This morning, as I started putting on my shoes to go for a run, my grandfather exclaimed "You've got to teach online in 25minutes!" 😱
"Yeah, I'm just going for a whizz round the block." 😎
"What on earth is the point in that??" 🤨 he responded.
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I would be less fit if I never went for a run unless I had time to warm up, run 5k and stretch. I would be weaker if I only lifted weights when I had 1.5hrs for a full balls-to-the-wall session 🏋🏻♂️
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Sure, some people can routinely make time for high intensity, high volume exercise.
Some people love making that the centrepiece of their day.
Some are both and content with fitness being a focal point of their life 👍🏽 but, contrary to what the instagram fitness world will lead you to believe, that's really fucking rare.
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Way too may of us seem to think the goal is to "get fit". I can almost guarantee it shouldn't be for most. Not by whatever arbitrary definition of it you're using. You just need to get fit-ter 📈
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A friend of mine the other day said "I can't go to the gym without a PT because if I go on my own I just get in a 60% workout and it's a waste of my time." 🤦🏻♂️
HOW have we been convinced that exercise at 60% is a waste of time? I’ll bet most “waste” more time daily scrolling 📱
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Side note: If you think a PT's “job” is to run your arse into the ground at 100%, I can almost guarantee you've got a mediocre one 💁🏻♂️
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Equally, it doesn't have to take a lot of your day ⏱ I consulted a couple the other day who have been "meaning to get fit" for a while. They already had a few machines, but seemed to think 15mins on them 3 times a week was pointless. No. What's pointless is having machines you never use.
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🙏🏽 Please, just start by doing SOMETHING. Something you enjoy, that doesn't feel unpleasantly or unsustainably intense / difficult, and then do it for as long as is convenient. Once it's a habit, start trying to give it a bit more effort, and making a bit more time for it. I know we say to have goals in fitness and business and life but, for some, maybe it's the goal that has been getting in the way? Maybe it's the goal that's so daunting that you don't do ANYTHING to get yourself closer to it? 🧐
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【一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排】
All Failures & Lacks Are The Best Things to Happen to Us
三個月前,收到來自台灣客人的這封電郵時,開心和心酸交織著在心裡。
開心,因為這是一年前通過Zoom視訊的客人。他居然在我們看八字的一週年,特地寫了封感謝函給我,真有心!
心酸,因為他寫在電郵裡的低落心情,我完完全全明白。
他的經歷,是我的曾經。我當初也是很難,很久才能走出來。
有一回,我為一位芳華正茂的女子批八字時,她很用心的寫下我說的話。
論寫筆記的完整,她是我客人當中的佼佼者。
寫到一半,我注意到她的右手開始微微顫抖。我以為是空調的風太大了,冷到她,便問她要不要披巾。
她說,是她的焦慮症發作。
「我沒在兇你,也沒對你嚴厲,你為何突然焦慮?」
「我.....打從今年疫情打亂了我的計畫,我就一直很焦慮。我覺得我很沒用,同學們都前進了,只有我現在什麼都不是,亂糟糟的。我就一直很緊張,萬一我一直都是這樣,怎麼辦?」
說著,她眼眶一紅,眼淚像斷了線的珍珠鏈似的灑下來。
我的媽呀!是我的樣子長得很催淚,還是我的聲音聽起來很虐心?怎麼客人,不分男女老少,東南西北,看到我好像都很容易哭?
我抓起一張紙巾遞給她。
「所以,我不是來了嗎?你來找我,就是要問個明路,而你很幸運那麼快就看到我啦!你看你的筆記寫得多工整,多齊全。我很多客人都不如你啊!我今天的工作,就是來給你答案的。我沒有把握,也不會接你這份差事。我接了,就代表還可以補救。你照著我的指示去做,一定柳暗花明又一村。」
又另一回,一位四十多歲的媽媽請我看兒子的八字。
我在批著八字時,這位媽媽點頭認同,然後就聲淚俱下。
我轉頭看著她沈默不語的先生。我說錯了什麼嗎?太太哭成淚人,你怎麼連紙巾也不拿給她啊?
「我是個沒有用的母親,很不稱職的母親。我沒有辦法教好孩子。我很愛他,可是很多時候我都不知道要怎麼做,我就會對他發脾氣,說狠話,過後我又後悔。我忍下來,可是後來還是會一樣!」
我沒打斷她,等她的哭聲逐漸小聲後,我柔柔的說:「我來啦!我坐在你前面了。你已經看到我,就是有辦法了。你知道你自己不行,會去找辦法,就代表你願意去學習做個好媽媽啊!」
我把紙巾遞給她,再說:「不要哭了,要不然,別人看了以為是我不要借你錢,才把你弄得那麼傷心。」
曾幾何時,我們都會以外在所擁有的,來定義自己的人生是否值得自己喜歡。
從原生家庭、樣貌、健康、身型、智力、天賦等,到後來的學歷、友情、事業、財富、婚姻、子女......
