Wajib merancang dan menghadkan jumlah anak jika:
- anda tak mampu nak sediakan bilik yg cukup dan selesa utk anak2. mengasingkan anak2 lelaki dan perempuan.
- anda tak mampu nak beli pakaian yg elok2 utk anak2 anda.
- anda tak mampu beli makanan yg berkhasiat dan elok2 utk anak2 anda. (real food)
-duit bersalin isteri pun tak mampu nak bayar. Tiada kenderaan yg selesa dan slmt utk bawa semua anak.
-kerja anda main Game siang malam pagi petang
- anda tak boleh nak redhakan emosi anak anda yg paling kecik utk terima adik baru... Semua bini buat, laki buat donno, menangislah anak itu minta didukung dan anda tak mampu nak dukung sebb berpantang dan dilarang oleh org tua.
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- anda tak mampu beri pendidikan terbaik utk anak2. anak2 minta beli pencel colour 26 batang pun tak mampu. nak kertas warna pun tak mampu.
-hari hari gaduh laki bini pasal duit
-kerap sgt pinjam duit mak bapak/mertua/adik beradik/kawan2 sampai org dah nampak true color laki bini
-emosi ke laut, asyik.jadi rimau aje ngan anak2😂
-hubungan dgn Tuhan berantakan
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hak merancang dan menghad bilangan anak adalah HAK ISTERI. Ustaz pernah pesan, tak perlu minta izin suami pun kalau suami mmg sejenis tak membantu dan selfish, sampai biarkan bini pregnant setahun 2x...sebab ISTERI yg membawa perut ke sana ke MARI. pertaruh nyawa, risiko mati, tumpah darah dan banyak lg. Belum masuk bab menyusukan, bab penjagaan pantang, emosi dan financial...bagilah mereka berehat selama yg mereka mahu. sehingga mereka bersedia. suami perlu dimaklumkan dan tolong bersetuju. positif dan empati.
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lahirkanlah anak2 yg berkualiti. bukan semata2 bangga dgn kuantiti tp anak lepas kt mak bapak dan mertua suruh jaga. jgn kerana anak ramai berderet, menyebabkan depress..anak2 jadi mangsa marah2 hingga tercalar emosinya kerana anak tu tak minta lahir ke dunia, anda da buat tlglah jaga amanah tu sebaiknya!
siapa yg penyabar dan mampu utk menyediakan kelengkapan di atas...teruskan la punya anak2 yg ramai. kpd yg tidak mampu, jgn la membawang mereka...keluarga mereka hak mereka. tak perlu campurtgn hal keluarga mereka. plan lah jumlah keluarga masing2..jgn sibuk plan kan keluarga org lain
Ingat, anak anak bukan semata mata rezeki tp AMANAH. Rezeki pun bukan turun dr langit terus tp perlu dicari, di ikhtiar. Stop serahkan semua konon ketentuan tp takde usaha utk perbaiki kualiti dan ekonomi hidup.
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Must plan and limit the number of children if:
- you can't afford to prepare a room that is enough and comfortable for your children. Separate your sons and daughters.
- you can't afford to buy good clothes for your children.
- you can't afford to buy food that is nutritious and good for your children. (real food)
- even the wife's delivery money can't afford to pay. There is no comfortable vehicle and safe to bring all children.
- your work play Game day night morning evening evening evening
- you can't lessen your child's emotions that are the smallest to accept a new sibling... All wives do, men do donno, cry the child is asking for support and you can't afford to support because of abstinence and forbidden by
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- you can't afford to give the best education for your children. the children ask to buy pencil color 26 bars can't afford it. Even the color paper can't afford it.
- every day fighting husband and wife about money
- often borrow money from parents / in-laws / siblings / friends, until they see the true color of husband and wife
- emotion to the sea, fun. Becoming a tiger with the kids anak2😂
- relationship with God is messy
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The right to plan and limit the number of children is the RIGHT OF WIFE. Ustaz has ordered, no need to ask for husband's permission if the husband is a kind of person who doesn't help and selfish, until he let his wife get pregnant a year 2 x... because the WIFE is the one who brings Betting life, risk of death, blood spilling and more. Haven't entered the breastfeeding chapter, abstinence, emotions and financial care... let them rest as long as they want. until they are ready. Husband needs to be informed and please agree. Positive and empathy.
