Y-sandal and my race
I have a cousin who becomes a single mom after her divorce. Her ex-husband, who is a motorcycle taxi driver, does not have money to pay for child support. Her income is barely enough for her to scape by. One day, she called me to ask whether she should borrow 2000 USD to fix the ugly stretch marks on her belly after childbirth.
Prior to her call, I have always thought she looks fine, petite and cute. Who would have known what is underneath the clothes of a single mom?
She explained that she would like to remove the excess belly skin to feel confident when she puts on a bikini. This will help her find a good husband. Otherwise, it would scare away any guys who see her belly the way it is.
She never took her top off and I was terrified upon hearing that. I asked:
- How often do you go to the beach each year?
- Once per year
- So between now and when you are 35, when you are still confident wearing a bikini, do you think that you’ll go to the beach 5 or 6 times?
- But I will get married again and don’t see myself staying single forever. With this belly, I am too shy to meet new people.
I gave birth to three children and was lucky enough that I didn’t get any stretch mark, perhaps that’s why I can’t see her issue. However, I know what she wants.
- Let me ask you something, when you got married before, did you have a stretched skin?
- No
- Then why did you still marry a bastard? The issue is that you have realised that even beauty, youth, virginity, love and the bravery in your 20’s still couldn’t bring you a good man. And you have yet to learn from that?
- ??? (she was confused but still didn’t understand the issue).
- When you take your beautiful flat tummy to bet, he still left you, abused you, cheated on you, talked about you behind your back and turned his back against you. Now you are making the same mistake again. You value six days on the beach and is willing to compromise other important qualities in life such as your financial hardship. It will take you four years to re-pay the $2,000 debt. You could use that money for your child’s education, food or even for you. And yet you want to compromise it in order to please an unknown man, then I guarantee that you will just encourage the selfishness and ignorance of your future partner. You will lose more than gain anything.
A man who gives him the right to ask you what you can’t have is a selfish man. Why do you feel the need to be beautiful for him?
An understanding man will accept you. A man who is taught not to insult women will not leave you because of one such minor thing. Because he loves you, not your flat tummy.
I hope you will find a good man, or an understanding man.
Ask him to go for a swim, so that he can see your belly before he says that he loves you. If he changes his mind, you are not wasting your time. And if he understands you and loves you, that is also because of your frankness.
Long time ago, I read an Australian book, the male character was shocked to find out, upon undressing the female character, that she didn’t have a breast and was as flat as a man. After the initial shock, he laughed and kissed the woman “ Only cows are crazy about breast. As for me, I need you, a woman I love, not a cow!”.
And I assure you, there are many good men out there. Only you can give him opportunities to show his good qualities.
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【為什麼你看命後,還是失敗?】(English writing below)
你是不是看過命,卻還是沒有錢?你是不是見了很多師父,事業卻依然沒起色,迷失在十字路口中?
很多人都曾看過命,沒有突破,原地踏步,嚴重的甚至一敗塗地。
我想告訴你答案,但真實的答案,總是讓人不舒服。
你如果要知道為什麼,請繼續閱讀。如果不要,那就跳過我這篇貼文。
你為什麼依舊改不了命?
因為你沒有做應該做的,你不覺得是必要的,當然註定失敗,也必會連累自己的家人。
其中一個原因就是,客人容易犯自視過高的毛病。
改命有改命的規矩,就如減肥有減肥的步驟,要考好成績也有它的程序。
簡單的說,你在人間,要得到任何一種成功,無論是事業、財運、婚姻、家庭、親子關係等等,都有它們的規則要遵守。
可是許多人會把自己的情緒和個人的喜歡,與這些改命的原則混為一談。
這,就是錯誤的開始。
無論我解釋的多麼清楚、仔細,還是會有客人會嫌麻煩,覺得要改變自己的生活習慣,是失去控制自己命運的自由。
其實,你以為的自由是一種幻覺,是業力的延伸。我們來講一句實在話,如果你有能力引導你的命運走向更好的未來,這麽到現在這個年齡都還沒看到你要的成功呢?
