Near the end of 2019 when things suddenly got tough, I realised a lot the things that I enjoyed and took pride in suddenly became soul crushingly difficult. I had always brought my A-game. Then almost overnight, it went away. Just like that.
I spent a lot of time feeling guilt for feeding Isaac and Ayla way too much foods that came out of a packet. Instead of our usual crafts and imaginative play, I let them have hours of screen time. I could barely get out of bed. I felt like I was a failing as a mum and yet I didn’t have it in me to give the way I did like before.
I’ll never forget what my friend Yannie said to me. She said, “Lindy, your mental capacity was never meant to be static”. Depending on our circumstances, our mental capacity expands and shrinks. I did not know this. It completely opened up my world. As someone who enjoyed being proactive, my mental capacity shrunk drastically for the first time in my life. When I tried to push myself past it, I would end up feeling frustrated. It was a relentless circle.
Fast forward a season onwards and thankfully things have gotten much better. Somehow you guys notice too. It’s amazing because your energy really doesn’t lie. A couple months ago, I made a volcano with Isaac and it was a huge moment for me. Somehow, I was back to doing crafts, painting, baking and more. My mental capacity expanded again.
Today, I realised my emotional capacity has not returned to it’s former glory. After breaking up way too many fights and raising my voice more than I would like to, I realised I’m still so very from it. For a moment, I was upset but why should I disregard all my progress? I’m still trying to navigate this journey we call life. I’m not where I want to be yet but the good news is I’m not where I used to be. You don’t have to see the finish line. You just have to keep going. One step at a time. One day at a time. I know a lot of you are sad, angry and stressed during this uncertain time. You probably have a lot you need/want to do but unable to. That’s OKAY! Your mental capacity has probably shrunken. Acknowledge and respect it by being kind and patient with yourself. You got this. #selflove #itsbubz
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baking life game 在 Savoury Days Kitchen Youtube 的最讚貼文
This video shows you how to make a fluffy, soft and tender upside-down banana cake. This cake can be baked in a rice cooker or an oven.
INGREDIENTS (18 - 20 round pan)
A. Fruit part
250 gram (about 2-3 large) bananas (apples or pineapples are also very good)
30 - 40 ml (2-3 Tbsp) lemon juice
50 gram unsalted butter (about 1/2 stick or 1/2 C)
70 gram brown or yellow sugar (1/3 C)
B. Cake
180 gram all purpose flour (1-1/2 C)
7 gram baking powder (1-3/4 tsp)
1/4 tsp cinnamon powder
1/8 tsp 5 spice powder (optional)
120 gram (1 stick/ 1 C plus 1/2 Tbsp) unsalted butter - softened at room temp
a pinch salt
85 gram caster sugar (1/3 C - I feel the sweets in EU and the US are sweeter than in Vietnam, so you can increase sugar to 95 - 100 gr if you'd prefer a "deep" taste of sweetness)
2 medium sized eggs (60 - 65g/ egg including shell) - at room temp
60 ml (1/4 C) milk - at room temp
65 gram (1/4 C) yogurt - at room temp
If your rice cooker doen's have a cake function, you can first set it at "Cooking mode", then when the rice cooker changes to "Warm mode", wait for 3 - 4 minutes and set it back to cooking mode. We need to bake this cake for about 45 - 55 minutes. It's best to keep the rice cooker at "cooking mode" in about 3/4 of this time.
The cake can be baked in a preheated oven at 165 degrees C/ 330 deg. F in about 45 - 50 mins, until a skewer inserted in the middle of the cake comes out clean and dry.
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