「Everything worth doing has a hard part.
每件值得做的事情都有個困難的部分」
以下文章取自Seth Godin的部落格,我把它翻成中文。原文連結附在最下方。
「 “What’s the hard part?”
困難的部分是哪一部分?
A simple question, often overlooked, as if ignoring it will make the problem go away.
這是一個常常被忽略的簡單問題。好像,忽略它,就會讓問題消失一樣
Everything worth doing has a hard part.
每件值得做的事情都有個困難的部分
If it didn’t, it would have been done already.
如果沒有的話,它早就已經被完成了
The hard part, we can hope, will become easier if you allocate resources and focus and effort.
我們是可以這樣的希望著,如果您有分配資源並且專注跟努力的話,困難的部分就會變得比較簡單
That’s the point of the work, to whittle away at the hard part.
這就是下苦工的意義,減輕困難的部分
But, if we refuse to ask and answer, then how can we possibly focus on what matters?
但是如果我們拒絕問跟答這個問題(“困難的部分是哪一部分”)
那我們怎麼可能可以專注在真正重要的地方呢?
It’s often a lot more fun and relaxing to focus on the parts that aren’t hard.
通常,專注在沒有那麼困難的部分有趣並且輕鬆多了
Or to pretend that the hard part is easy.
或者,假裝困難的部分不存在是簡單的
Better, I think, if we’ve decided that the work is worth doing, to get serious about the parts that are worth our effort.
我認為比較好的方式是,如果我們決定我們要下苦功的部分是值得被做的。
那就嚴肅以待值得我們努力的那一部分」
以學英文來說,有哪些部分對您來說是特別困難的呢?
文法?閱讀?口說?背單字?聽?介系詞?
就像是賽斯高登說的「每件值得被做的事情都有個困難的部分」。很多時候,在學習中,困難的部分有好多部分。我們需要像是玩瑪莉兄弟一樣,一關一關的去破關。闖關失敗,檢討失敗原因,再重新來過一遍,直到破關為止。直到有一天,透過持續不斷的下苦功練習,困難的部分會變得簡單,變成你的一部分。您可以使用的一部分。
等那天到來,您就會了解,你付出的努力,是值得的。
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allocate中文 在 我的ivf试管婴儿の日记 Facebook 的最佳解答
从老公的角度看试管婴儿疗程
当一对夫妻要做 #IVF试管疗程时,做丈夫的应该用什么态度来面对?常常有网友告诉我说,我的老公精子不好,可是他还是不能戒烟戒酒,好不配合。要知道,不孕症不只是女人的责任,男人也是有责任。这篇文章,是以男人的角度出发,里面分享身为丈夫应该如何帮助太太一起度过疗程,文章是英文内容,是奥莉爸爸写的,奥莉爸不会中文。分享给大家😊
IVF Journey, A Husband’s Perspective
Hi all, before reading further I would like to say this is NOT an instruction or tips for IVF and hopefully readers will understand my poorly written English. This is my journey as a father of the IVF baby girl. Why am I sharing all this? It is because my wife had a Facebook page of her IVF journey at https://facebook.com/ivfjourney2015/ and she told me that majorities (not all but most) feedback indicate husband not supportive enough to commit into a journey of IVF. I’m not a true supportive husband either, least I made up my mind to make it happen.
Let’s start with “Why IVF?”
We went for a fertilization test and results with;
Husband: Teratospermia (Human language, sperm is weak for fertilization process)
Wife: Unexplained infertility (I think this is easy to understand, there is for the confirming reason for this result and we don’t go for further test after it because it will consumes too much time and money)
We married and planned to have children late 2011, both our ages were 37 in 2015 because of late marriage. My wife introduced IVF because she does not want to give up and feels regretful in future and so do I. Maybe because I did too many regretful things in the past, now I do not want this happened to my wife. At least I do it better then ignoring it.
Preparation for IVF
Financially, I know it will involve amount of 20k – 30k “Ringgit Malaysia” in the whole process depending on the situation and this is only one chance for me. I don’t have the money for a second attempt because I need to allocate funds for delivery if success.
