【恨む時間の減らし方】
いつも、「一筆書きで喋っている」と言いますか、終わりどころとか何も考えずに、フラッと喋っているので、喋っている自分に気づかされることが時々あります。
それこそ、昨日、「嫌いな人がいない」と言ったんですが、そういえば、僕、本当に嫌いな人がいないんです。
嫌いな行動はいくつかありますよ。
なので、「人としてできている」というわけではないです。ヤリチンだし。
喋ってみて、「あれ? なんで僕は嫌いな人がいないんだっけ?」と、そこで初めて考え出すわけですが、昨日の場合だと、『「意見」と「人格」を分けて考えているから』ということで片付くんですね。
あとは、そこそこ忙しいから、わざわざ「嫌いな人」を作って、そこに時間を割くのが面倒だと思っているのかもしれません。
「映画『えんとつ町のプペル』の公開まで、あと2ヶ月」というタイミングで、不倫をした有名人に時間と感情を割いている場合じゃないじゃないですか。
心の底からどうでもいいんで。
なので、ツイッターとかで有名人の不倫に対して、怒りのツイートとかしている人がいたら、ソッコーでフォローを外します。
他人の不倫なんて、僕の人生において、1秒も必要がない時間なので。
バシバシと(笑)
で、「嫌い」繋がりでいうと、そういえば僕は何かを「恨む」みたいなこともないんです。
ここはハッキリしておきたいのですが、僕は、たとえば当時のクラウドファンディングをした時とか、絵本を無料公開した時とか、「ひな段」以外に活躍の場所を求めた時とか、「何か新しい挑戦をした時にはその都度、日本中から批判された」ということをよく言います。
これは批判してきた人を攻撃しているわけでも、恨んでいるわけでもなくて、「皆、『正しいか正しくないか』で判断していなくて、『知らないもの』を脊髄反射的に批判する傾向があって、それは、巡り巡って皆の首を絞めることになるから、批判をするのならば、キチンと咀嚼した上で、批判しようね」という注意喚起です。
とにかく僕は話を前に進めたいヤツなんです。
そこに下心なんて一切ない。
皆と面白いことをしたいだけです。
「いやいや、本当は金儲けでしょ」とか言われるのですが、そんなものには一切興味がない。
僕の生活費と、僕がエンタメに投資している額および、被災地や貧困国に支援している額の比率を聞いたら、ドン引きすると思います(笑)。
ちなみに僕のレギュラーの生活費は貧乏大学生とさして変わりません。
嘘だと思うのなら、僕の近しいスタッフに聞いてみてください。
贅沢なんかには、興味がないんです。
世の中には、そういうやつがいるんです。僕です。
話を戻します。
「恨む」って、かなり長い時間を奪われるじゃないですか?
そう考えると、なるべく恨まない方がいいですよね?
となると、ちょっとややこしいですが、自分の人生において「恨む確率」を減らした方がいいと思うんですね。
その時、「避けることができない恨み」と「避けることができる恨み」を分けた方がいいと思っています。
たとえば、「大切な家族が被害者になってしまった」ということで発生する恨みは、なかなか避けられないと思うんですね。
ここはもう諦める。
じゃあ、「避けることができる恨み」って何なんだ? と考えた時に、結論、「代替案を作ることができる問題」だと僕は思っています。
たとえば、映画『えんとつ町のプペル』のプロモーションとして、もともと全国の映画館をまわって、映画『えんとつ町のプペル』のストーリーを全部喋るイベントを開催しようとしていたんです。
で、各映画館をおさえて、スケジュールも組んで、「じゃあ、始めるぞ!」となったタイミングで、コロナが来ちゃって、全部白紙になったんですね。
そこで、どこだけブーブー言おうが、コロナがフッと消えることはないので、「じゃあ、オンラインに切りけるか?」となって、白紙になった3日後にはクラウドファンディングを立ち上げて、そのリターンで「映画の宣伝を兼ねたオンライン講演会」とか、「それこそストーリーを全部喋る会のオンライン版」を出したんです。
一回の講演会で1万人を超える人が集まって、結果、オフラインで全国を回るよりも多くの人に届けることができたので、「ああ、これはこれで、良かったね〜」となった。
でも、それって、僕が「クラウドファンディング」という選択肢を持っていたからだし、オンラインイベントも慣れまくっていたから、「じゃあ、こっちに舵を切ろうか」となったわけで、そんなものを一切持っていなくて、そんな選択肢があることを知らなかったら、コロナに全部持っていかれたわけだから、「コロナが憎い」となったと思うんです。
代替案がなければ、奪われちゃうんですね。
だから、奪った人や現象を恨んでしまう。
つまり、「恨み」というのは、知識不足が生んでいる。
物事を知らなければ知らないほど、「恨む確率」が上がっちゃう。
否定ばっかりしている人って、新しい知識を入れていなくて、選択肢が極端に減っているから、恨む頻度が増えて、恨みに割いている時間が増えちゃう。
健康に気を使って80歳まで長生きしたところで、恨んでいる時間が10年ぐらいあったら、実質、稼働しているのは70年なわけで、健康に気を使うのなら、それと同じモチベーションで、ちゃんと知識を入れて、恨む確率を下げた方がいいと思います。
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テレビ東京
「クロストークラウンジ」
【OA日】
11/1(日)16:00~17:15
関テレ(フジ系列全国ネット)
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【OA日】
11/10(火)22:00~22:54
[how to reduce time to hate]
Do you always say ′′ I'm talking with a konigs," I'm talking about the end of the day, and I'm talking to flats, so I'm sometimes aware of myself that I'm talking about.
