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[Al Quran Bukanlah Kitab Pertama Memperkenalkan Tudung]
Di dalam artikel sebelum ini sudah dibincangkan mengenai mengapa manusia ini secara fitrahnya mahu menutup aurat atau kemaluannya. Ini kerana fitrah manusia memahami tuntutan perasaan malu itu yang sedia tertanam di dalam diri mereka. Tambahan pula bagi wanita juga memahami auratnya tidak sama dengan lelaki. Rujuk: http://bit.ly/2nHvGeh
Arahan supaya wanita berpakaian dengan pakaian labuh dan memakai tudung ini bukanlah dimulakan di dalam al Quran. Ia sudah sedia diamalkan oleh masyarakat terdahulu di atas maslahah menjaga kehormatan diri.
Malah Allah juga telah mengaturkan cara wanita perlu menutup aurat. Aturan yang Allah turunkan ini bukan bermula dari al Quran sahaja malah kitab-kitab rasul terdahulu juga telah disertakan hukum memakai khimar (tudung) dan melabuhkan pakaian khusus bagi wanita.
Di dalam al Quran, jelas Allah menyebut tentang kewajipan untuk wanita menutup aurat dengan sempurna dari seluruh tubuh badannya kecuali pada ayat “maa zoharo minha” iaitu bahagian yang diperselisihkan untuk ditutup. Ia disebut di dalam surah an Nur:
“Dan katakanlah kepada perempuan yang beriman, agar mereka menjaga pandangannya, dan memelihara kemaluannya, dan janganlah menampakkan perhiasannya (auratnya), kecuali yang (biasa) terlihat. Dan hendaklah mereka menutupkan kain kerudung ke dadanya, dan janganlah menampakkan perhiasannya (auratnya), kecuali kepada suami mereka dan ….” (QS. An-Nur : 31)
Satu ayat ini sudah jelas menceritakan mengenai kewajipan wanita mengenakan ‘khimar’ kain tudung di kepalanya dan melabuhi ke dadanya.
Ulama fiqh berbeza pendapat di dalam garis pada bahagian manakah yang dimaksudkan pada ayat “Maa zoharo minha” itu dengan bersandarkan kepada hadis antaranya, dari Aisyah:
“Wahai Asma’, sesungguhnya seorang wanita, apabila telah baligh (mengalami haid), tidak layak tampak dari tubuhnya kecuali ini dan ini (dengan menunjuk muka dan telapak tangannya). (HR Abu Dawud 2/226).[1]
Majoriti ulama berpendapat bahawa seluruh tubuh wanita adalah aurat kecuali wajah dan telapak tangan. Abu Hanifah mengatakan tapak kaki wanita bukan aurat.[2] Manakala Imam Nawawi mengatakan seluruh tubuh adalah aurat kecuali wajah dan pergelangan tangan.[3]
Dalam isu pemakaian khimar (tudung) ini tidak ada khilaf di dalamnya. Ia adalah kewajipan bagi muslimat untuk menutup seluruh badannya kecuali khilaf pada tangan, tapak kaki dan wajahnya sahaja. Manakala ayat seterusnya juga menguatkan lagi kewajipan wanita untuk mengenakan pakaian sopan iaitu dengan mengenakan jilbab iaitu pakaian luar yang labuh menutupi pakaian dalam. Pakaian ini juga diimejkan sebagai pakaian wanita merdeka, firman Allah yang bermaksud:
“Wahai Nabi! Katakanlah kepada isteri-isterimu, anak-anak perempuanmu dan isteri-isteri orang mukmin, Hendaklah mereka menutupkan jilbabnya keseluruh tubuh mereka. Yang demikian itu agar mereka lebih mudah untuk dikenali, sehingga mereka tidak di ganggu.” (Surah al Ahzab: 59)
Pemakaian jilbab dan tudung ini adalah pemakaian yang mengangkat martabat wanita. Malah sebelum diturunkan al Quran, para rasul terdahulu telah membawa syariat ini. Seperti dibincangkan dalam penulisan sebelum ini bahawa semua rasul adalah muslim dan membawa ajaran Islam. Malah ajaran dan syariat itu masih tersisa di dalam kitab-kitab terdahulu dan digubal seperti di dalam ajaran Yahudi dan Kristian.