Mentally, I do some studies/research on IVF. The whole journey took 50 days and in one of the process my wife needs to do a self-injection daily. I quickly asked my wife “Daily injection?! Do I need to fetch you to clinic daily to do this?” She answered “No, we need to do this ourselves”. A final question from me going to be “How?!” After we sat down and discuss, we comes into conclusion and I will do the injection for her. This was the most painful and nervous moment I ever experience by poking a needle to my wife’s belly EVERYDAY!
Lifestyle, 6 months earlier. My wife told me the NO’s, NO alcohol NO smoking NO midnight wandering NO stress. I said, I will fly up to the skies like butterfly if I able to do all the NO’s. It’s like a mission impossible. How can a man like me not go out to social with friends without alcohol and smoke? The joke was sleeping early! You want me to social with my friends in breakfast or lunch time? At this time, she softly said “I really wants to have a cute baby in future, it looks more like a family. Furthermore, I don’t want to have regretful moments in future”. All these words came out of my love (wife), her words melted in my heart deeply. I told her “Ok, we will go for it BUT you will need to promise me ONE IMPORTANT thing. No matter the process success or not we only have one attempt we need to accept the truth and live happily without regret in future.” she agreed.
Commitment, this is not some empty promise. I made a huge commitment to change my lifestyle into zero alcohol, tobacco and lesser stress. If comparing the pain and suffers my wife will take in this journey e.g., injection, medication effects, hormone changes and all the effects from pregnancies to delivery, mine looks more alike small potatoes (looks much more simple). Trust me guys, don't compare it, if you do and more likely you're going loose badly. For the sake of making a better future, I had fulfilled this commitment.
IVF Journey Phase 1 “Unskilled Husband Injection”
Day 1, doctor consults us for Buserelin injection. I need to inject this medication into my wife's belly each day sharp at 8AM. The nurse had guided me side by side to do the first injection.
Day 2, I started my first injection to my wife's belly without anyone guiding beside. Feels a bit nervous because this time I'm doing it all by myself. I try to hum some music to distract my wife's from looking at the needle while injecting but still she is looking at it.
Day 3 - Day 15, sometime the injection hurting and causes bleeding/bruise to her. I need to find a new spot to inject every time and sees her bruise makes my pain in the heart too. My injection skills improved dramatically. She even told me that she doesn't feel pain like the beginning stages.
Day 16, follow up 2nd checkup. Doctor said, everything goes smoothly and added another medication to inject called Gonal-F to take home and start injecting on day 23. This message never surprises me because I've been told earlier, but just that the price to pay for this medication is quite costly.
Day 17 - Day 22, nothing much on these days and we just stick on the plan as usual.
IVF Journey Phase 2 “Stressful Night”
Day 23, Gonal F injections start today. This needle doesn't look same as those earlier, it comes with medication in it and look like a pen.
Day 24 - Day 26, side effects of the Gonal F medications started. My wife is feeling irritation at the injection site, fullness, bloating and tenderness in the lower abdomen due to the increasing size of the ovaries. Her mood changes dramatically as I can tell, but she endures it and tell me she can handle it.
Day 27, follow up 3rd checkup. Doctor said wife has eggs total of 12 and is ready for Transvaginal oocyte retrieval "Human language, Egg retrieval" at day 31.
Day 28 - Day 29, final injection of Gonal F. At day 29 night, I inject Ovidrel to wife belly to that causes the growth and release of a mature egg (ovulation) for day 31.
Day 30, resting whole day. Finally, we had a day without injection and worrying about holding any needles. Today we wondering about the egg growth, not knowing will the eggs grow more or still the same amount of 12.
Day 31, egg retrieval. 8 egg success retrieves and I give out my sperm for oocytes selection on the same day. Wife given cyclogest for oval protection after the egg retrieval.
IVF Journey Phase 3 “Hopeful Embryo Culture & Embryo Transfer”
Day 32 - Day 35, rest at home. We had pillow talk every night concerning about the growth of an embryo. We also look at sample growth stages of an embryo from the web to see what the current growth stage is.
Day 36, another hopeful and nervous morning. Doctor tells us the result of embryo culture as below;
Total Embryo Retrieve: 8
Embryo Qualified for ICSI: 6
Embryo Success until Cleavage Stage (Day 2 – Day 4): 3
Embryo Success until Blastocyst Stage (Day 5): 2
Embryo Qualified / Recommended for Transfer: 1
Both our eyes looked at each other, knowing only 1 Blastocyst Embryo available to transfer and doctor tell the same after it. I really do not know how to express both our feelings into words here, as we expected to have at least 2 Blastocyst out of 8 embryos and only left 1. We both agreed to proceed this only 1 Blastocyst transfer as this is the only choice we had. It's more likely walking on a 100ft tall string with no supports mission, a single error will fail the mission.
