從家人客人惹爭議的鰻魚飯
到今天臉友轉貼癌末小童的影像記事
百感交集的現在 心情莫名低落
中午用餐時間點開記事文章後
盈眶的眼淚沒停過
上班空檔想起一陣鼻酸
只想快點下班直奔回家
抱抱我的寶貝
因為看到別人痛徹心扉的失去
才知道自己理所當然擁有的一切 何等珍貴
活在同一個時空下 有緣做親人的每分秒
好好珍惜都來不及了
誰還計較是家人還是客人
沒人天生就是好父母
陪著孩子成長的一路上都是修行
把教養方式放到網路上卻被公審
應該也是對方始料未及的
相信有智慧的大家有辨別是非的能力
我們能做的不是傳播錯誤示範的影片
而是想想自己是不是也在無意中傷害過孩子
然後給孩子一個緊緊的擁抱
告訴他 你真的好愛他
#愛咪碎碎念
#育兒點滴
Two months. Two months since I've held you in my arms, heard how much you loved me, kissed those sweetie "pie" lips. Two months since we've snuggled. Two months of pure absolute Hell.
I've wanted for a long time to write a little about Nolan's last days. His last few days shined with how amazing my son is. How beautiful he is. How he was made of nothing but pure love. This may be long, but bear with me, it's agony unlike any other.
When I brought Nolan to the hospital for the last time, I knew there was something else wrong other than just a lingering case of C-DIFF. I just knew, and strange enough, I think he did too. He hadn't eaten or drank anything in days and was continually vomiting.
On February 1st we were sat down with his ENTIRE team. When his Oncologist spoke, I saw the pure pain in her eyes. She had always been honest with us and fought along side of us the whole time, but his updated CT scan showed large tumors that grew compressing his bronchial tubes and heart within four weeks of his open chest surgery. The Mestatic Alveolar Rhabdomyosarcoma was spreading like wild fire. She explained at this time she didn't feel his Cancer was treatable as it had become resistant to all treatment options we had tried and the plan would be to keep him comfortable as he was deteriorating rapidly.
After a while, I composed myself and went into Nolan's room. He was sitting in "Mommy's Red Chair" watching YouTube on his Tablet. I sat down with him and put my head up against his and had the following conversation:
Me: Poot, it hurts to breathe doesn't it?
Nolan: Weeeelll.... yeah.
Me: You're in a lot of pain aren't you baby?
Nolan: (looking down) Yeah.
Me: Poot, this Cancer stuff sucks. You don't have to fight anymore.
Nolan: (Pure Happiness) I DONT??!! But I will for you Mommy!!
Me: No Poot!! Is that what you have been doing?? Fighting for Mommy??
Nolan: Well DUH!!
Me: Nolan Ray, what is Mommy's job?
Nolan: To keep me SAFE! (With a big grin)
Me: Honey ... I can't do that anymore here. The only way I can keep you safe is in Heaven. (My heart shattering)
Nolan: Sooooo I'll just go to Heaven and play until you get there! You'll come right?
Me: Absolutely!! You can't get rid of Mommy that easy!!
Nolan: Thank you Mommy!!! I'll go play with Hunter and Brylee and Henry!!
The next day he was resting, as he slept most of the days after. We had Hospice on board, all his IV medications, even his DNR signed. (I cannot explain to you what signing an Emergency Responder "Do Not Resuscitate" order for your angelic son feels like. ) When he woke up we had the van packed and I had his shoes in my hand to take him home for the evening. We just wanted ONE more night together. But as he woke, he gently put his hand on mine and said "Mommy, it's ok. Let's just stay here ok?" My 4 year old Hero was trying to make sure things were easy for me....
So in between sleeping for the next 36 hours, we played, watched YouTube, shot Nerf Gun after Nerf Gun and smiled as many times as we could. An hour or so before he passed he even filled out a "Will"! We laid in bed together and he sketched out how he wanted his funeral, picked his pall bearers, what he wanted people to wear, wrote down what he was leaving each of us, and even wrote down what he wanted to be remembered as... which of course was a Policeman 👮🏻
About 9:00pm we were watching YouTube in bed (Peppa Pig actually) and I asked Nolan if I could get in the shower, as I was not allowed to leave him and Mommy had to be touching him at all times. He said "Ummmm ok Mommy. Have Uncle Chris come sit with me and I'll turn this way so I can see you". I stood at the bathroom door, turned to him and said "Keep looking right here Poot, I'll be out in two seconds". He smiled at me. I shut the bathroom door. They said the moment the bathroom door clicked he shut his eyes and went into a deep sleep, beginning the end of life passing.
