「給你一個擁抱。」(圖所傳達的意境。)
我在網路上藉由一個療癒的遊戲,認識了一個跟我同歲,來自印尼雅加達(Indonesia)的心理諮商師。
從認識到現在的時間裡,我每天盡力用著「大學被當三年的英文程度」與她對話,她是一個非常溫暖、貼心、善於傾聽、也很善解人意的人。
即使語言的不同讓我常常言不及義,或是要查著很多的單字才能對話,但她總會不厭其煩的等我。
今天遇到她的時候,她一如往常的問起我最近如何?
我跟她分享了,這一波颱風造成的天氣變化,導致我的病情突然急轉直下,從昨天晚上開始一直喘不過氣,呼吸變得很吃力,手腳也沒有力氣抬高,需要去醫院治療。
也順便告訴她,台灣的疫情趨緩了,可能會在近期微微解封,同時也問起她這幾天好嗎?
她告訴我,印尼的疫情這幾天極速惡化,從本來開始趨緩的兩三千人,突然擴大到單日確診破5萬人。
她的一位要好的朋友,在這一波疫情下過世了,而她的grandma、aunt、uncle、brother都確診了COVID-19 ,而且狀況都不是很好。
她說,她一直告訴自己,情緒、心智、身體的平衡在此刻都非常重要,如果她不夠strong,就無法支撐家裡撐過這一波的挑戰。
自己沒有什麼能做的,也無法到醫院去探望他們,唯一能做的就是在此刻照顧好自己。
聽到這個消息,心裡非常的難過,我用了很破、很沒有文法的英文說:”I am sorry, I can’t do anything… I just can give you a hug.”
那個當下我感到自己極度渺小,世界上有這麼多人還在疫情的肆虐中痛苦、疾病的惡化中掙扎,而我的痛苦就是這世界的某一小部份罷了。
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無論是肺炎、又或是重症肌無力都會引發呼吸困難。
因此可以感受到,不能好好呼吸是一件多麼辛苦的事情,但我們依然盡著所剩的力氣,努力喘著下一口氣。
印象中她曾經問我,為什麼選擇勇敢?
我說:「我時常也不知道為什麼要勇敢,過去我認為我之所以勇敢是為了對在我身邊的人交代,不讓他們擔心。
但現在好像多了一點什麼。
如果我不面對眼前的苦痛,我就無法見證自己成為我想成為的樣貌。」
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我拿起樂器,彈了一首《天空之城》給她。
宮崎峻的天空之城,之於我的某一層意義是——「對於美好世界及和平理想的嚮往,並義無反顧的追尋。甚至明白,無論結果如何,都感謝這份自己所付出的勇敢。」
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對話的最後,她說了兩句話。
“I promise what hurts now won’t hurt forever. “
“Jiayo! Lue!”
接著我們擁抱,各自離開了遊戲中,繼續面對著自己人生的課題。
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最後那個英文單字,我想了很久——原來是「加油」啊。
是我最不喜歡的那兩個字,但在那一刻我卻沒有感受到不舒服,因為在此時此刻的當下,我們伴著彼此在努力著,在現實世界中繼續面對那些苦難。
最後想分享她曾經跟我說過的一句話給各位。
“White is not always light and black is not always dark.”
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如果有人能把以上的句子翻譯的很好聽,歡迎在底下留言!我打英文的地方大都是我不知道怎麼翻會比較好聽或適切,能意會而不能言語的部份🤣
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至於我的狀態⋯⋯感覺似乎又到了必須進廠維修換血的時刻,這一波,能撐的過去嗎?
我不太確定,但是心情上卻很平靜,可能是知道這時候,平穩是最能讓自己安心的一種狀態了吧。
就好好休息吧,許律。
同時也有9部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過1萬的網紅Melissa Celestine Koh,也在其Youtube影片中提到,Oh how time flies! Noah's first few months are so vivid in my mind but it's already been a year since he was born. So much has happened within the pas...
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Guess who’s back! I’ve been on a social media detox for these past few months for a multitude of reasons - helping out Mr Dad and Mrs Mom with our new home renovation #TheOldForgeCottage 🏡 as well as focusing on my studies for my final exams.
