Ustaz Datuk Kazim Elias ada share 4 punca kenapa satu-satu perkahwinan tu tak bahagia.
Sebab duit ke? Sebab rupa? Atau sebab agama semata?
1. Punca pertama ialah sebab semua benda isteri buat. Basuh baju isteri, kemas isteri, masak isteri. Sedangkan isteri ni cuma dituntut untuk layan suami je. Jadi, tak perlu ke isteri buat semua tu? Isteri solehah dia TOLONG buat kerja. Bantu sama membantu. Masing-masing kena faham erti tanggungjawab.
...Continue ReadingUstaz Datuk Kazim Elias has shared 4 reasons why the marriage is unhappy.
Because of money? Because of the look? Or just because of religion?
The first 1. reasons are because all the wives do. Wash wife's clothes, clean the wife, cook the wife. While the wife is only claimed to treat her husband. So, don't the wife have to do all that? His pious wife HELP him do the job. Help together help. Everyone needs to understand the meaning of responsibility.
Ustaz said it, the more husband feels easy to relax and do nothing, the easier he forgets his responsibility. It's not that you're going back to tell your husband ′′ You, starting today I don't want to wash the clothes what's all cooking
No no no.
Difficult things will be easy when you do it together. Don't be happy together. When it's difficult, it's just a couple. No no no 🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️
2. Second reasons why we don't understand the ATTITUDE of our own partners.
It's easy to take care of this man as Ustaz Kazim said.
1-Feed full food. Zahir and inner heart. May everything be considered a worship. Amen oh Lord.
2-Where the husband went, followed! Hahaha 😂
As long as you can follow, follow.
3. The third reason is because we don't accept that is our partner. Many people only appreciate someone and then someone dies. So it's not good to wait for your husband or wife to die and then to say, ′′ Nothing is like my husband / wife." 😢
We won't know our partner as long as we don't share the same house, sekatil, pillow with him. Even his parents won't know him as deep as we know him. That's why, the wife knows her husband than her mother she knows her.
But a smart man, a religious man, a pious woman will always consider that the partner is a GIFT.
There is a couple, be grateful. Because there are still many who still Allah doesn't grant his prayers for couple. So be thankful.
Not happy nowadays, want to get a partner who prays, who reads, whose living is not crafty. So if we get a partner like that, learn to appreciate even though she is not beautiful to boroi to what.
Hat boroi, tak lawa, no comey to anything, there is Allah nak test us, which one of us is the most LAUGHING. Choosing religion, overcomes everything.
4. The last one, the reason is when someone doesn't become happy with each other. Yee, learn to be a fun couple.
If our partner likes so much, so we try to give so much or more. The most important thing is to work, let the rest decide. God willing.
The Ustaz shared again, this disaster he came in 3 forms:
• EXAMS
• TERRIBLE
• BULLET
If we feel that in marriage we're always a disaster, let's see these three. Which one is actually that Allah wants to show.
The test is for the believers. He gave an example, Asiah who is pious married to the evil Pharoah. That's a test for him.
The one that Allah tests someone is soleh solehah, the prayer is not left, the recitation is not missing, the fasting is full but the years of not having a That's a test of his name. And this test is no other than to lift the position of taqwa and our faith higher. Be patient and be happy with Allah's test.
The second, the misfortune that mai in the form of reprimand. Allah sends this because Allah wants to tell us to return to the goodness.
For example, we are careless of chasing money here, rich here and there, papppp Allah gives an accident. Can't find the cause of sustenance anymore. That's a warning. Maybe we don't pray humble. We make worship but a lot of crafty. So, Allah wants to flick a little to give advice. Want to let us go back to Him. So, don't talk about Allah. Allah doesn't do anything in vain
The last thing is this disaster come in the form of bullet or punishment.
In this marriage, if we want peace, we have to learn to ACCEPT. Accept what Allah gives. Acceptance is our partner. Accept all Allah's tests.
If it's one moment later Allah tests it without sustenance for a long mate, no fortune to be with.
′′ If you still can, hold it well, if you can't, let it go well."
Always learn to steal husband / wife's heart. Learn to take all the rewards that Allah wants to give in marriage. Learn to be a person who thirsts for reward.
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Ustaz Datuk Kazim Elias ada share 4 punca kenapa satu-satu perkahwinan tu tak bahagia.
