Ustaz Datuk Kazim Elias ada share 4 punca kenapa satu-satu perkahwinan tu tak bahagia.
Sebab duit ke? Sebab rupa? Atau sebab agama semata?
1. Punca pertama ialah sebab semua benda isteri buat. Basuh baju isteri, kemas isteri, masak isteri. Sedangkan isteri ni cuma dituntut untuk layan suami je. Jadi, tak perlu ke isteri buat semua tu? Isteri solehah dia TOLONG buat kerja. Bantu sama membantu. Masing-masing kena faham erti tanggungjawab.
...Continue ReadingUstaz Datuk Kazim Elias has shared 4 reasons why the marriage is unhappy.
Because of money? Because of the look? Or just because of religion?
The first 1. reasons are because all the wives do. Wash wife's clothes, clean the wife, cook the wife. While the wife is only claimed to treat her husband. So, don't the wife have to do all that? His pious wife HELP him do the job. Help together help. Everyone needs to understand the meaning of responsibility.
Ustaz said it, the more husband feels easy to relax and do nothing, the easier he forgets his responsibility. It's not that you're going back to tell your husband ′′ You, starting today I don't want to wash the clothes what's all cooking
No no no.
Difficult things will be easy when you do it together. Don't be happy together. When it's difficult, it's just a couple. No no no 🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️
2. Second reasons why we don't understand the ATTITUDE of our own partners.
It's easy to take care of this man as Ustaz Kazim said.
1-Feed full food. Zahir and inner heart. May everything be considered a worship. Amen oh Lord.
2-Where the husband went, followed! Hahaha 😂
As long as you can follow, follow.
3. The third reason is because we don't accept that is our partner. Many people only appreciate someone and then someone dies. So it's not good to wait for your husband or wife to die and then to say, ′′ Nothing is like my husband / wife." 😢
We won't know our partner as long as we don't share the same house, sekatil, pillow with him. Even his parents won't know him as deep as we know him. That's why, the wife knows her husband than her mother she knows her.
But a smart man, a religious man, a pious woman will always consider that the partner is a GIFT.
There is a couple, be grateful. Because there are still many who still Allah doesn't grant his prayers for couple. So be thankful.
Not happy nowadays, want to get a partner who prays, who reads, whose living is not crafty. So if we get a partner like that, learn to appreciate even though she is not beautiful to boroi to what.
Hat boroi, tak lawa, no comey to anything, there is Allah nak test us, which one of us is the most LAUGHING. Choosing religion, overcomes everything.
4. The last one, the reason is when someone doesn't become happy with each other. Yee, learn to be a fun couple.
If our partner likes so much, so we try to give so much or more. The most important thing is to work, let the rest decide. God willing.
The Ustaz shared again, this disaster he came in 3 forms:
• EXAMS
• TERRIBLE
• BULLET
If we feel that in marriage we're always a disaster, let's see these three. Which one is actually that Allah wants to show.
The test is for the believers. He gave an example, Asiah who is pious married to the evil Pharoah. That's a test for him.
The one that Allah tests someone is soleh solehah, the prayer is not left, the recitation is not missing, the fasting is full but the years of not having a That's a test of his name. And this test is no other than to lift the position of taqwa and our faith higher. Be patient and be happy with Allah's test.
The second, the misfortune that mai in the form of reprimand. Allah sends this because Allah wants to tell us to return to the goodness.
For example, we are careless of chasing money here, rich here and there, papppp Allah gives an accident. Can't find the cause of sustenance anymore. That's a warning. Maybe we don't pray humble. We make worship but a lot of crafty. So, Allah wants to flick a little to give advice. Want to let us go back to Him. So, don't talk about Allah. Allah doesn't do anything in vain
The last thing is this disaster come in the form of bullet or punishment.
In this marriage, if we want peace, we have to learn to ACCEPT. Accept what Allah gives. Acceptance is our partner. Accept all Allah's tests.
If it's one moment later Allah tests it without sustenance for a long mate, no fortune to be with.
′′ If you still can, hold it well, if you can't, let it go well."
Always learn to steal husband / wife's heart. Learn to take all the rewards that Allah wants to give in marriage. Learn to be a person who thirsts for reward.