But now I’m back! And no, though it may seem like it, I’m not making my debut as a singer (…yet 😉). This is just a special request from my auntie ilurvesugar for her birthday. Fun fact: she and her husband actually share the same birthday - 6th July! Seems like it’s definitely a match made in heaven, huh?
Hope you all enjoy this lil’ musical treat from me as a birthday wish for my lovely aunt. Masi and Uncle Muhammad, may Allah grant you both many more happy and healthy years after this and grant every wish of yours…Aameen 🤍
A blessed nephew,
O. Mukhtar O. Mukhlis
#theomarmukhtar
p/s: Sharing a lil’ sneak peek of a little corner in our Study Room at #TheOldForgeCottage 🏡 This Study Room is situated in the main cottage building facing our cottage garden…
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【能成功的人,絕對不粗心】
You Don't Become Successful by Being Careless
昨天早上的八字諮詢報名,我都已回覆了。沒收到我回覆的,原因不離:
一、沒有確切的出生時間。
有報名者在這欄寫 tba upon confirmation (確定諮詢後再通知)。
這位應該是沒看我最近的直播,也略過我網頁註明的條規。別把我的條規當兒戲。
在僧多粥少的情況下,我寧願把諮詢排給有準備的人。其實就算有空,我也沒想接,因為態度一開始就不對了。
二、填錯生日
有位先生把生日寫成(舉例):05/07/2021。
我覺得應該在下一季報名,先生出來,才能有確定的八字來批命。
也有位先生寫成 05/07/198。
這是要我自己看星卜卦還是捏指神算?
表格欄裡註明要的是陽曆生日,因此填寫農曆生日的也不會回覆。
三、填錯電郵
結果我的郵件被退回。
四、曾聯絡我師父
我都懂,您也懂。一開始就來騙我這位大貴人,天在看啊~
另外,各位回覆我時,請勿以撰寫新郵件的方式。這樣我還得搜回之前的郵件,看是否有漏掉什麼,很沒有效率,會讓後面等待我回覆的客人等得更久。如果屢犯,那請恕我會取消諮詢。
過多的粗心,是一種業力的黑影。在重要的時刻粗心,那真的是鬼遮眼了。
天底下多少人都曾算過命,找師父算,找朋友算,找三姑八叔算,用電腦算,一算再算不亦樂乎,可為何真正能推翻八字四柱束縛的人卻如鳳毛麟角呢?
要改命,先學會對自己嚴格一點,看到任何蛛絲馬跡的粗心都得立志把它改過來,才能過突破自己命運的侷限。
好命,不是您要就應該有的。
所以改命前,總是有考驗,也必須有考驗,才能測出您到底是否值得好命。
要不然,就隨便吧!
📺 https://youtu.be/YZ-GgOXlDKc
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For Bazi registrations sent in yesterday, I have already replied to all. If you have yet to receive my email, very likely these are the reasons:
1) No precise birth time
One registrant wrote "tba upon confirmation" in the birth time field. I guess he must have not seen my recent FB Live, and skimmed over the rules stated on my webpage.
Don't think little of the rules I list. When I do not have enough time slots to allocate, I would rather give it to someone who comes more prepared. Actually, even if I am free, I would still not take up this request, because the attitude is wrong right at the start.
2) Wrong birthday stated
A gentleman wrote his birthday as e.g 05/07/2021.
Please register again next season after he is born. It would be a more accurate reading, when the Bazi is affirmed upon his birth.
Another gentleman wrote 05/07/198.
Mister, it's a lot of work if I need to see the stars to do divination for your birth year...
The birthday field asks for birthdays in Gregorian calendar i.e. the usual Western calendar we are familiar with. Thus, forms with Lunar birthdays written will also not get a reply.
3) Wrong email given
And my mail got bounced back...
4) Contacted my Shifu previously
I know. You also know. So don't attempt to bluff this noble benefactor. Heaven is watching.
Excessive carelessness is the shadow of negative karma. To be negligent at important moments is literally having your eyes blindfolded by ghosts.
Countless of people have gotten their fortune told. They look for Masters, seek the help of friends, get the advice of Third Aunt and Eighth Uncle, and use the computer to read their Bazi, relishing in the delight of knowing what is ahead.
But..why is it so rare for people to tear down the confines of the four pillars in their Bazi?