Agama Yahudi
Di dalam tradisi agama ini, wanita mereka memakai tudung. Dalam Perjanjian Lama menyebut:
“Katanya kepada hamba itu: “Siapakah lelaki itu yang berjalan di padang ke arah kita?” jawab hamba itu: Dialah tuanku itu,” Lalu Ribka mengambil telekungnya dan bertelekunglah ia” (Kejadian 24: 65)
Selain itu terdapat senarai pelanggaran hukum yang berkait dengan wanita di dalam kitab Talmud dan salah satu adalah perbuatan tidak memakai tudung:
“The following women are divorced, and do not receive [the amount of] their ketubah: One who violates Mosaic Law or Jewish custom. What constitutes [a violation of] Mosaic Law? If she feeds him untithed [food]; if she engages in intercourse with him while she was a niddah [a female who has menstrual discharges which render her impure]; if she does not set apart challah[a portion of a batch of bread dough given to a kohen which becomes holy upon separation, and can only be consumed by kohanim or their household]; and if she makes vows, but does not fulfill [them]. What constitutes [a violation of] Jewish custom? [If] she goes out [in public] with her hair uncovered; [if] she spins [thread] in the market, and converses [flirtatiously] with any man. Abba Saul says, "Also one who curses his children in his presence." Rabbi Tarfon says, "[Also] a noisy woman." What constitutes a noisy woman? One who speaks in her own house [so loudly] that her neighbors can hear her voice.” (Mishnah Ketubot 7: 6)
“The Daughters of Israel shall not walk with their heads uncovered in a marketplace, whether she is available (for marriage) or whether she is married.” (Hilkhoth Isurei Bi'ah 21:17)
Malah di dalam kitab Talmud terdapat banyak lagi bahagian yang membincangkan tentang memakai tudung antaranya adalah dalam Berakhot 24a, dan Hilkhoth Avoda Zarah 12:11.
Agama Kristian
Di dalam agama Kristian juga mengambil tradisi di dalam Yahudi. Malah di dalam Tanakh (taurat) sudah menggambarkan situasi masyarakat terdahulu sudah memakai telekung. Disebut di dalam buku Kejadian:
“Katanya kepada hamba itu: “Siapakah lelaki itu yang berjalan di padang ke arah kita?” jawab hamba itu: Dialah tuanku itu,” Lalu Ribka mengambil telekungnya dan bertelekunglah ia” (Kejadian 24: 65)
Manakala di dalam bahagian Perjanjian Baru pula terdapat beberapa ayat yang menyuruh perempuan supaya memakai tudung. Di dalam Bible, 1 Korintus, Bab 11:
“Tetapi tiap-tiap perempuan yang berdoa atau bernubuat dengan kepala yang tidak bertudung, menghina kepalanya, sebab ia sama dengan perempuan yang dicukur rambutnya.’’(1Korintus 11:5)
“Sebab jika perempuan tidak mahu menudungi kepalanya, maka haruslah ia juga menggunting rambutnya.Tetapi jika bagi perempuan adalah penghinaan, bahawa rambutnya digunting atau dicukur, maka haruslah ia menudungi kepalanya.’’ (1Korintus 11:6)
“Sebab itu, perempuan harus memakai tanda wibawa di kepalanya oleh kerana para malaikat.‘’(1 Korintus 11:10)
“Pertimbangkanlah sendiri: Patutkah perempuan berdoa kepada Allah dengan kepala yang tidak bertudung?’’ (1 Korintus 11:13)
Agama Hindu
Di dalam agama Hindu juga menganjurkan pemakaian tudung bagi perempuan. Disebut di dalam Veda (bahasa Sanskrit):
“patiryadvadhvo vāsasā svaman ghamabhidhitsate, ye vadhvaścandram vahatum yaksmā yanti janādanu.” (Rigveda 10: 85: 30)
Bermaksud: “Unlovely is his body when it glistens with this wicked fiend, What time the husband wraps about his limbs the garment of his wife.”
