#梅子閒聊0208
Q:
梅子妳好,我其實很懷疑我到底是不是同性戀(*/ω\*)
事情是這樣的,我很久以前就知道有這麼一個人,實際上也常常遇到,她當時也知道我,畢竟很多活動上我們都會遇到,在不熟的時候也講過話。
之後在一些因緣際會下,我認識了這個人,也覺得這個人超級棒的,簡單來說就是很優秀(´๑•ω•๑`),長相的話,是第一眼看到你可能會一見鍾情的那種(〃゚∇゚〃)
認識了她之後,我就時不時的注意著她,可以說是無時無刻了(〃∀〃)每次看到她都會忍不住想去找她。這就讓我開始懷疑自己了
我會懷疑是有原因的,從以前到現在都有男生在追我,但我都拒絕了,也從來沒有喜歡過男生,雖然也沒喜歡過女生,但我從來沒有這麼在意過一個人,現在追我的人很優秀,朋友都叫我答應他,說是這麼好的男人還不要,但我就是不喜歡他,這讓我困擾了很久,希望梅子解答(´∩`。)
題外話 跟朋友說過後,朋友表示自己其實也有很像的情況,但她確定是很欣賞而已,她不反對同性戀,但跟別人聊過一些同性戀議題後,反而被懷疑是同性戀了( ・᷄д・᷅ )還不只一個人懷疑(○`ε´○)
2017/12/3 下午 9:11:53
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A:
以我自己的觀點來說,我覺得其實每個人都是同性戀,差別在於多一些與少一些,所以就算是「直的」,也會遇到一個吸引你,願意讓自己「彎」的人xD
如果你還是想更了解自己,這邊有金賽量表(Kinsey scale)給你測試自己是篇哪一方
金賽量表 ➔ https://goo.gl/ABFiVt
測驗題目為英文,下方復中文給你,先把答案記下然後進入網頁中作答。
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題目中文翻譯
What is your age?
> 請填入你的年齡
What gender do you identify as?
>你被認為的性別是?
Man.
>男性
Woman.
>女性
Please evaluate the following statements as either true or false were you to say them.
>請按照下方敘述,評估是否符合你的情形,選擇對 (True) 或錯 (False)。
1. I have never felt sexual desire.
> 我從來沒有對性感到渴望
2. I can not decide what sex I am attracted to more.
> 我沒辦法分辨哪種性別比較吸引我
3. I find the idea of having sex with another [“man” if male, “woman” if female] repulsive.
> 我無法想像跟另一個與自己性別相同的人有性行為
4. I wouldn’t want to die without having experimented sexually with both men and women.
> 在死前我一定要嘗試過跟男性以及女性各發生性行為看看
5. I have no interest in sexual intercourse with anyone.
> 我對於任何人的性行為都沒有興趣
6. The gender composition of an orgy would be irrelevant to my decision to participate.
> 一場派對的性別組成不會影響我參加的意願
7. I avoid watching [“gay” if male, “lesbian” if female] pornography.
> 我會避免看跟我相同性別的同志 A 片
8. I can be sexually attracted to anyone in the right circumstances.
> 在對的環境氛圍下,任何人對我都會有性吸引力
9. I have always been extremely confident in my sexual orientation.
> 我對我的性傾向認同總是非常確信
10. I find [“men” if male, “women” if female] more attractive than [“women” if male, “men” if female]..
> 我感覺同性的吸引力對我來說多過於異性
11. I would find a threesome with a couple awkward specifically because of the presence of the [“man” if male, “woman” if female].
> 我會認為3P是尷尬的,特別是因為當中有與我相同性別的人
12. I am only attracted to [“women” if female, “men” if male].
> 我只會被同性吸引
13. I am sexually submissive.
> 在性關係中,我會是順從對方的一方
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*此為英文版介紹,中文介紹請參閱關於及討論區
*特別感謝中翻英翻譯 / 林養璇
ihategoodbye SU MISU solo-exhibition (ENGLISH)
SU MISU solo-exhibition 10/29~10/30 in Taipei,Taiwan
TWO days exhibit only at Nanhai Gallery.