To transform your destiny, you have to first learn to be stricter with yourself. When you see any traces of carelessness, you must have the determination to improve on that, to break out from the limits of your destiny.
A good Destiny is not something you should have just because you want it.
Thus on the cusp of changing your Destiny, there is bound to be tests and there definitely should be such obstacles.
To see whether you deserve the good fortunes.
If you don't wish to make the mark, then just let things be.
📺 https://youtu.be/YZ-GgOXlDKc
aunt and uncle 在 Melissa Celestine Koh Youtube 的最讚貼文
Oh how time flies! Noah's first few months are so vivid in my mind but it's already been a year since he was born. So much has happened within the past year, and I am so grateful for all the wonderful memories we've had together.
Noah's first birthday was both fun and emotional for me. We had an intimate celebration at home, due to the extended "Circuit Breaker" but honestly wouldn't trade it for any other way.
The entire day revolved around Noah and we did everything in our capacity to give him the best day of his life!
He woke up with a balloon surprise, a delicious oatmeal pancake breakfast during which he zoom called his grandma, aunt and uncle, unboxed many presents waiting for him, and woke up from his afternoon nap to surprise #2 -- a little obstacle course in our corridor! He then had a ball of fun with the cake smash, before another zoom meeting with my girlfriends. His Godma, Natalie, surprised all of us with a beautiful song dedication that she composed and wrote specially for Noah.
The song you hear during the second part of this video.
How many 1-year-old's actually has a song written to their name? Noah is definitely one lucky boy.
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來看看充滿歐力笑聲的影片,歐力每次吃飽飯心情都超好~
超級療癒的笑聲幫叔叔姨姨哥哥姐姐們重新充好電,
上班上課都不BLUE喔!
Take a look at the film full of Baby Ollie laughter,
Baby Ollie have great mood after his meal.
Super healing laughter help Uncle Aunt brother and sister re-charged!
Hope all of you have a nice day!
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ไฮดี้ สาวน้อยแห่งเทือกเขาแอลป์ - Heidi - เทพนิยาย - นิทานก่อนนอน | นิทานก่อนนอนสำหรับเด็ก
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Heidi
Heidi is a girl who has been raised by her aunt Detie in Maienfeld, Switzerland after the early deaths of her parents, Tobias and Adelheid (Detie's sister and brother-in-law). Detie brings 6-year-old Heidi to her paternal grandfather's house, up the mountain from Dörfli. He has been at odds with the villagers and embittered against God for years and lives in seclusion on the alm. This has earned him the nickname Alm-Uncle. He briefly resents Heidi's arrival, but the girl's evident intelligence and cheerful yet unaffected demeanor soon earn his genuine, if reserved, affection. Heidi enthusiastically befriends her new neighbors, young Peter the goatherd, his mother, Bridget, and his blind maternal grandmother, who is "Grannie" to everyone. With each season that passes, the mountaintop inhabitants grow more attached to Heidi.
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ดูเรื่องราวของเด็ก ๆ ในภาษาอังกฤษ:
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?** เด็กคลาสสิกเทพนิยาย **?
