關於 would you like something else ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

Truly learning to appreciate the small things in life these days. Going through the two years of cut down and at times zero events and productions made me really appreciate each and every gig that I managed to land. I guess I kinda took it for granted that events and gigs were all gonna be there.. Well until this happened.

Like honestly I didn’t even realise just how much I actually loved my singing, acting and emceeing gigs! The kind of elation I would feel when I was able to be on a filming set and the high that came from a satisfactory performance I had on stage.

There were many times when I self-doubted my value and I’d just be like, never mind I’d just do something else then. I thought it’d be easy to well give up and find something different.. but now, I guess I just wanna do better. Thank you all who’s given me opportunities and trusted me to do the job through the years.. It was not just earnings, it was experiences and happiness. 😌

May the new norm still involve a gig economy k~

#motivation #happiness #thankful #theroadahead

Halfway through 2021.. (a pretty lengthy post)

It's a time to remind me to relook at my goals and focus again😌 This would mean there will be some changes in my social media content and choosing what is good for me. Focusing on my work, trying to stabilize it and setting out the new plans.

Now when it comes to my kids... at every stage of their life, I'm always learning how to handle them and making changes to how we can all improve. Recently, I have adopted a reward point system, which I was against it previously. WHY?🤔 Because I did not feel the need to reward something which I feel that it's their responsibility or duty?

Sometimes, we do need to take a step back and try if it works WHEN ALL ELSE FAIL 🤣. Like I always tell my kid, "If you never try, you will never know."

So I started the rewards system. Initially, I used an app (@wearesmoresup) that was shared in my IGS, but I encountered a problem. I did not allow my kids to use gadgets, so the app became pointless even though I really love it and how I wish they have web version too.

Anyway, back to rewards, so I set the rules even on basic stuff, so they can feel that goals are easily achievable which in turns helps to motivate them on tougher work.

Steps on making rewards work
1. Give each other a time of adaptation (磨合期), like a week. So you will know what to adjust and the kids know how the system works.
2. Points are rewarded when they do it automatically. Once you have to remind them, they will not be rewarded any points.
3. Be fair. Especially if u have more than 1 child, both tasks and consequences are to set the same, unless the age gap are too big.
4. Encourage them to help remind each other on the task they need to do.
5. Pin it up at the living room or place where they spent most of their time.
6. Give simple rewards, like extra TV time, play time, outdoor activity instead of toys all the way.

I set their rewards according to the points. So whenever they hit the points, they can redeem it. So example:

Extra play time 20 points
Superpark 150 points
Science Centre 50 points

so if they have 200 points, they can choose to redeem any of the rewards above.

Ok, that's about the rewards. Here comes the schedule.

All along, I did the schedule just for myself and one to put outside. But this time round, I made a slight change, I do for the girls too. So each one of them have their own schedule chart. They will have to follow the schedule that is given to them.

It's just less than 5 days of trying how this whole thing works, but so far I have seen slight improvement especially on Xin He. No more screaming at her to wake up in the morning. That's is very important, because we all want to start our day nice. 🤭

When I shared about the rewards and schedule in my IGs, many people has requested for my template, so I have put up the template here lnk.bio/missyqiqi. Feel free to download and use it. Hope it helps, and welcome any suggestions or ideas 💡 that we can all improve together!

#喀琿畫話 #喀琿日付

小孩子才做選擇，我全都要！

Choosing is for rookies, I want it all!

軟體📝 #procreate

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::: 關於選擇

最近很喜歡的 #NETFLIX #韓劇 《 #羽球少年團 》裡，主角父母在一次比賽後討論起孩子的興趣轉移時，得到結論：「不是不喜歡棒球了，只是現在更喜歡羽球！」雖然不是多特別的句子，卻很打動我。

忽然想到最愛韓劇《 #市政廳 》裡開頭的獨白「我們的人生裡面會有多少次陷入不得已的政治局面，愛爸爸還是愛媽媽?泡菜鍋還是味噌鍋?」雖然不選擇的話「棄權不是中立，是緘默的同調」，但......「(選擇)對我來說實在太難了」。

