關於 i am a little girl in the big big world ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

It's hard to believe but we are at the last day of 2020.

Saw this photo in my phone and was reminded of the meanings behind the girls' chinese names and why we decided on them. We gave the big girl the character 恩 which means gratitude, and the little girl 希 which symbolises hope.

This is exactly how I am feeling right now, thankful for the silver lining in 2020 including spending more time as a family and feeling hopeful for what 2021 will bring to make this world a better place.

It's so important to stay positive no matter what happens, isn't it? We need to remember to look for something that makes us smile each day, even if that means we have to look harder on certain days. And always, always look on the bright side of life.

Enjoy the last day of the year, people!

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JANGAN IZINKAN IBU LAHIRKAN TUANNYA

Masa awal aku kahwin dengan isteri aku, aku dapat pakej 4 orang anak. Alhamdulillah. Yang mana 2 daripada 4 ni istimewa sikit. Dua-dua aspergers. Sorang ADD sorang lagi ADHD. Paling mencabar sekali tau tak apa? Anak-anak ni sebelum kehadiran aku, diorang ni di manjakan betul. Cukup manja! Semua nak, dapat. Tak boleh kena tegur, mesti menaangis dan membentak. 3 lelaki, sorang perempuan. Masa tu umur yang sulung 14 tahun. Yang second 12 tahun...
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When I married my wife, I got a package of 4 children. Thank God. Which 2 of the 4 is a little special. Both aspergers. Another ADD another ADHD. It's most challenging to know it's okay? These kids before my presence, they are being pampered right. Pretty spoiled! All want, got it. Can't be told, must cry and snap. 3 men, a woman. At that time the eldest was 14 years old. The second 12 years old. Third 9 years old. Fourth of 6 years old girl.

First time entering the family, I've had a meeting done. With gangster style, long hair braids. I'm doing a LIVE FB meeting with children. In the meeting, I just entered the family, so follow my rules. I don't follow their rules.

At the beginning, many people who are nearest have started tripping and spreading stories, not saying that I will hit the kids. The swing bowl is right who reads people from this person's use.

Remember the early marriage, my wife always reminds me of me. If these kids promise anything they need to be fulfilled, they will cry badly and scream. Hard to persuade. Sometimes I want to break my breath and cry. The other one is ADHD if he cries, he can't be angry, he has to say it carefully. Because later he will be raging and coming hyper. The one who added is his own attitude. It's just his problem that he doesn't take the port. The eldest is the most pamper. Ask for whatever the confirmation gets. After that it's urgent to work.

I really don't feel like I'm suitable at all. What should I do? Wash his mother first. My wife cried when she washed her first. I said it's simple. I don't want my son to grow up to die and get everything he wants to wear. Nothing, tomorrow won't be given, he rebel like going crazy.

Everything that my wife says can't do, I prove it to my wife, everything that she thinks is wrong. I made it. I didn't see anyone doing what my wife said. I just tried to bring MCD, then I parked at the Tomyam shop. Look at all the faces that are slammed. But no one is crying.

That's where it all started. Until one part I saw my wife still wrongly. I said it's simple.

′′ Want something big, need a big sacrifice. If you maintain like this, it's too wrong that you have to follow all your child's wishes, you're afraid to say NO and then you're crying and tired of your brother Trust me. Just like this, you'll lose your brother. Choose. ′′ ′′

Hah my wife was shaking at that time.

Yes, it's not easy to fight the mother's instinct. I really understand. But have to remember, you want to be sad until when you just want to entertain the extreme motherhood instincts? How do you want your child to grow up? What's he doing today, he's already big tomorrow. You're poor, he asks for something you can't fulfill. You think he got it? That's the wrong time he just said this sentence.

′′ Why is my mom not like someone else's mom. It's okay. I am not important ′′

Heart was shaking at that time. He didn't tell me 100 times, once didn't let him release such a painful sentence?