? ชุดใหม่ของพระราชา - The Emperor's New Clothes: https://youtu.be/GBKXTx45yGE
? เดอะนัทแครกเกอร์ - The Nutcracker: https://youtu.be/RzAt0wAOPpI
? มนุษย์ขนมปังขิง - Gingerbread Man: https://youtu.be/tIzRMIgNz7U
? อลิซท่องแดนมหัศจรรย์ - Alice in Wonderland: https://youtu.be/mcZ7qYqp4h4
? แจ็คผู้ฆ่ายักษ์ - Jack and the Beanstalk: https://youtu.be/ktF_8H5lCaE
? ทัมเบลินา - Thumbelina: https://youtu.be/PX4sNo4vwLw
? และโคมไฟวิเศษ - Aladdin and His Magic Lamp
: https://youtu.be/OmM0rQbRntU
? พินอคคิโอ - Pinocchio: https://youtu.be/0qJGjMK2brs
? ฮันเซลและเกรเทล - Hansel and Gretel: https://youtu.be/vvVxm7BkiHo
? พ่อมดแห่งออซ - Wizard of Oz: https://youtu.be/GqW01mmtTzQ
? ปีเตอร์ แพน - Peter Pan: https://youtu.be/_B_fYw9hs18
? อาถรรพ์วันคริสต์มาส - A Christmas Carol: https://youtu.be/CF9iS15er-M
? เด็กหญิงขายไม้ขีดไฟ - The Little Match Girl: https://youtu.be/A0kJYivsH9Y
? หนูน้อยโกลดิล็อคส์ กับหมีสามตัว - Goldilocks and the Three Bears: https://youtu.be/53yqPLH6uDU
? หนูน้อยหมวกแดง - Little Red Riding Hood: https://youtu.be/NZo6cK98Gak
? อาลีบาบากับโจร 40 คน - Ali Baba and the Forty Thieves: https://youtu.be/Qci0aqZiaS8
? ช่างทำรองเท้าและเอลฟ์ - The Elves and the Shoemaker: https://youtu.be/HdjI4IlSdCo
? เมาคลีลูกหมาป่า - The Jungle Book: https://youtu.be/SLj7H7jLjPk
? พุซ อิน บู๊ทส์ - Puss in Boots: https://youtu.be/JjaPCEQ8FL4
? ไฮดี้ สาวน้อยแห่งเทือกเขาแอลป์ - Heidi : https://youtu.be/34y62-rvIyM
? รัมเพิลสติลสกิน - Rumpelstiltskin: https://youtu.be/Utn0SAXbTl8
? เจ้าชายความสุข - Happy Prince: https://youtu.be/j3JpCkemAZM
? ชุดใหม่ของพระราชา - The Emperor's New Clothes: https://youtu.be/GBKXTx45yGE
?** เรื่องสัตว์ **?
? หมาป่าและเด็กเจ็ด - The Wolf and the Seven Little Goats: https://youtu.be/F2arYpYEqhw
? ลูกเป็ดขี้เหร่ - The Ugly Duckling: https://youtu.be/BLuho4UK2-U
? ลูกหมูสามตัว - Three Little Pigs: https://youtu.be/xZyUVm1wT14
? เต่า กระต่าย - The Tortoise and the Hare: https://youtu.be/6rXdIpR5ewU
? ราชสีห์กับหนู - The Lion and The Mouse: https://youtu.be/TkL5wJmePjU
? ไก่แดงแสนขยัน - The Little Red Hen: https://youtu.be/qzYE-zGuEyI
? สุนัขจิ้งจอกกับอีกา - The Fox and The Crow: https://youtu.be/Q2xWNxFYPmI
? มด ตั๊กแตน - The Ant and the Grasshopper: https://youtu.be/_70w_isLl3I
? หนูในเมืองกับหนูชนบท - The Country Mouse and the City Mouse: https://youtu.be/PkPsfNsVa_w
? นักดนตรีแห่งเบรเมน - Town Musicians of Bremen: https://youtu.be/qV3RF4WlIeM
?**เทพนิยายเรื่องเจ้าหญิงสำหรับเด็ก**?
? ราพันเซล (ใหม่) - Rapunzel (new): https://youtu.be/S9JpLTfIlZY
? ซินเดอเรลล่า - Cinderella: https://youtu.be/hEYvUbJqK5c
? ตเติ้ล เมอร์เมด - Little Mermaid: https://youtu.be/uBlvhsC2dWY
? 12เจ้าหญิงเริงระบำ - The Twelve Dancing Princesses:
https://youtu.be/XL7gFqt1Pq0
? สโนไวท์กับคนแคระทั้งเจ็ด การ์ตูน - Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs : https://youtu.be/_avSDQbkFrE
? โฉมงามกับอสูร - Beauty and the Beast: https://youtu.be/40Vs64i2pvo
? เจ้าหญิงนิทรา - Sleeping Beauty: https://youtu.be/CMdaI64tBfU
? ราชินีหิมะ - Snow Queen: https://youtu.be/gVeDucG5eQk
? องค์หญิงและถั่ว - The Princess and the Pea: https://youtu.be/aKXlsxFd5Ns
? เจ้าชายกบ - The Frog Prince: https://youtu.be/o44BspmI0UE
? ราพันเซล - Rapunzel: https://youtu.be/Uzni3lTBs4Y
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