我時常陷入選擇障礙，即便是興趣領域。要選擇看漫畫還是看韓劇、要選擇讀小說和是看電影，慢慢地才漸漸領悟，也可以選擇「不去選擇」。我都喜歡，所以我全都要啊！

當然，提到選擇，不可不提《 #猜火車》

Choose life.
Choose a job.
Choose a career.
Choose a family, Choose a fu*king big television,，
Choose washing machines, cars, compact disc players,and electrical tin openers.
Choose good health, low cholesterol and dental insurance.
Choose fixed-interest mortgage repayments.
Choose a starter home.
Choose your friends.
Choose leisure wear and matching luggage.
Choose a three piece suite on hire purchase in a range of fu*king fabrics.
Choose DIY and wondering who you are on a Sunday morning.
Choose sitting on that couch watching mind-numbing spirit-crushing game shows, stuffing fu*king junk food into your mouth.Choose rotting away at the end of it all, pishing you last in a miserable home, nothing more than an embarrassment to the selfish, fu*ked-up brats you have spawned to replace yourself.
Choose your future.
Choose life.

But who would I want to do a thing like that?

I choose not to choose life: I choose something else.

And the reasons? There are no reasons.

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#一日一繪 #插畫 #插画 #手寫 #手抄 #illustration #painting #drawing #doodle #sketch #diaryart #diarydoodle #drawthisinyourstyle #drawingchallenge #這個句子打動了我 #語錄 #圖文 #手寫字 #handwriting #手寫的溫度 #每日一句 #日付

Long awaited outfit video! What I'm wearing this Spring/Summer, inspiration for your own looks, as well as some styling tips to get the most out of your clothes.

Yes I know I'm slow as always, but today I come with maaaany outfits for the hotter weather!
I also attempted something new by shooting on a green background just for fun because i thought it would be funny lol

Does the title mean that I'll make a video like this every season? We shall see.....

✩ Where to find everything (in order of appearance):
Many pieces are vintage and/or secondhand so it is not possible to buy the exact pieces; in which I linked to similar looking pieces.
The list ended up longer than I can add on here so I've put everything separately on a Google doc that you can find here (https://docs.google.com/document/d/1EKSaQr2XU7fO4erdHFUuvRUNuobP61LqziPBv6VTXyo/edit?usp=sharing)

Please refer to my shoe video (https://youtu.be/iDOf5E6kFpE) for details on those!

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#summeroutfits #lookbook #ferntube
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✩ Music:
Blurred Cages - Daniel Mahardika (https://thmatc.co/?l=355FE9C3)
Departure - Daniel Mahardika (https://thmatc.co/?l=0CA399D5)
Hesitant - Daniel Mahardika (https://thmatc.co/?l=46ACAD9C)

✩ Subtitle file (https://drive.google.com/file/d/1wmNATVu8VN327ITy433_5IBa22en6Z6g/view?usp=sharing)
*** As Youtube has unfortunately discontinued community contributions, here is the script for anyone still willing to do subs for other languages. If you replace the English text with your language and email me the file, I'll be more than happy to upload it for everyone to see. Thank you for your helpful contributions until now!

✩ FTC:
All items by Coach, Dion Lee, Honey mi Honey, OHT nyc, and Y-3 were gifted to me; some items by Creepyyeha and Daisy were gifted.
I received Tiffany & Co. necklaces for shooting the campaign (https://www.instagram.com/p/BJNie4tBp0L/) in 2016 and another shoot with Vogue Girl Japan (https://www.instagram.com/p/Bq4xPZJA2x7/) in 2018.
Everything else was bought with my money.
However these brands are otherwise unaffiliated with this video and all thoughts and opinions are my own.
Some links are affiliate links
i.e. I will make some money off purchases.