有些客人知道是業障阻礙他們前進。他們就會跟我說,業障重,沒辦法過的,很難消的。
成功者找辦法,失敗者找藉口。找辦法,因為不要讓自己的家人陪著自己辛苦,決心要自己這一生中能早點成功。找藉口,因為不要踏出自己的舒適圈,就算委屈了家人,也覺得家人同心無所謂 - 自私自虐也。
但,這些都是你可以選的。
去年,我把頭髮留長。今年,我把秀髮剪短。好些眼尖的人來問我,為什麼留長髮,為何又要削掉,是不是比較旺我?
當然,我是風水命理師。我自己不做一個榜樣給客人看,自己不旺,如何給予他們信心和希望呢?頭髮而已,何必執著?有錢,比較實在。😄
講個笑話,人生的問題,有99%是需要錢去解決的,另外1%是需要更多的錢。🤣
我喜歡最近來批八字的女客人講的一句話:
「我非常有決心要改變我的命運,通過聽從您的建議。其實,這些不難做到。我只需要慢慢的把它們融入進我的日常生活裡。不知為什麼,現在知道哪些顏色、風格和飲食能加強我的用神,反而省卻我不少時間去決定要什麼!」
做人,想法簡單點,只要能讓我更有錢,又能讓我生活少辛苦點,而且又合乎我的戒律,我就會去做。人生很短,既然可以免去,何必浪費青春去吃苦呢?
若您和我這位客人一樣已厭倦辛苦的人生,尋找一個極速改命的方案,又願意邁出自己的舒適圈,歡迎聯絡我。
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Have you gotten your destiny analysed, but still have no money? Have you consulted many Masters, but your career is still going nowhere and you are lost at the crossroads?
You are not alone. Many people have gotten their Bazi read, but they achieve no breakthrough and remain at the same spot. For the more serious cases, they suffer a crushing defeat and become total failures.
I want to tell you the answer today, but the truth is never comfortable to hear.
If you wish to know why, please continue to read. Otherwise, you can just skip my post.
Why, after several consultations, do you still fail to change your destiny?
Because you did not do what was required, you didn't think it was necessary. The end result of your actions can only be failure, that will definitely implicates your family.
One mistake that many clients commit is overestimating their knowledge.
There are rules to changing one's destiny, just like losing weight has its protocol to follow, and getting good results for exams calls for adherence to a formula.
Simply put, to achieve any form of success in this mortal world, no matter in your career, wealth, marriage, family and children relations, there are rules and procedures to follow in the right sequence.
However, many people like to mix their personal emotions and preferences into the rules of changing destiny.
And that is where things start going wrong.
Regardless how careful and meticulous my explanation is, there are still clients who find it troublesome to adjust their living habits. They think of it as losing their freedom to control their lives.
Actually, the freedom you think you possess is just an illusion, an extension of your negative karma. Let's talk real. If you have the ability to guide your destiny to a better future, why are you not seeing the success you want at this age? Can you give me an exact timeline, how long more are you going to take?
Some clients know it is their negative karma preventing them from moving forward. They tell me, their karma is too huge a burden. There is no way they can surpass it. It is too difficult.
The successful people find solutions, because they are determined to success earlier and not let their loved ones suffer with them. The failures find excuses because they do not wish to step out of their comfort zone, and even when it means compromising on their families, they think as long as they are still together, it's okay. That is self-abuse and selfishness.
But all these are just choices that you can change.
Last year, I kept my hair long. This year, I cut my hair short. Some sharp-eyed readers ask me why I kept it long and then chop off my locks. Do my decisions make me more prosperous?
Of course, I am a Chinese Metaphyics practitioner. If I do not set an example for my clients and make myself wealthier, how do I give them confidence and hope? It's just hair anyway. No need to be stubborn to it. Having money is more practical. 😄
Tell you a joke: in all the problems we face in Life, 99% of them can be solved with money. The other 1% gets solved with more money. 🤣
Changing myself is not a matter of life and death. It can be done easily when the mindset is right.
I like what my recent Bazi client said,
"I’m very determined to change my destiny by following through your advice. In fact, they are not difficult to follow as I just need to slowly include them into my daily lifestyle. Somehow i felt it makes my life easier, now that I know what colours, style and diet can enhance my favourable elements, saving me time on deciding what to get!"
