關於 tell me why are we ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

SHOULD YOU QUIT YOUR JOB NOW?

“You have to help me quit my job!”

Even though the video was off, I could tell from Bria’s voice that she was in tears. This strong woman couldn’t keep herself together anymore.

“You’re experiencing strong emotions now. That’s very natural,” I said, wanting to help her feel safe and accepted.

After all, Bria and I had only met once in an event. Knowing that I was a coach, she reached out the next day to see if I could help.

If there’s anything I’ve learned from my years of coaching, it’s that when the person is emotional, you need to give them the space to feel it.

So as Bria sobbed, I stayed silent, feeling my belly rise and fall with each breath. After a short while, I could sense that her wave of emotion had passed.

“Shall we take one long easy breath together?” I asked.

I heard her breathing with me. I paused, allowing Bria the time to settle, then I asked her to tell me what’s so difficult to her about her job.

After listening to her sharing, I said: “I can definitely help you, Bria.” I heard a sigh of relief on the other end. “But only if you promise me you won’t quit your job yet.”

3 months after that conversation, Bria waltzed in my office one evening holding a bottle of red wine: “Let’s celebrate!”

She had a giddy grin on her face, the very special grin with a dimple that I’d come to love after many hours supporting her. “Oh! Is it okay for us to drink a glass of wine in our coaching session?” She asked.

I laughed: “Of course. What are we celebrating?”

Bria said, her face brightened even more: “I just realized today that I have the perfect job!”

The most fascinating thing about this story is that the “perfect job” she referred to was the exact same job she had practically begged me to help her quit.

Bria’s circumstances hadn’t changed. But her experiences of the circumstances had changed 180 degrees. Why? Because she did.

Bria’s story teaches me once again, that life is truly created from the inside out.
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👉 Dig deeper on why you should not quit your job yet with this article: https://bit.ly/2XB64q0

Q1: What is success mean to you?
I'm not sure what defines success, for me, success or failure is just a “phenomenon” that keeps changing. “Everything with form is unreal; if all forms are seen as unreal, the Tathagata will be perceived.” There is no rule to achieve success, we don’t know whether or not we can succeed before we start exploring.

Q2: How did you get into film and media? Can you tell me about your childhood?
As a child, I was obsessed with children's literature and illustrations, it was the reason I decided to study Design in HK PolyU. My first scriptwriting class in School of Creative Media, was a turning point. Dr. Tam Ka Ming’s teachings guided me towards the film industry. All I know is that I couldn’t help but follow my desire to use a camera to tell stories. It’s what led me drifting down this life-long career path. At the age of 23, I filmed my first movie, “High Noon". It portrays the dilemma of teens becoming adults and stepping into society.

Q3: How do you approach story or scene as a director, and what do you want to achieve on set?
The motifs of my movies are youth, growth, desire, bright and dark sides of human nature.
I think making movie is a journey of “Discovery”, “Recovery” and “Being”. Youth and teen growth is not only the topic for my debut, it is the topic of life that I concern.

Q4: Why you also started a talent agency? You also produce, why you choose to do so many things?
When I started my company Dumb Youth, my 1st intention was to protect those artists. Then I realize that a part of my role in life is to embrace my life with my "companions". I believe that the people and things around us coexists in the same space for a reason. I live by the Kahlil Gibran quote: “And all work is empty save when there is love”.

Q5: What inspires you about the film world and in HK Film Industry?
Love and Death, Lust and Desire, Humanity and Spirituality, lightness, heaviness and thickness.

For Hong Kong Film industry, I think the creativity and imagination always inspire me the most, and most importantly, people here have the ability to find humor amongst adversity.

Thanks Prestige HK 🙏🏼🤍
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On the #prestige40under40 list this year, Heiward Mak is a talented film director, producer, scriptwriter and artist manager. She recounts her incredible journey in the film industry via the link in bio.

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Topic: Struggling with Stress Eating

This was me 7 days ago

I resisted eating like a mad dog for 5 days after my recent F Up, but sadly I just repeated another stress eating, finished devouring so much fast food all under 5-10 min

I shot this pic to remind myself that I fk up again…

Normally my instinct is to Go to the Gym & Lift

But this time I didn’t do that, instead I just ate like a mad man again who looked like he hasn’t eaten for 45 days

And I’ve faced this episode - many many times

This was one of those things I know that if I kept doing, it’s just gonna end up really bad for myself

And the truth is, I wasn’t willing to deal with the stress at the time and kept holding on to it, ending in another terrible binge eat that made me felt depressed & pissed off about myself

It was a downward spiral as I started to depend on Food more than ever - Not for energy & health purpose but more towards mental temporary relief

And I had enough

Enough of the BS I tell myself - that it’s okay to just eat and enjoy the moment

Enough of Stress Eating - it’s time to earn back self control & discipline

It starts now

I’m sharing this, not to gain pity, but because I know how fkn hard stress eating messes up my body and I didn’t know whom to talk to - because normally it’s people who reached out to me!