When I opened the bathroom door, his Team was surrounding his bed and every head turned and looked at me with tears in their eyes. They said "Ruth, he's in a deep sleep. He can't feel anything". His respirations were extremely labored, his right lung had collapsed and his oxygen dropped.
I ran and jumped into bed with him and put my hand on the right side of his face. Then a miracle that I will never forget happened....
My angel took a breath, opened his eyes, smiled at me and said "I Love You Mommy", turned his head towards me and at 11:54 pm Sgt. Rollin Nolan Scully passed away as I was singing "You are My Sunshine" in his ear.
He woke up out of a coma to say he loved me with a smile on his face! My son died a Hero. He brought Communities together, different occupations, made a difference in people's lives all around the world. He was a warrior who died with dignity and love to the last second.
All Nolan ever wanted to do was to serve and protect others, he did just that all the way up to his last breath and continues to do so every day. He loved his family fiercely and everyone of his "friends"!
I look at everything he accomplished in 4 short years and can only think of what he could've accomplished with a longer life. But sadly because of Childhood Cancer (Rhabdomyosarcoma to be specific), the world and our family will miss out on someone so full of love, who just wanted to protect and serve. We HAVE to do better with funding, research, treatment options. Below is a picture that seemed to grab everyone's attention because my son was terrified to leave my side, even as I showered.
Now I'm the one terrified to shower. With nothing but an empty shower rug now where once a beautiful perfect little boy laid waiting for his Mommy.
同時也有4部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過10萬的網紅bobbyjudo,也在其Youtube影片中提到,今回は、外出自粛中で気づいた 国際結婚夫婦の文化の違いについてです。それが: オシッコしたい宣言! 国際結婚していると、周りに『文化の違いは?』とよく聞かれる。 今まで、自分はそれに対して『文化の違いで苦労する事があまりないかも』と答え...
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bathroom conversation 在 魔法塔羅師JanJan Facebook 的最佳貼文
Treasure what u have before it's too late. Nolan the big hero, may u had so much fun in heaven while waiting for mummy.👼🏻
Two months. Two months since I've held you in my arms, heard how much you loved me, kissed those sweetie "pie" lips. Two months since we've snuggled. Two months of pure absolute Hell.
I've wanted for a long time to write a little about Nolan's last days. His last few days shined with how amazing my son is. How beautiful he is. How he was made of nothing but pure love. This may be long, but bear with me, it's agony unlike any other.
When I brought Nolan to the hospital for the last time, I knew there was something else wrong other than just a lingering case of C-DIFF. I just knew, and strange enough, I think he did too. He hadn't eaten or drank anything in days and was continually vomiting.
On February 1st we were sat down with his ENTIRE team. When his Oncologist spoke, I saw the pure pain in her eyes. She had always been honest with us and fought along side of us the whole time, but his updated CT scan showed large tumors that grew compressing his bronchial tubes and heart within four weeks of his open chest surgery. The Mestatic Alveolar Rhabdomyosarcoma was spreading like wild fire. She explained at this time she didn't feel his Cancer was treatable as it had become resistant to all treatment options we had tried and the plan would be to keep him comfortable as he was deteriorating rapidly.
After a while, I composed myself and went into Nolan's room. He was sitting in "Mommy's Red Chair" watching YouTube on his Tablet. I sat down with him and put my head up against his and had the following conversation:
Me: Poot, it hurts to breathe doesn't it?
Nolan: Weeeelll.... yeah.
Me: You're in a lot of pain aren't you baby?
Nolan: (looking down) Yeah.
Me: Poot, this Cancer stuff sucks. You don't have to fight anymore.
Nolan: (Pure Happiness) I DONT??!! But I will for you Mommy!!
Me: No Poot!! Is that what you have been doing?? Fighting for Mommy??
Nolan: Well DUH!!
Me: Nolan Ray, what is Mommy's job?
