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【影評】《#為你找個家》學習去接受死亡 (8.2/10)
完整文章：https://loory.tw/nowhere-special/
《為你找個家》是一部愛爾蘭溫馨劇情電影，由烏貝托帕索里尼執導，演員詹姆士諾頓、丹尼爾拉蒙特主演，劇情講述一位35歲的窗戶清潔工約翰，在妻子因病過世後努力工作撫養4歲的兒子麥可，但這時他卻得知自己罹患絕症，在悲痛之餘也開始嘗試為麥可找到一個完美的新家，展開各式各樣的家庭面談，希望能讓兒子安穩地長大成人。
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【德多少，就得多少】
YOUR VIRTUES DETERMINE HOW MUCH YOU GET
最近家附近有建築工地，噪音多了。
客人聽我的聲音不會有問題，因為我的耳機有麥克風，但如果他們不戴有麥克風的耳機，我聽他們的聲音會比較辛苦。
幾天前，為一位年輕的保險經紀通過Zoom批八字。
他進入Zoom會議室後，呆看著我。
我微笑看著他，故意不出聲，觀察著他。
幾秒後，他才粗魯的說：「哈囉？!」
奇怪了，貴為一個保險經紀，見人應該無數，打招呼的方式，怎能這麼粗俗？我阿姨阿伯級的客人，雖不常用Zoom，都比他懂禮貌。
我馬上回：「X先生，您好。您進來會議室，怎麼打招呼這麼粗俗？」
「我一向來都是這樣先哈囉，有聲音我才正式打招呼。」
「我倒是從來不會這樣。」
其實，這是個人修養的問題。
「你沒有讀我發給你的貼文嗎？為何你視訊沒有戴耳機？」
「我一向來Zoom都是這樣，沒有戴耳機。我以為你只是建議而已，不一定要戴。」
「我在貼文裡寫關於戴耳機的理由，你覺得不成立嗎？」
他想了幾秒，回：「是成立的。」
「我們都是提供服務的人。客人找我們，需要三大元素。第一個，就是同理心。你沒有同理心，難怪你說你的客人寧願聽別人說，也不信你說。」
「如果你要我戴，我現在就戴。」
他講完後，依然坐在那裡看著我，一動也不動。
後來，我說了幾句，他肯戴上耳機後，藍牙耳機也並沒操作好。
等了我一個月，這麼簡單的事情都不願事先做好。
看著他理直氣壯的模樣，頓時覺得他很可憐。
貴人坐在他面前，他說的一大堆話，都是以「自我」為出發點，完全不懂得「以和為貴」的道理。這不就是親手把貴人轟出門嗎？
「你這樣講話，就算講贏了，你真的贏了嗎？」
換成我是他的客人，我絕不會向他買保險，因為很明顯這不是一位真心為別人著想的保險經紀人。
那天，雖為他看八字，該說的我都有說，但我依然保留許多。
因為他缺德。
許多人把「德」看得很輕，覺得沒做壞事就是好人。事實上，不按照別人合理的要求做事，蓄意破壞規則，只顧自己，也是沒有德行可言。
有些人會吐槽，哎呀你學佛的人，要慈悲，何必跟他計較？不要著相！
我不是在意氣用事。
沒有智慧的慈悲，會害死人的。
祖師有訓 - 看命本來就是依客人的福德多寡，而賜福。品行不端的人，承受不起更多的福報，反而會遭反噬。再說了，對貴人都不好的人，對沒有利用價值的人就會更善良嗎？
不是捐錢的，就一定是好人，什麼事情都是要用心才算。
每個人都想要與眾不同，可是如果你的所作所為和一般人一樣，沒有比他們做得更好，那你的命格只配拿得起一般的命運。
不要迷信，以為什麼都是人家為難你，就跑去求神拜佛要打小人。我們命運裡的每一個障礙，每一粒石頭，都是自己放進去的。
你不改，障礙物就不會移。
在這裡聲明：沒有麥克風耳機的Zoom客人，我一概會取消諮詢，進行退款，沒得商量，沒得瞎掰。
能突然放假，真是太過癮了！
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Recently, a construction site sprouted up beside my place, creating a lot of noise every day.
Zoom clients wouldn’t have a problem hearing me, but if they do not have a earpiece with a mic, I would have a problem hearing them.
Few days ago, I did a Bazi analysis for a young Insurance Agent via Zoom.
After he entered my Zoom meeting room, he looked at me blankly.
I smiled at him, deliberately staying quiet, and observed him.
Few seconds later, he said bluntly, “Hello?!”
How strange that an insurance agent, who probably have met tons of people, would greet in such an abrupt manner. My middle-aged clients, who rarely use Zoom, have better etiquette than him.
I replied instantly, “Hi, Mr X. Why is your greeting so crude, upon entering this meeting room?”
“I always say hello like this and wait to hear a reply, before I greet officially.”
“I never do that.”
Actually, this demonstrates the refinement of a person.