Life is short. We should not waste our youth to suffer in vain and going around in circles. That is my simple way of thinking. Anything that can make me richer and suffer less, I will do it as long as it is within my precepts.
If you, like my client, are sick of being tormented by sufferings, seek a rapid solution to changing your destiny, and are willing to take the first step out of your comfort zone, you are most welcome to look for me.
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【專題訪問 Interview Feature】2019年度香港大學學生會周年大選中央幹事會候選常務祕書麥嘉晉訪問 | Interview with Mak Ka Chun Eugene, the Proposed General Secretary of Executive Committee, The Hong Kong University Students’ Union of Annual Election 2019
(Please scroll down for English version.)
麥嘉晉同學以一人莊姿態參選中央幹事會常務祕書一職,為除候選內閣「蒼傲」外,另一參選周年大選中央幹事會席位的單位。麥同學接受本台訪問,就其一人內閣的理念、參選原因、和自身網上流出片段解話,並就反對香港獨立及支持訂立國歌法作闡述。
訪問節錄如下:
1. 對常務祕書一職的了解?
我並不對常務祕書,即香港大學學生會中央幹事會的常務祕書的職責有太清楚的認識。
2. 為何參選常務祕書而非其他職位?
我參選常務祕書的原因是因為我認為自己並不能勝任主席(正確名稱應為會長)一職,我是一個小心、心思細密的人,能力主要在於常務祕書方面。
3. 你認為自己被釣狗公及流出不雅影片會否對選情有影響?
對於這件事,我明白大家對我有負面印象,我希望向對我有負面印象的人道歉,因為我令到香港大學的聲譽受損。但這件事也令到有些人認識了我,客觀而言,他們都會明白這是一個失誤,並知道這事並不影響我的政治理念或影響我向他們服務。我亦明白有人會因這件事對我有負面印象,我會努力透過選舉工程爭取選民對我的信心。
(參考資料:[有圖]求智囊團撚狗公 https://lihkg.com/t/640617/1?ref=android )
4. 你心目中學生會的立場是?
我們必須多考慮多角度及不同持份者的意見才作出表態,所以我不能肯定有幸當選後會作出什麼取態。我個人不太熱衷於政治方面,在大部分議題方面我的路線比較中間偏左。
5. 你為何決定單獨參選?
因為即使我未能組成內閣,我都希望做到我參選的目的,就是希望令人看到香港大學學生會並非像外界看來激進。我希望能令人看到香港大學的學生並不是只得一種思路,大家都有獨立思想,所以即使只有一人亦會參選。
6. 假若四位候選幹事同事當選,如何處理意見分歧?
如果日後四位候選人有幸一同當選,但就不同議題有相反意見的話,我認為政治取態並非港大學生會惟一職務,其他職務例如學生會組織的行政事務、和為學生提供福利、服務學生等等。所以我認為並不會單因為取態不同而辭職,其他事項不可以置之不理。
7. 你的政治光譜/政治立場是什麼?
我個人本身並不太熱衷於參與政治方面,在大部分議題我的立場傾向於中間偏左。
8. 你可否用香港的政治組織/政治人物代表自己?
個人而言我並不激進,所以我認為以前的民主黨可能比較能反映我現在的立場。如果從人物方面我認為湯家驊先生可能比較能反映到我,因為湯家驊先生和我一樣是比較會從多角度處事的人,其次他比較冷靜,不會草率進行評論和反應,而他亦不會就所有事情有既定立場,對不合理或不認該支持的事情他不會基於他泛民主派的立場而違背自己的理念,所以湯家驊先生及以前的公民黨會比較能反映和接近我的政治立場。
9. 你對初一事件的看法?
暫時可見旺角暴動或年初一事件方面,很多人都不太願意承擔自己的責任,而我認為很多參加者都罔顧了香港大眾的聲音和理念,亦危害了其他人的安全,我個人並不支持或同意這件事,如有人對這方面有意見的話,我希望大家能以理性方法表達意見。
10. 你是否支持香港獨立?
