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【那天投訴了老闆之後】#香港職場觀察筆記
在向大老闆投訴了小老闆之後，做好會被說教的心理準備，與小老闆進行了餐會，沒想到他卻說：
「香港人不會把這種事（指被投訴）放在心裡。」
以我在台灣的職場經驗，直言得罪主管、同事後，恐怕就是連續「被分享」人生經驗──而且都不是正面的那種。
然而擁護「實用主義」的香港人，普遍不會讓過去存在的衝突，影響了明天可能的合作及發展。而「實用主義」的原因，真的是因為台灣前輩們常說的：「香港人就是自私加勢利」嗎？
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Grief.
It's something no one wishes to experience. Yet, it happens to everyone at one point or another in our lives. Actually, it doesn't happen just once. The older we get, grief will come knocking on our doors every once in a while because that is just how life works .While I've always tried to look on the bright side of life, July was truly a turbulent and depressing month for me.
You see, while still dealing with the shocking local news regarding mental health issues and trying my best to have an open discussion with the kids as we head into the exam period, my own world fell apart when I was informed that my beloved grandma was hospitalised and in a coma.
For the next two weeks, it was terribly dreadful that we couldn't visit her due to the pandemic restrictions. We had video calls with her almost every day to tell her we love her and gently urge her to wake up but I wanted to be by her side so, so badly. My spirits were lifted when my Mum told me she opened her eyes and we even heard her saying "Bye bye". Surely that is a good sign and she is getting better, right?
Alas, things deteriorated swiftly and by the end of that fortnight, she decided to leave this world. I can't go into details now without being a wreck because I just miss her so much and have so many regrets. For now, I am working on gathering her photos and making a video so that my kids will always remember her. I guess when I am ready, I will dedicate a post to her and pour my feelings out. But for now, I'm just not brave enough to do it yet. In this post of "Happiness is...", I've realised it's okay to sometimes be a little lost and a little sad.
When we work together ✨
(For some context, I saw this at the time when a lot of blatantly racist things were circulating in the media. I don’t know these two men, and I’ve put a painting filter over it to obscure their identities.)
When I saw this image, I thought of how Singaporeans support each other. Here, no one was “helping” the other one out. No one was getting “special treatment”. I feel like when we talk about things like racism, sexism, classism, ableism, etc. There is a sentiment of, “All of us face problems, all of us struggle, why do “they” get “special treatment” and we don’t?” The mere suggestion of any Majority Privilege provokes really strong reactions.
But, actually, is it a “privilege” to not have to bend over backwards trying to express your discomfort whilst also having to protect the feelings of the other person causing the discomfort for fear of retaliation? Is it a “privilege” to be able to point out an objective disadvantage/unfairness without being accused of playing the victim? Or is it a disadvantage when a group of people can’t because of a certain characteristic they have? Certainly not in the same way the majority can. Shouldn’t everyone be able to do that in a safe and healthy community?
It’s not clear in the photo but it was actually raining pretty heavily. When it comes to things like racism, as the Majority race, our umbrella blocks those things for us, so if our fellow Singaporeans tell us they are hurting, use our umbrella; listen, validate, empathise. If we don’t understand, google, figure out why we don’t understand it. Don’t ask them to do the work for us.
