"Ayg, dlm peti ais ada apa lagi?"
Ikan kembung ada 5 ekor, tenggiri sekor, ayam sebelah..."esok ayg p pasar ya, duit abg dh letak dlm beg, klu xcukup, ambik yg abg selit tepi laci almari tu..."
Esok bila blk keje, "Ayg, pagi tadi p pasar habis brapa ringgit...?"
40 bang..."Dalam beg tinggal lagi brapa?"...30 lagi...saya ambik beg duit isteri, tambah lagi 50...Esok2 balik tanya lagi, duit kurang, kita topup...bukan nk bgtau yg saya ni byk duit, tapi itu tanggungjawab suami...duit yg dia habiskan tu, semua utk belikan brg2 utk dia nak masak...bg mkn minum ni termasuk dlm nafkah & tanggungjawab seorang suami...
Pastu, buka mesin basuh, tgok ada pakaian xbasuh lg..."Ayg, ada x lagi baju2 kotor yg nak basuh...?"Dia ambik, buh dlm mesin...kita pun masukkan air, masukkan sabun, biar mesin tu jalan sendiri...siap ja basuh, kita buh dlm bakul..."Abg, tinggal la, esok ayg sidai..."... Xpe, ni keje abg, abg sidai jap je ni...
Ujung2 minggu, ari sabtu dan ahad, tanya isteri, "umah dah sapu ke yg?" Dah...dua ari lepas bang..."Ok, abg sapu lagi..." Jumpa la rambut dia, bergumpal sana sini..."Ayg, meh nak tgok kepala..." Dia pun dtg..."Kenapa bang?" Saja, abg jumpa byk rambut bila abg menyapu umh, abg takut ayg dah botak je (saja gurau2 dgn isteri)...saya sambung sapu umah, mop umah, cuci kipas, lap almari...isteri jaga anak, suap anak sarapan sambil main basikal kat luar, saya dok dlm umah, buat keje2 umah...
Siap je keje, ambik periuk nasi, basuh beras, masak nasi 2 pot, cukup la utk kami satu keluarga..."Ayg, abg kluar beli lauk yg dh siap kt kedai...ari ni ayg xpyh masak, cuti, berehat..."
Ini adalah antara tanggungjawab seorang suami dlm rumahtangga...jgn bersikap lepas tgn dan menganggap ini tanggungjawab dan tugas seorang isteri...bila suami ada kesempatan, ada masa, kena buat smua keje2 ni dan bukannya mengadap hp atau keluar melepak dgn kwn2...
Didik diri utk buat keje-keje umah...ini keje suami...
Rasulullah s.a.w pun byk membantu isteri2nya dlm melakukan keje2 umah apabila baginda ada masa lapang...Sunnah ni, jarang suami2 nak ikut, tp klu sembang bab poligami, terangkat bontot nak ikut...tepuk dada tanya diri sendiri la ye sama ada kita dah buat belum tanggungjawab2 ni, klu selalu buat, lama kelamaan dh jd biasa...not a big deal pun...
Hakikatnya ini memang keje suami, dan utk menjadi isteri yg baik, mereka "tolong" buat sebab kita tak sempat buat...
Kredit : Nur Atiqah.
′′ Ayg, what's in the fridge?"
There are 5 bloated fish, one mackerel, one side of the chicken..." tomorrow I'll go to the market, my money has been put into the bag, if not enough, take the one who will put in the side of the wardrobe drawer..."
Tomorrow when I'm back from work, ′′ Ayg, I went to the market this morning how many ringgit
40 bang..." How much is the bag left?"... 30 more... I took the wife's money bag, added another 50... Tomorrow I'll ask again, less money, we'll top up... not I want to tell you that I have a lot of money, but that's my husband's responsibility... the money that he spent, all to buy things for him to cook... let's eat and drink including the living and responsibility of a husband...
And then, open the washing machine, look at the clothes that haven't been put on yet..." Ayg, are there any more dirty clothes that want to wash...?" He took it, put it in the machine... we also put in the water, put the soap, let the machine run Done washing, we put it in the basket..." Brother, left, tomorrow you'll hang it..."... It's okay, this is my job, I'll hang it for a while...
Weekends, Saturday and Sunday, asked the wife, ′′ Have you applied the house?" Two days ago brother..." Ok, I'll apply it again..." Find his hair, and there..." Ayg, I want to look at the head..." He also came..." Why brother?" Only, I found a lot of hair when I sweep the house, I'm afraid that I'll be bald (just joking with my wife)... I continue to applying my house , moping the house, washing the fan, wipe the wardrobe... wife taking care of the child, feeding the child while playing the bike outside, I'm staying at home, doing housework...
Finished working, taking rice cooker, washing rice, cooking 2 pot rice, enough for us to be family..." Ayg, brother went out to buy dishes that were done at the shop... today I don't have to cook, holiday, rest ..."
This is one of the responsibilities of a husband in a household... don't let go of your hand and consider this the responsibility and duty of a wife... when your husband has a chance, there's time, you have to do all of these work instead of facing the phone or hanging out with your friends
Educate yourself to do housework... this is husband's work...
Rasulullah S.A.W also helped his wives in doing housework when he had free time... This Sunnah, rarely husbands want to follow, but if they talk about polygamy, they will follow... clap your chest and ask yourself if it's already us If you don't have responsibility, if you always do it, it will be normal for a long time... not even a big deal...
The truth is this is a husband's job, and to be a good wife, they ′′ help ′′ to make it because we can't do it...
Credit: Nur Atiqah.Translated