首先我不同意和不支持香港獨立。對於香港獨立我有幾點要回應。我不支持香港獨立的原因是因為,我認為香港多年來和中國有關係,香港在多方面亦須要中國的幫助,不論是經濟、社會、還是政策配套,我們都必須和中國有緊密連繫。當然我有不同意中國的政策,如對言論自由的打壓和對人權的打壓等,但我認為不應因反對中國而原全斷絕關係,始終歷史上我們和中國有非常緊密的聯繫,不可以因一些事去全盤否定中國,同時我認為香港獨立在法律上並不合法,所以我不會支持這種不合法的東西出現。因為香港獨立並不合法再加上這事並不合適,所以我並不支持香港獨立。但我認為可在可容許的空間內討論,例如學術層面或政治方面,我認為只要不鼓吹港獨,單純理性討論是可容許的,因為這是一種思想,而思想應可被討論。
11. 你是否同意訂立國歌法?
我認為國歌法的立法原意合理,並且應該,大家只要願意去尊重國歌和願意為自己的行為負責,我認為國歌法的立法有應該要的,因為我認為應尊重國歌。除了利用國歌表達意見外,還有很多意見表達的方式,雖然國歌法有機會收窄了大家的言論自由,但大家仍有其他對中國表達意見的渠道,所以我認為國歌法的影響並非如此誇張。
12. 你是否同意就廿三條法?
暫時短期而言不該對廿三條立法,但如果日後香港社會出現了嚴重的安全問題,而現時的法律制度未能控制,我認為廿三條立法......未必是廿三條立法,但應保障社會安全,加強執法,修改現有法律去增強它的權力、增強它的阻嚇性,希望能保障社會的安全。
Mak Ka Chun Eugene is running as a one-man cabinet in the Annual Election 2019. He is another candidate unit running for a seat in the Union’s Executive Committee, besides Prism, the proposed Cabinet of Executive Committee, The Hong Kong University Students’ Union in Annual Election 2019. Campus TV has interviewed with Mak, with regards to his vision of a one-man cabinet, the reason to run as candidate, and the leakage of his personal videos; he has also elaborated on his disagreeing with Hong Kong independence and supporting the enactment of the National Anthem Bill.
The interview excerpts are as follows:
1. What is your understanding of the post of General Secretary?
I might not have too clear of an understanding about the post of General Secretary, i.e. the duties of the General Secretary of Executive Committee, The Hong Kong University Students’ Union.
2. Why did you choose to run for the post of the General Secretary out of other posts?
The reason for running for the General Secretary is because I do not believe I have what it takes to assume the post of the Chairperson (the correct title should be: “President”). I am a rather careful and meticulous person, and my abilities are more in line with the area of the General Secretary, such as word/ document processing, and handling emails.
3. Do you think your incident* about being exposed as a womanizer, and the leakage of your explicit videos have an impact on your election campaign?
I understand that I have left a negative impression on some people from this incident; I would like to apologize to these people, because I have scathed the reputation of the University as a student of the University. In addition, this incident has made me known to public. Objectively speaking, some might consider the incident as a mistake, and that it would not affect my political stance or my service to them (members of the Students’ Union). Meanwhile, I do recognize that this incident has created a negative impression of myself, I will try my best to gain the trust of people from my election campaign.
*Mak Ka Chun Eugene was allegedly exposed as a womanizer, some explicit photos and videos of Mak in a conversation have been leaked by an anonymous account onto Lihkg, a public forum in Hong Kong.
4. What is the position of the Students’ Union in your eyes?
We should take into considerations the various perspectives and stakeholders’ opinions before declaring a stance, therefore I am not sure what I will be standing for should I be elected. Personally, I am not too keen on politics, but I would say that for most issues, I take more of a centre-left position.
5. Why did you decide to run as an independent candidate?
Despite not having formed a cabinet, I wish to fulfill my election aim: I hope to show the society how The Hong Kong University Students’ Union is not as radical and one-sidedly biased as how the society perceives it to be. I hope people could see that the Union has not only one path of thinking, everybody has individual thinking. Therefore, I would run as candidate even if I am doing so alone.
