關於 forgiveness as a process ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

So excited to receive the first two paperback copies of my book “Silencing the Serpent: How Christians Can Emerge Victorious in Spiritual Warfare”. Eight more copies will be arriving on Wednesday!

Here’s sharing a small segment from the book. It’s from the chapter called “Destroying the Stronghold of a Harbored Grudge”:

When you have a fresh revelation of the immensity of what God has forgiven you of, you can manifest your love for Him through forgiving others of their debts against you. You are extending forgiveness by Grace for God’s sake, not because the other person has made amends.

Knowing how much God has forgiven you of through Jesus’ finished work at the cross is the flaming boulder packed full of God’s dunamis (miracle-working power) to destroy the stronghold of a harbored grudge.

Harboring a grudge is like a poison that only harms yourself and others. The only ones celebrating over your unwillingness to forgive are Satan and his demons. The root of bitterness in your heart must be destroyed before it causes more trouble and defilement.

If you are harboring a grudge against someone, go through this process:

1. Picture Jesus at the cross bearing your sins and punishment, and how God has already forgiven you of a debt that is infinitely greater than what the person owes you.

2. Identify the person by name and tell God that you are going to forgive him or her by Grace, for Jesus’ sake.

3. Pray a blessing for that person and ask God to orchestrate opportunities for him or her to receive salvation through faith in Jesus Christ. This way, you overcome evil with good.

4. Congratulations, you are free from that grudge. Now that you have released the person from guilt, you also freed yourself from the stronghold of a harbored grudge. Enjoy that freedom and don’t take that grudge back again!

There are lots of spiritual warfare weapons and truths I want to share with you and it’s all in the book. Make sure to get a copy if you haven’t done so yet.

Here’s one of the testimonies I received from a reader of this book: “Milton Goh, I downloaded your book and it was God's appointed time for my breakthrough. He destroyed a stronghold in my life that was rooted on a lie. A light just went on in an instant and the Lord uprooted a wrong belief. I struggled now for years with a relationship and I believed a lie that a sin I committed in the past was unforgivable, and I judged the other person for the same sin. It was unconscious and I didn't know that I was bound by this lie. When I read a chapter in this book, about strongholds in the mind, the Holy Spirit revealed it to me in a flash and it was as if the walls of Jericho were tumbling down! Thanks for this book—it is from the Lord!”
- Antoinette Hurter Keyser

If you are living in Singapore, I have a few physical copies (signed and with a customized note of blessing for you) available for purchase. It’s priced at S$18 and this includes delivery + a bonus sermon CD. Leave a comment below or send me a private message if you want to get a copy.

If you are living abroad and want a Kindle eBook or paperback copy of “Silencing the Serpent”, you can order it from Amazon at this link: https://bit.ly/silencing-the-serpent

•The Unconditional Self Acceptance•

Self criticism starts from a very young age - when the people around us comment negatively on certain aspect of ourselves as an individual, we tend to carry that for the rest of our adulthood. It shouldn’t be a surprise when we find ourselves criticizing us the way the adults did while growing up.

If we grew up in a generally supportive environment then predominantly positive message becomes a norm for us. But if that is not the case, then responsibility to accept the person we are lies on our shoulders, solely. We will need on our own to learn how to attest our essential OK-ness. When I say we need to accept ourselves, I mean the complete package we are ; good & bad, yin & yang, positive & negative. Accepting our shadow self is a start to a lifelong self acceptance.

Becoming more self-accepting begins when we accept and appreciate who we are be it looks, intelligence or any of our questionable behavior — we are not to be blame for anything. This process requires immense amount of compassion and forgiveness in our hearts for ourselves.

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•The Unconditional Self Acceptance•

Self criticism starts from a very young age - when the people around us comment negatively on certain aspect of ourselves as an individual, we tend to carry that for the rest of our adulthood. It shouldn’t be a surprise when we find ourselves criticizing us the way the adults did while growing up.

If we grew up in a generally supportive environment then predominantly positive message becomes a norm for us. But if that is not the case, then responsibility to accept the person we are lies on our shoulders, solely. We will need on our own to learn how to attest our essential OK-ness. When I say we need to accept ourselves, I mean the complete package we are ; good & bad, yin & yang, positive & negative. Accepting our shadow self is a start to a lifelong self acceptance.

Becoming more self-accepting begins when we accept and appreciate who we are be it looks, intelligence or any of our questionable behavior — we are not to be blame for anything. This process requires immense amount of compassion and forgiveness in our hearts for ourselves.

#wellnessblogger #selfacceptance #mindfulnesspractice #bekindtoyourself #malaysianbloggers #socialmediainfluencer #compassion #forgiveness #wellnessjourney #mentalhealthwarrior #bekindtoyourmind #honoryourself #youcandothis #radicalselflove #selfloveclub #kindmindclub #malaysianblogger #endthestigma #mentalhealthadvocate #acceptyourself