關於 anything you say意思 ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

#我也是看法白才知道：台灣警察會說：「你所說的都將成為呈堂證供」嗎

如果有看過香港警匪片，會發現警察逮捕犯人的時候，會順便說一句「你所說的都將成為呈堂證供」。

這句話是什麼意思？台灣警察抓犯人，也會這樣說嗎？
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米蘭達警告

「你所說的都將成為呈堂證供」 是來自美國的「米蘭達警告」，規定警察檢察官在逮捕、訊問犯人時，必須告知他們相關權利，包括有權行使沈默、可以請律師等等：

You have the right to remain silent.
Anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law.
You have the right to talk to a lawyer and have him present while you are questioned.
If you cannot afford to hire a lawyer, one will be appointed to represent you before questioning, if you wish one.

這段話大概的意思是，告知被告「你可以保持緘默、任何陳述的內容都將送上法庭作為不利於你的證據、你可以選任辯護人在場或提供法律諮詢、如果你請不起律師，可以在訊問前請求指定辯護人幫你辯護。」
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台灣怎麼說？

類似的東西在台灣，根據刑事訴訟法規定，叫做「告知義務」。這是在要求法官、檢察官、司法警察在訊問被告的之前，有一些事情一定要先跟被告講：

1⃣️ 被告的犯罪嫌疑和所犯的罪名。如果之後變更罪名，必須再告知一次。
2⃣️ 被告可以保持緘默，不需要作出違背自己意思的陳述。
3⃣️ 被告可以選任辯護人。如果是低收入戶、中低收入戶、原住民或其他可以請求法律扶助的人，可以請求。
4⃣️ 被告可以請求調查有利於你的證據。

講完這一套「告知義務」之後才能開始訊問被告。這是為了保護被告的訴訟權，讓被告知道他在訴訟上的權利。

雖然概念相似，但台灣警察並不會說「你所說的都將成為呈堂證供」喔。
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如果被警察抓了，該怎麼辦呢？
📖 延伸閱讀：龍建宇｜Ep2：ㄜㄧ警察找我去警局喝茶，好可怕喔！
https://plainlaw.me/2016/06/10/legal-life-ep2/
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#法律白話文運動

【podcast選物 no. 12】Heartfelt Apology

我們不會把車鑰匙丟給小孩，推他一把：
「去開車，去」
但我們總是推著小孩往前，鼓勵著：
「去說對不起，去」
不會開車的人會撞傷人、撞傷車、或撞傷自己
不會道歉的人也會傷人、傷了關係、或傷了自己
那我們為何總是不教小孩該怎麼好好道歉呢？
因為我們也沒學過道歉
因為我們也是被推著去道歉的小朋友


Brené Brown和Harriet Lerner在podcast節目Unlocking Us裡談了 #九個好好道歉的要素 (Nine Essential Ingredients of a True Apology)，我簡單列出分享給大家，相當推薦各位存起來，把這九項要點當作吵完架回顧時的討論架構，沒有架構的回顧容易陷入 #但是我覺得 的無止盡迴圈裡，把這九項要點寫成九張紙條，兩人一次一張紙互相發表想法，實在是 #居家自助諮商必備良藥


1️⃣ a true apology does not include the word “but”
(好好道歉就是不要一邊道歉一邊說「但是你也⋯⋯」)

2️⃣ A true apology keeps the focus on your action, not on the other person’s response.
(請針對你做了什麼去好好道歉，不要牽拖是對方太敏感)

3️⃣ A good apology includes an offer of reparation or restitution that fits the situation.
(不要只是搔頭說抱歉，好好道歉是在合理範圍內主動提出補償)

4️⃣ A true apology does not overdo.
(控制自己，不要崩潰哭著去道歉，讓對方反而得照顧你)

5️⃣ A true apology doesn’t get caught up in who is more to blame or who started it. You apologize for your part of a problem, even if the other person can’t see their part.
(好好道歉就是如果你看見自己應該道歉的部分，針對你的部分道歉，你的道歉無關這個爭執因誰而起，也無關對方是否看見他該道歉的部分）👈🏼 難度五顆星