That's why yesterday I said, ′′ I don't like anyone," but when I think about it, I don't really hate it.
There are some nasty actions.
So it doesn't mean ′′ it's made as a person," It's a yarichin.
Talk to me," what? Why don't I have a haters?" it's the first time I've ever thought about it, but in the case of yesterday, I'm thinking about ′′ opinion ′′ and ′′ personality ′′ so I'm going to finish it I'm sorry.
Later, I'm pretty busy, so I might think it's troublesome to make ′′ haters ′′ all the way and spend time there.
Isn't it the time to take time and emotions to a celebrity who has adultery at the time of ′′ 2 months until the release of the movie ′′ a town
I don't care from the bottom of my heart.
So, if anyone is doing anger tweets against celebrity adultery on Twitter or something, I will remove the follow in sotto.
The adultery of others is the time I don't need 1 seconds in my life.
With ba lol
So, when I think about it, I don't even ′′ hate ′′ something.
I want to be clear here, but when I did crowdfunding at the time, and when I published a picture book for free, I asked for a place to be active other than ′′ Hinata Dan," When I do something new, I often say that every time I have been criticized from Japan
This is not attacking people who have been criticized, but not a grudge," everyone is not judging by ′′ right or right," and the spinal cord of ′′ what I don't know ′′ I tend to criticize reflective, and it's going to strangle everyone's neck over the tour, so if you're going to criticize it, let's criticize it and criticize it
Anyway, I'm the one who wants to go forward.
There is no ulterior motive there.
I just want to do something interesting with everyone.
′′ No, no, it's actually money but I'm not interested in anything like that.
I think I'm going to pull a don off when I hear my living expenses and the amount I'm investing in entertainment and the ratio of the amount that I'm supporting in the disaster area and poverty country (lol).
By the way, my regular living expenses don't change to poor college students.
If you think it's a lie, ask my close staff.
I'm not interested in luxury.
There's something like that in the world. It's me.
I'll bring back the story.
Isn't ′′ hate ′′ going to be robbed of quite a long time?
If you think so, it's better not to grudge as much as you can, right?
It's a bit confusing, but I think it's better to reduce the ′′ probability of hate ′′ in your life.
At that time, I think it's better to separate the ′′ grudge that can't be avoided ′′ and ′′ grudge that can be avoided,"
For example, I don't think it's quite inevitable that the grudge that occurs because of ′′ the precious family has become a victim,"
I'm already giving up here.
So what is ′′ a grudge that can be avoided," When I thought about it, conclusion," I think it's a problem that can make an alternative,"
For example, as a promotion for the movie ′′ a no-in-town ′′ I was originally trying to hold an event to talk all about the story of the movie ′′ a in the town ′′ as a promotion.
So, I've been holding each movie theater, and I'm going to have a schedule, and I'm going to start," then I'm going to start!" and the corona is coming, and it's all blank.
So, how much do you say oink, but corona doesn't disappear, so," then, I'm going to cut it online?" and after 3 days of being blank, I'm going to have a crowdfunding. Standing up I raised it, and on the return, I put out the ′′ online lecture with the promotion of the movie ′′ and ′′ it's the online version of the meeting that talks all about the story,"
Over 1 million people gathered in one lecture, and as a result, they were able to deliver to more people than going around the country offline," Oh, this is it, good for you ~" It has become.
But that's because I had an option to ′′ Crowdfunding ′′ and the online event was also used to it," then I'm going to cut the rudder here," and I'm going to have a good time with that. If I didn't know that there was an option like that, I would have had it all in Corona, so i think I've become ′′ I hate corona,"
If you don't have an alternative, you'll be robbed.
So I'm going to grudge the people and the phenomenon who took it.
In other words, ′′ grudge ′′ is a lack of knowledge.
The more you don't know, the more you don't know, the more you hate,"
People who deny it don't have new knowledge, and the option is reduced to extreme, so there are more frequency to hate, and there are more time to grudge.