“Adha Pashyaswa, Mopari Santaram Padakau Har, Ma Te Kashaplakaun Drushan Shtrihi Brahma Babhuvith” (Rigveda 8: 33: 19)
Sebahagian terjemahan menyebut:
“Hey woman, you always keep a low vision. Never have an eye contact with men. Walk seriously and cover all the organs of your body. Your status in the family is an important as that of Lord Brahma in the Yadnya”
Manakala terjemahan Ralph T.H.Griffith menyebut:
“Cast down thine eyes and look not up. More closely set thy feet. Let none
See what thy garment veils, for thou, a Brahman, hast become a dame.”
Sememangnya tradisi dan agama di dalam masyarakat India mereka memakai tudung. Tudung di dalam masyarakat mereka dikenali sebagai Ghoonghat, Chunni atau Dupatta. Ia biasa dipakai oleh masyarakat wanita India. Tidak kira agama Hindu, Jain atau Sikh akan memakainya.
Agama Sikh
Di dalam agama Sikh, diwajibkan penganut mereka agar memakai serban. Manakala bagi pihak wanita pula mereka boleh memilih di antara serban ataupun memakai kain selendang (Ghoonghat) menutup kepala. Di dalam kitab suci utama mereka, Guru Granth Sahib Ji mengatakan:
“Naapaak Paak Kar Hadhoor Hadheesaa Saabath Soorath Dhasathaar Siraa ||12||”
Purify what is impure, and let the Lord's Presence be your religious tradition. Let your total awareness be the turban on your head. (Guru Granth Sahib: Ang 1084: 12)
Ayat ini terpakai untuk lelaki dan wanita.
Malah dilihat selain daripada agama-agama ini, agama lain juga memiliki anjuran supaya wanita mereka memakai penutup kepala. Di dalam agama Zoroaster mereka juga mewajibkan wanita mereka memakai hijab ketika memasuki rumah ibadat (Ateshgah). Begitu juga dengan agama Sabean Mandaeisme, Druze, Samaritan, Yazdanisme juga mewajibkan wanita mereka untuk mengenakan tudung di kepala.
Kesimpulan
Wanita dan hijab adalah elemen kesopanan yang tidak dapat dipisahkan dari sudut kaca mata manusia dan juga agama. Pemakaian tudung juga adalah tuntutan dari Allah sejak dari dahulu lagi. Hikmah tentang pemakaiannya sungguh besar dan luas jika ingin dibincangkan. Ia menjaga kehormatan wanita dan juga dapat menjaga dari pandangan mata orang lelaki.
Adapun orang mempersoalkan bahawa kewajipan ini menindas wanita dan sebagainya. Sebenarnya terdapat kejanggalan dalam cara sebahagian kita berfikir. Mengapa kita tidak mempersoalkan jika semua pejabat menggariskan kod etika pemakaian seperti kena memakai kasut, memakai baju kemeja kosong, baju batik atau kita juga dapat melihat anggota polis dikodkan dengan pakaian beruniform, tidak pula kita mempersoalkan perbuatan itu sebagai menindas mereka. Sedangkan itu hanya arahan manusia dan etika yang digubal oleh manusia sahaja. Itupun kita tidak persoalkan dan kenapa apabila berhadapan dengan arahan Allah, Tuhan yang memberi kita nyawa, makanan, rezeki, dan segala-galanya, tiba-tiba kita banyak berdalih. Tepuk dada tanya iman.
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Nota kaki
[1] Hadis ini mursal (daif) di sisi Abu Daud, manakala al Albani mengatakan Hasan dalam غاية المرام no 187
[2] Lihat Ibnu Rusyd, (2006). Bidayatul Mujtahid, Takhrij Ahmad Abu al Majd, Pustaka Azzam, Jakarta, Jilid 1, hlm 237
[3] Lihat Abu Zakaria Muhyiddin Yahya al-Nawawy, (2000). Al- Majmu' ala Sarh Muhaddab, Dar al-Fikr, Beirut, jilid 3, hlm 167-168.
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"MY WIFE, I AM SORRY"
He woke up in the morning and found her praying. He heard her praying for him.He stared at her. It has been a long time since he
has seen her praying. For the past few months, they have been arguing. Last night, they had a nasty fight.He went to the kitchen in a hurry to prepare himself breakfast.