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Give birth to quality children. Not just proud of the quantity but the child after parents and in-laws asked to take care of them. Don't be because many children are in line, causing depressing.. children become victims of anger until their emotions are scratched because the child doesn't ask to be born into the world, you have done it, please take care
Whoever is patient and able to prepare the equipment above... continue to have many children. To those who can't afford it, don't gossip about them... their family is their right No need to intervention with their family matters. Plan the amount of family.. don't be busy planning other people's family
Remember, children are not just sustenance but TRUST. Provisions don't come down from the sky but need to be found, in the endeavor. Stop giving up all the conditions but there's no effort to improve the quality and economy of life.
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"Saya betul-betul harap anak kali ni saya dapat anak lelaki!" tegas seorang ibu yang saya santuni di dalam sebuah sesi konsultasi antenatal one-to-one.
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Hmmmm saya waktu tu tak terkejut, tapi agak aneh kenapa beliau tiba-tiba tekankan soal jantina anak kandungannya tanpa di tanya.
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"Wah ye ke, anak sulung puan perempuan ke?" Sapa saya bersahaja.
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"Tak , anak lelaki" jawabnya ringkas.
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Saya agak berteka teki tentang ibu ini. Mesti ada yang tak kena.
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"Saya kalau boleh nak semua anak lelaki, saya nak didik mereka, sehingga menjadi seorang lelaki dan bergelar suami nanti, jangan jadi lelaki tak guna yang tak tahu hargai perempuan" sambung beliau lagi.
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Dah sudah, sebelum mula sesi ni, kene settle dulu luahan ibu ni kalau tidak pasti apa yang di ajar tidak melekat di mindanya nanti.
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"Senang jadi laki ni Dr, bangun, mandi, pakai baju dan jamah makanan sedikit kalau mahu, keluar pergi kerja. Tak perlu fikir anak dah siap ke, barang anak dah siap packing ke, sampah dah buang ke, rumah tunggang langgang pun tak kesah, semua kita kena buat. Tapi bila tak elok, mula la perli, cakap sindir-sindir" terang ibu ni panjang lebar.
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"So bila ada anak lelaki, saya nak pastikan dia orang ni tak jadi macam bapak dia orang. Tiada ehsan pada wanita, tak sedar rezeki tersekat kerana sifatnya itu" ibu ini memang betul- betul kesal dengan apa yang terjadi di dalam rumah tangganya. Wajahnya sugul, tampak keletihan dan sarat hamil 8 bulan.
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Waktu ni saya hanya mampu analize, need & feeling beliau, apa sebenarnya ibu ini perlukan bagaimana dapat meringankan sikit keresahan hatinya agar proses pembelajaran dapay di teruskan.
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Teringat proses meditasi pernafasan yang Dr Izam Suziani lakukan pada saya, dan saya pun bentangkan kad need & feeling yang Dr Izam berikan.
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Proses 20 minit ini singkat tapi mampu memberikan rasa fokus yang tinggi pada ibu untuk sesi pembelajaran antenatal : persiapan penyusuan.
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Nota kaki:
Wahai lelaki yang bergelar suami, isteri bukan pembantu rumah mahupun hamba abdi milikmu. Mereka manusia yang ada emosi, penat, sedih, dan perlu di tatang dengan kasih sayang dan kemesraan.
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Komunikasi adalah penting, tapi lebih baik lagi sekiranya di gabung bersama tolak ansur. Era ini ramai wanita yang bekerjaya sama-sama mencari rezeki meringankan keperluan ekonomi keluarga.
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Sama-sama bertanya kabar, bersembang mesra, tak mampu memasak dan menyusukan anak, tapi masih mampu bertanya kepada pasangan apakah yang boleh di lakukan untuk meringankan kerja di rumah sedikit sebanyak dapat membantu seorang wanita merasa di hargai.
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Hanya dengan bertanya sahaja sudah membuat hati isteri lembut, apatah lagi membantu. Perli dan sindiran itu hanya akan mengeruhkan keadaan.
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Ibu di atas adalah ibu kepada 3 orang anak lelaki, dan sarat hamil anak ke 4. Beliau perlu memastikan penyusuan susu ibu berjalan dengan baik katanya, beliau sudah tidak ada peruntukan wang lebih untuk beli susu rumusan sekiranya perlu.
