依玲語錄109
人在做,天在看,人有善行,天必佑之。
我們沒有錢,沒有勢,但我們一樣可以主張“日行一善”。
其實慈善就在身邊,就在眼前,就在一轉念間,就在舉手投足中,現在就開始,一定要相信,你能!
老師有一位客戶是農會的行員,結婚後辭掉了台北的工作,跟著老公住在新竹,兩人恩愛。老師的客戶玉美,在台北房屋公司賣房子,不久有了小孩,託給住在桃園婆婆帶,老公天天往返台北、桃園,新竹。幾年來樂此不疲。
2014年剛過完農曆年,天氣很冷,玉美在客運站,遇見一位好像越南新娘,在後面排隊,操著鄉音問玉美說:「這是往新竹的班車嗎?請問在哪裡買票?多少錢?」玉美隨即回答:「是啊,要不要我幫你買」只見越南新娘一臉擔憂說著:「我身上只剩50塊,請問哪裡可以換錢?」於是玉美先替他買車票,然後,拿了100元的紙鈔5張給他,你先留著,我們有緣,我才能幫到你,令那位越南新娘好感動,台灣人怎麼這樣善良。
而玉美這樣默默幫人。就這樣,一年大約幫了近十位旅客。
今年,玉美因緣際會,轉職到全世界首屈一指的台灣公司擔任經理,不但薪水10倍跳,這兩年他完全不受景氣影響,賣出很多好宅。這個月已經在台北內湖買了一棟房子了。
玉美把她的人生轉折講給我聽,她說,她很感謝我,在網路上提供那麼多正確的開運法及做人做事的方法,她靠著我的轉運99法扭轉了他的財務危機,也靠著好心有好報的道理,才能有今天的收穫,她開運了,她一直說:「這不是好心有好報,那這是什麼?」她說,心誠則靈。
做好事,不應該是富人良心發現時無計劃的施捨和恩賜,而應該是每個人從內心深處發出對他人的疼惜與關愛。
不富裕並不代表就沒有幫助別人的能力,所謂:(千裡送鵝毛,禮輕情意重)。做好事的最終目的不在於給予了多少,而在於有沒有一顆同理心和善良的心。
以下這些都是每個人做的到(日行一善)
1.撿起腳下別人扔的紙片,扔到垃圾箱裡去。
2.向與你擦身而過的人微笑。
3.扶老人家過馬路
4.在車上讓座
5.看到不遠處有人要過馬路,把車在斑馬線前停下來(別管後面車輛的喇叭聲,沒素質的是他們)。
6.看到討錢的乞丐,給他吃的。看到討飯的老人,給他錢。
7.堅持一天不說一口粗話。
8.天色晚了,看到路邊攤的老阿婆還有一些香蕉沒賣完,把剩下的全部買下來,讓她早點回家。
9.遇到問路的人,如果你不知道,幫他問。
10.給一個孤身在家的親戚打電話,跟他(她)聊天。
11.打聽一些別人的願望,偶爾地,給身邊的人一些驚喜
12.寄錢給需要幫助的人,不用多,也不要透露出自己的任何信息。
13.上網時看到好文章,回享與按讚
14.在跟別人合作項目時,多做一些工作,不要跟人講。
15.了解救急常識,哪怕你一輩子都沒機會用上。
16.清掃樓梯,不只是自己這一層。
17.手寫一封信給久未聯絡的朋友,問他最近的生活。
18.撕掉一張別人已不可能兌現的欠條。
19.大風天,扶起倒在地上的自行車,即使你的車並沒有被壓在下面。
20.只是用舊的東西要扔掉,單獨用個袋子包起來再扔,不要跟其他生活垃圾混在一起。
21.看到在街頭哭泣的孩子,過去安撫他,不管多莫名其妙的事情,耐心地聽他講完經過。
22.撿到小額的錢,找不到失主,如果嫌交到警察叔叔手裡邊麻煩的話,就找個募捐箱,捐出去。
23.不經意間看到別人的秘密,停止,也永遠不說出來。
24.在大家起哄取笑一個人的時候,不笑,或者善意地拍拍那人的肩膀。
25.多做一些家務,對家人要比對外人更好。
26.在餐館裡喝了酒,把自己的聲音放低。
27.排隊辦事時,知道自己的事比較複雑,讓後面有急事的人先上。
28.看到有人在街頭做公益事業,如果正好有空,主動加入他們。
29.發現在你家屋檐下避雨的人,借把傘給他(她)。
30.遇到大熱天中午或大冷天晚上擺地攤的,別還價,家境哪怕好一點的不會在這時候擺攤。
31遇到學生出來打工,勤工儉學的,看他(她)賣什麼你就適當買點吧。
32公共廁所沒紙了,正好自己有帶,完事後留一張放在干淨的地方。
33在身邊的人都闖紅燈而過的時候,獨自守候著綠燈。
34如果你英語好,主動跟在路上碰到的老外搭讪,問他(她)需要什麼幫助。
35身體還行的話,去參與捐血,
36主動了解貧困學生的信息,偷偷地幫助一兩個。
37記著朋友的生日,到那天發短信或賀卡祝福
38何時候經過學校和醫院時,不按喇叭。
39街頭賣藝者表演結束時帶頭鼓掌。
40到無家可歸的人,跟他說話,看能不能幫點什麼。
41陪公園裡的老人下棋。
42聽聞媒體報道的災情險情,如果方便的話去現場看一看有什麼能夠幫得上忙的。
43參加臨終關懷之類的自願者活動。
44仔細考慮別人的請求,實在不行也要和顏悅色地拒絕。
45.結伴旅行中,如果需要有人看包,該犧牲就犧牲一下吧。
46隨身帶一些常備藥和創可貼等,不只是為自己。
47把自己擅長的技能(如修電腦、寫春聯什麼的)跟社區報告,以後大家有事可以來找(注意,是報告不是廣告,收費的可不成)。
48看到路上有西瓜皮或香蕉皮,一定要想辦法清理掉,再不濟也要踢到沒人走到的路邊。
49喂食流浪的小動物,偶爾做些放生的事。
50分享此文,讓更多人和你一起“日行一善”。
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善行班聽聞 在 玳瑚師父 Master Dai Hu Facebook 的最讚貼文
