關於 altar ideas ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

(English version below)

家一般是情投意合，的两性生活處。大多的人們，一旦申請或購買到，她他們的愛巢時，心中满是装潢屋子的想法，這當然是無可厚非的。有的喜歡采用較摩登式的，有的喜歡較傳統式的，有的喜歡中式的，有的喜歡維多利亞式的，有的喜歡日式的，有的喜歡韓式的，有的喜歡混合式的，等等。但，爲了確保這用心尋覓的愛巢，不是戰場而是快樂溫馨的家園，妳你們何不再继續的用心，去認知房屋，其最眞实的内涵及眞相。這樣才是愛的最初與最終啊！

那請玳瑚師父您，爲眾闡明何謂，房屋之內涵及眞相可否？當爲汝等細說。

房屋之內涵及眞相即是，房屋它本身是一個磁場，人本身同樣有其磁場，吉祥生旺的屋子，一定是人命配卦，住的人的生命磁嚮，一定要與屋子的磁嚮相契合。再來就是房屋周圍的環境如，山巒，建筑物，河流，沟渠，花草樹木，等等。最後是以妳你們的八字喜用神，來選擇應該及對的，装潢格式，房間分配，神位安處，牀位安處，財位定處，門嚮立處，灶位安處，墙壁粉刷顏色，地磚材質，圖紋與顏色，家電之品牌，等等。

當妳你們完全照顧到，這快樂溫馨家園的建設法，安居樂業這四個字，在這時後方能應驗啊！妳你不是别無選擇，選擇其实一直都在於妳你。涼宅或火宅，也是一念之間啊！

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A house is generally a habitat for two persons of both sexes with similar love interests. For most people when they have successfully applied or purchased their love nest, they are full of ideas how they wish to renovate their homes. This is of course inevitable.

Some people like more modern decor, some prefer traditional, some like it Oriental, some fancy the Victorian, some adore Japanese, some like it Korean while others like it mixed etc.

However, to ensure that this love nest, which you spent so much effort in seeking out, does not turn into a battlefield but instead becomes a happy and heartwarming home, why do you not continue to devote more effort to know the most genuine substance and real situation of this house? This will be truly love from the most beginning and till the end!

So can Master Dai Hu explain what I mean by the genuine substance and real situation of this house? Sure, I can explain in detail for you.

The substance and real situation of a house arises from the fact that a house itself is an energy field. Humans too have their own energy fields. An auspicious house that breeds prosperity is definitely one whose compass direction matches the Bazi of the occupants. Similarly, the Life magnetic directions of the occupants will certainly be compatible with the house's compass directions.

Secondly, the surroundings of the house are favourable like the rocks, nearby buildings, river flow, drains and flora and fauna etc.

Lastly, based on the favourable elements you need for your Bazi, choose the correct home decor, room pairing, location of altar, bed placement, location of store of wealth, door facing direction, stove placement, wall paint colours, flooring material, patterns and colours, and the brands of electrical appliances etc.

When you have adequately taken care of the ways to build this happy and heartwarming home, your wish of living in peace and working happily will come true!

It is not that you have no choice. You always do. Whether you live in a peaceful abode or a fiery house, it all lies in that one thought of yours!

Just had a wonderful night session with Father in Heaven at 5am in the morning because of my insomnia (it was a sign that I haven't truly spent quality time with Him in a while).

I always had a difficulty understanding the concept of loving myself and being kind to myself. I want to love myself but I always thought of it as a selfish act. My sister @carmen.cheng probably knows the best, how I always struggle with this idea. I really don't know how to love myself. I always feel guilty of listening to my heart and feelings. And because I don't know how to love myself, I don't know how to properly love others either.

But Tonight through quite time with God, prayers and worship song, O come to the altar (I fall in love with this song when I first heard it in NYCAC Sunday service https://youtu.be/ycWDFd0yCHA), I have my answers.

To truly love myself, Means I need to truly love God and listen to Him, for He is the ultimate creator of everything so He knows what is best for me. But to get what is best for me, I must listen to Him, and obey. There is no other way because He is God, what more can I emphasise this, He is God, who is beyond the concept of time because He is the beginning and end; He created time. So He knows what's best for me, all of us. It's the matter if we choose to obey and listen to him or not, whether we accept that He is God and we are only human, part of his creation, or not. The freedom to decide and choose is granted to us, but choosing correctly is the key. The key to open all the locks, to get you on the right path instead of running of track and end up being lost. And again, he knows what's best for you, so why not follow instead of deciding on your own, blindfolded, listening to your own limited knowledge and ideas about this world and the meaning of life, making yourself an idol. It is really important to see, understand and humbly accept the difference between God and us, or else we wouldn't be able to understand the importance of obeying. Instead of fighting against the ocean current, it is easier to flow with the directed movement, which means rely on Him through ups and downs to have peace and rest, even when the storm is coming, who knows, there might be a rainbow ahead.

And so to obey God basically means treating yourself better because you get the easy pass by doing so. So then suddenly, the concept of loving yourself is not selfish anymore, because you have to first love God. And to love God, simply means doing what He has told, taught and understand what He likes and dislike. And suddenly I remember Timothy Keller's sermon on Your Plans: God's Plans. (https://youtu.be/3OXaJPiov5E)

And that is the true wisdom to life. ❤️✝️