The thing is a lot of us have probably experienced this on some level, perhaps with a certain type of boss, with a partner who doesn’t empathise, in a friend group where you have to walk on eggshells, perhaps with a teacher who gives you a hard time for raising a totally valid question. Wasn’t it important to have someone who understood and did something? ☔
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Lyrics:
I've been feeling
我一直都有感受
Inside out in my feelings
從內到外的我的情緒
Upside down, on the ceiling
顛倒地漂浮在天花板上
ooh-ooh, yeah, yeah
I'm finally breathing
終於得以呼吸
The smoke ain't gone but it's clearing
煙霧未散 但已經清晰
I ain't there yet but I'm healing
還沒痊癒 但我已經在被治癒
I ain't there yet
我還沒痊癒
Inhale, exhale on repeat, yeah
反復地吸入又呼出
Lately, it's so hard to breathe, yeah
最近的日子快讓我窒息
Falling 'bout a million times
無數次地墜落
It's a miracle I'm still alive
活著就已經是奇跡
No one said that it was easy
沒人說過人生容易
Tryna piece the broken pieces
嘗試著將破碎的我修復
But that's the shit I'm working on
這就是我努力的方向
The journey is a work of art
這場人生旅途是一件藝術品
I can't erase all the things that I've done
無法消去我曾經的足跡
But all the mistakes made me who I've become
但正是那些錯誤 使我成為現在的自己
I've been feeling
我不停墜落
Inside out in my feelings
裡裡外外的情緒
Upside down, on the ceiling
顛倒著 漂浮在天花板上
ooh-ooh, yeah, yeah
I'm finally breathing
我終得以呼吸
The smoke ain't gone but it's clearing
煙霧未散 但現實澄清
I ain't there yet but I'm healing
我還未痊癒 但我正被治癒
I ain't there yet but I'm healing
我還未痊癒 但我正被治癒
ooh-ooh, yeah, yeah
I ain't there yet, but I'm healing
我還未痊癒 但我正被治癒
ooh, ooh-ooh, yeah, yeah
I ain't there yet, but I'm healing
我還未痊癒 但我正被治癒
Breaking down, don't mean I'm broken (Yeah, I'm broken)
崩潰 不表示我已崩壞
Losing hope, don't mean I’m hopeless
漸漸失去希望 不代表我已無望
And maybe all I need is time (Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah)
也許我只是需要一點時間
It never happens overnight
這從不是一夜就能結束的
I can't erase all the things that I've done (I've done)
無法擦去我曾經的足跡
But all the mistakes made me who I've become
但正是這些錯誤使我成為如今的自己
I've been feeling
一直感受著
Inside out in my feelings (My feelings)
從內而外的情感
Upside down, on the ceiling
顛倒的漂浮於天花板之上
Ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh, ooh-ooh, yeah, yeah
I'm finally (Finally) breathing
終得以呼吸
The smoke ain't gone but it's clearing
煙霧尚未散去而現實已經清晰
I ain't there yet but I'm healing
我尚未痊癒 但我正被治癒
I ain't there yet but I'm healing
我尚未痊癒 但我正被治癒
ooh-ooh, yeah, yeah
I ain't there yet, but I'm healing
我尚未痊癒 但我正被治癒
ooh-ooh, yeah, yeah
I ain't there yet, but I'm healing
我尚未痊癒 但我正被治癒
I'm finally breathing (Oh, oh-ooh, oh, oh, oh)
終得以呼吸
The smoke ain't gone but it's clearing (Ooh-ooh, ooh)
煙霧尚未散去但現實已清晰
I ain't there yet but I'm healing
我尚未痊癒 但我正被治癒
I ain't there yet but I'm healing
我尚未痊癒 但我正被治癒
ooh-ooh, yeah, yeah
I ain't there yet, but I'm healing (Healing)
我尚未痊癒 但我正被治癒
Ooh, ooh-ooh, ooh, ooh-ooh, yeah, yeah
I ain't there yet
我尚未痊癒
歌詞翻譯 : 煙奶椰由生
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【材料】（保存期間：冷蔵で約4日）
●キュウリ：2本
●茄子：2本
●みょうが：3本
●カブ：5個
●オクラ：2パック
●赤パプリカ：1個
●黄パプリカ：1個
●大葉：10枚
●醤油：100ml
●めんつゆ：50ml（白だしでもOK）
●みりん：100ml
●お酒：150ml
●鶏ガラスープの素：大さじ1/2
●豆板醤：大さじ1/2（コチュジャンでもOK）
●酢：大さじ2
●塩こんぶ：大さじ1/2
●干し椎茸：2個
●生姜
●炒りごま：お好み量
●唐辛子：お好み量
※野菜はお好みで旬の物を入れてあげてね
※豆板醤の辛みが苦手な方は赤味噌同量＋にんにく少々
※色んな物にかけて食べられるよう味は濃いめにしてあります。
そのまま食べたい方はお好みに合わせて味を薄めてあげたり、野菜の量を増やしてね
