剛剛在看這篇文,就是在說彤妹
固執、難搞、講不聽,
其實他是個「意志堅強」的孩子。
https://www.in-parents.com/babynews/219/Parenting-Strong-Willed-Child
就拿戒尿布來說,疫情期間想讓她戒尿布,但她就是不換成內褲,我如果硬換,她就直接把內褲脫掉丟在地板上,直接走人.. 最近才會想自己去馬桶大小便(但還是不換內褲🙄)
才三歲就超有主見,怎麼軟硬兼施都沒用,做錯事情請她道歉,不道歉就是不道歉,被罰站也不道歉,最後站了40分鐘直到自己想通了才願意道歉…
不過她是意志力超強的小孩也沒錯,例如買給她的拼圖她都很有耐心,一定拼完才離開,還會重新再拼一次!
文章最後一段讓我心情有好些了👇👇
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#傾聽孩子
意志力超強的孩子往往非常注重自己的想法是否獲得重視,即使他還小,還沒有什麼真正的想法,但是如果他要說,爸媽要平心靜氣的聽。即使孩子正在做一個你覺得不合理的要求,爸媽還是要聽他說,聽聽他到底有什麼理由這樣要求。
教養意志力超強的孩子,對爸媽來說確實很辛苦、很有挑戰性,但是如果爸媽能夠進入他的內心,了解他的想法,同時引導他的行為,那麼報酬也是豐厚的,因為他獨立、堅持自己的想法,對自己喜歡做的事情有熱誠,這樣的孩子長大以後,往往會擁有誠實、果敢的品格,對事情有專注力,懂得區分是與非,不但能做好人,還能做好的領導者。當我們看到孩子走到這一步時,所有的辛苦也都值得了。
如果你家小孩也是這種個性,來看看文章吧!
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Yes I have an extremely wild, playful, and outgoing child.. most likely because I allow her to be herself. I see her strong-willed, free-spirited, so beautifully vibrant. No matter what other voices tell me, I am here to guide and cooperate, not to shape and control her.
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What I admire most about Georgia is that she says no unapologetically. No means no and she stands by her decision.
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Even when she changes her mind (which is rarely), she does it because she wants to, not because of FOMO or that she wants to please us.
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So many times in life, work and business, we agree to things half-heartedly because we don’t want to be seen as difficult. If you truly don’t mind something, that’s fine. But if your gut is telling you no and you say yes, that’s when internal struggles and anxiety begin.... simply because we don’t know how to say no.
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We feel like we need to come up with excuses and explanation for refusing things. Guess what? We don’t.
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What I’m trying to say is that dear friends, it perfectly acceptable to refuse something and say NO 🙅🏻♀️ like a strong-willed child. As Georgia says it - “No, I don’t want to.” Full stop.
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It takes practise but it would come easily the more you say no to things that don’t serve you.
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Leave a “YES”👇🏻 if you’re going start honouring yourself and your needs this week. 💪🏻
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