6️⃣ A true apology requires you do your best to avoid a repeat performance.
(好好道歉就是儘量不再犯)

7️⃣ A true apology should not serve to silence another person.
(好好道歉不是為了讓對方閉嘴不再找你碴)

8️⃣ A true apology should not be offered to make you feel better if it risks making the hurt party feel worse.
(好好道歉不是讓你逼著對方聽你的道歉，逼著對方接受你的賠罪)

9️⃣ A true apology doesn’t ask the hurt party to do anything, not even to forgive.
(好好道歉不是交易，你道完歉不代表對方就該接著也表示點什麼，也不代表對方應該讓它過去)


———以下是深入版的討論示範———


1️⃣ a true apology does not include the word “but”
「真的很不好意思讓你等那麼久，但是如果你早點說，我就不會...」
真誠道歉，必須讓對方有感，深深有感，切勿but，一旦加上了but，前面的道歉頓時就成了一張包裝紙，拆開包裝，蹦出來的是責怪攻擊、理屈強辯、假意安撫，沒人會記得本來包裝上寫的是對不起。

🚩「但對方真的就是太晚講啊，我道歉歸道歉，他太晚講也是事實啊，我為何不能說？」
👉🏼 Lerner在podcast節目裡說：
Once you say “I’m sorry but…”, it doesn’t matter if what you say after the “but” is true. It will cancel out your apology.
apology像一杯 #味道細緻的茶，用but多加了其他味道，對方就嚐不出你的歉意何在了


2️⃣ A true apology keeps the focus on your action, not on the other person’s response.
🚩「如果你覺得我說的話冒犯了你，我道歉」
這話聽來完全無法讓人氣消。
但也很難找到理由繼續生氣，常常此時只能啞口無言，心裡委屈。

這話之所以讓人難受，是因為「如果我說的話有冒犯到你」這話背後的意思是「我不覺得我說的話傷人」。
所以如果你沒察覺，不知情之下接受這個糟糕的設定，那麼判定他的話是否傷人的關鍵就悄悄變成你是否 #太敏感，如果你回答：「是，我覺得很不舒服」，那麼對方的道歉反而顯得大氣：你太脆弱，他太好心，他願意為你的敏感道歉

👉🏼「如果要道歉，請針對你冒犯人的言語，告訴我你知道你的話傷人」


#想進一步在課堂上跟我討論歡迎私訊
#想把這集的節目當英文學習材料也歡迎私訊


#語言選物 #podcast選物 #好好道歉

【萬善之頭】The Origin of Virtuousness

今天是農曆七月初五，也是我唸報父母恩咒的第五天。

這咒我唸了十五的農曆七月了。

讀到許多觀眾留言，說因為我的直播，他們也在今年開始持這咒，我真的真的⋯⋯為你們的父母感到欣慰。😄

在華人的社會裡，一般來說，正正當當的賺錢孝敬父母、和顏悅色、奉公守法、傳宗接代，不做丟人現眼的事是基本的孝。

但這些在佛教裡，實屬小孝。

以這定義，我絕對是不孝女，因為有很多年我做生意負債時，一分錢都給不到父母，又不敢對他們坦白，只說沒錢。

好啦，如果您有本事，做生意成功，風光回鄉，讓您父母和祖宗十八代笑得見牙不見眼，那也只有中孝而已。

最大的孝，是修行，因為您能助您父母脫離六道，您們都不用再受輪迴之苦。

因此釋迦牟尼佛成佛時，祂的母親摩耶夫人便得升忉利天中，享天福。

您能先從一佛號、一佛咒開始，便已向修行的道路邁出第一步了！

不要小看報父母恩咒，因為這是釋迦牟尼佛所傳的。所以各位大德，千萬要記得這一點 - 一定要教您的孩子和您一起唸報父母恩咒！👧🏻👦🏻

做父母的，要懂得投資啊！百善孝為先，孩子小小年紀就懂得盡孝，就有了人最基本的良知，為自己種下了廣大的福田。就算以後您不在他們的身邊，他們也必會遇到貴人扶持，命運不會太壞，只因為他們是孝子孝女。