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Sebak hati saya mendengar rentetan kisah beliau. Kata beliau sebelum beransur pergi, "saya mohon doa dari Dr dan para ibu lain sekiranya Dr nak tulis kisah saya, mana tahu ada yang mendoakan secara ikhlas dan doanya di makbulkan, letihnya menjadi perempuan. Saya tak nak anak perempuan nanti dia dapat perlayanan yang serupa seperti ibunya, tak ubah seperti seorang kuli"
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Sedar atau tidak, masalah penyusuan susu ibu kebanyakkan tidak semata-mata isu penyusuan sahaja. Ia kerap kali melibatkan isu lain yang menjurus kepada kegagalan untuk mengekalkan minta positive ibu. Keletihan yang melampau, tiada sokongan dan tidak punya tempat untuk meluahkan rasa membuatkan emosi seorang ibu tergoncang hebat!
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Bersyukurlah ibu yang memiliki sokongan dari pasangan, masyarakat, keluarga dan tempat kerja. Ini adalah rezeki yang wajar kita syukuri. Tag pasangan, keluarga dan rakan-rakan ibu agar mereka tahu yang ibu sangat menghargai sokongan dan bantuan mereka!
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Tugas kami bukan sahaja mempromosikan penyusuan susu ibu, tetapi ia juga merangkumi aspek sokongan penyusuan susu ibu dan melindungi amalan penyusuan susu ibu dengan baik dan padu!
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Selamat menyambut minggu penyusuan susu ibu sedunia : Memperkasa ibu bapa , Mengupaya penyusuan susu ibu adalah tema sambutan tahun ini. Sangat dalam maksudnya namun ia wajar untuk di beri penekanan!
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Dr Nurhaya Yacob
Sekiranya kita lihat ibu menyusu, santuni mereka sebaik mungkin, sekiranya tidak ada sebarang perkataan/ tindakan yang baik yang boleh di lontarkan, maka lebih baik diam.
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Selaku you all baca tips dan info penyusuan, hari saya kongsi sedikit realiti kehidupan seorang ibu yang cuba untuk menyusu dan menjayakan penyusuan susu ibu.
Kredit : Dr Nurhaya Lactation Center
′′ I really hope my son this time I get a son!" firmly a mother that I'm in a one-to-one antenatal consultation session.
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Hmmmm I wasn't surprised at the time, but it's kinda weird why he suddenly pressed on his gender of his content without being asked.
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′′ Wow, is it the eldest daughter of a woman?" Who am I apart.
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′′ No, son ′′ answered simple.
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I'm pretty riddle about this mom. There must be something wrong.
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′′ If I can want all boys, I want to educate them, until I become a man and be a husband, don't be a man who doesn't know how to appreciate women ′′ continue him again.
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It's done, before the start of this session, you have to settle first if you don't know what you are taught won't stick to her mind later.
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′′ It's easy to be this man Dr, wake up, shower, wear clothes and jamah a little food if you want to, get off work. Don't have to think that the child is done, the child's stuff is done packing, the trash has been thrown away, even the house isn't good, all we have to do But when it's not good, start to go home, say sarcastic ′′ this mother's bright is long.
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′′ So when I have a son, I want to make sure that he doesn't become like his father. There's no concern on women, not realizing the fortune stuck because of her nature ′′ this mother is really upset with what's going on in her household. Her face is sugulous, looking tired and 8 months pregnant.
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At this time I can only analyze, need & feeling her, what exactly is this mother needs how to relieve her anxiety so that the process of mushroom learning is continued.
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Remembered the respiratory meditation process that Dr. Izam Suziani did to me, and I also presented the need & feeling card that Dr Izam gave.
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This 20-minute process is short but able to give a high sense of focus to mom for an antenatal learning session: breastfeeding preparation.
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Foot notes:
Dear man who is called husband, wife is not your housekeeper or your slave. They are humans who are emotional, tired, sad, and need to be tackled with affection and affection.
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Communication is important, but it's even better if joined together with installment. This era many women who work together looking for sustenance to ease the family's economic needs.
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Asking news, talking friendly, unable to cook and breastfeeding children, but still able to ask the couple what can be done to ease homework a little bit as much as can help a woman feel appreciated.
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Just asking, has made the wife's heart soft, you know how to help. Those perli and sarcasm will only heal things.
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The mother above is a mother of 3 sons, and pregnant laden 4. th child. She needs to ensure the mother milk breastfeeding runs well she said, she has no more money allocation to buy home milk if necessary.