哪一樣沒有,而偏偏是我們最想要的,我們就會認定自己失敗的一塌糊塗。
我認為這就是普通教育最大的問題所在。父母老師都是這樣把我們「分門別類」的。值不值得父母疼愛或向親朋戚友炫耀,也離不開那幾點。
久而久之,我們也只會以「成功」來定義自己是否有價值,甚至來衡量自己是否有活下去的勇氣。
我比較喜歡佛法的定義。我們每個人都是一尊佛,六道眾生皆有佛性,只因一時的迷,因此墮落在苦輪不停的輪迴。
可正因為我們有佛性,我們都有無窮無盡的可能。每個人的內在有著很強大的力量,等著我們遇到明師後,去發掘、探索和了解。
而這天生俱來的力量,就是你改命立命的資本。
如果人生順風順水,我們永遠不會想要出離,誤把人間當極樂,所以一定要有苦,我們才會意識到,為什麼我們會在這鬼地方?要怎麼樣才可以離開這鬼地方去到極樂?
反過來,我們都應該感恩自己遇到的挫折,因為從這些苦中,我們才能生出智慧。
沒有一個八字是完美的。一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排,如此你才會有出離心,返本歸源。
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3 months ago, when I received this email from my Taiwan client, there was this feeling of bittersweetness.
I was happy because this was the client I did a Zoom consultation last June. He sent me this email on the one-year anniversary date of our Zoom call, to express his gratitude. How sweet!
On the other hand, I could relate to the emotional turmoil he felt at that point in his life.
His experience was my past. It also took me a very long time to walk out from my gloominess.
Once, I analysed the Bazi of a very young lady. She was meticulously jotting down notes as I spoke.
Her detailed note-taking skills easily took the top place among my clients.
Halfway through, I noticed her right hand was trembling slightly. I thought it was due to the cold draft from the air conditioning, so I asked if she needed a shawl.
She replied that it was her anxiety disorder acting up.
“I was not fierce or strict with you. What caused your sudden anxiety?”
“I…ever since the pandemic disrupted my plans, I have been in this state of anxiety. I kept feeling useless. All my classmates are progressing expect me. I have nothing to show for and my life is in a mess. I am very anxious. What if I continue to be like this? What am I going to do?”
As she spoke, her eyes turned red and tears started rolling down like a broken strand of pearl necklace scattering onto the ground.
Oh dear! I am beginning to wonder if I have a tear-jerker face or a heart-tormenting voice. Why do my clients, regardless of gender and age, North South or East West, seem to cry easily when they see me?
I grabbed a piece of tissue and handed it to her.
“Ain’t I here already? You came to me for a roadmap and you are very lucky to see me so soon. Look at how precise and neat your notes are! Many of my clients aren’t even on par with you. My job today is to give you answers. If I didn’t have the confidence, I would not have taken up your request. Now that I did, that means there is still hope. If you follow my instructions, you will see things looking up very soon.”
On another occasion, a mother in her forties came to me for her son’s Bazi consultation.
As I was analysing, the mother nodded her head in agreement. The next thing I know, she started weeping loudly.
I turned to look at her husband, who had been silent all along. Did I say something wrong? And hello, your wife was crying. Why weren’t you gentleman enough to give her a tissue paper?
“I am a useless mother. I am incompetent. I do not know how to teach my son well. I love my son very much. But many times, I do not know what to do and thus I flare up at him and speak harshly. I always regret afterwards. I tried enduring but it still ends badly!”
I did not interrupt her and waited for her cries to soften, before speaking gently, “I’m here! I’m already sitting in front of you. You are looking at me now and that means help is here. You know that you are incompetent, so you went looking for solutions. That means you are willing to learn how to be a better mother!”
I handed a piece of tissue and said, “Don’t cry anymore, otherwise, other patrons will think that it’s because I refuse to lend you money.”
Since young, we have been using external possessions to define whether our lives are worth liking.
The family we are born into, our looks, health, body shape, intellect, talents, and then we move on to compare our academics, friendships, career, wealth, marriage and children.
If we are lacking in the area we covet most, we grade our lives as a failure.
I think this is the biggest problem in societal education. Our parents and teachers categorized us that way. Whether we as children are worthy of their love and bragging, depends on the few points above too.
Thus over time, we can only use the term “success” to determine whether we are of value, for some people, whether they should live on to take their next breath.