I'm nothing, kids like this even more men, have to grow up to be men. Not a bapok, not a Kpop. Man. The world will come far more evil. Responsibility is far bigger. It is compulsory to grow up to be a man. I repeat.

MEN.

That's when my wife slowly became a mad mother. Kah kah kah. The kids were shocked at that time. Suddenly mom is good at screaming? Suddenly mom is good at tunjal head? Suddenly mom is good at slapping? Suddenly mom dares to throw her phone against the wall?

Most power if a child I say near her mother,

′′ Mom doesn't love me, I hate mom.."

If my wife used to hear this verse, she will feel sinful and crying. Now you know what my wife answer?

′′ Once you hate me, 100 times I hate you.."

Stunned again child. Feels like the tactical of playing sentiment is not going to be. Continue to continue doing homework.

After that the scene of running away from the middle of the night, haa my wife is already cuak. Look for me to tell my child to run home. Cleaning up the bag. If you're as a mother, are you rocking? 10-year-olds when they were running home. Other siblings are busy trying not to run away, they insist on running.

I told my wife I'm happy je.

′′ Do not persuade. Just ask him to run the house faster. Go help her pack the bag. Do not worry. I used to threaten my mother like this when I was small. When my mother is stupid, I stay outside for a while and then I will go home because it's scary outside the dark.. if you persuade, don't run away, believe Tomorrow he's busy threatening to run again."

My wife went down and asked her to leave her house faster. This kid won't go out after opening the door. Look at the dark outside. He immediately opened the saji headscarf, making him hungry. It's so hard to look at it.

Want to turn into a Lion, it looks evil. Many will talk about this. You say you don't love your children. If this part is not strong, it will be stupid to be eaten by these words. But you have to believe one thing. This mother and father knows her child better than all of you. He knows so much. Know which limit he can make or not. We who watch from outside don't pretend to teach other people's children, teach our own children first to let go. Look at our children today he appreciate us how.

I was worst being criticized at that time.

He said since my wife married me, my wife's attitude has changed. Getting harder. Fierce with the kids. And many more lah. I'm lazy to take a port. The one who speaks is a woman who has never tasted anything. Work is great. So bored listening to it. But I'm cooking so much, it's normal that the sound of this person's confirmation since childhood has never lived hard, the child and the one that is like diva is usually the same. Just deaf the ear. Focus on the mission for the good of the child to come.

After 3 years, I recently had a meeting with all my children. I ask, did you notice that mom used to be different from now?

All bobbing. Getting more ferocious and crazy people say.

I'm so happy to hear. Let go of that I said.

′′ Try all of you to look back at this day. What's the difference? Neno 8 years old can be brushed by school clothes. Already able to wipe Ayra out. Luth 10 years can wash everyone's dishes. Hoze is the most improvement. From my own world today, you are the most helping to work in your house. 13 years old, washing clothes, hanging clothes, sleeping ayraa, bathing ayraa. And many more. Anish, you are the eldest brother. Thank God. No more pushy. See you already understand the reality of being a brother. Every morning sitting in the kitchen helping mom cook.. that's okay. Proud for a while Dedi. Dedi is nothing, you ask Dedi's siblings if they are rude to his mother, what happens to them. Must eat Dedi's feet. You become a son, you have to be a protector to your mother. Don't make it a slave mother."

All sighs. I'm connecting again.

′′ Do you know why this Seremban house Dedi doesn't install air conditioner near Indeed Dedi doesn't let mom install air conditioner. Let me sleep hot. Learning how to use a fan. Dedi used to grow up but never sleeps in air conditioner, thank God I grew up healthy. Dedi wants anything can't just get like that. So men have to learn how to feel hard. So that tomorrow, you will learn to be grateful. I will remember your parents when they are happy. You'll be close to siblings, tomorrow this is what you'll laugh back when you tell the story. Trust me. All of these are the sweetest memories. Mother and father don't know when will die. Maybe tomorrow we die, at least Anish can take care of the younger siblings."