I felt ashamed as I tell people to show up and keep the fire burning, but my own fire is being put off by myself

Whatever my personal reasons are - it is not an excuse to keep fking up, and that’s why I’m sharing this publicly to hold myself accountable to all of you, and to commit to a Plan

I don’t believe in perfection - but I believe in owning up to my shit & to take full control to transform into the Beast I know I am Capable of being

I hope this simple sharing can give some of you who struggle with the same problem - some courage & energy to change something for the better

I know it’s tough af, but you’re not alone and that you can be in control, as long as you’re willing to put in the effort 🔥

We are in this together - Let’s do this 💯

#KeepTheFireBurning

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Lyrics:

I know that it's wrong
我知道事情的走向不對
Thinking I could call you up
本以為我可以給你打電話挽回
You said we were done
你說我們已經結束了
But I'm not good at moving on
但我卻無法開始新的生活

Cause my memory keeps replaying
回憶揮之不去
And my heart just won't stop breaking
我心碎不已
Oh I wish you'd pick up the phone
我多希望你可以再給我一個機會

And tell me that I’m not the only one who's so afraid to be lonely
告訴我不止我一人如此害怕孤獨
Tell me what we had is tearing you apart and baby, you know it
告訴我 憶起我們曾擁有的一切讓你悲痛欲絕
I still miss you
你明知我仍心悅於你
And I need you
你於我而言不可或缺
And I don't know why we let it go
我不懂為何我們就這樣結束
So tell me that I'm not the only one who's so afraid to be lonely
請讓我知曉不止我一人如此害怕孤單

Can you fall asleep?
你能否安然入睡
Are you wishing you were here with me?
你是否仍希望與我一起
Did you really mean
你對我講的一字一句
Everything you said to me
是否認真

Cause my memory keeps replaying
回憶難以忘懷
And my heart just won’t stop breaking
我心如刀割
Oh I wish you'd pick up the phone
我多希望你可以再給我一個機會

And tell me that I'm not the only one who's so afraid to be lonely
告訴我不止我一人如此害怕孤獨
Tell me what we had is tearing you apart and baby, you know it
告訴我 那些曾經也讓你悲痛欲絕
I still miss you
你明知我仍心悅於你
And I need you
我求你不得
And I don't know why we let it go
我疑惑於為何我們就此告別
So tell me that I'm not the only one who’s so afraid to be lonely
請讓我知曉不止我一人如此害怕孤單

Tell me that I'm not the only one who's so afraid to be lonely
請告訴我你亦需要我
Tell me what we had is tearing you apart and baby, you know it
告訴我 回憶起那些美好也讓你肝腸寸斷
I miss you
你明知我忘不了你
And I need you
你於我而言不可或缺
And I don't know why we let it go
我不知為何我們的感情草草收場
So tell me that I’m not the only one who's so afraid to be lonely
所以讓我知曉你也為此感到遺憾

And tell me that I’m not the only one who's so afraid to be lonely
告訴我不止我一人害怕孤單
(Lonely)
孤單
Tell me what we had is tearing you apart and baby, you know it
告訴我 回憶起往事讓你肝腸寸斷
(I can't take this anymore)
這樣的生活我再也無法承受
I still miss you
你明知我對你情有獨鍾
(I still miss you)
想念你
And I need you
我無法忍受沒有你的生活
(And I need you)
需要你
And I don't know why we let it go
我不懂為何我們就此別過
So tell me that I'm not the only one who's so afraid to be lonely
所以請告訴我你亦無法釋懷

歌詞翻譯: inshepao

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Lyrics:
Halfway down to KO
(fuwa fuwa)
I’ll float until tomorrow
Time to get it started now
Fall to tears or laugh and jeer, just never let me go
Come and say no
Bellow echo down the road

“Oh, how I wish I could see it”
This life is so damn boring
Lonely logic loading, the lies so slick and flowing
Muddy water slowing, a buzz too bad for knowing how
It kills me, but it thrills me
Hey, keep it （keep it） going
On your feet again
Fight until there’s only power left
We’ll buddy up, you and me, we’ll take the lead
It’s destiny so chill no worries
Alright now I’m in so don’t mind
Waves of struggle? Let’s ride, surfing in the limelight
That’s right, huh
Oh damn, hear the cracks I’m in the zone