I very much prefer the definition in Buddhism. We are all Buddhas. Each and every sentient being in the six realms has a Buddha nature in them. But they got lost momentarily and fell into the endless wheel of reincarnation.
Yet, because of our Buddha nature, we have an unlimited source of potential. Every one of us has a very powerful strength inside us. It is just waiting for us to meet an accomplished teacher, so that we have the tools to explore and understand it:
And this strength that we are born with is the capital for us to transform and establish our own destiny.
If life is smooth-sailing, we would never want to leave and would mistake this mortal realm for Pureland. Thus, we all need sufferings, to realise that we should break out of this hell of a place. There has to be a better world somewhere. So how we get there?
We should, in fact, be grateful for all the setbacks and failures we have. Because it is from these sufferings, our wisdom arise:
No single Bazi is perfect. Every failure and lack we experience is the best arrangement for us, so that the heart of renunciation will arise in us and we will return to where we came from.
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We often say, “Time to do prayer,” but God says, “I love to hear your voice.”
In Song of Solomon 4, the bridegroom (who represents the Lord) told the bride (who represents us), “Just one look from you and my heart is captured. There is no spot in you. Let me see your face, let me hear your voice.”
Beloved, this is what prayer is to the Lord and you can enjoy an intimate and loving relationship with Him!
This clip is from the latest sermon, The Significance Of This Generation (preached at NCC Leadership Conference in 2019).
Watch more here: https://youtu.be/Uz_wNEE9AbY
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#new #love #song
Comment below if you’ve ever met your twin flame 👯🔥
遇過粒欸雙生火焰的趕快留言跟我分享😻
If you’ve never heard of that before, here’s the definition.
A twin flame is an intense soul connection, sometimes called a "mirror soul.”
不知道雙生火焰的粒,九粒來解釋一下:
雙生火焰(又稱為靈魂雙胞胎)是一種很強烈的靈魂連結,有時候也會稱為”靈魂的鏡子”
趕快嘎哇分享粒欸故事吧!Comment below and share your story with me!!
❣️記得按下右邊的收藏小內褲 🩲才可以隨時回來複習吶👏🏼
ps: 肩膀昨晚熊熊花炎所以今天被可愛的中醫阿姨包得嘎肉粽一樣🤣
My shoulder had a sudden inflammation. That’s why this is my fashion choice for the day.
💫今日英文
1️⃣ stay up 熬夜
2️⃣ wonder 想知道
3️⃣ lose track of time 忘了時間
4️⃣ overlap 重疊 / 有共同之處
5️⃣ type 菜 型
6️⃣ coincidence 巧合
7️⃣ connection 連結
8️⃣ shock (使)震驚
9️⃣ fall 暈船 愛上
🔟 birth control 避孕藥
📝 Lyrics
We stayed up all night
Wondering how this happened
Seems like we lost track of time
Cause too much is overlapping
wasn’t love at first sight not my type
But our souls be matching
Nothing is a coincidence
I know I met you for a reason
It was talk, lol, soul connection
Shocked oh no way this is happening
thought I couldn’t fall no more
But you pulled me back up from that hole
You became my new goal
I guess I need to get on birth control
🎶 Amazing Beats By : “Midnight Love”
@thaibeats_official
S/O to my talented boy @weemantalkshit for recording this demo for me within 8 minutes 😂
#饒舌 #饒舌創作 #英文學習
⚠️: 喜歡嘎九粒偶英文的看過來!九粒的生活口說入門課在這邊!
連結點起來,英文一起牛b起來!👉🏻 https://bit.ly/3q4ZW39
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知名導演Charlie Tsai: “身體放鬆,嘴巴張開,情緒噴張,跟著九粒High起來!”