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This is SU MISU’s Solo photo exhibition after showing in Kaohsiung and Taichung. The event lasts only two days to mirror how fast time passes with different events taking place in a marathon style over a limited time period, including an opening tea party, the artist’s talk, DJ and live performances. In addition to viewing the exhibition, the audience is invited to contribute - there is a temporary photo studio built in the space for the audience to participate in both viewing and producing this limited work in this particular time and place.
░『Today』10/29 Sat.Opening Ceremony Party
15:30 Opening
DJ∞LIVE SHOW∞Drinks and Desserts
DJ. HsinHsin
DJ. Xanthe Yang
DJ. AoWu
DJ. Plus Minus
DJ. Yu Hong
PERF. Mai Maya x Su Misu
░『Tomorrow』10/30 Sun. Closing Party
14:30 Opening
14:30-19:30 Live Event《Flash Mob Photo Studio-・゚・。・゚゚I am a fake, but my heart is true..・゚・。・゚゚・*:.。 True Heart Never Lies》
✺Event Details: TBA
19:30-20:30 Artists Talk and Tour
In Conversation with|Nawakiri Shin, Auther of《繩縛本事》、kanghao, Co-Creater of《@sisterssaying》
░░Free Entrance░░
SPECIAL THANKS REWARD♡ Bring your ihategoodbye photo album to redeem the newest limited edition poster magazine(We will snip off the corner of your book☺)o。。.゚*。
░░About Book 《ihategoodbye.》
This is a product of this passing stage. It contains two seperated parts, the visual and the text. To me, taking photographs is no longer as simple as recording what everyone appears to be; but a way of looking at my past/dead images and accepting my alienated/live existence. From a perspective of the main narrator,I looked closely at how I felt that I did not want to be parted with the "that-has-been" moments just before pressing the shutter.
The first "ihategoodbye" says good bye to the past. The aura has gone in a twinkling. The still images stay. Time moves, and the image passes (away).
The second "ihategoodbye" says I do not want to see you. Not wanting to be parted because what was photographed is the "old you", but what I see is the "new you". You are still on-going. The virtual images reflect the reality, nontheless, are added with the unstability of alienation and enstrangement. As per J. Lacan's Theory of Mirror Stage, similar to images in the mirrors, one may falsely recognize the images in the photographes as oneself, but the images are never as real as the ever changing realities.
The text, Diary, is the record of an intimate relationship between 2010 to 2012. BDSM practitioners are almost always particular about privacy, so that the images were transformed into words. The words may then be visualised and evolved into images.
At last, this is a collection of the fragments of the past. This is the ultimate relic that says, "Good bye".
░░SU MISU’s Introduction|
Born in Taipei, she is a photographer and BDSM model. Su Misu is known for her practice in exploration of gender, BDSM and sexual minority topics etc... And coming from the medical background, she’s therefore also interested in the “Synthetic”, the “Unnatural”, and all sorts of embodiments. Using photography to discuss the struggle between the real and the illusory. Besides photography, she is also a performance artist, and is an event planner.
░░Host|SU,
░░Co-Host and Exhibition Location|Nanhai Gallery
地址:台北市中正區重慶南路二段19巷3號
Address: No.3, Ln. 19, Sec. 2, Chongqing S. Rd., Zhongzheng Dist., Taipei City 100, Taiwan (R.O.C.)
░░Advisor|Ministry of Culture、National Culture and Arts Foundation
░░About video|
The image begins with the Bodhisattva in Taoism. In 2006 33% of the population of Taiwan is Taoist; tied with Buddhism, they are the two main religious beliefs.