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今回は父が亡くなる前に家族を想って遺してくれた
僕にとっては宝物みたいなご馳走レシピから
『超やべぇ野菜漬け』を作らせて頂きました。
小さい頃の僕にでも簡単に作れるよう
難しい行程は全部省いて美味しく出来るように
父ちゃんが考えてくれたものです。
色んな出汁が良い感じにあわさっていて
とても深みのある味わいに仕上がってます。
今回は思い入れの強いレシピだったので撮影するかどうか悩んだんですが
お客様の美味しい笑顔を見るのが本当に大好きな父ちゃんだったので
コロナで大変な世の中ですが、このレシピで少しでも多くのご家庭の食卓で笑顔が作れたら
父ちゃんも天国で喜んでくれると思い動画にさせて頂きました。
今回動画で合わせている素麺はもちろん、うどんやご飯、豆腐、鶏肉や豚肉、サラダなどなど
合わせられるものは無限大です。
漬け時間が短くても野菜のシャキシャキ食感が楽しくて美味しいですし
半日後には味が染みて、これまた最高に美味しいです。
どちらも是非試してみて欲しいです。
本当に簡単なので是非作ってみて下さい。
【Ingredients】 (Preservation period: about 4 days refrigerated)
● Cucumber: 2
● Eggplants: 2
● Myoga: 3
● Turnip: 5
● Okra: 2 packages
● Red Paprika: 1
● Yellow Paprika: 1
● Shiso leaves: 10
● Soy sauce: 100ml
● Men-tsuyu (white soup stock can be used): 50ml
● Mirin: 100ml
● Sake: 150ml
● Chicken soup stock: 1/2 tablespoon
● Dou ban jiang (gochujang is also OK): 1/2 tablespoon
● Vinegar: 2 tablespoons
● Salted kelp: 1/2 tablespoon
● Dried shiitake mushrooms: 2
● Ginger
● Roasted sesame seeds: as you like
● Chili pepper: as you like
※ Add whatever vegetables are in season to your liking.
※ If you don't like the spiciness of Dou ban jiang, use the same
amount of red miso + a little garlic
※ If you prefer to eat it as it is, you can dilute the flavor or
increase the amount of vegetables according to your taste.
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This time, I made "Amazingly Yummy Pickled Vegetables" from a treasured
recipe that my father left for my family before he passed away.
In order to make it easy even for me as a child to make, My father's
idea was to make it tasty without all the difficult steps.
The sauce has a good combination of various dashi and has a very deep flavor.
I had a hard time deciding whether or not to publish this recipe
because I had such strong feelings about it.
My father really loved to see the smiles on the faces of his
customers, so I decided to make a video because I thought he would be
happy in heaven if I could bring smiles to the faces of as many
families as possible with this recipe in a world that's in trouble
with Corona.
This recipe can be used not only with somen noodles, but also with
udon noodles, rice, tofu, chicken, pork, salads, etc.
There are no limits to what you can eat with it.
Even if the marinating time is short, the crunchy texture of the
vegetables is fun and delicious, and after half a day, the flavors
have soaked in and it tastes great.
I hope you will try both of them.
It's really easy to make, so please give it a try!
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First of all @wafiy_aan @ellyakeesha @charisow @gabrielnoelpountney and our director @shamyl23 Introduced me to @friends ,I’ve been watching the show every day now, I loved them soo much! I’m sorry, I had to. ❤️
I miss all of them, Literally edited this for quite a while, I did my best and I’m super duper happy ?❤️ Made a remake of the @friends TV show intro but #ClubMickeyMouseMY style ? 2017-2019
#Friends ( this is just a parody no hard feelings or whatsoever ? we’re all big fans of @friends ?❤️ its a dream )
Kuala Lumpur City shot by #skyrunmalaysia
SONG: I'll Be There for You (FRIENDS TV Version with Dialogue)
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