Daily advice for HK immigrants to the West:
Regarding parenting, you need to let your children date whomever they want. If you bring your racist hierarchy to your view of your children’s dating life or marriage, you’d better not come. If you’re not prepared for your children to marry someone white, black or brown, don’t come over. This also means that you need to realign the way you view different races and the way you talk to your kids about that topic. It’s highly hypocritical to ask others not to be racist against you, only for you to be racist towards other non-white groups. That means developing an acceptance towards points of view of other races and cultures. That means modeling for your kids by having friends from different races, social economic classes and convictions. If you don't gain the multiple perspectives, even if you allow your children to marry interracially, you won’t get along with your in-laws, and your racism will create unnecessary conflicts. That just makes you a very bad person in a multicultural society. We have enough racism over here. We don’t need to have the HK version here.