Everyone was laughing at that time. My eldest child will interrupt in a while.

′′ Dedi, but honestly Anish likes the current mother from mother before. Even though it's fierce, but it's true when I remember it again. All of us are good at all. I just noticed that someone else is 8 years old but doesn't even know how to take care of the baby who is a year old and shower and defecate. Luth has changed a lot. No more crying. Hardworking. Hoze has changed a lot of crazy. Playing with the phone. There's only one problem, when you have a relative, you can come, don't sit in the Just sit down once. Anyway, I swear, Anish loves the mother who was now from the old times. Even though the current mother is crazy saiko! Haha. Mom, you are Queen Of My Heart! Mother is crazy, before Anish didn't understand a lot. When Anish sees mom struggle, Anish becomes a pity. Just saw all the sacrifices of the mother for all of us."

Others bobbing heads agree and laugh with what brother anish he said.

All impressed when I remember back. Until neno's turn, she keeps crying. She really apologizes near her mom.

The most powerful, they are siblings when their aunt wants to ask them to come out. Each one has completed the job of who managed his / her sister's clothes this year, who will beat his / her younger sibling's pampers, who will manage his / her sister's pampers. All of them think for themselves. Talk to each other and manage the equipment of his little brother who is a year old. No need to have a mother with her dedi.

Power, isn't it? Two Aspergers, an ordinary person. The eldest has entered MRSM. It means that the number two child of ADD is taking over.

Even when I'm going back to hometown, my wife just gave me an order. They all clean up their own bags. My wife doesn't even mix a single dust. My wife looks like a big boss today. All homeworks are managed by the child. My wife's duty is to cook. Wash clothes, dry clothes, wash dishes, wash toilets, throw away garbage, shower ayra for a year, all the kids who manage it.

If I don't move, I won't let my wife shout out to other children. But mad at the eldest child. Let the eldest child be stressed. Whatever happened to the younger siblings, I told her mother to kill her eldest child. So when the younger siblings aren't working, fighting, the eldest brother already knows that he needs to be tiaw with his mother later. Didn't say much, he just settled his younger siblings. That's it brother!

Thank God. The story is only one. Our children, we know each other. There's a part of being fierce, there's a part that needs to be There's a part that can laugh. This mother has one veto power, but many are afraid to use it because she is not in other s' language and is so afraid that her child will hate It doesn't mean anything! It's boring to entertain the sentiment of pity that is extreme. You used to be your mother who hit your face, do you hate your mother to big? Nothing. We're fierce because we just want to educate. Not fierce all the time. More than firm. When you see your child hardworking, listen to it, there's a day that will give you a surprise Chocolate or what? Taking a walk to the park. Time with family has to be there.

If you're too spoiled, you can make your child become responsible and the person who will defend your family, I think that the Malay soldiers won't even be training hard as hard as possible. It's better for them to just pray for all the new soldiers. What do you want, everything is given. Wake up late, swipe your hair and then kiss your forehead. Even eating time is delicious. Sleeping at night comfortably, installing air conditioner. Put on the wifi.

What was it?

Before you want to say this person, ask ourselves first. Our 7-year-old child eats, is he good at washing his own dishes? Do you know how to follow your time schedule? Can you brush your own school clothes?

If you're not good at anything, don't make me feel bad about the way other father's mother educate someone's child.

The hardest episode in educating children at this age. Believe me, this will all be a longing for the kids when they leave the house later. And this also makes them siblings get closer.

Patience, victory day is coming! Early sacrifice is the most important. Fight all the wrong feelings that always play in the soul. Only one thing you have to remember, as long as you don't fight with religion. Mom is never wrong! Angry, fierce lah. Do not worry. Continue to educate our ways. Don't forget the power of Veto!