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third mate 在 Bikepacker Min - 單車背包客 Facebook 的最佳貼文
【素人推薦文-最重要的夥伴】
四年前,我請在旅途中遇到的兩位好朋友,幫我寫一段他們對我的感想。不愧是我的好朋友,所以在兩年前,我終於收到了其中一位瓦倫的回覆(我們是拖時間比賽嗎XD)。當我現在要把他們整理到書裡面時,覺得NG的片段也太好笑了,所以決定一刀未剪的放上來給大家瞧瞧,你就會知道,在路上可能會遇到什麼樣沒頭沒腦只會拼命講幹話的好朋友 :D (以下是我的翻譯,原文可以往下跳到最後)
「兩位:
我終於找到時間寫些句子給Min,這真的不是一件容易的事情,因為當我開始認真寫個三句話之後,就會忍不住接一些廢話進去。這真的不是一件容易的事,試想看看,如果你得寫一篇關於某人好話的文章,但其實你心裡清楚她其實是個騙子,因為她總是跑去搭火車?
因此,這是我第一個嘗試:
Min是一個像金一樣純的人,她充滿愛和精神,總是穿白色衣服。她沒有騎車,而是在地球上飛行了50厘米。 不...他媽的!
第二次嘗試:
親愛的人們,我必須警告您:這本書是一本幻想小說!如果作者寫了幾公里這樣的文字,很有可能實際上是公尺;當她寫單車時,她意味著火車;當她寫帳篷時,其實指的是一間三星級酒店。
第三次嘗試:
關於第一個騎單車的背包客女子從德國乘火車到臺灣的簡短故事。
我第一次遇到Min時是在德黑蘭的土庫曼大使館大樓外。她問我:「您是Vali嗎?德國人,騎單車前往烏茲別克斯坦嗎?我是Min,我也想去那裡,我們可以一起騎嗎?」
那時候,我不想結識其他騎單車的人。某方面來講,我已經聽夠別人的故事,並很享受自己一個人的旅行。自從我的旅伴朱莉從伊斯坦堡離開我之後,我便開始享受旅途中的寂靜與寂寞。所以我並不想和Min一起旅行,但我只是回答她:「好吧,...是的,好吧,如果我們都能順利拿到簽證,就可以一起騎車。」於是她問了我的聯繫方式,最後她也真的打電話給我一起去領取簽證。
我們開始一起旅行時,我的伊朗簽證只剩9天,因此我每天必須不斷地趕路,我不確定Min是否能夠跟上,因為這將會改變騎車的節奏。但是當我開始認識Min時,我發現她是一個有趣的女孩,一個只燃燒熱情就打算從慕尼黑回到臺灣的女人,充滿了理想和天真。
她只是單純的展開了計劃,在還不知道接下來會發生什麼事,也沒有任何騎乘單車和露營經驗的情況下。她帶了一個彈出式的帳篷,那種帳篷你只會為了在車上應付緊急情況而準備的帳篷;是當你可能在開高速公路回家的路上,因為太過於勞累,而決定扔出這種圓形帳篷休息一下才會用到的那種。而她的單車也沒有前袋,所以她所有的裝備都扛在單車的後面以及她的背上,因為她竟然背了一個背包!實際上,她是第一個騎單車從德國到臺灣的背包客。這就是Min令人印象深刻的一件事:她有這個想法,然後她做到了。
她得到一台贊助的單車和一些贊助的裝備,然後就拿著這些東西展開旅程。她的思考模式不像我這樣的德國人,在計劃開始之前必須擁有完美的單車和完美的裝備。對她而言,在還沒有這些條件之前就可以動身了。我永遠不會知道她何時開始計劃,以及為何要做這趟旅行,我想連她自己都不確定,即使在書裡她告訴了你們不同的故事。
所以在伊朗的時候,我們開始認識彼此,而我的內心也開始轉變,我發現和Min一起騎車真是太好了。
有一天我們還遇到了香港人Senda,傍晚我們一起紮營時,他們兩個在抱怨伊朗米飯因為不夠粘稠,所以不能用筷子吃。請想像一下,有三個人聚集在他們各自的帳篷前,在伊朗沙漠中繁星密布的星空下,而我這顆德國馬鈴薯陷入了一場關於米飯的討論之中。我不得不為自己大笑,當我告訴他們在煮飯時我加了鹽時,他們倆都非常生氣。從這種情況下,我了解到米對於Min、Senda和其他將米作為主食的人來說是非常重要的。於是,我決定再也不會煮米飯給他們,因為他們比我更知道如何煮好米飯。
之後Senda前往阿富汗,Min和我前往馬沙德(Mashad),我們就此分開直到在烏茲別克再度相見。在土庫曼斯坦的途中,我遇到了一個叫雷蒙,又名骯髒的旅行者的瘋子,我們一起前進,當我們離開土庫曼斯坦時,我們又遇到了Min,組成一個黃金三角的夢幻單車隊。雷蒙非常熱愛騎單車,是一個非常可愛的傢伙。我們三個在一起的時刻如此獨特,在一起共享每一天,只有在夜晚時,被帳篷的薄布分開。我們一起騎單車,一起出汗,一起奮鬥,一起度過美好的夜晚,同時在帳篷前烹飪美味佳餚,共享非常愉快的自由與自主的時光。當我現在回想起來,不得不承認那是我一生中最美好的時光。Min是其中很大的一部分。
如果您想進一步了解Min和她的冒險經歷,則必須購買此書。真是太神奇了,我在馬桶上翻起書頁,就在那待了兩天,直到看完為止。讀這本書就像呼吸吉爾吉斯斯坦高原的空氣一樣,就像在雷蒙身後騎車並聞到他的屁味一樣。這將是一本暢銷書,是一本令人難忘的書。絕對推薦!買吧!」
-Valentin R (一位來自德國的瘋狂自行車旅人,和Min一起旅行了兩個月)
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來來來~想要一起蹲在馬桶上兩天的請往這裡請
👉https://pse.is/minbook
🤭我個人是很好奇, 他到底蹲了兩天看什麼東西?
🤔不要說我的書沒有德文版, 連中文都還在做編輯...
🤫到底是看了什麼啊...? XDDDD
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(原文)
Hey guys,
while staying for four days in Bangkok to repair audio amplifiers for rich Thai men I finally I found the time to write some sentences about Min and it was really not easy, because when I start writing something like this, I will write bullshit after three sentences. It is really not easy. Have you ever written something about another person and you have to talk good about this person while you know she is a liar and always went by train?
So the first try:
Min is pure gold. She is full of love and spirit and always wears white clothes. She is not cycling, she is flying fifty centimeters over the earth. NOOOOO fuck it!
second try:
Dear people, I have to warn you: this book is a fantasy book! If the author writes about kilometers on the bicycles she meant probably meters. When she writes bicycle she means train, when she writes tent she means three star hotel.......NOOOOO shit!
third try:
A short story about the first backpacker woman on a bicycle who travelled from Germany to Taiwan in a train
The first time I met Min was at the Turkmen embassy building in Teheran when she encountered me and asked: „Are you Vali, the German guy travelling to Uzbekistan by bike? I am Min, I also want to go there and I wanted to ask you if we can ride together?“
At this time I didn't want to know any other cyclists, somehow I was bored to hear stories of others while I was having a great adventure by myself. I enjoyed the silence and loneliness on the road since Jule, my cycle mate, left me in Istanbul. So actually I didn't want to travel with Min in the first moment, but I just answered to Min: „Well,...yes..., ok, if we get the visas we can ride together.“ So she asked for my contact and she really called me to pick up the visas.
I only had nine days left in Iran before my visa expired so we had to go really quick and I didn't know if Min was able to catch up. It was a change in rhythm for my bike tour, but when I started to know Min I found out that she is a funny girl with a burning ambition to fulfill her aim travelling by bicycle from Munich in Germany to her home country of Taiwan. A woman full of spirit and a good portion of naivety. She just started the trip without knowing what will come and without any experience of cycling and camping before this trip. She was equipped with a pop up tent, the kind of tent you have in the car for an emergency, when you are still on the highway and you get to tired to drive home. So you have this kind of round tent that you can throw and it pops up as a tent by itself. She also didn't have front panniers (bags) on her bike, so all her equipment was in the back – and also on her back, because she was wearing a backpack! Actually she was the first backpacker on a bicycle to travel from Germany to Taiwan. And that is the impressing thing about Min: she had the idea to do this trip, so she just did. She got a sponsored bike and some kind of sponsored equipment and she just took this and started the tour. She didn't think the German way like me who had to have a perfect bicycle and perfect equipment before I started. No, she just started without any spare parts for the bicycle, without any experience in cycling and camping. I never found out when she started to have this idea and why and probably she doesn't know herself even if she tells you different in this book.