《光明之心旺渡猴年》
To A Fortuitous Year of The Monkey (English version below)
很多很多的人,都對自己的命運,或來年的運程抱著一種「先睹為快」的心理。吾,玳瑚師父認為,這是可以理解的。問題是在於,妳你知道了妳你的命運,或來年的運程後,妳你可曉得,如何趨吉避凶、扭轉乾坤、反敗為勝嗎?又或者增旺自己的運勢,使之好上加好呢?還是「先睹為快」後,淒淒慘慘,慘慘淒淒呢?若然是這樣的話,妳你就得歸類迷信者了哦!
生肖屬猴、虎、豬、蛇者,請向妳你自己的師父(若有的話),請示要如何安奉當年太歲星君,以保流年身心、身體健康、事業順心、家庭合樂、道心堅固、智慧增長、投資安穩、大事化小、小事化無等等。一般人都不會及較少,在家中安奉當年太歲星君。因此,可到有供奉六十位太歲星君的廟宇拜太歲及點光明燈。禮拜太歲星君時,除了獻上供品、蠟燭紙金以外,千萬要記得虔心稱呼,值年的太歲星君啊!歲次丙申太歲星君叫管仲,在拜太歲時,妳你就虔心稱呼祂為「丙申年管仲太歲星君」,這樣妳你才真真正正,拜到那一位值年的太歲星君。
接下來就讓玳瑚師父,為妳你們「紙上談運」吧!生肖屬猴的妳你,在這猴年裡,凡事要加以忍耐、忍讓,退一步才可以海闊天空,且莫食喪家之物、送葬出殯宜避之、夜間場所勿流連、對於年邁的長者或親屬,應多加關懷與關注,她他們的身、心發展,以免真的給玳瑚師父「說中了」,妳你也不必對著她他們唱: 我是不是妳你最疼愛的人,妳你為什麼不說話?哈....! 若妳你正打算「東家不打,打西家」的話,吾勸妳你待明年再說吧!喜歡投資的妳你,則要小心陰溝裡翻船哦!今年應該不圖非份,「萬事如意」才可能在妳你身上應驗。
生肖屬虎的妳你,請勿暴飲暴食哦!不食喪家之物,也勿「自告奮勇」的奔喪,以免累己累人。今年家中乃「多事之秋」,心情忐忑不安、情緒波動,再所難免。但,還是要把家中長者照顧好,或許可免喪神入屋。今年亦是妳你忙碌的一年,轉工、搬家、旅遊,流年中必應驗,要不然就應驗在跌倒哦!請多加注意足下的「工具」,是否是良好的「狀況」。一切宜守不宜攻。
生肖屬豬的妳你,在六親眷屬的關係方面,應多加關注,敢敢做個有愛心的人,自然就能歡度此猴年了。工作、事業與投資,應按部就班地進行,風險自然化小。婚姻及感情生活,祗要不要執著一個「我」字,也就會融洽了。
至於生肖屬蛇的妳你,身邊的親人、愛人、朋友等等,有可能會「突然間不見掉」。真心誠意的對待與珍惜,是唯一的安撫靈藥。再加上「不在乎天長地久,祗在乎曾經擁有」這句「名言」,那就更能夠釋懷了。
其實犯太歲,並不祗是人而已。妳你的宅地的坐山及向首,妳你的公司,妳你的辦工桌,妳你家中的書桌、床位,每個隔間,都可能是在太歲的位置上,因此也就犯了太歲。無論是老、中、少或幼(嬰孩),犯之意外連連,生病破財是小事,不慎連命也陪了,對一般人而言,就非小事了。不妨禮請一位妳你信得過的師父,為妳你及家人,規劃妳你居家的風水,擁抱妳你生命中美好的每一天,根本無需提心吊膽、戰戰兢兢地過日子。若妳你從來都沒找過任何師父勘察妳你居家的風水,那就在今年吧!給妳你及家人,生命中最大的禮物,而且是最愛的禮物,來個「水濂洞中勝樂大,花果山上年年好」。猴塞磊(廣東話),哈....!快樂得不得了。
吾,玳瑚師父,在此溫馨提醒哦!在立春來臨前,就好去拜太歲了哦!可別等或拖到清明,或農曆七月才去拜哦!因為這兩個節日,是讓人們上山掃墓祭祖,及拜俗稱的「好兄弟」的哦!若立春妳你所謂的錯過了,可請妳你信得過的師父,依妳你的生辰四柱,在農曆初一至十五日間,擇吉日良辰去拜太歲,那是很棒的拜太歲法之一。祝:大家「猴塞磊」哈....!
相信大家對「近水樓臺先得月」這句話,應該不會太陌生吧!如果妳你還是有些陌生的話,那「投其所好」,應該有聽聞過了吧!如果還是陌生的話,那看來妳你真的是....。丙申年管仲太歲星君,乃是位熱愛行善、佈施、教育、為善不落人後的神明。因此,妳你若要祂特別「注意」、「守護」、「關照」妳你的話,今年妳你就要比往年,更積極、更勤勞地行種種善,打個比方說;放生戒殺、助印、印施善書、開口勸善、捐錢建寺廟、撥款振災、關注及協助社會不幸的一群,等等。
天天做,天天增。增什麼?增福增慧、增資糧。當中也含蓋了改善命運的利益,天天不計較時間、不計較金錢、不計較體力、不計較工作量的多寡,持之以恆地做下去,很快的就會產生一種力量,無與倫比的力量,可改命可改運。反之,存有計較的心,那妳你所做的,就不能、也無法產生光明。沒有光明之心的「善行」,就不可能「投其所好」,妳你的心和太歲星君的心,始終扣不上,今年妳你諸多的願,就變成了天馬行空。什麼意思?泡湯了!
