關於 happy paper anniversary ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

Happy 1st paper anniversary 📃🤍

Happy 50 Anniversary Star Paper!🎉🎉🎉

#happyanniversary
#Starpaper
#soproudofyou
#thanksforthesouvenir

【一切的失敗和不足，都是最美好的安排】
All Failures & Lacks Are The Best Things to Happen to Us

三個月前，收到來自台灣客人的這封電郵時，開心和心酸交織著在心裡。

開心，因為這是一年前通過Zoom視訊的客人。他居然在我們看八字的一週年，特地寫了封感謝函給我，真有心！

心酸，因為他寫在電郵裡的低落心情，我完完全全明白。

他的經歷，是我的曾經。我當初也是很難，很久才能走出來。

有一回，我為一位芳華正茂的女子批八字時，她很用心的寫下我說的話。

論寫筆記的完整，她是我客人當中的佼佼者。

寫到一半，我注意到她的右手開始微微顫抖。我以為是空調的風太大了，冷到她，便問她要不要披巾。

她說，是她的焦慮症發作。

「我沒在兇你，也沒對你嚴厲，你為何突然焦慮？」

「我.....打從今年疫情打亂了我的計畫，我就一直很焦慮。我覺得我很沒用，同學們都前進了，只有我現在什麼都不是，亂糟糟的。我就一直很緊張，萬一我一直都是這樣，怎麼辦？」

說著，她眼眶一紅，眼淚像斷了線的珍珠鏈似的灑下來。

我的媽呀！是我的樣子長得很催淚，還是我的聲音聽起來很虐心？怎麼客人，不分男女老少，東南西北，看到我好像都很容易哭？

我抓起一張紙巾遞給她。

「所以，我不是來了嗎？你來找我，就是要問個明路，而你很幸運那麼快就看到我啦！你看你的筆記寫得多工整，多齊全。我很多客人都不如你啊！我今天的工作，就是來給你答案的。我沒有把握，也不會接你這份差事。我接了，就代表還可以補救。你照著我的指示去做，一定柳暗花明又一村。」

又另一回，一位四十多歲的媽媽請我看兒子的八字。

我在批著八字時，這位媽媽點頭認同，然後就聲淚俱下。

我轉頭看著她沈默不語的先生。我說錯了什麼嗎？太太哭成淚人，你怎麼連紙巾也不拿給她啊？

「我是個沒有用的母親，很不稱職的母親。我沒有辦法教好孩子。我很愛他，可是很多時候我都不知道要怎麼做，我就會對他發脾氣，說狠話，過後我又後悔。我忍下來，可是後來還是會一樣！」

我沒打斷她，等她的哭聲逐漸小聲後，我柔柔的說：「我來啦！我坐在你前面了。你已經看到我，就是有辦法了。你知道你自己不行，會去找辦法，就代表你願意去學習做個好媽媽啊！」

我把紙巾遞給她，再說：「不要哭了，要不然，別人看了以為是我不要借你錢，才把你弄得那麼傷心。」

曾幾何時，我們都會以外在所擁有的，來定義自己的人生是否值得自己喜歡。

從原生家庭、樣貌、健康、身型、智力、天賦等，到後來的學歷、友情、事業、財富、婚姻、子女......

哪一樣沒有，而偏偏是我們最想要的，我們就會認定自己失敗的一塌糊塗。

我認為這就是普通教育最大的問題所在。父母老師都是這樣把我們「分門別類」的。值不值得父母疼愛或向親朋戚友炫耀，也離不開那幾點。

久而久之，我們也只會以「成功」來定義自己是否有價值，甚至來衡量自己是否有活下去的勇氣。

我比較喜歡佛法的定義。我們每個人都是一尊佛，六道眾生皆有佛性，只因一時的迷，因此墮落在苦輪不停的輪迴。

可正因為我們有佛性，我們都有無窮無盡的可能。每個人的內在有著很強大的力量，等著我們遇到明師後，去發掘、探索和了解。

而這天生俱來的力量，就是你改命立命的資本。

如果人生順風順水，我們永遠不會想要出離，誤把人間當極樂，所以一定要有苦，我們才會意識到，為什麼我們會在這鬼地方？要怎麼樣才可以離開這鬼地方去到極樂？

反過來，我們都應該感恩自己遇到的挫折，因為從這些苦中，我們才能生出智慧。

沒有一個八字是完美的。一切的失敗和不足，都是最美好的安排，如此你才會有出離心，返本歸源。

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3 months ago, when I received this email from my Taiwan client, there was this feeling of bittersweetness.

I was happy because this was the client I did a Zoom consultation last June. He sent me this email on the one-year anniversary date of our Zoom call, to express his gratitude. How sweet!

