Ragam anak DUA!
Sorang menangis, yang sorang dari tak nangis pun ikut sekali..
Sorang main panjat sofa, datang adiknya ikut juga melompat2 atas sofa..
Sorang nak mainan itu, yang sorang ni pun nak jugak.. Bergaduh sambil2 nangis hentak kaki.. Datanglah maknya memujuk dan tenangkan mereka.
Lepastu sorang tidur, sorang berjaga.. Nanti bangun yang ni, yang tu pulak berjaga.. Bab makan kadang2 agak mencabar, kejap2 duk setempat, kejap2 berlari..
Tapi itulah anak kan.. Waktu salah sorang takda dengan kita, kita akan rasa tak lengkap.. Macam tak cukup 'korum' rasa sunyi tiba2.
So mommy.. Selagi boleh sabar.. Sabar ya.. Budak2 kejap je dia macamni.. Nanti dah besar akal lain pulak yg datang.. 🤣🤣
Kadang2 memang rasa kagum dgn ibu2 yg menjaga anak mereka sendiri tanpa bantuan sesiapa.
Ianya BUKAN MUDAH!
24 jam menghadap muka diorang.. Kadang2 rasa 24 jam tu tak cukup. Kejap je masa berlalu. Macam2 aksi dan ragam diorang buat.
Tak cukup kaki dan tangan nak handle.
Ada yg kelakar, ada yg menggeramkan dan ada yg sangat menguji kesabaran.
Diroang sebenarnya nakkan perhatian.. Umur 2, 3 tahun dah beradik. Manakan nak faham apa yg kita suruh, apa yg boleh dan tak boleh. Kita nak paksa dia ikut rentak kita, mana maunya dia.
Sebab waktu tu, mereka pun sangat perlukan kita. Mereka juga nak bermanja. Mereka juga nak peluk dan ciuman kasih sayang dari kita. Kakak atau abangnya cemburu, bila maknya lebihkan adik. Mereka rasa marah, bila segalanya terkawal. Asyik2 yang sulung je kena bebel, kena marah dan kena pukul.
Kita nak fahamkan anak kecil yg masih belum mampu berfikir, memang susah. Kena ada cara, teknik kena betul dan kena pandai tackle hati dia.
Ibu marah bukan apa, sebab ibu rasa tak cukup nafas bila handle 2 ragam, 2 perangai, 2 manusia yg ibu perlu santuni sebaik mungkin.
Ibu juga terkejar-kejar nak masak, uruskan rumah, uruskan anak sekolah dan sebagainya.
Ibu baru nak berehat, adik pulak jaga.. Nak menyusu, nak bersihkan lampin dia.. Dan macam2 lagi.
Sebab tulah, surirumah ni happy gila bila tiba hari minggu..dapatlah rehat sekejap 2 hari. Ada yg suami sangat membantu dan prihatin, dapatlah mama me time lama2. Ada juga suami yg malas nak tolong, hadap Hp je, memang meroyanlah mamanya.
Buat suami, kalau ada masa.. Urutlah isteri anda, bawa dia jalan2 bersiar2. Gunakan peluang sebaiknya utk bantu dia urus anak2. Dia tak dapat emas permata pun tak apa, janji suami sentiasa ada ketika saat2 yg tak terduga.
Boleh kan papa? 😍😍
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Two children's behaviour!
One person is crying, the one who is not crying is also following..
Playing the couch climbing the couch, when his sister came along also jumping on the couch..
One person wants to play, even this person wants to do it.. Fighting while crying and throwing feet.. Come to the mother to persuade and calm them.
After one sleeps, one person is awake.. Wake up later, that one will be awake.. The food chapters are quite challenging sometimes, while staying locally, running for a while..
But that's the child.. When the wrong person is not with us, we will feel incomplete.. Kind of not enough ' korum ' feeling quiet suddenly.
So mommy.. As long as you can be patient.. Be patient.. He will be like this in a while.. Later he will have a big mind that will come.. 🤣🤣
Sometimes I am in awe of mothers who take care of their own children without the help of anyone.
IT'S NOT EASY!
24 hours facing their face.. Sometimes it feels like 24 hours is not enough. Time passes by for a while. All sorts of actions and behaviors they do.
Not enough legs and hands to handle.
There is something funny, there is something that grows up and there is a very test of patience.
Diroang actually wants attention.. Age of 2, 3 years old and siblings. Who wants to understand what we say, what we can and can't. We want to force him to follow our crash, where he wants.
Because at that time, they really need us. They want to be spoiled too. They also want to hug and kiss love from us. Her sister or brother are jealous, when her mother is more younger. They feel angry, when everything is controlled. Always the eldest one got hit, got angry and hit.
We want to understand children who still can't think, it's hard. There has to be a way, the technique has to be correct and have to tackle his heart
Mother is angry is nothing, because mother feels not enough breath when handling 2 behaviour, 2 human beings that mother needs to behave as best as possible.
Mom is also chasing to cook, manage the house, manage the school kids and everything.
Mom just about to rest, sister is taking care of her.. Want to breastfeed, want to clean her diaper.. And all sorts of things.
Because of the reason, this housewife is happy crazy when it comes to Sunday.. can rest for 2 days. There is a husband who is very helpful and caring, can be mama me for a long time. There is also a husband who is lazy to help, just face the phone, his mom is really complaining.
For husbands, if you have time.. Massage your wife, take her for a walk. Use the opportunity to help her manage children. She doesn't even get gold jewels, as long as the husband is always there during unexpected times.
Is it okay, is it okay? 😍😍
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