Eh forgot, waimah is a special child. What the doctor said put number two. Accompanying kids like normal kids before but there's a limit. Don't teach him to be a special child since you were young. We know our children again, right? Because I always believe, crazy people when we clap their hands twice when they want to take our food, the third time they will understand and won't take it anymore. That's the crazy person. So, Don't let the child know he's special. Don't disturb her brain. Just entertaining the same thing.

Everyone is like that. If he feels like there are advantages, there is someone who defends more, he will start to get a chance. Can't believe it? You try to pamper your child crazy. Let go of the try in front of you, someone tease him less, you see how he has torn to tears later he will get your attention.

Anyway..

Only one thing I'm still failing. Failed to change their name call among siblings. No call Along, Angah, Bangde. I feel strongly, calling this name also has a certain advantage to put the difference between the younger brother and brother. There is a family aura.

Don't forget, Father's role in psychology is important to be crazy. Because with this mother, no matter how fierce it is, the child is brave to fight. Dad must be good at playing roles. No need to touch, you need to know when you want to have a high voice. When you want to call your child, sit down and talk about others.

Become a child idol.

Trust me, step child and biological child two things that are impossible. Because the power of VETO only exists in biological children. This step child has a risk that you need to face. What happened to them, people will say that you don't love them because it's not your biological child. Painful and sad that sentence is for me. Allah knows how I love them.

I wrote it,
Mr Amir Lake

P / s: In the past my wife was criticized by the Aspie group when my wife said she educated her aspie's child in the way she was a little firm. All sorts of people are teasing, he said that this aspie child will take revenge and kill him. Have to be teased every day. Poor. My wife doesn't agree with my actions early because she holds the doctor's order. Today, I'm asking my child aspie. Tomorrow if mom gets disturbed by someone else in front of you what will you do? What did he answer? I'll hit him enough! And I asked my wife, how about the person who teased her child? He said his child is under control but sometimes he's raging badly until he's about to breath. At the same time today my child aspie is good at cooking, can do all homework and love his siblings so much.

Mr. Amir Lake creditTranslated

2020-7-5 Rock DJ Playlist

1-1 Brooklyn Bridge To Chorus: The Strokes (The New Abnormal / 2020)

1-2 Big Sound: I'm Glad It's You (Every Sun，Every Moon / 2020)

1-3 Confirmation(SSBD): Westerman (Your Hero Is Not Dead / 2020)

1-4 Bonnie and Clyde: The Sounds (Things We Do For Love / 2020)

1-5 Need a Little Love: The Fratellis (Half Drunk Under a Full Moon / 2020)

1-6 Tokyo Love Hotel: Rina Sawayama (Sawayama / 2020)

1-7 Death Bed (coffee for your head): Powfu [feat. beabadoobee] (Poems of the Past / 2020)

1-8 你說你: DizLike (眼淚養成計劃 / 2020)

1-9 但是我袂驚惶 When I find my heart inside you: 陳以恆 Yi Heng Chen (但係我袂驚惶 / 2020)

1-10 Don't Let Me Down: Milky Chance feat. Jack Cohnson (單曲 / 2020)

1-11 2069: Wargirl (Dancing Gold / 2020)

1-12 Back Down South: Larkin Poe feat. Tyler Bryant (Self Made Man / 2020)

2-1 Strange Love: Little Shy on Allen Street (Strange Love (EP) / 2020)

2-2 Tell Me Now: Built To Spill (Built to Spill Plays the Songs of Daniel Johnston / 2020)

2-3 Paradise... How Far: 椅子樂團 The Chairs (Paradise... How Far? / 2020)

2-4 媠花: 青虫 aoi (有你的故事ū lí ê kòo-sū / 2020)

2-5 It's Just Good: Janell Rosa (let me love you（EP) / 2020)

2-6 Here I Am Existing: Winter (Endless Space / 2020)

2-7 Cash Machine: Oliver Tree (Ugly Is Beautiful / 2020)

2-8 Midnight Love: Girl In Red (World in Red / 2020)

2-9 Second Best: Younger Hunger (單曲 / 2019)

2-10 Birdhouse in Your Soul: They Might Be Giants (Flood / 1990)

2-11 Going Blind: The Go-Betweens (The Friends of Rachel Worth / 2000)

2-12 El Capitan: Idlewild (Warnings / Promises / 2005)

There is a surprise at the end... ☺️ I want to add one more thing here because people all seem to be discussing who wronged who first in the comments, ending up with the inevitable conclusion that although I was first dissed by the MonstaX fan, I shouldn't have retaliated against the group, who were innocent, and people shouldn't have cursed my child blah blah.