When you take care of your health and live long until 80 years old, if you have a grudge time for about 10 years, it's been 70 years since I've been in the middle of a long time, and I'm going to take care of my health. I think it's better to put knowledge properly and lower the probability of hate with the same motivation.
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When I found out I was pregnant with Ilon Daniel, we went to a few different doctors before deciding with Dr Navdeep and his team from Thomson Hospital Kota Damansara, as we felt most comfortable with him.
For those who may have missed the news - I have safely delivered my fourth child (albeit slight premature) a healthy baby boy, a few weeks back and we are now observing our confinement period.
Now that he is part of our lives, I cannot, simply CANNOT imagine a life without him. It is hard to believe a few months back, I was struggling with a very difficult decision whether to proceed or not with the pregnancy (as I was advised in my last delivery to not have any more children as my uterus lining was extremely thin).
Dr Navdeep gave my husband and I the assurance and confidence that I needed to pull though and he was just amazing!
The pregnancy came with some uphill battles and one of them was the MCO due to the Covid-19 pandemic.
A lot was going through my head and I was anxious.
With no help, 3 young children at home, strict travel restrictions and the possibility of my husband not being there during my delivery of our child, I was also worried about my health and well being going in and out of the hospital during the outbreak.
But I was so relieved to see how diligent and precautious THKD was, in ensuring the safety of their patients and staff are taken seriously and of paramount priority.
This video by THKD, documents snippets of my pregnancy checkup and chat with my O&G during the final days of the delivery till the birth of Ilon.
You can find out more about their services by contacting them via Whatsapp at +6018 2111083 and schedule an appointment.
Thanks again Dr Navdeep, Dr Khoo, Dr Ling and all the nurses and wonderful support team from THKD for assuring not just me, but the hubby too!
Our stay at THKD was a lovely, memorable one and I am so glad I chose THKD to take of me during my pregnancy and the birth of my child.
Our Ilon Daniel is now a Thomson Kid too! Yay! 💕
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I can't deny my working from home experience and my time schedule planner helps me a lot. But, there is a lot of things which I couldn't control which is kids mood, and my husband. Water spillage, kids fighting, baby crying, quarreling with hubby and can't finish my work on time.
So not only I need to manage my expectations, we just have to see some positive in this whole situation, like bonding time with kids and hubby trying his best to help out. Plus, ranting together with my friends 🤪
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IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: Some people may see my video titles as click-bait. YouTubers optimise their video's meta data for discovery due to how the algorithm is like. This isn't anything new. Most people who've been watching YouTube for years would understand this. If you're unhappy and get triggered by this, well, this channel isn't for you then. I’ve provided free workout schedules and programs since day 1 and have always optimised my meta data as such so that's not going to change.
Having said that, it doesn't mean the workout do not work. You will still see results by following a suitable program schedule, watching your diet, being in a deficit or surplus (based on your goals), doing exercises in good form, etc. These are all equally important factors. You're not going to get abs, grow a booty, grow biceps magically from 1 or 2 videos, in 1, 2, 3 or 4 weeks cause everyone is different. A title may come close to suggesting that, but I've explain multiple times throughout videos throughout my channel over years that it takes time and lots of factors, so don't take a video title out of context. Targeting fat loss is also not scientifically proven. Everyone is different and it takes time.
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VLOG 108/2016: Hula Hoop Girls.
A day of errands that ended with some hula hoop fun.
This is my 9th vlog that I've edited in these two days. Had to catch up. Okay. Done for the weekend. Time to get the little ones asleep. Will schedule this for publish tomorrow morning. Hate to flood your notification box with all my videos =P
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1989年 平成01年 2006年フリースタイルバトルを見て影響をうけマイクを握る。
初めた頃にはフリースタイルばかりをしていたが徐々に音源を製作し始め飛びぬけた才能を発揮する。
フリースタイルバトルでも好功績を残し大阪で名を轟かす。
そして2010年6月ついに待望の1stミニアルバムをリリース。
裏打ちで作り上げる独自のフローは20歳とは思えないインパクトを与え聞く人の耳の奥を焼きつける。独自のHIPHOPスタンスとアグレッツプに責め立てるPAP styleはし収録曲の隅々から混在能力高さを伺える。
関西 大阪 平成生まれ、No1は間違えなく龍であろう。
Mike holds a look influenced by Freestyle battle in Heisei 01 2006 1989.
When I first started to fly to pull talent is starting to produce a sound that was slowly just to freestyle.
Leave your name resound in Osaka freestyle battle in a good achievement.
The long awaited and finally in June 2010 1st mini album.
Build your own flow at 20 years old and lining the inside of my ears burn and impact of hearing people think. HIPHOP Agurettsupu own stance and urge the PAP style suggests a high capacity mixed songs from every corner of chopsticks.
Born in Heisei Kansai Osaka, No1 will definitely dragon.
2010年11月5日 堺東Goith Live Schedule
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