, marriage and children.
If we are lacking in the area we covet most, we grade our lives as a failure.
I think this is the biggest problem in societal education. Our parents and teachers categorized us that way. Whether we as children are worthy of their love and bragging, depends on the few points above too.
Thus over time, we can only use the term “success” to determine whether we are of value, for some people, whether they should live on to take their next breath.
I very much prefer the definition in Buddhism. We are all Buddhas. Each and every sentient being in the six realms has a Buddha nature in them. But they got lost momentarily and fell into the endless wheel of reincarnation.
Yet, because of our Buddha nature, we have an unlimited source of potential. Every one of us has a very powerful strength inside us. It is just waiting for us to meet an accomplished teacher, so that we have the tools to explore and understand it:
And this strength that we are born with is the capital for us to transform and establish our own destiny.
If life is smooth-sailing, we would never want to leave and would mistake this mortal realm for Pureland. Thus, we all need sufferings, to realise that we should break out of this hell of a place. There has to be a better world somewhere. So how we get there?
We should, in fact, be grateful for all the setbacks and failures we have. Because it is from these sufferings, our wisdom arise:
No single Bazi is perfect. Every failure and lack we experience is the best arrangement for us, so that the heart of renunciation will arise in us and we will return to where we came from.
同時也有12部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過87萬的網紅ToNy_GospeL,也在其Youtube影片中提到,=============== Set It Off - Medley 11 Songs ================= Vocal : ToNy_GospeL All Music : ToNy_GospeL Illust : Nutgie Special Thanks : JayVounter...
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❤️ Doing the exact thing 🤱 while I write this love letter to all the breastfeeding mamas, with her eyes gazing afar but her little hands toying with my other nip 😑😳😵
Having a baby in your hand, latching the little mini me who may have been on your (@@) the whole night; on and off on and off, your eye bags are as thick as the salmon 🍣 sashimi that you are imagining having or you may just wish to have that luxury to lie down on your comfy bed to sleep 😴 beside the knocked out husband 🤨 already..
All of this, I’m sure many of you are familiar with, as much as you may need that beauty sleep 💤 but hope you know some day when you look back to see what you have achieve thru the long nights nourishing and producing your golden liquid which has millions of living cells that consists of immune boosting white blood cells and stem cells for healing ❤️🩹 and organ development, proteins for growth and protect neurons in their brain, amino acids that helps to induce sleep, probiotics (good bacteria) for healthier gut and prevents infection from entering their bloodstreams, more than 40 enzymes, abundance of hormones, vitamins and minerals and importantly antibodies protection by neutralising bacteria’s and viruses - the list can go on and on… but Yes, we do have that kind of super power! #wow #soamazing right??
Everything your baby needed, varies over time as well, apart from these amazing benefits - it’s easier to digest and your baby will less likely to have constipation or diarrhoea, and lesser risk of SID (sudden infant death) as well as obesity and diabetes in adulthood which in years to come they really have YOU, mama to thank for, even though now both of you may not seen it yet.. 👍🏻
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look in my eyes i know we need time 在 Milton Goh Blog and Sermon Notes Facebook 的最佳解答
Know According to the Spirit
“But Yahweh said to Samuel, “Don’t look on his face, or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for I don’t see as man sees. For man looks at the outward appearance, but Yahweh looks at the heart.”” (1 Samuel 16:7 WEB)
When God looks at a person, He sees through right to the spirit. A person’s spirit is either dead in sin, or alive because of being born again and made right with God.
I imagine a dead spirit to be dull and grayish-black, whereas a spirit that is alive is radiant and golden.
Don’t only look at the outward appearance of a person. No matter how well dressed up a body is and how well-trained a soul is, the stench of dead of an unsaved person cannot be hidden.
Ultimately, what is most important is whether a person’s spirit is dead or alive. The difference between that is worlds apart—literally Hell and Heaven.
“Therefore we know no one after the flesh from now on. Even though we have known Christ after the flesh, yet now we know him so no more. Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new.” (2 Corinthians 5:16-17 WEB)
When we know people according to the flesh, viewing them in a purely human way through the natural eyes, we cannot see the truth.
We need to know them according to the spirit, and discern if they are dead or alive.
A believer is a born-again, new creation in Christ. Let us see them transformed when we affirm their righteousness in Christ. Lift the mirror of the Gospel to their eyes and let them see how they have been made holy, righteous, and perfect through the one-time offering of Jesus Christ at the cross!
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look in my eyes i know we need time 在 ToNy_GospeL Youtube 的最佳解答
=============== Set It Off - Medley 11 Songs =================
Vocal : ToNy_GospeL
All Music : ToNy_GospeL
Illust : Nutgie
Special Thanks : JayVounter
Animator : ToNy_GospeL
Mix & Masterings : ToNy_GospeL
================ Original Song by Set It Off ==================
Medley first version : https://youtu.be/evZh79yp1c8
"Merry Christmas 2020" and Hello everybody and say my name ToNy_GospeL
This video is an extension of the medley that has been done before, according to this clip in 2018. To be honest, I'm a huge fan of Set it off.I'm still listening Duality ,Cinematic ,Up side Down albums.
I used to cover the songs of "Set it off" 3 songs on my YouTube channel.
I hope you enjoy this medley and stay awesome dude.
Lyrics
(I'LL SLEEP WHEN I'M DEAD) : shorturl.at/bfrX6
I’m stuck self torturing
My meds are failing me
Internal clock in smithereens
Can’t fix this, I’m hopeless
My eyes are stapled open wide
As I lay down on my side
I am bouncing off these walls
As I focus on the clock
Time stands still but I cannot
I should strap myself in bed
I guess I'll sleep when I am dead...