Sebab duit ke? Sebab rupa? Atau sebab agama semata?
1. Punca pertama ialah sebab semua benda isteri buat. Basuh baju isteri, kemas isteri, masak isteri. Sedangkan isteri ni cuma dituntut untuk layan suami je. Jadi, tak perlu ke isteri buat semua tu? Isteri solehah dia TOLONG buat kerja. Bantu sama membantu. Masing-masing kena faham erti tanggungjawab.
...Continue ReadingUstaz Datuk Kazim Elias has shared 4 reasons why the other marriage is unhappy.
Is it because of money? Because of the look? Or just because of religion?
1. The first reason is because everything wives do. Wash the wife's clothes, clean the wife, cook the wife. While this wife is only claimed to treat her husband. So, don't the wife have to do all that? His solehah wife HELPS to do work. Help and help. Everyone needs to understand the meaning of responsibility.
Ustaz said, the more husband feels easy to relax and do nothing, the easier he forgets his responsibility. It's not coming back, you're going to say to your husband ′′ You, starting today I don't want to wash all the clothes."
No no no.
Difficult things will be easy to do together. Don't be easy together. When it's hard to pass to the partner. No no ♀️🙅🏻 🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️
2. Second reasons is because we don't understand the ATTITUDE of our respective partners.
It's easy to take care of this man as Ustaz Kazim says.
1-Feed full-full food. Zahir dan Batin. May everything be considered worship. Aamiin ya Rabb.
2-Where did the husband go, follow! Hahaha 😂
As long as you can follow, follow
3. The third reason is because we don't accept that is our partner. Many people only appreciate someone after someone dies. So it's not good to wait for your husband to die and then you'll say, ′′ nothing is the same as my husband / wife before." 😢
We won't know our partner as long as we don't share our house, together, a pillow with him. Even his parents won't know him as long as we know him. That's why the wife knows her husband than her mother knows her.
But a wise man, a religious man, a religious woman will always consider that the partner is a GIFT.
There's a couple, be grateful. Because there are still many who are still Allah who doesn't answer their prayers for couples. So be grateful.
Not happy nowadays, want to get a partner who prays, who reads, who doesn't know what all. So if we get a couple hat like that, learn to appreciate it even though she is not beautiful to boroi.
Hat boroi, tak lawa, not comey to anything, there is Allah nak test us, which one of us is the most FEARFUL. Choosing the religious, overcoming everything.
4. The last one, the reason is when someone doesn't become fun with each other. Ye, learn to be a fun person each other's partner.
If our partner likes it so much, so we need to give so much or more. The most important thing is to work, the others let Allah decide. God willing.
The Ustaz has shared again, this disaster has come in 3 forms:
• TEST
• REGRET
• BULLET
If we feel that in marriage is always a disaster, let's see these three. Which one is actually what Allah wants to show.
The test is for the believers. He gave an example, Asiah who is pious to marry an evil Pharaoh. That's a test for him.
The one that Allah tests someone is pious, the prayer is not left, the reading is not missed, the fasting is full but years of not having a child. That's his name test. And this test is nothing else to lift our position of taqwa and faith higher. Be patient and be happy with Allah's test.
The second one, the disaster that comes in the form of reprimand. This is what Allah sends because Allah wants to ask us to return to goodness.
Example, we are not carelessly chasing money here, rich here, Allah gives accident. Can't find the cause of sustenance. That's a reprimand. Maybe we pray without humility. We do worship but it's a lot of crafty. So, Allah wants to flick a little to give advice. Want to give us back to Him. So, don't talk about Allah. Allah does not do anything in vain.
The last one is this disaster, come in the form of bullet or punishment.
In marriage, if we want peace, we have to learn to accept it. Accept what Allah gives. Acceptance is our partner. Acceptance for all Allah's tests.
If one second Allah will test the provision of a long soulmate, there is no fortune to be together.
′′ If you still can, hold it well, if you can't afford it, let it go well."
Always learn to steal husband / wife's heart. Learn to take all the rewards that Allah wants to give in marriage. Learn to be a greedy person ❤️
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7. 🌸 Sharon
I enjoy all the beauties and the good in life: a bouquet of flowers, rainbows, the delicacy of porcelain china, the touch of snuggly fabrics, the scent of nature, the list could go on and on.