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There are countless number of people who cannot wait to take a "sneak preview" into their future. Master Dai Hu thinks that this mentality is not without reasons. The problem lies in this: after you have had a glimpse of what your destiny hold, or what would be your fortunes in this coming year, would you know how to usher in the good luck and evade the bad ones? Would you know how to turn a disastrous situation around and emerge as the eventual winner? Or would you be able to ride on the waves of good fortune for an even better outcome? Would it be the case that after you had known what lies ahead, that you fall into depression and self-pity? If this is true for you, then I would say you belong to the category of superstitious people!
For those of you born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Monkey, Tiger, Pig and Snake, please seek advice from your Master, if you do have one, on how to seek blessings from the Grand Duke of Jupiter of the year to ensure well-being in your physical and emotional health, career, family and investments, faith in your spiritual cultivation, growth in wisdom, and that the magnitude of all disasters be minimized or reduced to none. Most people do not or rarely worships the Grand Duke of Jupiter at home. So you can visit temples that enshrine the 60 Dukes of Jupiter to pay your respect and make a light offering. When you are paying respect to the Duke of Jupiter, with the offerings, candles and joss papers, please remember to address Him with all your sincerity and faith. In the coming Lunar year of the Fire Monkey, the Grand Duke of Jupiter is addressed as "Guan Zhong". You should formally address Him as the "Grand Duke of Jupiter of the Fire Monkey Year, Guan Zhong". In this way, you can be sure that your prayer goes to the correct Grand Duke of Jupiter.
Now please allow Master Dai Hu to talk about your fortunes, on paper at least! If you are born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Monkey, please exercise more tolerance in the coming year of the Monkey. Taking a step back will often lead to clear skies. Please do not consume any food from anyone with recently-deceased family members, and refrain from attending funerals and funeral processions. Stay away from places of leisure which operate in the night time.