As such I would like to clarify: The background story is just so people can keep up to date on how events transpired.

I WAS NOT ANGRY AT THE GIRL SAYING I DON'T DESERVE TO BE ON THE FLIGHT.

I mean, I was a little irritated, but I retweeted her with my sarcastic reply and that was that. The REASON why I first tweeted about MonstaX is... Wait for it... NO REASON AT ALL.

I just tweeted out my first reaction (thought they were trannies) the same way you finish watching a movie and tweet out your reaction to the movie. Like it, didn't like it, the lead's voice is annoying etc. I really didn't put much thought into it. It isn't personal; it isn't revenge on the group because I HATE them, or got angry at the girl who first tweeted at me. Stop being childish. I don't know MonstaX, why would I hate them?! If you are asking "if you don't hate kpop or kpop fans then why are you directing such vitriol at them?"... Then my answer is simple - I am not.

I am just enjoying the fun of making angry crazy people even angrier.

Meanwhile I'm pretty sure MonstaX doesn't follow me on twitter so no harm there.

Thank you everyone who suggested I should just apologise. I already did. I refer you to this tweet: https://twitter.com/Xiaxue/status/835465033588998144

Forgot to put in links for idol torture. Here's one: http://listverse.com/2015/05/19/10-horrifying-realities-from-the-world-of-asian-pop-music/

How YouTubers make money／ YouTuber 怎麼賺錢：https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jfxhfEc4t7U
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【影片目的】
感謝AirAsia讓在學生時代的我有機會去海外旅行，並且鼓勵更多人去旅行。

【影片介紹】
我知道很多人看到影片一定會認為我有接受AirAsia的贊助而做這個影片。（我也希望有xD）這個反應很自然。但這個影片事實是真的完全沒有任何贊助。

是我和我的好朋友Shen在上個月搭AirAsia 飛機去馬來西亞途中聊到我們各自多常搭AirAsia & AirAsia x 去不同地方旅行，碰到了哪些不來自不同地方的新朋友，發生了什麼有趣的事而興起決定做的影片。覺得很感謝我們生在這個時代。

在這個時代每個人都有機會去旅行。重新認識自己曾經錯誤解釋過的世界，然後認識自己以及身邊每一個人的價值。

世界很大，大得我們怎麼能只停留在一個地方。
旅行吧！

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我很喜歡旅行，而我人生第一張自己打工賺錢買的機票就是AirAsia x。
那時候我去的是泰國。
在學校宿舍就很簡單的在網路上找到的AirAsia x 的促銷機票，用他們的網路訂票系統訂了我人生第一張機票。
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用AirAsia & AirAsia x我去過了，泰國，馬來西亞（吉隆坡，檳城，麻六甲，沙巴，刁曼島）香港，新加坡。
除了他真的是比較便宜之外，還有其他三個理由讓我一直用AirAsia旅行。


0:30 ☆理由1☆ 漂亮的空姐
我當然也是做過別的航空，通常其他航空的空姐感覺是比較拘謹的。
比較有距離感。
AirAsia的空姐真的不一樣！
第一他們的頭髮不像其他航空規定一定要盤起來，
AirAsia空姐的頭髮，秀髮！很多是放下來的。
連是女生的喔都覺得真的很正很性感很美啊～～