“Did you not read the post I sent you? Why are you not wearing a earpiece?”
“All along, I do Zooms in this manner without a earpiece. I thought it’s just a suggestion from you and it was not mandatory.”
“I wrote about the reason for clients to wear a earpiece. Do you find it invalid?”
He pondered for a few seconds and replied, “It’s valid.”
“We are both service providers. Clients look for us based on three main qualities. The first being the quality of empathy. You lack empathy and it’s no wonder you say your clients rather listen to others and not trust you as much.”
“If you want me to wear, then I will wear it now”
And he sat there looking at me, not moving an inch.
When he finally put on his ear pods, they did not operate well either.
It’s peculiar how despite a month of waiting for me, he was slow to get this simple thing done right.
Seeing how “self-assured” he was, for a brief moment, I find his behaviour pitiful.
His benefactor was sitting right in front of him, yet his words remained self-serving, totally oblivious to what harmony is about. Wasn’t this sending your benefactor straight out of the door?
“Even if you gain an upper hand talking like this, have you really won?
I would never buy insurance from such an agent, as obviously he was not the considerate kind.
I still read his Bazi that day, said what I should but there were also a lot I did not reveal.
Because he is lacking in virtues.
Many people think lightly of virtues. They assumed that if they do no evil deed, they are virtuous humans. Fact is, if you do not follow the reasonable requirements of other people, deliberately breaking the rules for your own gain, you have no virtue to speak of.
Some naysayers will tell me, but hey you are a practicing Buddhist, so you should exercise your compassion and not be bothered with his behaviour! Don’t get attached to external form!
This isn’t about me.
Compassion without wisdom brings more harm than good.
Since ancient times, it is a rule of thumb that we practitioners allocate good fortune to clients, based on their conduct and luck.
A person with undesirable conduct is unable to bear greater fortune, or there will be adverse consequences. Moreover, if a person is unkind to his benefactor, it is very unlikely that he will be kinder to another person with no value to him.
You can’t define a person as a good man, just because he is willing to donate money. We got to look at how he uses his heart.
Everybody wants to be special and different from others. But if what you are doing is the same as other people, nowhere better than them, then you can only carry a mediocre Destiny.
Don’t be superstitious to think that everybody is out to get you, and you go running to the temples or Feng Shui masters to chase away the villains.
Every obstacle in our destiny, every little stone that trips us, is placed in our lives by no other person but ourselves.
If you do not change, the obstacle isn’t going to budge either.
And here’s an official note: For any Zoom client that does not wear a earpiece with a microphone, I will cancel the consultation and give you a refund.
Having off days out of the blue are so much more fun!
【本週臺灣院線新片】 2021年9月 第三週
這禮拜大家選哪部呢？
請記得外出一定要戴好口罩，不在電影院裡飲食，做個守規矩的好觀眾！
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本週有11部院線電影：
▶ #沙丘 Dune
▶ #密弒遊戲2：勝者危亡 Escape Room: Tournament of Champions
▶ #汪汪隊立大功電影版 Paw Patrol: The Movie
▶ #綁架影帝黃晸珉 Hostage: Missing Celebrity
▶ #吸血鬼獵人D Vampire Hunter D
▶ #影子背後 In the Shadow
▶ #算牌手 The Card Counter
▶ #為你找個家 Nowhere Special
▶ #親情解鎖 Falling
▶ #抓狂演訓班 The Big Hit
▶ #當世界不再下雪 Never Gonna Snow Again
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【特別通告】#搶耳GigOn 第一場Live Streaming延期舉行
鑑於目前新型冠狀病毒疫情嚴峻，為保障演出者及工作人員之健康及安全，我們很遺憾宣佈原定於今晚（11月30日19:30）舉行的「搶耳GigOn（第一場）」直播節目，決定延期。
*最新的播出日期為 12月6日（星期日）19:30，敬請留意。
祝願大家身體健康。
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[SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT] RESCHEDULING OF Ear Up Gig On
Due to the current situation with the pandemic, we regret to inform you that “Ear Up Gig On (#1 show)” has been decided to postpone.
***The rescheduled show date is 6 December 2020 at 19:30.
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Stay home and gig on!
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資料來源：
Wong, J. S. (2003) THE RISE AND DECLINE OF CANTOPOP: A STUDY OF HONG KONG POPULAR MUSIC (1949 - 1997) [Ph.D. THESIS], THE UNIVERSITY OF HONG KONG
D. Weinstein (1991) : Heavy Metal – A Cultural Sociology (New York :
Lexington)
吳俊雄、張志偉（編）（2001）《閲讀香港普及文化1970 - 2000》（香港：
牛津大學出版社）
黃康顯（1987）《香港的生存問題》（香港：博益）
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[Let's get lost forever....where there are no fires or plagues...
