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📰 Indian-American gay couples find new forms of union amid stigma(恥辱)
🀄 同性戀在印度社會是丟臉的事,印裔美國同志伴侶在當中尋求新的結合方式
When Sameer Samudra and Amit Gokhale decided to marry according to Hindu custom, the couple faced an unexpected(意想不到的) hiccup(麻煩): they couldn't find a priest(神父) to do the ceremony.
📌 當 Sameer Samudra 和 Amit Gokhale 決定按照印度教習俗結婚時,這對新人遇到了意想不到的麻煩:他們找不到牧師來主持婚禮。
"We wanted a Hindu wedding, but so many pandits (印度教士) [priests] said no. I was agonized(極痛苦的) when one of them quoted(報價) an exorbitant(過高的) amount(金額) just because I am gay!" said Sameer, who lives in North Carolina.
📌 “我們想要一場印度教婚禮,但有很多教士 [牧師] 說不。當他們中的一個人僅僅因為我是同性戀而提出過高金額時,我感到非常痛苦!” 住在北卡羅來納州的薩米爾說。
Unwilling to have "the energy of a reluctant(不情願的) priest" at their wedding, the couple improvised(即興發揮).
"One of our friends learnt the basics of being a priest and we chose Hindu rituals(儀式) that made sense for a same-sex wedding," Sameer said.
📌 這對新人不願意在他們的婚禮上擁有“不情願的神父的能量”,他們即興發揮。
“我們的一個朋友學習了成為牧師的基本知識,我們選擇了對同性婚禮有道理的印度教儀式,”薩米爾說。
So many Indian-American couples dream of a big fat Bollywood-style wedding, complete with traditional rituals. But that's easier said than done for gay couples - even in the US where same-sex unions were legalized(合法化) in 2015.
📌 很多的印度裔美國夫婦都夢想著舉行一場盛大的寶萊塢式婚禮,並配有傳統儀式,但對於同性戀伴侶來說,說起來容易,做起來難——即使在 2015 年同性結合合法化的美國也是如此。
More than 300,000 gay couples have wed in the country since then. But Indian-Americans say that they are often ostracized(排斥) by those who have the holy(神聖的) task of solemnizing(隆重慶祝) their unions.
📌 從那時起,該國已有超過 300,000 對同性戀伴侶結婚,但印度裔美國人說,他們經常被那些肩負著舉行結合儀式的神聖任務的人排斥。
Temples refusing to host same-sex weddings, priests hanging up on their phone calls or unwilling to tweak(稍稍調整) the ceremony to suit them and, in some cases, not even showing up on the day of the wedding - these experiences have driven Indian-American gay couples to fall back on friends and well-wishers to create unique ceremonies rooted in their culture.
📌 寺廟拒絕舉辦同性婚禮、神父掛斷電話或稍稍調整儀式以適應他們,在某些情況下,甚至在婚禮當天都不露面——這些經歷推動了這些新人依靠的朋友和祝福者,創造植根於他們文化的獨特儀式。
Sapna Pandya, for instance, became a priest herself although female priests are virtually(實際上) unheard of in Hinduism.
📌 例如,Sapna Pandya 自己成為了一名神父,儘管在印度教中幾乎聞所未聞的女神父。
She did it because of the opposition she and her Pakistani(巴基斯坦的) Muslim wife, Seher, faced when they wanted to get married the traditional way.
📌 她這樣做,是因為她和她的巴基斯坦穆斯林妻子 Seher,在想以傳統方式結婚時面臨反對。
"I didn't feel comfortable going to the temple to see a priest. My wife didn't feel comfortable going to the mosque(清真寺) and asking an imam(伊斯蘭領袖尊稱). So, we wrote our own ceremony," Sapna said.
They chose Hindu mantras(真言) and verses from the Koran(古蘭經) that symbolized companionship.
📌 “我不喜歡去寺廟找一位神父。我的妻子不喜歡去清真寺問伊瑪目,所以,我們編寫了自己的儀式。”Sapna 說。他們選擇了象徵伴侣關係的印度教真言和古蘭經中的經文。
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昨天就是個灰姑娘和繼母參加婚宴的故事😂
人生第一次嘗試這麼顯色的藍色眼影
超怕變許純美
看本人眼影很美
但是拍照拍不出來🤣
跟鬼一樣
不過人生第一次真正正式的全套在印度教國家穿沙麗好興奮啊啊啊(上一次表揚是自己亂穿的😂)
終於可以理解為什麼印度教國家的女人都好美😍
他們對於色彩、設計、材質、美妝等等細節一個都不放過
只要遇到特殊節日、婚宴
就是大家大展身手的時候✨
所有女生都全副武裝啊~
所以只要遇到這些時日年輕女孩們都超級興奮🌞
連我都興奮了!