(I'D RATHER DROWN) : shorturl.at/cnOU9
Thanks for treating me like every boy you meet
So please, come in and take a seat
Here's the part where I learn and you will teach
On how to treat people like a piece of meat
(HORRIBLE KIDS) : shorturl.at/cinFW
Why is it me they're after?
Couldn't they pick another one?
One day I'll spit their laughter
And bite their tongue
Horrible kids, would you look what you did?
It was your ignorance that formed a beast with your wit
Ba-da-da-da-bum-
(NIGHTMARE) : shorturl.at/zU049
I hear it creeping from the corner
And all I know is that I don't feel safe
I feel the tapping on my shoulder
I turn around in an alarming state
But am I losing my mind? I really think so
Not a creature in sight
But what you don't know...
(KILL THE LIGHTS) : shorturl.at/wABT1
So we all stand enthralled by this bland curtain call
And the truth we pursue as we all, we all beg you to
Kill the lights, kill the actor, kill the actress
I'm afraid that the spotlight dried you up, whoa, whoa oh
Don't even think about it
Don't even think about it, no
We're begging you
To kill the lights, kill the actor, kill the actress
Or kill us all
(N.M.E.) : shorturl.at/huCIS
Remove the gag and step away he's suffocating!
You pull the strings day after day, that's why he needs a-
-break! From you! Bid your ass adieu!
A break! From you! Bitch, your ass is through!
Oh I hope he hears these words
Maybe next time he will learn
(PLASTIC PROMISES) : shorturl.at/jGHPY
Please, don't tell me that we're fine
I've got too much on my mind!
Isn't this too plain to see? Maybe, yeah!
'Cause we lost too much to gain
We were dancing in the rain
Tell me what am I to do?
With a double dose of
(PARTNERS IN CRIME) : shorturl.at/gjNS3
You'll never take us alive
We swore that death would do us part
They'll call our crimes a work of art
You'll never take us alive
We'll live like spoiled royalty
Lovers and partners...
Partners in crime!
(Wolf in Sheep's Clothing) : shorturl.at/swNP1
So could you
Tell me how you're sleeping easy
How you're only thinking of yourself
Show me how you justify
Telling all your lies like second nature
Listen, mark my words, one day (one day)
You will pay, you will pay
Karma's gonna come collect your debt
(Bleak December) : shorturl.at/djvC5
Watch you pretend, you know it all
Shift any blame aside
Vending the victim when it sells
How do you even sleep at night?
As I drive and drive
In that bleak December, you're just too cold
But I need the answer, before you'd fold
You would hold your cards inside your chest
I think I drove too far for that bleak December
And how full of shit you are
(The Haunting) : shorturl.at/aftLN
No one will love you like I did,
Will treat you like I did,
So go on wear that scarlet letter.
No one will love you like I did,
Will touch you like I did,
So good luck finding something better.
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look in my eyes i know we need time 在 Emir Hermono Youtube 的精選貼文
Emir Hermono
No Replies ft. Reckless Escapades
2020
Produced by Emir Hermono
Co-Produced by Kelabnyozz
Written by Emir Hermono & Reckless Escapades
Mixed & Mastered by Emir Hermono
Art Cover & Visuals by Divo Priambada [@dwiramadivo]
Released under Plain Pack
Lyrics:
Chorus
Girl let me vibe with you x2
Ay ay
Then you’ll be vibin next to me
Said i text you constantly
No replies as of lately
But they dont understand
Verse 1:
Girl let me vibe with you,
I need some time with you, aye, aye
You used to be there for me
Keep me company,
do you even care about me? I just don’t understand
I don’t wanna waste my time,
Waiting for the stars to fall in line,
But you’re the only one on my mind,
You’re the only one on my mind baby,
I know things have changed,
But u don’t feel the same,
Wish you would come my way,
Come my way and stay
You got me going in circles
Forgive me I’m sippin on purple,
I got no rhyme and no reason
Look in my eyes girl I’m frozen
Thinkin bout all that we been thru
Remember you cried when I moved,
But now I can’t get thru to you, don’t tell me the news, you found someone new
Back to chorus
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look in my eyes i know we need time 在 Gina music Youtube 的最佳貼文
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🌸本影片與WRATHE合作宣傳🌸
For business inquiries about copyright issues, photos and song submissions,
please contact: https://www.facebook.com/Ginamusicland
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Social Media:
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LYRICS:
I just need to know that we’re okay
Just guessing is useless
Keep on second guessing
I just need a sign you’re gonna wait
Just guessing is useless
Keep on second guessing
So baby will you fight when we’re not alright?
And catch me when I fall
Maybe we can heal all the hurt in time
I’m lost without you
Need you to stay
Need you to stay with me
Cause I can’t do it on my own
No
I don’t wanna leave this behind
So look into my eyes
And tell me that you won’t
Won’t come undone
Don’t let go
I don’t wanna make one more mistake
Just guessing is useless
Keep on second guessing
So baby will you fight when we’re not alright?
And catch me when I fall
Maybe we can heal all the hurt in time
I’m lost without you
Need you to stay
Need you to stay with me
Cause I can’t do it on my own
No
I don’t wanna leave this behind
So look into my eyes
And tell me that you won’t
Won’t come undone
Don’t let go
Won’t come undone
Won’t come undone
Don’t let go
Won’t come undone
Won’t come undone
Don’t let go
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