These past days, she hasn't been cooking for him. Shock on him. He found breakfast already set at the table. He ate. He went back to the bedroom, to prepare for a shower. She left the shower. "Good morning. Have a blessed day" she said as she entered the bedroom and he left for the bathroom. After his shower, all dressed up for work; he found his wife at the kitchen, eating breakfast in peace. She was looking at some funny videos on her phone and giggling. He looked at her then walked out the door. The last look he had of her before he left was of her at peace.
That last look disturbed him. This is not how she should be. This is not how she has been. He has been hurting her, she has recently found out that he has been flirting with other women, he has cheated once and used money meant for their family on other women. She should be angry.Her peaceful demeanor disturbed him.
Evening came. He went home and met his peaceful wife again. She was cooking and laughing with their children. She had come from work two hours ago.The dinner was enjoyable. Good food, she having warm conversations with the children. He as the father felt left out. His wife and children seemed to be having fun despite him hurting them.
After dinner, as she washed the dishes and the children had gone to bed. He approached her.
"Are you OK?" he asked her.
"I am more than OK. I am blessed "She answered.
"Are you not mad at me? After all that I am doing and have done wrong?" he asked.
She placed the washed plate in the rack then looked at him and said, "I asked myself, what is the most important relationship in my
life? The one I have with you or the one with God? And I realized it is the one with God. I live for God, not for you. Marrying you was a blessing but it is not all there is in life. God has blessed me with life and I will not waste it crying because of the hurt you cause me to feel"
She picked up a dirty glass and began washing it. "I realized I had given you too much power... Yes, you are my husband, the closest human being in my life and the human being I love the most; but you are not God. You have failed me but God never fails me. I will not let you ruin my joy, my peace and my progress. You break our marriage if you want to, but I will hold on to God. And as I hold on to God, I will be full of joy despite what you do" She said rinsing the glass.
She looked at him and continued, "When you hurt me and disrespected me, I realized I was acting out like a woman who has no God. I got mad and hurled insults, I wanted to revenge and I allowed you to mess me day after day. My performance at work went down, I talked less to our children, I became bitter to the children, I felt sorry for myself, I developed ulcers. And then I realized, I have God, I shouldn't act like someone with no relationship with God. Why should I be hopeless yet God is with me? I had focused so much on you that I forgot about God. When you found me, I had God. We dated and got married and I let everything be about you because I wanted to make our marriage work. Our marriage became the idol I worship instead of the blessing I have in God. Our marriage is failing apart because of you but my relationship with God is still intact"
She scrubbed the pot.
"You have chosen to abandon our marriage but that doesn't mean my whole world has collapsed. I will still continue being a good mother to our children. They will never say the problems between mom and dad, made mom a monster. You do as you please with other women, I will raise our children."
She looked at him and told him, "Do I hate you? No, it will be a lie to say I hate you. You are the man I married, the one I vowed to, the one I love"
Tears fell down her cheeks. She wiped them. "I can't just cancel all the years we have been together. The Quran as well as the Bible asks us to love our enemies. If I am able to love my enemies, surely I can still love you despite all you have done. I am angry and disappointed, but I have taken my power back. I live for God who has exceedingly blessed me, not for you and the pain you cause"
She wiped her wet hands, took the apron from her body and told him, "In my peace, I am planning on where the children and
I will move to. Since you have chosen to have an affair, you have shown clearly that you don't need us. So we will not make your life uncomfortable by forcing you to live with us. You need to be able to bring the woman you are cheating with to your own house. I am working on something. I came into this house in peace and I will leave in peace. You will not kill my smile and shine"
She walked to the bedroom. Minutes later. He followed her to the
bedroom. He found her peacefully asleep.He nudged her. He woke her up and said,
"Please don't go, don't move out. I will hurt you no more, I will cheat no more. I am not OK. I want the peace you have. I want to be the kind of husband you are as a wife."
Since that day, he has been a reformed man. No more affairs, no
more hurting her, no flirting with other women, or endless fights. She didn't move out. She and the children stayed. He submitted to God and learned how to be a good husband, Love is powerful enough to humble the most proud ....... I don't know what you are experiencing this morning but my prayer is ,may you enjoy over whatever you are going through and behold, God is going to rain everlasting peace and freedom upon your life...Amen.
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