Nolan: To keep me SAFE! (With a big grin)
Me: Honey ... I can't do that anymore here. The only way I can keep you safe is in Heaven. (My heart shattering)
Nolan: Sooooo I'll just go to Heaven and play until you get there! You'll come right?
Me: Absolutely!! You can't get rid of Mommy that easy!!
Nolan: Thank you Mommy!!! I'll go play with Hunter and Brylee and Henry!!
The next day he was resting, as he slept most of the days after. We had Hospice on board, all his IV medications, even his DNR signed. (I cannot explain to you what signing an Emergency Responder "Do Not Resuscitate" order for your angelic son feels like. ) When he woke up we had the van packed and I had his shoes in my hand to take him home for the evening. We just wanted ONE more night together. But as he woke, he gently put his hand on mine and said "Mommy, it's ok. Let's just stay here ok?" My 4 year old Hero was trying to make sure things were easy for me....
So in between sleeping for the next 36 hours, we played, watched YouTube, shot Nerf Gun after Nerf Gun and smiled as many times as we could. An hour or so before he passed he even filled out a "Will"! We laid in bed together and he sketched out how he wanted his funeral, picked his pall bearers, what he wanted people to wear, wrote down what he was leaving each of us, and even wrote down what he wanted to be remembered as... which of course was a Policeman 👮🏻
About 9:00pm we were watching YouTube in bed (Peppa Pig actually) and I asked Nolan if I could get in the shower, as I was not allowed to leave him and Mommy had to be touching him at all times. He said "Ummmm ok Mommy. Have Uncle Chris come sit with me and I'll turn this way so I can see you". I stood at the bathroom door, turned to him and said "Keep looking right here Poot, I'll be out in two seconds". He smiled at me. I shut the bathroom door. They said the moment the bathroom door clicked he shut his eyes and went into a deep sleep, beginning the end of life passing.
When I opened the bathroom door, his Team was surrounding his bed and every head turned and looked at me with tears in their eyes. They said "Ruth, he's in a deep sleep. He can't feel anything". His respirations were extremely labored, his right lung had collapsed and his oxygen dropped.
I ran and jumped into bed with him and put my hand on the right side of his face. Then a miracle that I will never forget happened....
My angel took a breath, opened his eyes, smiled at me and said "I Love You Mommy", turned his head towards me and at 11:54 pm Sgt. Rollin Nolan Scully passed away as I was singing "You are My Sunshine" in his ear.
He woke up out of a coma to say he loved me with a smile on his face! My son died a Hero. He brought Communities together, different occupations, made a difference in people's lives all around the world. He was a warrior who died with dignity and love to the last second.
All Nolan ever wanted to do was to serve and protect others, he did just that all the way up to his last breath and continues to do so every day. He loved his family fiercely and everyone of his "friends"!
I look at everything he accomplished in 4 short years and can only think of what he could've accomplished with a longer life. But sadly because of Childhood Cancer (Rhabdomyosarcoma to be specific), the world and our family will miss out on someone so full of love, who just wanted to protect and serve. We HAVE to do better with funding, research, treatment options. Below is a picture that seemed to grab everyone's attention because my son was terrified to leave my side, even as I showered.
Now I'm the one terrified to shower. With nothing but an empty shower rug now where once a beautiful perfect little boy laid waiting for his Mommy.
bathroom conversation 在 黑咪 Facebook 的最佳解答
尋晚同Mr Honey對話:
(H係洗手間搞咗一輪,之後施施然行出黎)
H: (Casually) 呀,點解我搽咗B3係暗瘡位有d吉吉地既?(佢之前已經同我講佢出咗3粒暗瘡😂)
Me: 殺菌麻😒 (心諗: 又偷我d野用?!😒😒😒)
H: 哦。
到今朝喇:
H: 係喎,真係細咗!
Me: (一臉迷惑) 講緊咩?
H: 我3粒暗瘡呀!(冇我咁好氣咁聲😤)
Me: (反白眼) 咁根本你嗰3粒暗瘡都唔係好大粒🙄
H: 嘻嘻,咁又係!但係真係細咗!
Me: 係。係。係。(冇氣)
Conversation with Mr Honey:
(H was in the bathroom for awhile and then walked out slowly)
H: (Casually) Ah, I applied the B3 on my pimples, why are they having tingly feeling? (Yes he told me that had 3 spots already😂)
Me: It's killing bacteria😒 (thought: stealing my stuff again?! 😒😒😒)
H: Right.