6. Should four proposed candidates of the Executive Committee be elected, how would discrepancy of views be dealt with?
If all four candidates have the honour to be elected, and have disparate views on issues, I think (acting on one’s) political views is not the Union’s only duty, there are other duties including administrative work, representing students, providing students’ welfare etc. Therefore, I do not think I would resign solely over a discrepancy on political views, other duties should not be neglected.
7. Where do you stand on the political spectrum? / How would you define your political stance?
I am not too keen on politics, but I would say that for most issues, I take more of a centre-left position.
8. Could you use a political group or a political figure in Hong Kong to represent yourself?
I think it is quite difficult to say, because Hong Kong’s politics has been so polarizing. Personally, I do not consider myself radical (politically), so I think the earlier Democratic Party better represents my current stance. In terms of a political figure, I think Mr Ronny Tong Ka-wah can better represent me, because like Tong, I know how to handle matters from multiple perspectives. Besides, Tong is a rather collected politician, he knows not to carelessly react and comment; he does not hold a predetermined stance towards issues, and he does not let his pan-democratic background dictate his views on matters that he thinks are unreasonable or not deserving of his support. Therefore, Mr Ronny Tong Ka-wah and the earlier Democratic Party is better proximate and representative of my political stance.
9. What are your views on the Mong Kok Incident in 2016?
What I observe currently about the Mong Kok Riot, or my apologies, it should be the Mong Kok Incident, is that many people are unwilling to bear responsibility for their actions, and I think a lot of the participants (of the incident) were rather reckless and negligent in considering the majority of Hong Kong’s opinion, they have also harmed the safety of many. I personally do not support nor agree with this action. However, I believe all voices should be heard, if anyone has an opinion on an issue, I hope they can convey them in a rational manner.
10. Do you support Hong Kong independence?
Firstly, I do not agree with nor support Hong Kong independence, but I think that the idea itself can be discussed on an academic or political level, as long as we are not encouraging the actualisation of it, we can have purely theoretical discussion because it is like any other thought or ideology that can be discussed. In response to Hong Kong independence, I have a few points to raise.
I do not support Hong Kong independence because I think that Hong Kong has established long years of relationship with China, Hong Kong needs the support of China in multiple areas, no matter economic, social, or policy-wise. We should always have a close connection to China. Certainly, I do not agree with all of China’s policies, for example the oppression of freedom of speech and of human rights, but I do not think we should cut ties with China entirely based on these disagreements. Ultimately, China and we have had a very close affiliation historically. At the same time, I think that Hong Kong independence is not legally justified, so I would not support such an illegal action. Because Hong Kong independence is not legal and not suitable, I do not support it.
11. Do you agree with the enactment of the National Anthem Bill?
I think the motive of the enacting the National Anthem Bill is justified, and (the act) should be encouraged. As long as everyone is willing to respect the national anthem and to bear responsibility for their own actions, I think the enactment of the National Anthem Bill is necessary, because I respect the national anthem. Besides using the national anthem as a form of self-expression (of political opinions or views), there are many other ways to communicate an opinion. Although freedom of speech might be harmed under the enactment of the bill, there are still other methods to convey our opinions about China, so I do not foresee the effect of the National Anthem Bill to be as severe as it is portrayed to be.
12. Do you agree with the enactment of Article 23?
Currently and in the short run, Article 23 should not be enacted. However, if Hong Kong experiences a problem of safety in the future, one that the current legal system has no power to control, I think that it may call for Article 23… not necessarily Article 23, but an enhanced enforcement of the law, the law should be amended to strengthen its power and deterring functions to ensure the safety of our society.
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二零一九年度香港大學學生會周年大選其他候選人包括中央幹事會候選內閣蒼傲、校園電視候選內閣、學苑候選編輯委員會及候選普選評議員。
2019年度周年大選中央諮詢大會將於一月二十一日至一月二十五日在中山廣場舉行,時間為下午十二時半至二時半。
Other candidates for the Annual Election 2019 include Prism, the Proposed Cabinet of Executive Committee, the Proposed Cabinet of Campus TV, the Proposed Editorial Board of Undergrad, and the Proposed Popularly Elected Union Councillor.
The Central Campaign for Annual Election 2019 will be held from the 21st to 25th of January at the Sun Yat-sen Place, from 12:30 to 14:30.
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