A for me.
What did you see first?
Let us see what it says about your unique personality traits.
A. Trees
If the first thing you see are trees and/or tree trunks, there is a large possibility you are an extrovert. You show kindness to strangers and are polite to those you know, but you have a limit and there are two things you won’t tolerate: being pushed around or mocked.
You are a sensitive soul who shows compassion to others. You pretend not to really care, but the truth is that you care greatly what they think of you.
Even though you surround yourself with people you consider to be friends, you know deep down in your heart that only a few of them are sincere and authentic. You come across as a sensitive person, but make no mistake- you are as strong as they come. You are also extremely intuitive and when it comes to showing your true emotions you would rather hide them than put them on display.
In addition, you tend to not trust people very easily. You are a mystery to some people, and they’ll never figure out what’s going on in your mind. You have a tendency to say ‘yes’ to new opportunities, making sure you succeed in anything you put your mind to.
B. Roots
If you noticed roots first, you are likely an introvert. Acknowledging your mistakes and accepting constructive criticism is what helps you to improve yourself for the future.
At first, when people meet you, their first impression of you is usually wrong. It’s likely you’ve heard “when I met you I didn’t think I’d like you,” or “when I first met you I thought ___” countless times. However this impression changes when they get to know you and they start to realize you are extremely wise, and have tons of personality. It’s really not your fault you give off a different vibe at first- we all have walls for a reason after all.
You are someone who is incredibly diligent with tasks. If you want to accomplishing something, you will. You have morals and principles which you use as a guide to live by. This has made you the kind of person who knows what they want and will achieve success in life because of this clarity.
When people get to know the real you, it becomes obvious you are an independent and responsible person who always strives to be a better version of themselves. You suffer from low self-esteem sometimes, but you have genuine friends who remind you of how amazing you truly are when you need to be reminded of it.
C. Lips
If lips are what you first saw when you looked at the image, you are a simple and quiet person. You prefer an average life which is not complicated by unnecessary commotion to find fulfillment. You are very flexible in your thoughts and manners and always go with the flow.
You are wise and also sometimes naive as your thoughts are not malicious and you always have good intent. You may be perceived as weak and in need of help but in reality that is not true. You have strength in dealing with problems on your own without the help of anyone.
You do not care for complicated relationships and like to be honest with people. Therefore people come to you for advice or to talk to because they know they can trust your opinion.
I thought this was cool so I wanted to share! Its copied from a friend.
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CONCRETE JUNGLE WHERE DREAMS ARE MADE OF
Social media makes us feel like shit at times and somehow others always seem to have their shit together. Don't you at least for once wonder where your life's strayed away from the norms presented to you through people's picture perfect lives? It's toxic but you can't look away and feel your pride has taken multiple hits afterwards.
Growing up I had this issue of self-worth haunting me night and day. Don't get me wrong I am still consciously struggling to love myself even now. But things are looking better. Cuz I never stop trying despite the constant thought I am rubbish. You may find it ridiculous how I am so agitated by the thought of inconveniencing others with my dumb questions. I should research and come up with answers to them myself or just shut up altogether and be tormented by my own stupidity. It is no less of an extreme case. My personality, that is.
One time my friend and I got lost in the middle of nowhere in the rural Southern Vietnam. But the greatest me would still rather bury my face in Google Maps to figure out our exit than chase the rare sight of a local passing by on the roadside. I could have had us real bad but I still did not relent. Perhaps I would be the weak one to be weeded out in troubled times.
Sometimes I can't help fantasizing about a parallel universe where timid, shy, reserved would be erased without a trace in my mental dictionary. I could amass nonsensical confidence without a slightest idea what strength I possess. I could hustle my way to the top in a finger snap. Isn't that how the Kardashian did it? Admiration max level! That's a different kind of talent unbeknownst to rigid people like me.
One's often advised to hang around the rich or smart to become rich or smart, respectively. But a skeptical me would ask, why would those people with social power resort to hanging with us? It's every man for himself in this cruel world. Don't they wanna seek more influential people to hang with as well? Why bother with the bottom of the pyramid?
But I still want to be worthy of such relationships. I want to bring something to the table so that it's a two-way street. I might not have the wits but I could become interesting in my own way and humor them with my stories. It's not sustainable to be the only one receiving and absorbing knowledge. At least that's my two cents.
I guess my point is I am getting better at asking for help as I feel like the current me could return part of the favor. And that little piece of confidence came from the fruit of my efforts to continuously find my niche and upgrade myself. Only you can save yourself. With cues and nudges from the universe, you will get to where you belong eventually. So does my low self-esteem really matter if it pushes me to strive for new heights? I might never know.
Never settle. Keep dreaming.
Love,
P.S. my selfie game is weak.
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