Then this morning:-
H: Yes they are smaller!
Me: (puzzled) What are we talking about?
H: My 3 pimples!!!!!!!
Me: (rolling my eyes) Well, the 3 that you got aren't that big! 🙄
H: Hehe, true! But they are really smaller!!
Me: Yes. Yes. Yes. (......)
bathroom conversation 在 bobbyjudo Youtube 的精選貼文
今回は、外出自粛中で気づいた 国際結婚夫婦の文化の違いについてです。それが:
オシッコしたい宣言!
国際結婚していると、周りに『文化の違いは?』とよく聞かれる。
今まで、自分はそれに対して『文化の違いで苦労する事があまりないかも』と答えてきてる。
それが本当ですよ。
だって性格の面で『奥さんの方がアメリカ人っぽく、ボビーが日本人っぽい』と人によく言われる。それでバランスはなんとか取れているかな?と思っている。
しかし、最近、一つの大きな文化の違いに気づいた。
どうしても合わない部分というか、自分が少し苦労に思う部分というか、とにかくこれは絶対に 『異なる文化の中で育ってきた事に基づいている根本的な違い』と確実に言えるもの。
それが 『オシッコしたい宣言』
なぜ奥さんがオッシコしたい時に、私にわざわざ教えないと行けないのかな?とめっちゃ気になる。
来る日もさる日も、奥さんはどんだけオシッコしたいのかを しっかりと聞かせてもらっています。
奥さんの膀胱キャパについて、いつだって語れる自信があるほど、その具合を存じ上げております。でも奥さんだけではないです!
確かに、来日してすぐ、当時もカルチャーショックで一つ感じたのは、日本人の 『オシッコ・ウンチ』トークでした。
アメリカでは もちろん『ウンコ行ってくる』とか『オシッコせんとヤバイ』みたいなことを言う人はいるけど、
基本的に 『お手洗いに行ってくる』程度が礼儀正しいとされている。
どんな用を済ませてくるなのか、その量、その急迫性についてなどの詳しい情報は要りません。笑
だって英語では『便器』を意味する『トイレ』って言うその言葉でも 具体的すぎとされ、トイレ借りたい時はその言葉を使わず、『bathroom』や『restroom』と言い、トイレのある部屋をさして、ごまかす習慣がある。それ以上をはっきり言ってしまうと下品だからね
なので、日本人の 堂々とした『オシッコしてくる』のカジュアルさにすごくびっくりした。日本社会の暗黙の理解で 『する前に報告しろ』というルールがあるのかと思うほど。(笑
日本人は生物的に先に口に出さないと下から出ないのかと疑うほど。
(笑
日本人も 便秘も下痢も、お腹の調子について堂々と話すように感じるけど、アメリカ人は 病院に行っても 患者側から 言われない限り、お医者さんもあまり積極的に下痢や便秘はと聞いてこないような気がする。
で現在、外出自粛中なので、いつもより長く奥さんと過ごしてるから気になっているだけかもしれないね。
ただ本当の気持ちを言えば、
極めて残念な表現の仕方で申し訳ないけど
『オシッコ』はもう、ご馳走様です。 (笑
でもこれからずっと、『国際結婚で文化の違いは』と聞かれたら、第一として思い浮かぶのがきっと『オシッコしたい宣言』
ただ、それでも言わないと思う。
だって、アメリカ人との会話はその簡単に
『オシッコ』が出ないんだ。
bathroom conversation 在 SMART Mandarin - Katrina Lee Youtube 的精選貼文
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bathroom conversation 在 GreatKidsLearning Youtube 的精選貼文
英文日常口語 48 (English Daily Conversation with Chinese 48.)
Everyone can easily learn English and Chinese.
學習翻譯下列英文日常口語:
Wake Mary Up.
Comb your hair.
Good evening.
I’m going to the bathroom.
Don’t hurry. It’s still early.
I can’t find my key.
Honey, I’m home.
I don’t want to cook.
I’m too tired.
I want to take a shower.
I’m happy to meet you.
I need your help.
I’m looking forward to seeing you.
How did you do on the test?
Tomorrow is your birthday.
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