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Suami : Sayang.... raya nak dekat.... abang tak cukup duit nak belikan baju raya untuk sayang & anak2... boleh tak kalau kita pakai baju yang ada?
Isteri : Allah... boleh abang... kami dah cukup bahagia bila ada abang disebelah kami... bukannya kemewahan... 😊
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Husband: dear.... Raya is near.... I don't have enough money to buy raya clothes for love & children... can we wear the clothes that we have?
Wife: Allah... can I... we are happy enough when we have a brother next to us... not a luxury... 😊
This was the incident 5 years ago... when I & my husband were through the hardship of life.... I'm grateful no matter who & whatever my husband is.
At that time I was pregnant.... I was even craving because I loved my husband. Don't want him to be difficult.
2 years of trouble... butted my husband has a lot of money... if he can get where he ckp overtime... while my husband works hotel as a receptionist only... salary is not until 2 k a month...
There's a day.. while washing my husband's clothes.. I see the effects of the lipstick & the smell of women...
I'm silent.. because I don't want to doubt.... because I know my husband is good...
After a week... I noticed my husband was senyum2 talking about his phone... he didn't entertain me so much...
Maybe Allah is willing.... my heart is moved to check my husband's cell phone...
Allah... melts my heart.. when my husband's picture hugs & kisses a woman in a luxury train.....
Allah Allah Allah... who is this?
I shock my husband.. who I ask... he is angry I am back.. he ckp why touch his phone.. sbb he said he said he never a man... I ask who again... this time he is woke up & angry me... he said...
" While I live with you I will not be able to live this kind of luxury.. I get all with Tia... what can you share? I won't... so keep silent!"
I cried at that time sis..... what is my sin.... I am loyal & love my husband 😞
I tried to be strong to ask my husband.. that time was in abstinence....
I'm asking what makes my love do this?
" he gave me a luxury... you? He let me feel like using a luxury car... you? As long as I'm loyal & entertaining my lust is not enough....
My jerks.. I'm quiet.. Take a bag & I get out of the house bringing my child while crying & in a state of pain in abstinence & in cold...
I call my friend.. Come and invite me to my mom's house.... in seremban.
I'm sad for months sis...
I cried and didn't stop..
I miss my husband...
But in the same time I can know my husband is drifting away 😞 he is going anywhere with Tia... He doesn't stay at home... eat with his life just like a rich person.
I get advice & ask for divorce.
"you don't need to ask for divorce.. I divorce you myself.. you don't deserve me"
I'm strong & try to be strong.
In These 2 years... I work at the tv station... my child is about to enter 2 years.. I already have my own salary.. every week I go to the orphans house to calm my heart by giving charity ...
There are a few times my ex-husband came to my mom's house to find me....
If I used to accept it before... but I think I'm too strong now sis. Thank you very much for the advice of kak zira.. I'm starting to believe in the wisdom that Allah finds people like this to give the best for us.
#9 bulan10hari really helps me heal my emotions.
My advice for husbands out there... it's a sin when you are a loyal wife... & your life will be more loss when you lose a wife who is willing to be hard to find someone else. Imagine if your wife does what you do... isn't it painful?
Pray for me sis.. pray for me friends for 9 months...
There is a lot of strength that I got here.. Thank you 😊
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Liza (not a real name) she is through a very difficult situation in her journey to wake up again.
When you talk to Liza.. We can also cry when we think of strength.. Perseverance & love that is made to play.
Liza is almost complaining.... Luckily there are family & friends who continue to support you 😊
That's right.....
A wife is tested when her husband has nothing.... & a husband is tested when he has property & everything....
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