So in the time in Iran we got to know each other and my mood was turning and I found out that it is nice to cycle with Min.
On day we also met Senda, an Hongkongnesian guy and in the evening Min and him were complaining about the Iranian rice, because it is not sticky so you cannot eat it with chop sticks. So you must imagine three people in front of their tents under a really nice Iranian starry sky in the desert and me as a German potato in the middle of this rice dicussion. I had to laugh for myself a lot and when I told them that I put salt in the rice when I cook it, the both got really angry. From this situation I learnt that rice must be something really important for Min, Senda and other people that eat rice as staple food. This night I decided to never cook any rice for them, because the knew it always better in terms of rice.
Senda went on to Afghanistan and Min and me went on to Mashad and we divided there to meet up in Uzbekistan again. On the way through Turkmenistan I met a crazy guy called Raimon a.k.a. Dirty Traveller and we went on together and when we left Turkmenistan we met Min again forming the golden triangle of cyclism, a dream team. Raimon is really passionate about cycling and a really lovely dude. We three had so much unique moments together, sharing the whole day together, only the nights we were divided by the thin cloth of our tents. We cycled together, we sweat together, we fighted together, we had nice evenings together while cooking nice dishes in front of our tents and having a really good time of freedom and self-determination. When I think back to this time now I have to admit that it was somehow the best time of my life. And Min was a big part of it.
If you want to know more about Min and her adventures you have to buy this book. It is totally amazing, I read it on the toilet and stayed there for two days until I finished reading. Reading this book is like breathing in the air of the Kyrgizian Plateau, it is like smelling the fart of Raimon while riding close behind him. It is just a best seller. It is the book that takes you and never leaves you. Absolute recommendation! Buy it!
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Nuggets forward Reggie Evans said it was going to take time for everything to come together under the leadership of Allen Iverson.
Try two games.
Iverson had 28 points and 13 assists in Denver's 116-105 victory over the Boston Celtics on Tuesday night.
"I'd say we're real comfortable with him now," said Evans, who had 14 points and 14 rebounds coming off the bench.
Iverson picked up his second double-double -- and first win -- since being acquired by Denver for Andre Miller, Joe Smith and two first-round picks in 2007 on Dec. 19.
He and backcourt mate Earl Boykins, who may be the smallest tandem in the league, ran the Celtics around the court all evening. Boykins finished with 28 points as well.
"Earl and I are just playing good together," Iverson said. "I just wanted to make it easy for him and make it easier for everybody."
Iverson definitely made it easier for everybody. Iverson had permission from Nuggets coach George Karl to shoot more and pass less.
But he preferred to get his teammates involved.
"That's why he's a great teammate," said Eduardo Najera, who had 16 points and 11 boards. "His leadership is helping us a lot."
Had things gone differently, Iverson could've been a member of the Celtics, who were also in the running for his skills. The Celtics certainly saw what they missed out on Tuesday night.
"I honestly just have a lot of respect for the Boston organization and for them being interested in me in the way they were," Iverson said. "You always have to feel good about somebody wanting your talent. If that had happened, I would have given them the same thing that I'm going to give the Denver Nuggets organization -- just playing hard."
The Nuggets needed Iverson's energy with Carmelo Anthony and J.R. Smith missing for the third game after receiving their suspensions for their roles in a brawl with the New York Knicks on Dec. 16. Denver is now 2-1 since Anthony was suspended 15 games and Smith for 10.
"Until Melo and J.R. are back on the court, Earl and A.I. are going to have a lot of responsibility," said Karl, who earned the 799th win of his career. He has a chance for No. 800 against a team he used to coach, the Seattle SuperSonics, on Thursday. "It was sure fun to watch."
Boston coach Doc Rivers was missing Paul Pierce for the second straight game with a left foot injury and Wally Szczerbiak with a right ankle sprain. Delonte West, who started in place of Sebastian Telfair, had to be helped off the court just before halftime when he rolled off Boykins and fell on his back.