再說了，萬一您有什麼三長兩短，修行失敗，還有個後代可以助您！錯過了蓮花捷運，到不了佛國淨土，到天界做天人，總比擠在一堆骨灰盎裡好呀！😂

報父母恩咒：「南無密栗哆。哆婆曳。梭哈」
Nan Mo Mi Li Duo Duo Po Yi Soha

（我是修真佛密法的，因此此咒結尾，我是依著我師尊的唸音，唸「梭哈」。這代表圓滿、成就的意思。）

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報父母恩咒49遍: https://youtu.be/a9XbKo6_L6E
唸報父母恩咒有何功德：https://youtu.be/x-7GPmbq5nw

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Today is the 5th day of the 7th Lunar month, and also my fifth day of reciting the Mantra of Repaying the Debt of Gratitude to Parents this year.

I have been reciting this mantra for fifteen years.

I read many comments from my viewers, that they started reciting this mantra this year after watching my Lives. I am so glad for your parents. 😄

In our Chinese society, generally speaking, the most basic forms of filial piety include:

1) making a honest living to give pocket money to our parents
2) being pleasant towards our parents
3) not breaking the law
4) carrying on the family lineage
5) not doing any shameful act

However, in the eyes of the Dharma, these are merely small acts of filial piety.

Going by this definition, I am definitely an unfilial daughter. Because there were many years when I got into debt from doing business and was unable to give my parents a single cent. I could not bring myself to tell them the truth and could only say I was broke.

Okay, if you are more capable than me congratulations on your big-time success in doing business! So you return to your homeland in triumphant victory and see your parents + ancestors of the past 18 generations grinning from teeth to teeth.

That is just the medium level of filial piety.

The biggest form of filial piety is spiritual cultivation. For you can help your parents to break free from the six realms of reincarnation and all of you will no longer have to undergo the sufferings of birth and death.

Hence, when Shakyamuni Buddha attained Buddhahood, his deceased mother, Queen Maya, ascended to Trayastrimsas Heaven to enjoy heavenly pleasures.

When you start reciting one Buddha’s name, or one Buddhist mantra, you have already taken your first step onto the path of Buddhist cultivation.

Do not belittle the Mantra of Repaying Debt of Gratitude to Parents, for it was expounded by Shakyamuni Buddha.

So to all my noble audience, please remember this very important point - you must teach your children to recite this mantra together with you! 👧🏻👦🏻

As parents, we should all be astute investors. Filial piety is the most important of all virtues. When a child knows how to be filial from a young age, he/she already has the most basic conscience as a human, and that will sow the seeds for fields of great blessedness.

Come one day when you can no longer be by your child’s side, your child will definitely meet many benefactors in the life path and not have a wretched destiny, because they are filial from young.

Moreover, if anything untoward happen to you and you fail miserably in your spritual cultivation, at least you still have a descendant to help you.

Should you miss the lotus train to the Buddha’s Pureland, to be a celestial being in the Heaven far surpasses the fate of being squeezed like sardines in a urn placed in the columbarium. 👻

報父母恩咒：「南無密栗哆。哆婆曳。梭哈」
Nan Mo Mi Li Duo Duo Po Yi Soha

(I practices the True Buddha Tantric Dharma, thus I follow my Root Guru’s recitation sounds and recite “soha” at the end of this mantra. This represents perfection and accomplishment.）

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Mantra to Repay Debt of Gratitude to Parents x 49: https://youtu.be/a9XbKo6_L6E
Merits of this mantra：https://youtu.be/x-7GPmbq5nw

本年度最陽剛又最性感的MV就是Lil Nas X了😆
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-TERI xx