On the other hand, I could relate to the emotional turmoil he felt at that point in his life.

His experience was my past. It also took me a very long time to walk out from my gloominess.

Once, I analysed the Bazi of a very young lady. She was meticulously jotting down notes as I spoke.

Her detailed note-taking skills easily took the top place among my clients.

Halfway through, I noticed her right hand was trembling slightly. I thought it was due to the cold draft from the air conditioning, so I asked if she needed a shawl.

She replied that it was her anxiety disorder acting up.

“I was not fierce or strict with you. What caused your sudden anxiety?”

“I…ever since the pandemic disrupted my plans, I have been in this state of anxiety. I kept feeling useless. All my classmates are progressing expect me. I have nothing to show for and my life is in a mess. I am very anxious. What if I continue to be like this? What am I going to do?”

As she spoke, her eyes turned red and tears started rolling down like a broken strand of pearl necklace scattering onto the ground.

Oh dear! I am beginning to wonder if I have a tear-jerker face or a heart-tormenting voice. Why do my clients, regardless of gender and age, North South or East West, seem to cry easily when they see me?

I grabbed a piece of tissue and handed it to her.

“Ain’t I here already? You came to me for a roadmap and you are very lucky to see me so soon. Look at how precise and neat your notes are! Many of my clients aren’t even on par with you. My job today is to give you answers. If I didn’t have the confidence, I would not have taken up your request. Now that I did, that means there is still hope. If you follow my instructions, you will see things looking up very soon.”

On another occasion, a mother in her forties came to me for her son’s Bazi consultation.

As I was analysing, the mother nodded her head in agreement. The next thing I know, she started weeping loudly.

I turned to look at her husband, who had been silent all along. Did I say something wrong? And hello, your wife was crying. Why weren’t you gentleman enough to give her a tissue paper?

“I am a useless mother. I am incompetent. I do not know how to teach my son well. I love my son very much. But many times, I do not know what to do and thus I flare up at him and speak harshly. I always regret afterwards. I tried enduring but it still ends badly!”

I did not interrupt her and waited for her cries to soften, before speaking gently, “I’m here! I’m already sitting in front of you. You are looking at me now and that means help is here. You know that you are incompetent, so you went looking for solutions. That means you are willing to learn how to be a better mother!”

I handed a piece of tissue and said, “Don’t cry anymore, otherwise, other patrons will think that it’s because I refuse to lend you money.”

Since young, we have been using external possessions to define whether our lives are worth liking.

The family we are born into, our looks, health, body shape, intellect, talents, and then we move on to compare our academics, friendships, career, wealth, marriage and children.

If we are lacking in the area we covet most, we grade our lives as a failure.

I think this is the biggest problem in societal education. Our parents and teachers categorized us that way. Whether we as children are worthy of their love and bragging, depends on the few points above too.

Thus over time, we can only use the term “success” to determine whether we are of value, for some people, whether they should live on to take their next breath.

I very much prefer the definition in Buddhism. We are all Buddhas. Each and every sentient being in the six realms has a Buddha nature in them. But they got lost momentarily and fell into the endless wheel of reincarnation.

Yet, because of our Buddha nature, we have an unlimited source of potential. Every one of us has a very powerful strength inside us. It is just waiting for us to meet an accomplished teacher, so that we have the tools to explore and understand it:

And this strength that we are born with is the capital for us to transform and establish our own destiny.

If life is smooth-sailing, we would never want to leave and would mistake this mortal realm for Pureland. Thus, we all need sufferings, to realise that we should break out of this hell of a place. There has to be a better world somewhere. So how we get there?

We should, in fact, be grateful for all the setbacks and failures we have. Because it is from these sufferings, our wisdom arise:

No single Bazi is perfect. Every failure and lack we experience is the best arrangement for us, so that the heart of renunciation will arise in us and we will return to where we came from.

Happy New Year ! It is MosoGourmet's 10th anniversary this year !
We liked out Whole Strawberry Daifuku video and are recent Mandarin Orange Raindrop Cake video was also very well received, so this time we decided to make daifuku with whole tangerines! The tangerines are put through a lot by being boiled and cooled with water twice, but the result is a really fresh tasting sweet. We've got whole series of whole fruit daifuku on our hands!
* Recipe * (Makes 3 tangerine daifuku)
Peel the tangerine neatly
1. Boil water in a pot.
2. Turn off the heat, place 3 tangerines (small tangerines, approx 70g each) in the water and cover with a lid.
3. Place in cold water
4. When they have cooled down, peel the skin off from the top downward.
5. Color 50 mL of water with orange food coloring.
6. Mix one tablespoon of sugar into 55g of rice flour.
7. Add the colored water into the flour mixture slowly, kneading as you go. Adjust the amount of water to make it as hard as your ear lobe.
8. Divide into 3 pieces (approximately 35g each).
9. Make them into a circle, add 5g of white bean paste and wrap up the tangerines prepared in step 4.