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It's my heart hearing his story line. He said before going away, ′′ I ask for prayers from Dr and other mothers if Dr would like to write my story, who knows there is a sincere prayer and pray that is granted, tired of being a woman. I don't want a girl to get a similar service like her mother, not change like a college ′′
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Realize or not, the problem of breastfeeding is mostly not just breastfeeding issues. It often involves other issues that manage failure to keep mom positive. Extreme exhaustion, no support and nowhere to express the feeling of making a mother's emotion trembling!
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Be grateful mothers who have the support of their spouse, community, family and workplace. This is a reasonable provision we are grateful for. Tag your partner, family and friends so they know that mom really appreciate their support and help!
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Our task is not only to promote mother milk breastfeeding, but it also includes the support aspect of mother milk breastfeeding and protects the practices of mother's milk breastfeeding well and solid!
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Happy worldwide mother milk breastfeeding week: Enhancing parents, Appreciating mother milk breastfeeding is the theme of this year's celebration. Very deep meaning but it's normal to be emphasized!
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Dr Nurhaya Yacob
If we see breastfeeding mothers, give them the best possible, if there are no good words / actions that can be thrown away, then it's better to be silent.
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As you all read tips and breastfeeding info, my day I share some of the reality of the life of a mother who is trying to breastfeed and make mother milk breastfeeding.
Credit: @[1681178608816716:274:Dr Nurhaya Lactation Center]Translated
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I have a love-hate relationship with my body. Especially my tummy and hips area.
I can no longer squeeze into my pre-pregnancy jeans. No matter how much I diet and exercise, I have this horrible saggy pouch of wrinkly skin staring at me when I gaze down. It's worst when I'm seated. I always cover that bit when I'm sitting on the throne every morning. It didn't use to be there 9 years ago.
And then I have that scar. After three attempts trying to clear up the keloids, operation after operation and putting all sorts of creams on it, I've decided to just let that crooked scar be. Where the cut was at, will always leave a sunken line if I wear anything tight.
(So you have your panty waist line, and then you have the C-sect line/fold just slightly below....that's why I like wearing looser clothes)
I'm trying to do more squats to build back the londehness of my arse. Gravity is going crazy on me. My boobs? Engorged? They look pornstar attractive. Visually they might look nice, but the pain is unbearable! And then whilst admiring my mammary glands, I think of my son, immediately I start leaking.
Yes. Definitely not a turn on. At all.
After suckling, one side will always be bigger than the other. After breastfeeding three, it takes a toll on the breast tissues too.
Kesian depa.
My hair is falling. Hence my new fringe. My son is drooling. They say the more he drools, the more hair loss I face. It's very depressing seeing how my hair clogs the drain each time I wash my hair.
And just when I get depressed, especially after seeing some celebs bounce back so easily, donning the most fashionable getup looking oh so priceless, I am reminded that I am just human. A working mother of three with no helper, driver nor a team of stylist on my beck and call.
Exercise is housework and maybe 30minutes of yoga - itupun more for therapy than exercise per se.
Eating? I try my best to eat healthily, but with three kids and a husband who all have different dietary requirements, my needs are met last and I often eat the extras of the meals I prepare for them. Or none.
So yes. I have a love hate relationship with my body post pregnancy. But after reading this article below, I am reminded not to beat myself up too much.
Chill Pon.
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Hey guys! I know this video isn't relevant to everyone and not the typical comedic skits/vlogs, but I felt like it was something people should learn more about. I'm not an expert, but these were some of the things I picked up during my breastfeeding journey and wanted to share. Sure enough, there are people who went through far worse than I did, but my experience definitely wasn't the best either; which is why I never thought I could persevere this far. Kyzo just turned 4 months old a few days back and he already weighs 8kg! Looking at how strong he's growing only makes me proud and happy. I hope by sharing this, I'm able to encourage those who are currently facing problems with bf-ing, to stay resilient and hang in there!
All in all, breastfeeding does have its never-ending list of benefits which explains why it’s so encouraged, but formula feeding isn’t a bad choice as well. Hence, moms with low supply who need to supplement, or if breastfeeding isn’t something you can commit to, don’t be disheartened or feel guilty! As long as your baby is well-fed, growing healthily and loved by you, that’s all that matters. Breastfeeding isn’t for everyone. Always remember that your own health and well-being is as important as your baby’s.
Best of luck mommies and all the moms to be! X
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