For the elderly at home, please watch out and show concern for their health and mental well-being as Master Dai Hu does not want to be spot on with his words. I am sure you would not want to be singing, "Am I not the one you loved most? Why are you not talking to me?" Ha!
If you have any thought of changing employer, I would advise you to hold off the plan for another year. For those of you who love to invest, please exercise caution so as not to get caught out by unexpected situations! Do not go after wild ambitions this year so that you can have a smooth and fulfilling year ahead.
For those born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Tiger, refrain from overeating! Do not consume food from anyone with recently-deceased family members, and avoid any misguided bravery in attending funerals. This will bring harm to yourself and others around you. Unavoidably, this year is going to be a season of troubled times, often with plenty of unease and emotional upheavals. However, please take extra care of the elderly at home to ward off any visit by the Angel of Death. This is a very hectic year for you with plenty of activities in your career moves, change of residences, as well as travels. If these things do not happen, the year's fortune will take on another appearance: you will risk suffering from falls! So please inspect your footwear to ensure they are in good condition! Every plan this year should be set to defensive mode, instead of invasive.
For those born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Pig, please treat your relationships with your family and kin with extra care, and be bold to shower more love towards them, so that the Year of the Monkey will be a happy journey for you. As for your career and investment, do not deviate from your plans so as to minimize your risks. In your marriage and relationships, let go of the notion of "self", and all will be nice and harmonious.
As for those of you born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Snake, your family relations, your lover and friends, etc, may "suddenly disappear" from your life. The only way to seek comfort from this is to treat them sincerely and cherish the affinities with them. Remember this famous saying, "It may not last forever, but at least you had the moments. " and you will come to a closure with it.
In actual fact, it is not only human beings that come into conflict with the Grand Duke of the Jupiter. Your residence, specifically its sitting and facing directions, your office premises, your work desk, your study desk at home, your bed, and every individual room can be in conflict with the Grand Duke of Jupiter. No matter your age, even if you are a baby, you will encounter accidents, illness, and loss of wealth if you are in conflict with the Grand Duke of Jupiter. But these are small matters. In more serious cases, your life may be in danger.
There is no harm to engage a Feng Shui Master whom you can trust to conduct a Feng Shui audit at your home, for the sake of your family and yourself. Embrace every beautiful day in your life. There is no need to live each day in trepidation and fear. If you have not engaged any Feng Shui master for your home before, make it this year! Let this be your perfect gift to yourself and your family, a gift of great significance and love, and create a haven of bliss and years of prosperity! Ha! How joyous that will be!
Master Dai Hu would like to sound out a gentle reminder: please pay your respect to the Grand Duke of Jupiter before Li Chun, the beginning of Spring. Do not wait until the Qing Ming Festival or the Lunar Seventh Month before you fulfill this important task. The Qing Ming Festival and the Lunar Seventh Month are meant for paying respects to our ancestors and the wandering spirits, commonly known as the "good brothers"! If you had missed the Li Chun date, you may request a Master you can trust to select an auspicious date and time, based on your birth chart, to pay your respect to the Grand Duke of Jupiter any time between the First Day and the Fifteenth Day of the First Lunar Month. This is an excellent way to pay your respect to the Grand Duke of Jupiter. I wish everybody an awesome Year of the Monkey!
The Grand Duke of Jupiter, Guan Zhong, for the Year of the Fire Monkey, is a God who is passionate about performing virtuous deeds, generous giving, education and always the first in line when it comes to kind deeds. Therefore, if you would like Him to take notice of you, to protect and take care of you, you should therefore be more enthusiastic and diligent than the years before to perform virtuous deeds. For examples, refrain from killing lives, liberate lives, sponsor the printing and distribution of virtuous books, speak to encourage virtuous behaviour, donate to build temples and towards disaster relief funds, show care and give assistance for the less fortunate, etc.
Consistent action on a daily basis yields consistent gains. What do you gain? Your merits, fortunes, wisdom and resources increase. In the midst of this lies the enormous benefit of altering your destiny for the better. Do not be calculative in your time, money, bodily effort, and volume of work. Press on day by day, consistently, and soon, you will witness the emergence of a powerful force that is unprecedented, one that can turn your life and fortune around! On the other hand, if you live with a calculative mindset, all that you have done will not invoke the radiant Light, without which your supposedly virtuous deeds can never be aligned with the Grand Duke of Jupiter. Ultimately, there is still a distance between your heart and His, and your many wishes and hopes for this year are just a figment of your imagination. What do I mean by that? I mean you can kiss your dreams goodbye!
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