some place where we don't have to fight]
當一個公司合約結束時， 它就不知不覺地結束了。在自由身的那一天， 或許會回顧著過去九年的一切， 但也同時感覺不到太大的分別。 但當真的實在地推出了一首歌， 這感覺很真實， 真的感覺在未曾到達過的領域， 在固有的藍圖當中消失了。 但我很樂意， 很樂意終於能當一個成年人， 自己當自己的老闆、自己當自己的唱片公司、自己說的算。 以下我要感謝很多很多人， 包括這次合作的音樂製作和MV製作團隊、前公司的所有同事、Kendy、和所有歌迷粉絲， 讓我可以造就今天的自己。 感謝我新的版權公司 Warner Chappell， 和推廣團隊。
Sometimes when a label contract is over, it’s just over. But you don’t really feel the difference... but this feels so real, and feels like untapped territory. But I’m grateful for my friends - esp my music producer Terrence Ma and my MV director Irving Cheung and the entire production crew for going above and beyond for this song of mine I wrote with tears.
This is my first single since my departure from my old company, and hiatus of my duo. I wish to thank everyone I've ever worked with, past and present, who shaped me into who I am today.
Thanks to Connie Yau @ Spin Creative Designs, who designed my new company logo, and created an instagram filter to promote this song.
Thanks to Warner Chappell, my new publisher, who also went above and beyond for my distribution. Thanks to Jennings and Red Cat for helping me with promotions.
I owe a lot to the people who stuck by me and believed in me, the friends, fans, subscribers and followers, from Hong Kong and everywhere else, for welcoming me back into this journey as a soloist, for respecting my decisions to take a different path. I owe it to my supportive family. I may be forever searching, forever lost, but right now, I’m so glad and happy to be able to be my own label and my own boss, and I'm enjoying every bit of it. Thank you all so much.
Music & Lyrics Written by Robynn Yip
Produced & Arranged by T-Ma
Mixed by John Benedict Pereira,
Mastered by Randy Merrill at Sterling Sound
《Lost forever》
There’s nothing left to explain
Nothing else can contain
The can of worms opened and words spoken
My broken emotions remain
I take a trip down memory lane
Hoping it could ease the pain
I never wanted it so complicated
But it’s too much too late
It’s not like I got a plan no
It’s not like I got any control
Home is where the heart is
But if it’s broken there’s nowhere to go
Let’s get lost forever
Where no one knows our names
Let's disappear into thin air
Up in the clouds where we can breathe again
Let’s get lost forever
Above the skylines we’ll find
Some place where we don’t have to fight
Let’s get lost forever
So what if time fades the pain
Could we learn to love again
With all the souls shaken and bridges broken
Is it possible to mend
And I don’t care where we go
If I got your hand to hold
Our hearts will guide us home
Back to the places that we used to know
Let’s get lost forever
Where no one knows our names
Let's disappear into thin air
Up in the clouds where we can meet again
Let’s get lost forever
Above the skylines we’ll find
Some place where we don’t have to fight
If all I got is my faith to follow
All I got is a book of unknowns
Then let me take a moment to let go
If all we see are just color codes
But I’m just me and no one really knows
What our future holds
Let’s get lost together
Where there are no fires or plagues
If we could try to do it right again
Would you be there or would you run from me
Just get lost together
If only one day we’d find
Some way where we don’t have to fight
Some way where we don’t have to hide or get lost forever
Lost forever
Full Credits
Music & Lyrics by Robynn Yip
Produced & Arranged by T-Ma
Mixed by John Benedict Pereira
Mastered by Randy Merrill at Sterling Sound
CAST:
Girl- Suey Kwok
Boy- Jeffrey Ngai Tsun Sang
Mother- Tina Cheng Pui Na
Father- Clifford Tsang
Director/ @Irvingcheung 張蚊
Assistant Director/ Lok Tsz Hong
Scriptwriter/ Ng King Lung
Director of Photography/ Tam Wai Kai
Focus Puller/ Tai Yun Hong
Camera Assistants/
Yeung Hiu Tung
Man Ho
Yu Hau Ming
Ng Yu Tat
Gaffer/ Ko Wing Chai
Lighting crew/
Lee Kwan Wai
Wong Wei Tung
Man Chi Chun
Photographer/ Quist Tsang @quistography
Art Director/ Nononino @n_n_n_o
Assistant Art Director/ Rex Loong
Costume Designers/ Jeff Mui & jumbotsang
Makeup Artist/ Anitalomakeup @anitaaal0125
Hair Stylist/ GLORIA Lam
Production Manager/ Annie Lau
Unit Manager/ Lai Yiu Chung
Production Assistants/
Christiana Yeung
Chan Siu Lun
Post-production/ Glance Limited
Post-production Producer/ Philip Chan
Editor/ Lam Chi Hang
Colourist/ Li Man Lok
On-line/ Steven Cheung Chun Ho
Graphics & Subtitling/ Nononino @n_n_n_o
Artiste Management / Jennings Wong @RYE Music
Special Thanks / amanwithahat, Dionne Lee, JT, Nicky Ma
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