If it's hard to wrap the the tangerine, it may help to wet your fingers with the water remaining from step 5.

10. Poke small holes in the daifuku with a toothpick.
11. Place in boiling water for 4 minutes,including the baking paper. You may boil them a little longer if you're worried.
12. Place in cold water to cool down.
13. Decorate with mint leaves.
14. It's time to eat! Because they're sticky, it's best to wet your hands before eating or hold the baking paper.

あけましておめでとうございます、妄想グルメは今年十周年になります。今後ともよろしくお願いします。
前回の丸ごといちご大福が気に入ったのと https://youtu.be/HSCBxeYUEh0 昔の動画の丸ごとみかんゼリーが最近好評なのをうけて https://youtu.be/l-CuYOf4XZc
丸ごといちご大福に続いて、茹でて作る丸ごとみかん大福、作りました。2回茹でられ、水にも2回入れられるという試練に耐えた みかんですが、できあがりはフレッシュな味わいです。丸ごと大福、シリーズ化の予感。（正確には白玉なのでなんちゃって大福ですね。）

*レシピ*（3みかん大福 分）
みかんの皮をきれいに剥きます
１．鍋に湯を沸かします。
２．火を止め、みかん 3個（Sサイズ 1個 およそ70g）を入れフタをして5分待つ。
３．冷水に取る。
４．粗熱が取れたら、上部分から下に向かって皮を剥く。

５．水 50mlを食用色素でオレンジに着色する。
６．白玉粉 55gに砂糖 大さじ 1 入れ混ぜる。
７．６に５を様子を見ながら加え、こねる。耳たぶくらいのかたさになるように水の量を調整する。
８．７を3等分にする。1個およそ35g。
９．８を丸く広げ、白あん 5gをのせ、４のみかんを包む。
包みきれないときは、生地を付け足し、余った５を指で付けて均すとよい。
１０．爪楊枝で９に点々をつける。
１１．オーブンシートのまま、沸騰したお湯で4分弱茹でる。心配ならばもうちょっと茹でてください。
１２．冷水に取り冷ます。
１３．ミントの葉を飾る。
１４．いただきます。くっつきやすいので、手を濡らしたり、オーブンシートを活用したりすると良いです。

#Tangerines #Daifuku #Recipe #ASMR #oddlysatisfying #relaxing #soothing #therapeutic #Japan #みかん #大福 #作り方 #レシピ #白玉 #音フェチ #蜜柑

まほうつかいプリキュア！　モフルンコインケース
まわして　コロリン！　キラキラ　ガチャ

■チャンネル登録はこちら / Channel subscript → https://goo.gl/in9442

■動画内容説明・概要
今月の付録は「まわして　コロリン！　キラキラ　ガチャ」☆　「おともだち」オリジナルデザインのかわいいガチャから、ミントブルーとパウダーピンクのカプセルが出てくるよ♪　カプセルの中に紙付録の宝物やお気に入りのものをいれて、ガチャ遊びをたのしもう♡　

今月号は、「キラキラティアラ＆ゆびわ」もついてくる！　キラキラ光る素敵なティアラとゆびわをつけて、プリンセスになりきってね♪　　大人気連載「魔法つかいプリキュア！」では、みらいたちがサンタさんのお手伝いで、クリスマスプレゼントを届けにいくよ！

「かみさまみならい　ヒミツのここたま」、「リカちゃん」、「仮面ライダーエグゼイド」など、ほかにも人気のキャラクターが盛りだくさん！　２０１７年で創刊４５周年☆　おともだち１２月号、発売中です♪

今月の付録は　「まほうつかいプリキュア！　モフルンコインケース」！　コインあそびやおみくじあそびもできるよ★　かばんにもつけちゃおう♡　

とじこみ付録「かみさまみならい　ヒミツのここたま　ラキたまふくわらい」や「にんきもの　せいぞろい！　あいうえおかるた」でお正月を楽しんでね♪　「リカちゃん　はれぎで　おでかけ♥おしゃれぬりえ」でかわいくぬりえをしよう♪　

「ほっぺちゃん」、「ちいさなプリンセス　ソフィア」、「動物戦隊ジュウオウジャー」など、人気キャラクターと遊んで学べる♪　盛りだくさんの「たのしい幼稚園１月号」、発売中です♡

■Video Description / Overview
From cute Gacha of this month in the appendix of the "turn to Kororin! Glitter Gacha" ☆ "friend" original design, the ones in the ♪ I capsule comes out mint blue and powder pink capsule of paper appendix treasures and favorite Put it in and enjoy playing gacha ♡

This month's issue comes with "Glitter aida & Rie!" With glittering nice tiara and rose, it is becoming a princess ♪ In the popular serial series "Magical Triple Cure!", Mirai will go to deliver Christmas gifts with Santa's help!

