JANGAN BIAR ISTERI BERPANTANG SENDIRI, JANGAN FIKIR DIA KUAT, DIA BOLEH BUAT.. KASIHANILAH MEREKA.
Takda istilah MALAS atau MENGADA-NGADA nak perhatian ketika berpantang.
Selepas melahirkan anak, tubuh badan isteri masih lagi dlm proses pemulihan. Samalah juga dengan emosi, perasaan yang bercampur baur.
Nak membiasakan diri dengan anak lagi, dengan kesakitan melahirkan anak lagi.. susu bengkak lagi.. berjaga malam lagi.. semua itu adalah salah satu sebab ibu boleh stress dan kemurungan.
Stress yang melampau boleh bawak kepada postpartum blues.
Emosi isteri bercelaru teruk disebabkan paras hormon yang berubah mendadak lepas bersalin, ibu pulak masih sakit, tak cukup rehat, masih lemah.. segala perasaan ada waktu ni.
Postpartum blues ni boleh berlaku ke atas 80% ibu dan biasanya akan hilang menjelang 2 minggu lepas bersalin.
2 minggu pertama selepas melahirkan anak ini adalah waktu yang sangat 'crucial' makna kata situasi tegang.
Waktu nilah papa-papa semua kena tolong, beri moral support dan jangan buat tak tahu je dgn isteri ya.
Ada suami yang memahami , sama-sama tolong salinkan lampin, dodoi dan tenangkan baby, uruskan segala benda..alhamdulillah.
Ada suami pulak yang terus keluar dan tido bilik lain tinggal isteri terkontang-kanting, sebab tak tahan dengar baby nangis.. siap pakej merengus tanda tak puas hati.
Kalau dapat spesis macamni boleh mental breakdown si isteri.
Dari keadaan isteri baik-baik aja terus meroyan tak tentu pasal.
Jika si isteri tadi dah melalui fasa POSTPARTUM #DEPRESSION (PPD).. tolong alert ya.. BAHAYA!
Dalam PPD, ibu-ibu boleh hilang pertimbangan.
Ada yang dah tak peduli pasal baby dan anak-anak.
Ada yang menangis sepanjang hari.
Ada yang rasa nak bunuh diri (suicide) atau bunuh baby (infanticide).
PPD juga boleh dapat postpartum psychosis.. dah mula halusinasi sendiri.. cakap sorang-sorang!
Allahuakbar..
Kadang tak sedar dia dah cekik anak..dah lemaskan anak!
Lepastu dengan orang bisik 'kelarlah anak kau..bunuh dia!
Waktu ni ibu dah takda rasa bersalah sebab dia macam dah takda perasaan.
Nauzhubillah min zhalik. Minta dijauhkan.
Sayangilah dan hargailah isteri kita. Dia selalu ada untuk kita dikala kita tak punya apa-apa.
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DON ' T LET YOUR WIFE PLAY ALONE, DON ' T THINK SHE'S STRONG, SHE CAN DO.. GENERATE THEM.
No term LAZY or THOUGHT for attention when abstaining.
After giving birth, the body of the wife is still in the recovery process. It's the same with emotions, feelings that mix.
Want to get used to my child again, with pain of giving birth again.. milk is swollen again.. nighttime again.. all of that is one of the reason mom can stress and depression.
Too much stress can bring to postpartum blues.
The wife's emotions are bad due to the hormone that suddenly changed after giving birth, mom is still sick, not enough rest, still weak.. every feeling there is time.
This postpartum blues can happen to 80 % of mothers and will usually disappear by 2 weeks ago.
The first 2 weeks after giving birth to this child is a very 'crucial' meaning of the word tight situation.
At this time papa all have to help, give moral support and don't just don't know about your wife.
There is a husband who understands, equally please copy diaper, dodoi and calm baby, manage everything.. alhamdulillah.
There's a husband who went out and went to sleep in the other room and left the wife in the middle of the wife, because she couldn't stand to hear the baby crying.. the package is ready to be snatched up
If you get this kind of species you can mental breakdown your wife.
From the condition of the wife, keep complaining about it.
If the wife has passed the phase of POSTPARTUM #DEPRESSION (PPD).. please alert.. DANGEROUS!
In PPD, mothers can lose consideration.
Someone doesn't care about baby and children anymore.
Someone cried all day.
Anyone feel like suicide (suicide) or baby (infanticide).
PPD can also get postpartum psychosis.. it's starting to hallucinate itself.. say it alone!
Allahuakbar..
Sometimes he doesn't realize he's already choking his child.. he's drowning
After the whispering person's get rid of your child.. kill him!
At this time mom doesn't feel guilty because she doesn't feel anymore.
Nauzhubillah min zhalik. Asking to be away.
Love and appreciate our wives. He is always there for us when we have nothing.
#kitajagakita
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