Halfway down to KO
(fuwa fuwa)
I’ll float until tomorrow
Time to get it started now
Fall to tears or laugh and jeer, just never let me go
Come and say no
Bellow echo down the road

Yeah, party until the morning
Woah woah
We’ll dance to the beat, we’ll dance to the beat
All us lonely souls will set it free now
Woah woah
The pain from below, likes in a row
Sayonara bye bye let’s go

[RAP]
You know that I’m the best around, and
imma show you right now why you dropped the crown
It's just business, babe; I gotta cop the dough
We at the blackout party so I’ll change the flow
It's just crazy how all of my critics
They call me so lazy but they cannot phase me
It’s all about the gloves on, mask off
You really wanna get down? hands up, lets go

D-D-Destatution, solutions, for feeling inadequate
Solutions of fluids the platelets will clot again
Up and down the tension
You never learn your lesson
That gushing pumping mess is everything that keeps me stressin’ my shot

Love me, I love you not
(NOT)
Watch me or watch me not
(NOT NOT)
Whining until you call out to stop it
Dancing with my lying eyes I purr purr purr
Yeah, come and give me your word, I’ll talk first
Sing ‘til we burn

[RAP]
Ay, get hit with the beatdown
My 1-2 blows and my verses are renowned
Now listen to the ground shakin’ from that bass sound
Get down to the funk, but this ain’t no uptown
Now lemme tell ya, I’m really sick of this hypocrisy
These Mephistopheles’ they probably owe me a big apology
For doubting me I know the fans are proud of me
That’s all I need so let's go

Halfway down to KO

Woah woah
We’ll dance to the beat, we’ll dance to the beat
All us lonely souls will set it free now
Woah woah
The pain from below, likes in a row
Party until the morning
Woah woah
Another round is coming Let’s go
Woah woah
I’ll see you again, survive ‘till the end
Sayonara bye bye let’s go
（https://youtu.be/ZzHiXNS8JPk）

【無聲的嘆息 The Silent Sigh】I wrote this song about 18 months ago, 4 months after my breakup, never had the chance to post it because I was practicing my singing part, never nailed it so bailed it.
For those of you who don't know me well, including my close ones. I have been through 7 relationships, which means I fell in love 7 times. Every time I go through a breakup I repost this "People come and go, most of them just walk by. Life moves on. But some day I wish just one will stop by. Then, life goes on."

I don't stop. I don't stop working, I don't stop learning, I don't stop loving. I will always love hard and always harder. Love myself, love my family, friends. Love everyone, love those whom do not feel, love those who temp me to fall the most. For love has no limit, and knows no boundaries.

I am who I am.

Thank you for everyone who was a part of this relationship, may grace fall upon you like it has to me.

【無聲的嘆息 The Silent Sigh】Lyrics
you said you love me,
You said you care,
Seeing your text makes me feel you are near.
就像你的呼吸 輕踩踏旋律 此時此刻
溫柔的在我心裡 烙印下你的每刻
Happy moments is all I remember.
I mean forever, Almost got there.

Time flies, and there goes two years.
Told me to move to Paris,
I said I was scared.
I have no money
I'm not sure
But you said we can share.
No more fear
而我信了
還有彼此陪著

(C)
When the sky is blue
When the street reflects the moon
It is so beautiful
卻少了些什麼

When the sky is blue
When the street reflects the moon
It is so beautiful
還有什麼好在乎
I pray that love would come true.

-V2-
June 23rd,
We said goodbye at the airport,
you left with tears.
Hoping we would meet again in a different air.
I said don't worry, I'll be there.
我信守諾言來到巴黎
獨自一人遭受眾人質疑
我從不懷疑自己
雖然預想到了
但一切向我衝來時
我還是怕了
You are no longer there
Disappeared
And I can't find you anywhere
那並不是你的錯
但我還抱著希望祈求過
I'm stressed out, I'm pulling out my hair.
Never thought that would be the last time we felt for each other.
Please God, tell me Why life is so unfair,
Maybe I was just the missing puzzle of why you fear.

-RnB-
It's been a while,
You know?
I still miss you
I miss your ironic smile
I miss the way you look at me acorss the aisle
In your eyes 愛存在

You know?
I still think of you,
I don't want to but I just do,
I think of you when I'm alone,
when I'm walking to school,
before I close my eyes to snooze.

You know?
沒有你的巴黎
少了點浪漫氣息
那些一起的憧憬
暫時停留在心底
I never thought I would lose.
Lose my sleep, my mood
But never you...


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