After the transfer process, wife given a room to rest for few hours. A nurse came and give us adjunctive medications, injections and advice while resting at room.
IVF Journey Phase 4 “The Final Moment of IVF”
Day 37 - Day 49, after the transfer. This period is known as 2WW (2 Weeks Wait) with adjunctive medications, injections and be very careful. I just let her sleep/rest more on the bed, I served her every meal in the room. We're also nervous and curious about pregnancy results on day 44, we tested with cheap pregnancy tester and get got a double line on it and we do have a little hope and joy with this result. On day 47, again we test, but this time with expensive pregnancy tester and the results double line again! We're so hopeful and happy at this moment. We really hope this result is true until the next checkup.
Day 50, final checkup. My wife goes for the hCG test by giving a sample of blood, we waited 2 hours for the results. While waiting, nurse guide us to a room to rest. Wife slept and I sat beside concerned on the hCG test results. 2 hours later, the doctor invited us to look for him. Before doctor speaks, while we are sitting down, my wife's eyes were starring in the hCG results number and she spotted the hCG number is 452. She smiles happily while doctor tells her "You are pregnant and congratulations! Come back after 2 weeks to scan for baby heartbeats. And please go out to the counter and ring the bell!”
Just Sharing My Thoughts
By all means, I’m not bragging about my success. I would like to say if anyone is planning on IVF, teamwork is very important and husband play a very important role to increase the success rate. Sometimes, I do feel like a spectator than a participant myself because I never experience any of the medical exams but this is not true. Every injection I put on her belly, I feel the pain in my heart as bad as she has on the belly. Ok, nothing much to share in this IVF journey and next time I might be sharing another journey as a Father! Here is my little baby girl Facebook page奥莉 Olivia Baby - 梁童心心 https://fb.me/oliviababylove if you wish to see her growth updates.
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allocate中文 在 Re: [題目] allocate和distribute - 看板TOEIC - 批踢踢實業坊 的推薦與評價
我覺得這是因為allocate和distribute的『中文定義』不夠清楚,因此很多人都只是把兩
個字同樣背成「分配」,卻沒有弄清楚這兩者真正的英文意思和不同處。
根據Longman字典,distribute的英英釋義如下:
https://www.ldoceonline.com/dictionary/distribute
1 to share things among a group of people, especially in a planned way.
2 to supply goods to shops and companies so that they can sell them.
3 to spread something over a large area。
因此可以說,distribute主要指在一定的範圍內的人們中『分發、分享』東西、物品等或
是『提供』物品給商店、公司作為販售之用。
而allocate的英英釋義根據Longman是:
https://www.ldoceonline.com/dictionary/allocate
to use something for a particular purpose, give something to a particular
person etc, especially after an official decision has been made.
例:the importance of allocating resources to local communities.
因此跟distribute不一樣,allocate是指某單位、政府、企業等等為了『特定的用途、目
地』而『分配 ;撥用』物資/資金/時間給特定的某人、某專案、某事等。
Webster對allocate的英英定義也有強調「為了特定的目地、用途」:
to apportion for a specific purpose or to particular persons or things
而題目有特別提到這筆錢是用來給「the implementation of a new pension plan」,
符合特定的用途、目地,因此,allocate會是最適合這題的正解。
之前看過台灣大學碩士招考某年的考古題,在克漏字也有考過presume和assume讓人來選。
在中文,很多字典都是翻成同樣的「假定」,但如果查英英辭典,這兩個字還是
不同的。
※ 引述《stre1654 (竫斐)》之銘言:
: 書名:寂天 挑戰新多益閱讀滿分2
: 頁數:p.122 第103題
: 題目:
: In the month's budget, the company has____$200,000 to the implementation of a
: new pension plan.
: (A) negotiated
: (B) challenged
: (C) distributed
: (D) allocated
: 答案是D
: 想請問一下,C跟D同樣都是及物動詞,也都有分配的意思
: 為什麼是D不是C
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