There are plenty of other popular characters such as "Kamishimoto Himitsu no Kamata", "Rika chan", "Masked Rider Exe"! Fifty-first anniversary in 2017 ☆ Friends December issue, ♪ is on sale

The appendix of this month is "Mahoruka Pretty Cure! Mofulun Coin Case"! I can also play coins and play garbage ★ Let's put on my bag ♡

Enjoy the New Year with the Appendix "Kamishimoto Himitsu's Raki Takumarui" and "Eikenomonai Complete Listings! Ai Ouio Karuta" ♪ Let's color it carefully with "Rika-chan with a going out ♥ Fashionable Coloring" ♪

Let's learn by playing with popular characters such as "Hoppe-chan", "Chiisana Princess Sophia", "Animal Sentai Deja ja" ♪ Plenty "Fun kindergarten January issue", on sale

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Hane&Mari'sWorld | アンパンマン おもちゃ 開封紹介動画 | Japan Anpanman Toys Unboxing |日本麵包超人玩具開箱 | 일본 호빵맨 장난감 개봉 소개 동영상
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKYa0d8PotI&list=PLXiDlOQjp9BuF1-qE2UZ_hKcFr3JHFjvR

Hane&Mari'sWorld | 魔法使いプリキュア おもちゃ | Maho Girls PreCure TOYS | 魔法使光之美少女 玩具 | 마법사 프리큐어 장난감
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLAl43jJ-Ak&list=PLXiDlOQjp9BuLW2KPIF_i6w2qmZ_sb4oL

Hane&Mari'sWolrd | マクドナルド マック ハッピーセット おもちゃ | McDonald Japan Happy Meal Toys | 麥當勞歡樂兒童套餐玩具
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iu7Urumkkyo&list=PLXiDlOQjp9BsErHhmhB8V-w_uo8pOWNoH

Hane&Mari'sWorld | ここたま おもちゃ | Kokotama Toys
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uKlrWWSRQqk&list=PLXiDlOQjp9BtCrjrdL3rQ7LV6EMuehJyG

Hane&Mari'sWorld | プリキュアオールスターズ | Precure All Stars | 光之美少女全明星
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2VCFbybyOXU&list=PLXiDlOQjp9BucWyiEqkk9LlBC4GhoZOCP

Hane&Mari'sWorld | トミカ おもちゃ | TOMICA TOMY CAR TOY | 日本多美小汽車玩具 | 日本多美小汽车玩具 | 일본 토미카 장난감
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ktuz7jaqvHs&list=PLXiDlOQjp9BsUJ286UMY4fBGicl3u2bRx

Hane&Mari'sWorld | 食玩おもちゃ開封紹介動画 | Candy Toy Chocolat Eggs Review Videos | 日本食品玩具開箱介紹視訊 | 日本零食附赠玩具开箱视频
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLAl43jJ-Ak&list=PLXiDlOQjp9BsE7XPT_X8rDqiLQ8dSG6GG

Hane&Mari'sWorld | ガチャガチャ ガシャポン ガチャポン カプセルトイ | Japan GASHAPON Capsule Toy | 빙글 빙글 가샤폰 가체 폰 캡슐 토이 | 日本扭蛋 轉蛋 玩具
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XHXRETDUEHo&list=PLXiDlOQjp9Bv38YUQqJ7FdQ1D01pSMXtv

Hane&Mari'sWorld | スーパー サプライズ エッグ | チョコエッグ | Super Surprise Egg | Chocolate Egg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vb02ytXvMhs&list=PLXiDlOQjp9BsDGbBp60kyW3_yOinv8c9A

■撮影機材/Photographic Equipment → キャノン Canon EOS 80D + EF-S18-135mm F3.5-5.6 IS USM

Though everyday is a great day to celebrate, our anniversary is still our favorite. Paper wedding reminds us of the fragile and modest beginnings of marriage, and we sure will keep it strong. We woke up early to celebrate the dawn of our anniversary in the city where we wedded.

雖然每一天都是值得慶祝的日子，但結婚紀念日已成為一年中我們最愛的一天。這一天我們回到了去年結婚的市政府回味一下， 一起看了舊金山的日出，有種平靜的幸福。紙婚比喻婚姻關係最初薄如紙，要小心保護，接下來會再繼續加油！在這一天，我們起了個大早迎接結婚一週年紀念日的曙光。

San Francisco sunrise timelapse

#SeasonsOfLove #Seasons #4Seasons #TravelInSeasons