Be Who You Are, Not What Others Want You To Be!❤
Why are you single? When are you going to get married? When are you having kids? Why you don't have kids? Why is she/he divorced? What happened to them? Why are they like that? Why and why and why people like to ask these insensitive questions, being prejudice, stereotyping, speculates, gossips, and make inappropriate judgments.
How can you ask something that someone can't 100% control, just like death? Some things are unknown, it's like asking, when are you going to die? It's common sense. If you don't know this answer, means you won't know the exact why for such questions.
When someone is single by choice or it's not just the right time for them, let it be. So what if that person wants to be or will be single forever? It may be better for the person than being with the wrong partner for the rest of the person's life. You don't meddle with God's plan or even someone's choices. You can't force people to get into relationships, what's more marriage. If it is forced, how can a marriage be happy and whole? Love is a huge topic. Again it's not just about relationships and marriage.
People should not pretend to be stupid, play dumb, needy, spoiled, or fake just to attract/be with a life partner. Women and men should have their own intelligence, personality, independence, and truthfulness in life. We want to be real and genuine, and if someone wants us to be part of their life, it's better for them to know the real us from the get-go. Not presenting a false front.
A healthy relationship should be two individuals who love and care for each other, support, motivate, respect, be kind, honest, loyal, help, guide, communicate well, listen and give the very best to each other, by also being the best version of themselves. Not one person should be superior to the other or vice versa. If you feel forced and put yourself down for another person, you are probably in the wrong relationship.
Put aside status, education level, salary, or position in career, a partner and a healthy relationship should be side by side, be supportive, help each other, understand each other strengths and weaknesses, able to give and take/compromise, and open to learning from each other when it comes to marriage or any relationship.
A woman's or man's characteristics for example being soft or strong, and men prefer soft/more feminine women, and women who are less intelligent/educated than them, should not be generalized. Some men admire women who are intelligent/educated, strong, and independent and women have their preferences too. Different people are attracted to different traits. No one size fits all.
No one should pretend to be less than she/he is for the opposite partner to feel desirable or dominant. If a person desperately and constantly trying to boost their ego, be dominant or prove power especially in a relationship, this may lead to negative behavioral patterns and impacts such as emotional instability, harassment, abuse, bullying, verbal and physical violence, unhappiness, and depression.
We are all individuals in the end and have our differences. As a human being, one of the goals in life is trying to be better than we were yesterday. Trying to change ourselves for the sake of pleasing someone and pretending just to make someone feel happy or superior is not healthy and can jeopardize our own mental health and also the relationship in the long run.
If we want to change something, for example, I want to be more fitter, healthier, happier, smarter, financially independent, and so forth, it is for ourselves (without being selfish or self-absorbed). If we take care of ourselves first then we can take care of others better. Do for yourself and the motivation will be sustainable than doing for other people.
Respect and love yourself. Respect the people around you. Then we should not be degrading or intimidate anyone. This will make you a better person. We attract what we are.
Life is unique, so does human beings. Life itself is bigger than getting married, having kids, make tons of money, and so forth. This is the typical life cycles, stages and goals we all have learned in our life. The strong pressures in society dictate what is better and not just because that's what it is for the past generations have been. The pressure to fit in with society's standards and expectations is also there.
As a society and individual, let's understand deeper that not everyone will have the same life cycles and even life goals. There are things we can control and can't control. Not everything that is good for you is going to be good for other people. Having or not having something can be a blessing and sometimes only God knows why.
In life, some may walk their path of life and make choices completely different from us and that's perfectly fine. We all have our own unique journey and that makes us different, and we can use that differences to make life better for ourselves and the life of others.
Let this sink in.
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emotional goals 在 Facebook 的最佳貼文
Yesterday I was invited to co host a mandarin talk show on local tv. as usual I still had the jitters and butterflies in my tummy.
I was paired with an experienced host and interviewed 2 malay ladies, a prominent news anchor and the secretary to the Malaysian embassy in Beijing who both speaks mandarin eloquently. I had nightmares the nite before, what if they all realised my mandarin is not as good as what people made it out to be ( Alhamdullilah , HE was kind and the show went well)
but 1 thing that stuck to me was when both host and guest said they watched my shows “growing up”.( I’m actually getting used to that) .. and the host for the show called me “前辈” senior or elder ..
I was not offended nor was I taken a back. But it got me emotional and a wave of gratitude hit me hard. HE has been merciful towards me, Time has been gracious with me, You have been extremely kind to me.
I lay in bed thinking how lucky I am still out there . Traveling , exploring, creating, gathering stories to tell.. pushing my boundaries. Achieving goals .. never would I imagine holding 2 global titles “GoPro Ambassador” & “PADI Ambassadiver” . Never have I imagined making a living from doing the things that I love doing.. never had I imagined being loved by You.
I always believed Age is just a number and wrinkles does not bring with it maturity. I am 40, as long as HE wills I will continue to explore, gather and insyallah create..
thank you for all the birthday wishes and love sent my way. You might not even read this .. but It’s my 40th & this “前辈” is declaring a 1 year birthday celebration !!
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Want your children to be happy?? Look at yourself and how happy you are. ❤️
emotional goals 在 Dan Lok Youtube 的最佳解答
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emotional goals 在 Lindie Botes Youtube 的最讚貼文
A great question I got asked this week... are there any languages I wouldn't learn, or do I have beef with any languages? Here's a storytime about the time I almost stopped learning Korean. I also talk about why I learnt Spanish and why I may or may not learn something else...
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01:04 Korean frustrations
03:38 A happy ending
4:55 I said I would never learn Spanish but...
7:31 Which language wouldn't I learn?
9:15 Language learning is emotional
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โตโยต้า ประเทศไทย เตรียมเปิดตัว All-New 2019 Camry (แคมรี่) โฉมใหม่ ในไทย ปลายปี 2018 นี้ คาดเปิดตัวก่อนหรือในงาน 2018 Thailand International Motor Expo ปลายปีนี้ครับ รายละเอียดเพิ่มเติมชมได้ในคลิปนี้ https://bit.ly/2JpjgXo
It’s already making a lot of noise. Now, it’s almost here. The all-new 2018 Toyota Camry, the best-selling car in America for the past 15 years, will be rolling into dealers late summer. The excitement over the eighth-generation sedan is the result of its total evolution, from a proven, dependable and safe car to one that adds a more exciting and emotional character, thanks to its much talked about newfound performance and style.
The new Camry utilizes TNGA (Toyota New Global Architecture), which represents a completely new strategy to the way the company designs, engineers, and packages its vehicles. TNGA retains all of Toyota’s traditional values of superlative build quality and safety while injecting a fun driving experience that plays on all the senses. The physical manifestation is the usage of a new engine, transmission and GA-K platform.
“With an exhilarating design, refined interior, stirring driving performance, cutting-edge safety and technology, and class-leading fuel efficiency, the all-new Camry retains its excellent value while raising its level of fun and excitement to new heights,” said Bill Fay, Toyota senior vice president of automotive operations. “It is, quite simply, the best Camry ever and the benchmark in the mid-size sedan segment.”
Design Backstory
The Camry development team aimed for a styling design concept that achieves strong harmony between refinement and a sensual athletic image, creating a new approach to the market. The result is a new signature design language that takes the car into a beautiful and futuristic new direction.
There were three primary design goals when penning the all-new Camry: a distinctive, low center of gravity that results in a firm wide stance; a practical-yet-emotionally styled cabin profile, and a sporty and upscale image both inside and out. These design goals have resulted in a new type of sedan that’s both exciting to look at and, more importantly drive, reestablishing itself as the new standard in the mid-size sedan category.
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