阿卡貝拉:“開心好玩開腦洞嘎辣妹學英文”
神剪接師Yayun Hsu: “她就是顆健達出奇蛋- 你有什麼願望,她都給你滿足”
還不趕快訂起來😏
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- 把工作當成真命天子,27歲就當上 P&G Marketing Director | Falling in love with your career. becoming marketing director at age 27
- What is marketing? Marketing 不只是廣告銷售,更是影響人們生活的一個方式 | Marketing changes peoples' lives
- 其實從小孩、童心的角度檢視自己,是認識自己很好的方法 | Learn about yourself from your childhood
- 內向者的力量:兼具內向者的想法,和開啟外向模式的力量 | The power of introverts
- 不快樂不是你的錯,但只有你有責任讓自己快樂 | Unhappiness is not your fault, but your responsibility
📚 Books Mentioned:
- The Existentialist Cafe 存在主義咖啡館
- The Happiness Project 過得還不錯的一年:我的快樂生活提案
- Quiet 安靜,就是力量:內向者如何發揮積極的力量
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(00:01:22) 三個字形容自己 | Describe yourself in 3 words
(00:03:07) 認為 Marketing 是自己的真愛 | Marketing is her true love
(00:06:22) 上海的 Marketing 調研故事 | Marketing research story in Shanghai
(00:09:38) Marketing更深的意義 | The essence of marketing
(00:12:29) 大學做四個實習 多方嘗試找尋目標 | 4 internships in college, trying various things
(00:14:11) 其實你喜歡做什麼小時候就知道 | Learning from your childhood
(00:17:08) 如何27歲就成為行銷總監 | Becoming director at 27
(00:18:58) 人事管理的哲學 | People management philosophy
(00:21:36) 主管就像是當一面鏡子 | Manager is like a mirror
(00:23:51) 當上主管的第一課 | First lesson of being a manager
(00:25:17) 情境領導模式 因材施教 | Situational leadership
(00:27:29) 帶領團隊的核心理念 | Core values of leadership
(00:31:12) 理想規劃的一週 | Ideal week
(00:34:19) 內向的領導者更有力量 | Introverted leadership
(00:39:01) 時間管理:GTD信奉者 | Time management, GTD
(00:40:21) 總監下班之後去打工 | Working side jobs for fun
(00:42:14) 制定自己的快樂計畫 | Managing your own happiness
(00:43:59) 管理並檢視自己的快樂 | Reflect on your own happiness
(00:45:32) 享受當下和達成目標的平衡 | Balance between being present and achieving your goals
(00:49:07) 對快樂的定 | Definition of happiness
(00:51:06) 完整的快樂架構 | Structure of happiness
(00:55:22) 存在主義的真諦 | Existentialism
(00:58:52) 即使是宿命論之下 還是要努力 | Determinism
(01:01:48) 只有你有責任讓自己快樂 | You are responsible for your happiness
(01:04:25) 因為不快樂而決定離開P&G | Leaving P&G
(01:08:09) 跳進田裡吃泥巴 | Eating mud in the farm
(01:10:56) 決定到Teach for Taiwan工作 | moving to Teach for Taiwan
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- 最大的風險就是不去冒險 | Biggest risk is to not take risk
- 不要被標籤綁住自己,你就是你!| Don't let labels change your identity
- 不要空想,計劃和目標都是改變的勇氣 | Plan, goals and courage
- 跳出舒適圈時容易焦慮和放棄,請謹記,莫忘初衷 | Don't forget why you started
- 當你不願意為了「想要」犧牲,那你可能沒那麼想要 | How bad do you really want it?
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(00:01:34) 對人生最大影響的書 | Most impactful books
(00:05:10) 很喜歡的座右銘 | Favorite mottos
(00:06:54) 慢慢學習如何自省、認識自己 | How to self reflect and understand yourself
(00:08:38) Eric 的人生低潮 | Eric's tough times in life
(00:11:19) Ian 的人生低潮 | Ian's tough times in life
(00:15:35) DoDoMen的FB海豚洋社團 | Building communities
(00:16:57) Eric 對成功的定義 | Eric's definition of success
(00:17:51) Eric 的理財建議到財富自由 | Eric's financial advice for financial freedom
(00:19:24) Ian 對成功的定義 | Ian's definition of success
(00:21:01) 主持人對成功的定義 | Jacky's definition of success
(00:22:49) 如何克服身分轉變的衝擊 | How to conquer identity change
(00:24:39) 為什麼不喜歡被稱為YouTuber | Reason not like being called YouTubers
(00:25:10) 對快樂的定義 | Definition of happiness
(00:26:06) 目標和快樂的平衡 | Balancing ambition and happiness
(00:29:06) 對愛的定義 | Definition of Love
(00:31:10) DoDoMen 理想的感情對象 | Ideal romantic relationships
(00:35:29) 最喜歡的旅行 | Favorite trip
(00:39:32) 旅行最印象深刻的時刻 | Most memorable moments
(00:41:10) Jacky 在埃及的驚險經歷 | Jacky's Egypt adventure
(00:47:44) 比跳傘還刺激的離開舒適圈活動 | Most exciting leaving comfort zone activity
(00:49:10) 做過最隨機的事 | Most spontaneous activity
(00:50:07) 喜歡一個人旅行嗎 | Traveling alone
(00:51:44) 說走就走 在機場當場買機票 | Buying plane tickets at the airport
(00:53:06) 給在舒適圈裡的朋友一些話 | Advice for leaving comfort zone
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