Anger, aggression and bitterness are like thieves in the night who steal our ability to love and care. Is it possible to turn that negativity around and chill out so we can wish our abuser well? This may sound challenging or even absurd, but it can make life's difficulties far more tolerable.
🌞 Recognize no one harms another unless they are in pain themselves. : Ever noticed how, when you're in a good mood, it's hard for you to harm or hurt anything? But when you are in bad mood, you are more impulsive.
🌞 No one can hurt you unless you let them: When someone hurts us, we are inadvertently letting them have an emotional hold over us. Instead, if someone yells at you, let them scream; it makes them happy!
🌞 Respect yourself enough that you want to feel good: Don't respond to them with negativity, turn it around within yourself and began to wish them well.
🌞 Consider how you may have contributed to the situation: It's all too easy to point fingers and blame the perpetrator, but no difficulty is entirely one-sided. So contemplate your piece in the dialogue or what you may have done to add fuel to the fire.
🌞 Extend kindness: That doesn't mean you're like a doormat that lets others trample all over you while you lie there and take it. But it does mean letting go of negativity sooner than you might have done before so that you can replace it with compassion.
🌞 Meditate: Meditation takes the heat out of things and helps you cool off, so you don't overreact. A daily practice we use focuses on a person we may have difficulty with or have a problem with us. We hold them in our hearts and say: "May you be well! May you be happy! May all things go well for you!"
Been there, done that and I know by first-hand experience that reacting to hate and bitterness is only allowing yourself to feel bad for something you didn't do (in most cases). The best thing you can do is put yourself out of the drama and be at peace.
What do you do when someone mistreats or angers you? Comment below.
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one sided love 在 Facebook 的最佳解答
Back to One album track 8 - Treasure.
I wrote this song thinking of some strong female vocalists in mind, but somehow it never got picked up by anyone. But I think I could handle it myself now, so here we go. Change of perspectives, change of attitude etc., always helps.
@tjoemusic amazing guitar playing, @chansiukei bass, @natewong.playsgongs drums. Dream team.
Treasure
(Chet Lam)
The 2am phone call last night
made me worry about you
You said there’s no more you could give him
It has reached a point of no return
Comfort from friends cannot last for long
You have to clear your mind
Is it just because you’re too tired
So you let your emotion get the best of you
Have you talked with him?
It could have been some one sided pointless compromise
No one could ever question your sincerity
But how long can you be in this desperate state?
For those who know how to treasure you
Would worry about you being too serious
Just when the heat of argument is too overwhelming they would hold you
Look at you and tell you ‘we can work it out’
For those who know how to treasure love
Would give you some responsibility
Just when love is too overwhelming
They would let you go knowing there’s always trust in the end
No need to calculate who has won or lost
Or care about who gives in first
Actually if you have to worry about something
It would be there’s not enough time to love each other
There is no right or wrong in loving a person
The only question is ‘do you’
You will forget the reason you fight in the first place
Just remember, don’t part easily
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《思源》專輯第八首 - 懂得珍惜你的人
創作時一直想像一位powerful的女歌手會怎樣唱,但一直沒有人認領,到現在我想我可以駕馭到這個節奏與用聲,so here we go。角度,經歷,情緒,種種改變之後,我可以了。
懂得珍惜你的人
(林一峰)
昨晚兩點那通電話
讓我為你擔心很久
你說你為他付出已足夠
早過了盡頭
朋友安慰不能持久
你要冷靜看清所有
其實是否只因爲太累
情緒仍然不肯罷休
噢 你們有好好談過嗎?
可能是一廂情願的無謂犧牲
絕對沒人 有權利去懷疑你的認真
只是誰可以
長期處於火熱水深
懂得珍惜你的人
會心疼你太過認真
吵架到熱處會把你抱緊
用凝視告訴你一切還有可能
懂得珍惜愛的人
會給你負一點責任
相愛到難處會讓你呼吸
用放手告訴你到最後還有信任
不用計較誰嬴誰輸
介意誰先拿出量度
其實應該更加擔心
相愛時間已經不足
愛一個人沒有對錯
問題到底只剩是否
吵架其實不為理由
記着別隨便說分手
懂得珍惜你的人
會心疼你太過認真
吵架到熱處會把你抱緊
用凝視告訴你一切還有可能
懂得珍惜愛的人
會給你負一點責任
相愛到難處會讓你呼吸
用放手告訴你到最後還有信任
#思源 #懂得珍惜你的人
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one sided love 在 Yilianboy Facebook 的精選貼文
《你喜歡我喜歡你嗎?》
《Do you love me loving you?》
Translation: @cherishspace
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我常一眼看穿別人的思慮
對於你的想法卻毫無頭緒
其實
你喜不喜歡我也無所謂
我甘願承受喜歡你而來的快樂傷悲
只是
親愛的 你喜歡我喜歡你嗎?
若我的喜歡是你的無助
是否我不該再打擾無度
收起自以為貼心的照顧
交還你開闊的無拘無束
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I think I could see right through people,
yet I have no clue about what’s going through your mind.
That said,
it doesn't matter if you respond in kind.
I’m ready to embrace the mood swings
that come with my one-sided feelings.
Dear, I simply wonder
if you like the fact that I love you.
If my affection makes you ill at ease,
do I give myself pause
and withdraw my loving care,
just so you can fly wherever your heart desires?
one sided love 在 Lollalane Youtube 的最佳解答
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Memories Renewed by Ketsa
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