大家爭奇鬥豔的程度之驚人
昨天還看到一個人體亮片走在路上😂
不過我跟我朋友踏入婚禮現場的時候真的確實有感受到所有投射的眼光
我以為是我的錯覺
沒想到她也有發現🤣
自以為走紅地毯的概念
昨天是我第一次的五星級飯店印度式婚禮
現場演唱全是印度情歌
餐點也是印度料理
除了飯店結構有西方風格外
其餘全部延續傳統
這是他們文化強大的很大一個原因
堅持延續傳統💪🏼
在等和新娘拍照的時候
突然有個阿伯走向我
幫我在頭上點了紅點
我說了:Namaste
他給了我一個黃色的信封
我猜想應該是喜帖之類的卡片
我完全不懂什麼意思
還好他沒繼續跟我聊天
不久後,我默默打開信封✉️
居然是錢😱😱😱
我超害怕的趕快問我朋友
她說那是一種給賓客的祈福
但我沒看到他給其他人😱
嚇死寶寶了😨
回家之後
跟朋友的媽媽說這件事
媽媽大笑
她說可能對方以為我是男方的賓客了
太逗趣
我就這樣收了紅包✉️
昨天的新娘是朋友的朋友
好美啊啊啊啊啊啊
她媽媽也美到我傻眼😱
認真以為是姊姊
尼泊爾🇳🇵真的是出美女無誤😺
不過新娘昨天看到我也一直說我很美害我好暗爽
被美女稱讚☺️
他們全都說我根本就是尼泊爾人😂
我真的好容易入境隨俗喔
去埃及🇪🇬被說像埃及混血
去日本🇯🇵被以為是日本人
去印度🇮🇳也被以為是印度混血
到底要混多少🤣
接下來幾天也是行程緊湊
朋友的婚禮居然還有午夜場😱
好多新體驗啊啊啊
我要把體力撐著才行💪🏼
This is a night of Cinderella and her step mom😂
My very first Hindu wedding experience in a five star hotel
Thanks to my dear sister’s invitation
I got to see a modern side of Nepal and also the fancy Nepali and western fusion hotel
The food was good
Live band played really nice Indian songs
And this was my very first saree in the Hindu culture country
Very glad to receive all kinds of compliments
Looking forward to my babes wedding
She’s so pretty that turns me into a pervert!
I kept staring at her😂
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Culture is the characteristics and knowledge of a particular group of people, encompassing language, religion, cuisine, social habits, music and arts.
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indian wedding culture 在 Yuna - (Not) The Love Of My Life Youtube 的評價
My new album ROUGE is out now! https://Yuna.lnk.to/RougeID
Not The Love of My Life tells a story of a bride in the midst of getting ready for her wedding but is second guessing her decision to settle down. I went back to Malaysia and wanted to collaborate again with my friend and traditional Indian choreographer Harshini Sukumaran whom I’ve worked with in the Forevermore music video. I was also blessed to have collaborated with other talents and business owners, who live and breathe within the Indian wedding industry, as they help me breathe so much beauty and insight in what we were creating.
Back home we all partake in each other’s culture in a very loving and respectful way which I feel is very unique.. and in NTLOML I was very blessed to be able to share that part of my life with the world. I’m not the main star of this video, they are. I’m so happy that I got the opportunity to direct my first music video, but it would not be possible without the consultation, support, and most importantly, love from the Malaysian Indian community.
xx Yuna
Lyrics
Been holding on these years
It’s been a sweep, these tears
Stayin’ to know what love is
You wanna move so fast
But I know we won’t last
Gotta let go of all the memories
You may be hurtin’ now
But once you understand why we can’t hold it out
Goin’ shed a new skin, babe
You say just hang around
Just give me some time
Give me some time
To find my way
But baby I know
Our love is broken
My heart is frozen
You’re not the love of my life
Our love our moments
Let me compose it
You’re not the love of my life
Music video by Yuna performing (Not) The Love Of My Life. © 2019 UMG Recordings, Inc.
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indian wedding culture 在 Antariksha Phadnis Youtube 的最佳貼文
On the occasion of India's Independence Day, I have collaborated with Sneha from BeautyLashes19 and Thanuja from GlamConfident to do the Ethnicity Tag video. Please go ahead and check their videos as well after you are done watching my video.
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We are answering these questions:
1.Whats your name? what does it mean?
2.Where are you from (country/state)? can you tell us little about yourself and your family?
3.Name one household item that best represents ur culture.
4.What song reminds you of your country?
5.Favourite bollywood song?
6.When was the last time u visited ur country?
7.Can u speak the language of ur ethnicity? how many languages can you speak? one word/Sentence in each language
8.What is a must see place in India?
9.What is the best season/time any one should visit India?
10.One tip for smart street shopping in India
11.What your favourite desi movie and why?
12.Favourite bollywood hero/heroine?
13.what would your dream wedding b like?
14.Whats partying at your place would b like?
15.kya aapke tooth paste mein namak hai?
16.whats "kahani ghar ghar ki there for u”?
17.Whats ur fav indian food?
18.Favourite Indian youtuber?
19.Favourite festival?
20.Favourite street/market to shop?
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