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Lyrics:

I fell by the wayside like everyone else
和其他人一樣 一切已無法挽回
I hate you, I hate you, I hate you
我對你恨之入骨
But I was just kidding myself
但終究只是自欺欺人罷了

Our every moment, I start to replace
我嘗試著修補我們的美好回憶
'Cause now that they're gone
此刻耳邊迴盪的
All I hear were the words that I needed to say
全是那些來不及說出口的話

When you hurt under the surface
當你受的傷難以用言語形容 已經深入內心
Like troubled water running cold
好似不斷流動的水 寒冷刺骨
Well, time can heal but this won't
時間可以癒合傷口 但這次已經無濟於事

So, before you go
所以 在你離開之前
Was there something I could've said
我是否可以說些話
To make your heart beat better?
來安撫你內心的創傷
If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather
如果我能早點知道 妳所承受的苦痛
So, before you go
所以 在你離開之前
Was there something I could've said
我是否可以做些什麼安撫你
To make it all stop hurting?
讓你感到好受些
It kills me how your mind could make you feels so worthless
你總是認為自己不值得你所得到的一切 這讓我心碎不已
So, before you go
在你離開之前

Was never the right time whenever you called
電話總來的不是時候
Went little by little by little until there was nothing at all
鈴聲一遍一遍的響 是我無視了所有求救
Our every moment, I start to replay
我們的每段回憶 開始在我腦海中重現
But all I can think about is seeing that look on your face
但唯一清晰的 卻是你的臉龐

When you hurt under the surface
當你受的傷難以用言語形容 已經深入內心
Like troubled water running cold
好似不斷流動的水 寒冷刺骨
Time can heal but this won't
時間可以癒合傷口 但這次已經無濟於事

So, before you go
所以 在你離開之前
Was there something I could've said
我是否可以說些話
To make your heart beat better?
來安撫你內心的創傷
If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather
如果我能早點知道 妳所承受的苦痛
So, before you go
所以 在你離開之前
Was there something I could've said
我是否可以做些什麼安撫你
To make it all stop hurting?
讓你感到好受些
It kills me how your mind could make you feels so worthless
你總是認為自己不值得你所得到的一切 這讓我心碎不已
So, before you go
在你離開之前


Would we be better off by now?
我們現在是否會更好一些
If I'd let my walls come down
如果我當時有伸出援手
Maybe I guess we'll never know
也許我們永遠都不會知道
You know, you know
對吧?

Before you go
在你離開之前
Was there something I could've said
我是否可以說些話
To make your heart beat better?
來安撫你內心的創傷
If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather
如果我能早點知道 妳所承受的苦痛

So, before you go
所以 在你離開之前
Was there something I could've said
我是否可以做些什麼安撫你
To make it all stop hurting?
讓你感到好受些
It kills me how your mind could make you feels so worthless
你總是認為自己不值得你所得到的一切 這讓我心碎不已
So, before you go
在你離開之前

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Apparently, stress and boredom cause you to indulge in your bad habits. I found it to be true as I always shop whenever I am stressed out.

It is a hell of habit as shopping kind of soothes me and makes me feel like I am doing something beneficial. In a way, I actually avoid thinking about that stressful moment.

But I end up wasting so much money and I don't even use most of the stuff that I bought.

How to stop bad habits?

1. Stop them from the root.

As I said my bad habit is to shop, so the root is the money. I made a budget and set a very limited amount of money to shop. So eventually I became well aware that I can't afford to shop because I am saving up for something else.

Before I did that budget, I used to blindly spend. I never actually cared to save up for anything. I always think "Oh, I would be able to manage it soon."

Only when I became mindful about my spending, I started being serious and took each spending into consideration whether it is vital or not.



2. Stop the distraction

Social media is made up of a world full of distractions and it is such eye candy to those who want to be spoilt. The number of ads I get for shopping is uncountable and the offers are so enticing that you will surely end up buying 4 mascaras from different brands at the same time when you don't even use one!


So what you do when this happens is STOP THE AD! There are buttons and settings around the ad where you can set it to " I don't want to see this". I did that to each and every ad I see about sales or offers until I got none.


The fewer sales I saw, the less I thought about SHOPPING.

3. Replace your bad habits

Some say you can't stop the bad habits, you can only replace it. Which makes a lot of sense. When you replace it, you will forget whatever you had before it. Instead of shopping, I can go to the gym or go for a walk instead. Exhaust me there, de-stress and completely distract myself.

I get an amazing body and I get to save so much money! What a winning situation right?