Since I've gotten pregnant, i have apologized to a few friends for the insensitive remarks I've made when they were pregnant. These unintentional, harmless remarks, i realized can cause the pregnant mama unnecessary stress.
I remember i used to make mindless comments like "Wow, you're pretty big/small for 7 months pregnant hor!", "I notice your nose is getting bigger, must be the pregnancy.", "Your pigmentations are more obvious now, must be hormones, but im sure it'll go away!", "Your hips are ready for birth!".
Having experience pregnancy now, boy, did i realize how insensitive i was! Good intent, no doubt. But still insensitive. Women who's nv gone through it probably thinks that it's ok to make such comments bcos that's normal symptoms of pregnancy. But no woman, no matter pregnant or not, or in whatever stages in their life, finds its acceptable to feel ugly or fat, not even for awhile, not even if they know it'll get better eventually. Sometimes it's not just about the aesthetic. When people tell me how big or small my stomach is, i immediately think, 'oh no, is my baby too small? Am i not eating enough' or 'damn, i am too big for 7 months.'
In another words, there's no right thing to say.
Now i know, next time when you see a pregnant mama, just tell her how beautiful and glowy she is. Period. Or,(u can adopt this one), one of the nicest comment I've heard in my pregnancy was from @ojnjenine, "Your bump is damn chio." I still dont know how to differentiate a chio bump from a not chio bump, but it feels damn shiok to hear! Haha!
Once again, i wanna apologise to friends whom i accidentally hurt with my comment when you were pregnant. I'm sorry!
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