West started the second half but came out soon after. He finished with 11 points.
Tony Allen scored 18 points for Boston. He had a career-high 30 points against Denver 11 days ago. Al Jefferson had 16 points and a career-high 15 rebounds, while Gerald Green added 18 points.
"I thought the effort was great, the execution was poor," Rivers said. "Our defense was disappointing."
After Iverson's debut against Sacramento on Friday night, Karl encouraged the point guard to be less unselfish. In his first game, Iverson preferred to get his new teammates involved, having just arrived in town with only a rudimentary knowledge of the offense.
But he won't be bashful any longer. He has three practices under his belt.
"I got it," Iverson said of the offense. "This is the system that I always wanted to play in -- just run, run, run all the time."
Run and run some more was exactly what Denver did against Boston.
"You can't let them relax," Iverson said. "We just want to run (teams) down all the time."

third mate 在 pennyccw Youtube 的最佳解答
If the outcome was a surprise to anyone, those people need to check themselves.
Temple was faced with a huge task yesterday and didn't deliver. Not so much because of effort as inability.
Against Georgetown, the nation's fifth-ranked team, the Owls posed little resistance as sophomore sensation Allen Iverson went for 24 points. Victor Page, his freshman backcourt mate, added 18 - with an aerial show for emphasis - as the Hoyas breezed to a 74-49 win over Temple in the second round of the Preseason National Invitation Tournament at USAir Arena.
The win advanced the Hoyas (2-0) to New York for the tournament semifinals Wednesday night against Georgia Tech. The Owls (1-1) headed home for an eight- day break.
"I learned a lot today," Temple coach John Chaney said. "I learned I've got some good people on this team.
"No one was pointing fingers at each other. It's easy to handle the high tide, and everyone's a good guy when you're winning. But when you lose, that's when you test the spirit of your players."
The framework of the game was established within a few seconds: The Hoyas would score off fastbreaks, follow layups or post moves, and score they would. And the Owls could do very little to stop them.
Jerome Williams (14 points, 12 rebounds) converted a layup on the first play of the game. A Temple turnover followed and Boubacar Aw scored on another layup, indicating what was on the horizon.
The Hoyas, sparked by a running jumper and two layups by Iverson, opened with an 11-2 run and kept going. Temple tried creeping up from behind, getting a follow slam by Huey Futch (seven points), and a couple of layups from Johnny Miller, but the closest the Owls got was seven points (30-23) with 4 minutes, 28 seconds left in the half.
Then Page went to work, hitting two free throws and two jumpers, then punctuating the half with a spectacular flying slam over Lynard Stewart, enabling Georgetown to go up, 42-27, at the break.
"You can never give Temple but so much," Georgetown coach John Thompson said. "They just chip away at you . . . But the key was the lack of that third guard. We knew they didn't have that, and we wanted to attack their guards and take advantage."
That would explain Temple's difficulty in running plays, setting screens, having anyone but the point guard distributing the ball. The Owls also had 14 turnovers and shot just 26 percent in the second half.
The bright spot, as expected, was Miller. The "other" sophomore guard was 0 for 5 on three-pointers in the first half, causing more problems for Temple, but came to life in the second half, finishing with 21 points on 9-for-22 shooting.
His help, however, was scarce.
Miller knifed his way through the lane numerous times, only to have his passes dropped or open layups missed. The turnovers fueled Georgetown's momentum, which made the outcome that much more predictable.
"We didn't play our game," Miller said after battling Iverson all day. ''Playing them is good for this team because of the pressure they threw at us, but losing never is good. We've got to come back from this and just play our game, that's all."
The Hoyas never stopped playing theirs as Iverson and Page took over in the second half. Steals, high-flying dunks, assists, rebounds . . . name it and they did it, and no one other than Miller had an answer.
Temple scored just four points in the first 6:20 of the second half. The Owls made just 33 percent of their shots, shot only seven free throws, were outrebounded, 47-34, and had just four assists.
It was a learning experience that might come in handy against the top-notch opponents Temple will play later this season. But it didn't make the day any better.
"The best time to test your team is the early portion of the season. That's why this was a good game for us," Chaney said.
