Anger, aggression and bitterness are like thieves in the night who steal our ability to love and care. Is it possible to turn that negativity around and chill out so we can wish our abuser well? This may sound challenging or even absurd, but it can make life's difficulties far more tolerable.
🌞 Recognize no one harms another unless they are in pain themselves. : Ever noticed how, when you're in a good mood, it's hard for you to harm or hurt anything? But when you are in bad mood, you are more impulsive.
🌞 No one can hurt you unless you let them: When someone hurts us, we are inadvertently letting them have an emotional hold over us. Instead, if someone yells at you, let them scream; it makes them happy!
🌞 Respect yourself enough that you want to feel good: Don't respond to them with negativity, turn it around within yourself and began to wish them well.
🌞 Consider how you may have contributed to the situation: It's all too easy to point fingers and blame the perpetrator, but no difficulty is entirely one-sided. So contemplate your piece in the dialogue or what you may have done to add fuel to the fire.
🌞 Extend kindness: That doesn't mean you're like a doormat that lets others trample all over you while you lie there and take it. But it does mean letting go of negativity sooner than you might have done before so that you can replace it with compassion.
🌞 Meditate: Meditation takes the heat out of things and helps you cool off, so you don't overreact. A daily practice we use focuses on a person we may have difficulty with or have a problem with us. We hold them in our hearts and say: "May you be well! May you be happy! May all things go well for you!"
Been there, done that and I know by first-hand experience that reacting to hate and bitterness is only allowing yourself to feel bad for something you didn't do (in most cases). The best thing you can do is put yourself out of the drama and be at peace.
What do you do when someone mistreats or angers you? Comment below.
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one another 在 [國中] 請教each other與one another之不同？ - 精華區teaching 的推薦與評價
each other 和 one another在使用上是沒有差別的，
但在規範性的傳統下，each other有時候傾向二個指稱體，
而one another則是代表三個以上，惟此種區別在實際使用上幾乎沒有實證基礎。
然而，在兩者間存在文體上的差異，在非正式的文體中較常使用each other，
one another則比較常出現在正式的情境中。
上面那段是我翻譯<<A Comprehensive Grammar of the English Language>>裡
其中的一小段，茲將原文節錄如下：
There is no difference in the use of the two pronouns each other and one
another. Although in prescrpitive tradition, each other is somtimes preferred
for referencen to two and one another to more than two, this distinction seems
to have little foundation in usage. There is, however, a stylistic difference
between the two reciprocals in that each other is more common in informal
style and one another in more formal contexts.
所以，說被國高中老師和補習班老師騙好像也不對，但說不是嘛，
他們卻拿了個在實際使用中沒人承認有區別的規則當常規來要我們背，
個人是覺得走得有點偏了，好像在比誰知道的規則多，而不論這些規則有沒有用~
※ 引述《stukpe (風)》之銘言：
: 因為上課舉例有提到each other(彼此)這個課外補充，
: 印象中以前學習到的是兩者用each other
: 三者以上用one another
: 但當我查詢google英文字典找例子時，卻發現它的英文解釋是
: used as the object of a verb or preposition to show that each member of a group
: does something to or for the other members
: 這讓我困惑了一下，如果是指兩者應該寫to or for the other member吧？
: 於是我又查了longman的字典，它的英文解釋是
: used to show that each of two or more people does something
: to the other or others
: 可見我是不是以前學錯了呢？
: 但像這種題目高中也會出現，而答案好像都不外乎是我一開始提到的規則。
: 後來又在longman的字典，在one another的例句中看到
: Liz and I have known one another for years.
: ^^^^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^^^^^
: 兩者 卻用三者以上的規則
: 請問各位，你們都怎麼教這兩個字？
: 也許國中不會教one another，但怎麼講解each other？
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