Bodhisattva is often depicted not only as both male or female, but also genderless. According to
░░Work Team|
Art direction/Photography |Su Misu
director of Photography|Yeh Che
Sound|Xanthe Yang
Movie assistant|Tao Zen Shuo/Hsu Jun Yi
Photo assistant|Oscar Ko
Stylist|Lu Yin Yin
Makeup|Suan6
Hair|Blue Vegetable
Models|Lu Yin Yin/Gao Xiao Gao/ Noah Huang /Yun Yun Hu/Yamaneko/ Poppyfuks/Mai Maya/Su Misu
Installation art|RuRu Kuo
Scenery|Chen Ming Shan Taiwan Folk Scenery Painting Studio
Special thanks|Liu Ching Hao
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[詞彙區別] people, individual, persons, human, man, mankind, humankind 的區別:
在寫作的時候,有些同學為了避免重複使用相同的詞彙,卻選用了意義上不盡相同的單字,而無法精確地表達出自己所想傳達的想法。這問題很可能來自於考生平時在語言學習上過於依賴中英翻譯,因此考生在不夠了解某些一字多義的詞彙的情況下,很容易造成讀者的誤解。舉例來說,spend vs. cost vs. take (花費),borrow vs. lend vs. loan (借),這些字的中譯都很非常類似,以中文為母語的考生在使用上,只要稍微一不注意,就容易錯誤使用。甚至有些考生會以offspring (子孫; 後代) 來代替 children (小孩),我們若是查字典了解其義,就會知道 offspring 比較常出現在正式的科學用法上,泛指動物的後代及植物的幼苗。
為了幫助同學增加詞彙量並且精確地在口說和寫作上使用這些字。我會用使用一個新的同義字系列清楚地區分這些類似的字並幫助同學們在文章中正確地使用它們。同學們也應該在使用這些字之前先查查字典,以了解這些字的使用方式。
People 的同義字
★★★human (human being) ★★★
我們使用human being這個字來強調我們和動物的不同。 We used human being to stress our difference from animals or aliens (in science fiction).
1. Dogs can hear much better than humans.
2. That is no way to treat another human being.
★★★man★★★
我們用man這個字來指男性、全部的人類、或指特定某一時代的人類。 We used man to talk about adult male human or humans as a group (or humans from a particular period of history).
1. The relationships between men and women are often complex and puzzling.
2. This is one of the worst diseases known to man.
3. Man had caused considerable damage to the environment.
4. Being a modern man today is no different than it was a century ago. It’s all about adhering to principle.
★★★mankind★★★
我們用mankind這個字來強調全部人類這個概念。 We used mankind when we talk about all humans as one large group.
1. Pollution is something that harms mankind across the globe, and disasters like war and famine have affected mankind all through our history.
*Man和mankind傳統上一直是用來指所有的男性和女性。很多人現在偏好使用humanity這個字和humankind來避掉性別歧視的問題。
Man and mankind have traditionally been used to mean “all men and women.” Many people now prefer to use humanity, the human race, human beings or people to avoid being sexist. Humankind is used as a gender neutral alternative to “mankind.”
★★★person★★★
person這個字是指人的單數。A person in the singular to refer to any human being.
1. He was a very nice person, always pleasant and friendly.
Persons 是 person的複數,是一個在文件或法律條文中使用的單字。
Persons (plural) is a very formal word. We only use it in rather legalistic contexts:
1. Any person or persons found in possession of illegal substances will be prosecuted.
2. The police are looking for three separate persons who were in this area.
People 也是person的複數,可指所有的人類或特定狀況中的一群人。它也可以指所有的國民。
People can refer to all human beings, or to a group of persons in a particular situation. It can also mean "all the citizens," as in a political leader who understands the needs of the people.
1. There were at least a thousand people in the audience.
2. The people are tired of hearing political rhetoric! They want action, not talk.
★★★individual★★★
我們用individual來強調個人以和團體做區隔。We used individual to stress that a person considered separately rather than as part of a group.
1. Every individual has rights which must never be taken away.
2. Three separate individuals walked into my store.
除了以上的用法,同學也可以用代名詞 (e.g. everyone, they) 來替換”人們” 這個單字,也可以用形容詞來更明確的指出某一群人(e.g. most, some, a few, all)。
Summary:
✎ 通常會用"people"這個詞彙來指稱一般的社會大眾;另一方面,如果想要去強調一個團體當中的每個人,則會使用"individuals"。
✎ 想要將所有人類當成一個大族群去做論述的時候,通常只會用"mankind/humankind"或是"the human race/human beings"等詞彙。
✎ 想要去強調一個人的人性面時,通常會用"human being"。
E.g. How could you do this to another human being? He has rights!
✎撰寫科學性質的相關文章時,才會運用到"Homo sapiens"。
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Sources:
http://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/
http://www.ldoceonline.com/
http://www.merriam-webster.com/
http://www.vocabulary.com/
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