#PsychotherapyMaiaS
"#SIMPLE-#MINDEDNESS IN HANDLING #REJECTION"|
Beliau salah seorang kawan saya di salah sebuah platform social media.
Saya kenal beliau sebagai Pakar Bedah.
Dalam circle profesional, kita tidak bercakap atau bertanya hal peribadi atau hal keluarga.
Oleh itu, Hanya sekarang baru saya tahu yang Rihana Oksana adalah puterinya.
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Apabila ditanya sama ada benar khabar bahawa puterinya sudah bercerai, Beliau jawab simple
" Yes. True"
Dan cepat-cepat beliau sambung "and things will be fine".
Saya juga lihat beliau memberi jawapan yang sama pada semua orang yang bertanya soalan yang sama padanya.
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Hati saya berbisik..
Sungguh #Tenang!
Sungguh #ringkas!
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Belajar sesuatu?
Ini saya namakan "Simple-Mindedness".
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#Simple-#minded apabila memproses peristiwa hidup yang membawa kesedihan.
Apa kisah orang tak nak kat kita?
#Move on ..
Jawapan ringkas saja bila ditanya.
Tidak perlu rambling, blaming atau berhikayat kepada sesiapa.
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Simple-mindedness dalam memproses negativiti ini membawa ketenangan.
#InnerPeace.
Antara perkara yang menyumbang kepada #baggage diri ramai dari kita ialah sukar menerima rejection".
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Tatkala kawan sekolah meminggirkan kita.
Tatkala Kawan sekerja pandang serong kepada kita.
Tatkala kita gagal exams
Tatlala kekasih meninggalkan kita
Tatkala pasangan menceraikan kita
Kita merasa kesakitan amat
Kita membenarkan diri dibenam kesakitan bertahun-tahun
Lebih sadis..
Kita benarkan kesakitan itu membentuk diri kita menjadi pesimis
trauma
negatif..
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Tetapi
#God ...ALLAH is #Generous and #Life is #big
Sangat banyak #peluang kehidupan dalam dunia ini
dalam #pelbagai bentuk
#Satu pintu gone
#Seribu pintu lain terbuka
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Even #kesakitan dan #rejection adalah #peluang
Peluang #Upgrade diri.
Be better. Be greater. Inside Out.
Akan jumpa yang sama-sama better and greater. Inside Out.
Isnt that what we want?
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Simple-minded memproses rejection bermaksud
#Tidak perlu terlalu #memikirkan #Why atau #Why Me?
Tidak perlu.
Tidak perlu rambling kepada sesiapa.
Tidak perlu bercerita berhikayat tentang kisah kita
menyalahkan sesiapa
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Rejection is not about you.
It is a natural life process.
Everyone goes through it.
Cuma yang berbeza ialah bentuk rejection yang dialami seseorang.
And it is meant to makes us #Grow
Grow
Grow.
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Feeling rejected? We Grow out of it.
Feèling frustrated? We Grow out of it.
Feeling hurt? We Grow out of it
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Have one day of a good crying over it.
But only one day.
and then quickly pick up the pieces
Belajar dari situasi itu
What should I do to make Life better?
What Should I do to Capai kehidupan lebih baik?
And then terus langkah ke depan
Macam sungai belakang rumah Tok ki kita tu...ia hanya mengalir ke depan.
Tak ada gostan dah.😂
#No #more #toleh #belakang
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Andai kita boleh simple-minded begini dalam memproses peristiwa negatif dalam hidup, kita akan lebih berjaya dan bahagia.
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In fact inilah #RAHSIA #KEJAYAAN #jutawan2 dan #pemimpin hebat dunia
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2. Artikel di wall ini adalah cebisan tulisan saya dalam platform yang telah diterbitkan (monograf/jurnal/website)..
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4. Andai mahu share...
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Past experience, bila artikel dicopypaste..ia diubahsuai hingga kelihatan memburukkan seseorang.
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Kita menulis untuk pahala kebaikan. Jadi to avoid salah ubahsuai artikel..copypaste tidak dizinkan.
Saya tidak berlembut dengan perbuatan mencuri artikel kerana ia satu bentuk #korupsi #minda yang perlu dibanteras
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Tulislah dari pengalaman diri kita atau ppemikiran kita. Pengalaman dan pemikiran kita yang #Original itu lebih ikhlas dari lubuk hati dan sangat #Powerful!
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#PsychotherapyMaiaS
"#SIMPLE-#MINDEDNESS IN HANDLING #REJECTION"|
He was one of my friends on one of the social media platforms.
I know him as a surgeon.
In a professional circle, we don't talk or ask for personal things or family matters.
By that, only now I know that Rihana Oksana is his daughter.
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When asked whether it's true that daughter is divorced, he answers simple
" Yes. True"
And quickly he continued "and things will be fine".
I also saw him give the same answer to everyone who asked the same question to him.
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My heart whispers..
What a #Calm!
What a #concise!
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Learning something?
This is my name "Simple-Mindedness".
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#Simple -# minded when processing life events that bring sadness.
What is the story of people who don't want to us?
#Move on ..
Just a simple answer when asked.
No need to be rambling, blaming or berhikayat to anyone.
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Simple-mindedness in processing this negativiti brings peace.
#InnerPeace.
Among the things that contribute to the #baggage of ourselves are difficult to accept the rejection ".
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When school friends give us.
When Co-workers look at us bevel.
When we fail exams
Tatlala lover left us
When a couple divorced us
We feel so much pain
We allow ourselves to be in pain for years
More sadistic..
We are right that pain is shaping ourselves into pessimistic
trauma
negative..
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But
#God ...ALLAH is #Generous and #Life is #big
There are so many #opportunities of life in this world
in #various forms
#One door gone
#A thousand other doors open
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Even #pain and #rejection is #odds
Opportunity #Self-upgrade.
Be better. Be greater. Inside Out.
Will see you both better and greater. Inside Out.
Isnt that what we want?
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Simple-minded processing rejection intend
#No need to think too much #Why or #Why Me?
No need.
No need to be rambling to anyone.
No need to tell stories about our story
Blame anyone
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Rejection is not about you.
It is a natural life process.
Everyone goes through it.
Only the different is the form of the rejection that someone experienced.
And it is meant to makes us #Grow
Grow
Grow.
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Feeling rejected? We Grow out of it.
Feèling frustrated? We Grow out of it.
Feeling hurt? We Grow out of it
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Have one day of a good crying over it.
But only one day.
and then quickly pick up the pieces
Learn from that situation
What should I do to make Life better?
What should I do to achieve better life?
And then keep moving forward
Like the river behind our house... it just flows forward.
Till the end. 😂
#No #more #toleh #belakang
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If we can be simple-minded like this in processing the negative events in life, we will be more successful and happy.
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In fact this is #SECRET #GLORY #jutawan2 and #great leaders of the world
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1. This is strictly an educational article
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2. Article on this wall is a piece of my writing in the published platform (Monograph / Journal / website)..
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4. If you want to share...
Mr / Puan is welcome #Press #ButangShare
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5. But Please Strictly No Copypaste
Past experience, when the article is dicopypaste.. it is renovated until it seems to exacerbate someone.
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We write for the reward of goodness. So to avoid the wrong article.. Copypaste is not allowed.
I'm not soft with the act of stealing an article because it's a form of #corruption #mind that needs to be be
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Write from our self experience or our thoughts. Our #Original experience and thought is more sincere from the bottom of the heart and very #Powerful!
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