【完整翻譯】Lil Nas X & Jack Harlow - Industry Baby

Baby back, couple racksCouple Grammys on him, couple plaquesThat's a fact, throw it backThrow it back
我回來了 帶著滿架子的獎牌
葛萊美拿了好幾座 白金唱片得了一堆
這一切鐵證如山
所以趕快轉過去熱舞來討好我
And this one is for the championsI ain't lost since I beganFunny how you said it was the endThen I went did it again
這是獻給稱霸的冠軍
踏上路以來 我從來就未曾迷失
你不覺得好笑嗎？ 酸民說我玩完了
但我回來了 又大獲全勝

I told you long ago on the roadI got what they waiting for
I don't run from nothing, dogGet your soldiers, tell 'em I ain't layin' low
早在那條老街上 我就說了吧
我有大家引頸期盼的東西
我可不會隨便逃跑
所以告訴你的大軍 我沒有要低調引退的意思
You was never really rooting for me anywayWhen I'm back up at the top, I wanna hear you sayHe don't run from nothin', dogGet your soldiers, tell 'em that the break is over
反正你也從來沒喜歡過我
當我重返榮耀 我要聽到你說
「他不會輕易離場」
所以集結你的大軍 告訴他們休息時間結束了

Need to get this album doneNeed a couple number onеsNeed a plaque on every song
Need mе like one with Nicki now
我得把這張專輯完成
我得再拿下幾座冠軍
我要每一首歌都有白金獎牌
我要和Nicki一起站上高峰
Tell a rap nigga I don't see yaI'm a pop nigga like Bieber
I don't fuck bitches, I'm queer
But these niggas bitches like Madea
告訴嘻哈饒舌仔 我眼裡根本沒有你
我就像小賈斯汀一樣 流行到爆
妹子？我沒興趣 我是酷兒
你們這些酸民就像個老媽子一樣

let's do it
I ain't fall off, I just ain't release my new shit
I blew up, now everybody tryna sue me
You call me Nas, but the hood call me Doobie
開工吧
我沒有跌落神壇 我只是新歌還沒發
我一夕爆紅 現在每個人都想告我
你們叫我Nas 但我家鄉的人叫我Doobie

[Jack Harlow]
My track record so clean, they couldn't wait to just bash meI must be gettin' too flashy, y'all shouldn't have let the world gas me
我沒拿什麼獎 他們等不及就說我沒實力
我肯定是太招搖了 你們不該讓全世界噴爆我
It's too late 'cause I'm here to stay and these girls know that I'm nastyI sent her back to her boyfriend with my handprint on her ass cheek
太遲了 因為老子我已經要在這裡待下
妹子們都愛我
讓我在她的翹臀上留下紅紅的掌印
再回去找她男朋友

City talkin', we takin' notesTell 'em all to keep makin' postsWish he could, but he can't get close
OG so proud of me that he chokin' up while he makin' toasts
I'm the type that you can't control, said I would, then I made it so
謠言四起 我們做著筆記
告訴大家繼續po文吧
他只是羨慕 但他永遠趕不上我
嘻哈大老們為我驕傲 他敬酒的時候還在哽咽
我完全不受控 我就是說到做到

I don't clear up rumors, where's y'all sense of humor?
I'm done makin' jokes 'cause they got old like baby boomers
Turned my haters to consumers, I make vets feel like they juniors
Say your time is comin' soon, but just like Oklahoma
我從來沒在闢謠的 你們難道都沒幽默感嗎
我也不想在開玩笑了 不然怎麼講都是老梗
把我的酸民變粉絲 讓老兵變年輕
你說你的時代已經要來了
Mine is comin' sooner, I'm just a late bloomerI didn't peak in high school, I'm still out here gettin' cuter
All these social networks and computersGot these pussies walkin' 'round like they ain't losers
但我的時代來的更快 我是大器晚成
我在高中不受歡迎 但現在我越來越討喜
這些鍵盤戰士 總是故意說著妹子怎樣 顯得自己比較不魯

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Lyrics:

I moved away and changed my number and when I did it
後來我就搬走了 還換了號碼
I’d hoped that cutting you off would make me feel different
我以為離開你就能一切重新開始
I know I'm weaker than I probably seem
我知道我日漸消瘦
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切都怪罪於你

All pins and needles when I meet somebody new and I
我遇到陌生人就會如坐針氈
Get all choked up whenever they ask about you and I
無論何時被他們問你的去向我都無言以對
Feel so pathetic and I wanna scream
覺得自己很可悲 好想喊出聲來
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切錯誤都怪罪於你
I think you know exactly what I mean
我以為你會明白我的意思

You really fucked me up
但你真的把我傷透了
Screaming at my mirror like I’m fucking drunk
我像喝醉了一樣對著鏡子發火
Question who I am and what I could’ve done
質問自己是誰 本該做些什麼
'Cause you're the one who told me that you were in love, oh
因為是你告訴我你戀愛了

You really fucked me up
你真的把我傷透了
Close my eyes and think of anything but us
閉上眼睛 除了我們什麼都可以想
Made me feel like I'm the one who's not enough
搞得好像我才是那個不夠好的人
But you're the one who told me that you were in love
但你是那個告訴我你在戀愛的人

Try to forget how you could never meet me in the middle
試著忘卻再也無法與你邂逅的事實
How all the pain that you inflicted made me feel so little
你給我帶來無盡的痛苦 讓我越來越自卑
A little tired of remembering
不堪回憶
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切錯誤都怪罪於你

You'd change so quick you'd start a fight and make me say I'm sorry
但你會改變得如此之快 是你挑起了矛盾 卻要我來道歉
Make me look like a fucking idiot at every party
讓我在所有派對上都表現得像個傻子
It made sick it’s so embarrassing
那些尷尬的回憶 你讓我感到噁心
I can't lie I blame you for everything
我得承認 我把一切錯誤都怪罪於你
And I think you know exactly what I mean
我以為你會懂我的意思

You really fucked me up
你真的把我傷透了
Screaming at my mirror like I’m fucking drunk
我就像醉了一樣對著鏡子發火
Question who I am and what I could have done
質問自己是誰 本該做些什麼
'Cause you're the one who told me that you were in love, oh
因為是你告訴我你戀愛了

You really fucked me up
你真的傷透了我
Close my eyes and think of anything but us
閉上眼睛 除了我們什麼都可以想
Made me feel like I'm the one who's not enough
搞得好像我才是那個不知滿足的人
But you're the one who told me that you were in love, oh
但你是那個告訴我你在戀愛的人

You really fucked me up
但你真的把我傷透
Screaming at my mirror like I’m fuckin drunk
我像喝醉了一樣對著鏡子發火
Question who I am and what I could’ve done
質問自己是誰 本該做些什麼
'Cause you're the one who said that you were in love, oh
因為是你告訴我你戀愛了

歌詞翻譯：原上巽

#vaultboy #aftermath #lyric #西洋歌曲推薦

：Rockabye 、 What Would You Do （兩首歌組合）
Cover By：Shaun Reynolds & Samantha Dorrance
翻譯：Vicky Tsai
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原本想要做Clean Bandit（最愛團體）這首歌的現場版～
結果卻找到了SR的翻唱版本，還混了另外一首歌，
聽完第一遍就下定決心要做字幕影片了，因為超歡樂的啊！
（SR的另外一首歌大家很多人也喜歡，就是say you won't let go那首）
因為原本就知道rockabye是在講述
一位單親媽媽愛護自己孩子的故事，
原本以為混的另外一首歌意思會相差甚大，
沒想到也是傳達一樣的情緒，
完完全全超級契合的兩首歌被SR這樣一編，
甚至有比原曲更佳出色。
總之這首光聽旋律會以為是歡樂情歌的歌曲，
其實是一首既悲傷又堅強的歌曲，
反差頗大，不過我覺得大家會喜歡的～

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*Original URL:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c4hEMTiSh9o
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