Samuel and I married early, we bought our first apartment with limited budget, I still tried hard to make the most of it to fit my “perfection”.
The small balcony was filled with plants and flowers. It was my secret garden, I can sip my cup of coffee and watch my greens all morning.
Not just the balcony; my kitchen was equipped with aesthetic and functional silverware and pots; I knocked down the tiles provided by the construction company, just to choose my own tiles, not to mention what I went through to find the right fabric and color for those hand towels.
Thus, I can not accept the fact that I was going to spend the rest of my life in a wheel-chair.
There was no more perfection.
The first year was the darkest time in my life. It felt like decades. No matter how hard I tried to squirm out of the whirlpool of darkness, the more I struggled, the more I was sucked into it. I was drowning.
There’s so much than what you see “a person in a wheelchair” who’s paralyzed. You don’t have bladder control, you suffer dysautonomia which simply means you have pains and cramps sending to your system by your damaged nerves. There are also issues like obesity, osteoporosis, and kidney, heart and lungs problems.
My stubborn tumor cuts me from T8-9, meaning from about 3 cm above my belly button until my waist down, I don’t feel a thing, and I can’t budge a toe. All of a sudden, from 167 cm tall, I became 125cm. With that height, I can’t see the faces of people, I can’t smell the fresh air, and no more scenic views for me.
Due to the PTSD, I started to lose weight, but with no balance and muscle to straighten my back, my tummy always stuck out. I looked like a shrimp that has a 6 months belly in a wheel chair. I had to throw out all my tight and pretty clothes in change of clothes that could cover up the bulging tummy, and easy to put on pants with elastic waists. My beloved shoes had to go too, my feet are easily swollen, I need bigger shoes.
My choice of clothing and trend was banished.
The nerve pains follow me EVERY SINGLE DAY, 24-7. The medications can only do so much. Isn’t it an irony? I can’t feel my son’s hands touching my legs. Or someone just come and pinch me, let me get some real pain here. Nope, they are all gone. Dealing with the pains of my body takes up most of my energy everyday.
I had to record everything that I take in and out too. I had to decide to rely on adult diapers or to use catheter. My pride and frustration was about to explode. It took one year with the help of my doctor to understand my body and find the way that I was most comfortable with.
My legs are paralyzed, and my weight kept on dropping. Physically and mentally I was a mess.
I could never get to my balcony anymore; my pretty tiles had handles on them; my velvet dresser chair became an obstacle for my wheel chair, so it had to go.
My porcelain tea cups were too high for me to reach. I can no more decorate my table exactly the way I want to.
These were nothing compared to how I had to pretend everything was alright with in front of Andrew. He was two, and he was just ecstatic mommy wasn’t leaving him every two to three months. I played and laughed with him everyday, until he sleeps.
But it was a pretty pass.
I have witnessed him tumbling down the stairs in a friend’s house. I was right there! There was nothing I could do except to bite my lips from screaming out loud. Hundreds of things that could have happened to him, and my SOPs zoomed through my mind in the flick of seconds. Samuel ran over to pick up our frightened baby, Andrew held out his arms to me. I held him tight, checked him from head to toe. I thank the Almighty that he was not hurt.
Sometimes, I sat on my recliner instead of the wheel chair. Andrew wanted me to follow him to his room and play. I took a piece of my heart and threw it to him, he catches it, pats his own heart. “Mommy is following you now.” My two-year-old walks always without any complaints.
I tried to be the super-mom that I wanted to be, I took Andrew downstairs to play by myself. When I tried to catch a balloon that flew away, I fell head over heals. Andrew was in so much fright that he refused to go anyway alone with me for the longest time.
I suck everything up in the morning, my tears, my frustration, my sorrows. Once Andrew falls asleep, the waterworks ran like tap water, it wouldn’t stop. No one can comfort me, no one could help me, not even Samuel. We have been fighting this battle for years side by side, we were not ready to face the defeat.
I wasn’t ready to talk to anyone about this. I can’t lose my sanity in front of Andrew. He deserves a better mommy and a lot more happiness.
My blue print for being a Mother was to be there for my kid: race in the park, lie on the grass and gaze at the sky, teach him how to swim. When it’s time for school, I want to be friends of his friends, I am going to run for the coolest mom in the whole class.
But now, life isn’t pretty any more.
All good that’s left, was Andrew.
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