0:58 ☆理由2☆ 美味的飛機餐
做過不同航空的飛機還是AirAsia的飛機餐讓我最開心。
或許馬來西亞料理就非常合個人口味吧。
他的菜單真的太豐富！然後又很道地！
加上真的不貴。平均差不多就是美金8塊左右吧。
以飛機餐的價錢來說真的很OK～
我只要用AirAsia飛，一定是先上網訂飛機餐xD
我太愛吃。
吃完正餐後過3小時一定再點個馬來西亞泡麵。

1:31 ☆理由3☆ AirAsia來自馬來西亞！
馬來西亞是我非常喜歡的國家之一。
我最好的朋友Shen （from Shen LimTV）就是馬來西亞人。
所以我才會開始對這個國家開始認識，然後喜歡上的。
目前去過了吉隆坡，檳城，麻六甲，沙巴，刁曼島真的是很喜歡。
人，食物，多元的文化與宗教，還有海邊！
我有一個愛死海邊的病。
馬來西亞是世界上被認可又最美海灘的國家。
我還會再去。遇見更多人，看更多地方，然後曬在更多美麗的海邊。

最後，希望你喜歡這個video：）

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【Purpose of The Video】
Say thank you to v to let me be able to travel abroad when I was a student. And encourage more people to take on a trip to see this world.

【Introduction】
I know many people will think I make this video because it is sponsored by AirAsia (I wish it was :P).
It is understandable. But, the fact is, it is not. This video is not sponsored by anyone at all.

I just came up with this idea while Shen and I am taking AirAsia x to Malaysia. We were talking about how much and how often we fly with AirAsia to travel to places, and people from different places we met, interesting things that happened on each of our trips. We just feel thankful that we were born in this time.


Nowadays, most of us got chance to travel, to know the world that we use to mistaken, and to know the value of ourselves and of everyone else.

The world is too big to stay in one pace.
Explore!
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I love traveling. The first flight ticket I bought with the money I made from part time is AirAsia x ticket. That time I went to Thailand.
At school, I just simply went online and found AirAsia’s promotion tickets that I could afford. And then I use their online booing to buy the very first flight ticket in my life!
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With AirAsia & AirAsia x, I have traveled to Thailand, Malaysia (Kuala Lumpur, Penang, Malacca, Sabah, Tioman island) , Hong Kong, Singapore, for the reason it’s just cheaper than other airlines but also 3 other reasons!


0:30 ☆Reason1☆ Beautiful flight attendants
Of course I also have taken other airlines. Usually flight attendants from other airlines are in a more formal style. (sometimes makes me feel a little distanced )
But the flight attendants from AirAsia & AirAsia x are just different!!
For example, they don’t need to put up their hair.
And I feel it’s a more friendly style. (my personal opinions lah)
Even I am a girl, I think AirAsia flights are so attractive, sexy, and beautiful~

0:58 ☆Reason 2☆ Yummy meals on board
Out of all meals on board form different airlines,
The one from AirAsia satisfies me the most!

Maybe I just personally like Malaysian food so much :P
The food on menu really varies, and it is very authentic.
Plus, its just inexpensive.
It’s averagely 8 dollars, and as price of on board meals, I think it’s very acceptable.
I always order online before I fly if I fly with AirAsia or AirAsia x
I’m just such a foodie.
And 3 hours later, I must order a Malaysian cup noodles :P yum

1:31 ☆Reason 3☆ AirAsia is made in Malaysia!
Malaysia is one of my favorite countries.
My best friend, Shen is Malaysian, and that’s why I started to know about Malaysia. So far I have been to Kuala Lumpur, Penang, Malacca, Sabah, Tioman island, and I just really like this place. Love the people, the food, the multiple cultures and religions, and the beachesss.

I love the beach.

Malaysia is one country that has the most beautiful beaches.
I definitely will visit Malaysia again. To meet more people with great souls, see more amazing places, and lay down on more beautiful beaches.

Last, hope you enjoy this video ;)


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