今天是 International Kissing Day(國際接吻日)
Who do you want to kiss today?
碰巧看到了這個 survey,
太好笑不得不分享🤣 🤣
HOW DO AMERICANS RATE THEIR KISSING SKILLS?
(覺得自己的接吻技巧如何?)
#1: “Good” (32%)
#2: “Great” (28%)
#3: “Amazing” (23%)
#4: “Okay” (16%) 👉 謙虛什麼?
#5: “Horrible” (2%) 👉 這是直接放棄的意思嗎?
AMERICANS RANK THE WORST ATTRIBUTES OF A BAD KISSER
(最無法忍受哪種接吻?)
#1: Bad breath (58%) 👉 Oh this is so true!!
#2: Too much tongue (20%) 👉 有蛇出沒的概念 🐍
#3: Teeth (10%)
#4: Not enough tongue (6%) 👉 老闆舌頭太少了,我點的是雙份舌頭謝謝
#5: Eye contact (6%) 👉 是因為會鬥雞眼嗎?
AMERICAN’S TOP KISSING QUIRKS:
(大家的接吻怪僻是?)
#1: Always checking their breath before they kiss someone (42%)
👉 這是禮儀吧!不然嘴超臭還要繼續嗎請問?
#2: Kissing someone as a dare (31%)
#3: Letting my pet kiss me on the mouth (14%)
#4: Putting on chapstick to get ready (12%)
👉 用意是…?不是馬上就會被吃掉了嗎?🤔
(chapstick 是護唇膏)
#5: Being grossed out when parents kiss in front of them (11%)
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me before you意思 在 浩爾譯世界 Facebook 的最讚貼文
“I am so much more than the bad things that happen to me.”
來自一位你可能不太認識的歌手
Nightbirde 夜鶯
中文世界還沒什麼報導
力抗癌症的她來到了美國達人秀舞台
一首自創曲 It’s OK 讓毒舌評審Simon都感動到哽咽
她在台上溫和堅定說出了那句話
意思是「我比我所遭遇的逆境還要豐富得多」!
比賽片段放在留言,大推觀賞
此外,醫生說她癌症存活率2%,她認為2%也是機會,還鼓勵大家珍視其中的美好
“I have a 2 percent chance of survival but 2 percent is not 0 percent. 2 percent is something and I wish people knew how amazing it is.”
網友留言換句話說也很棒
「我們不是自身負面經驗的總和。」
We are not the sum of our bad experiences.
「不OK也OK。」
It’s OK to be not OK.
最後留一句讓大家練練
這句Nightbirde講的話很有哲理,不好翻喔
“You can’t wait until life isn’t hard anymore before you decide to be happy.”
*浩爾內心的認真魔人還是忍不住想提醒一下:
數學上,零就是零,其實不會講 zero percent,那會變成金融方面零利率的意思。Zero is zero. 但總之,一定要聽她的歌療癒一下啦!
希望給了世界好多力量的她一切順利!
me before you意思 在 謙預 Qianyu.sg Facebook 的最佳貼文
【我親愛的Zoom視訊客人們】
To My Dear Zoom Clients
我忍了真的⋯⋯真的⋯⋯很久,今天過後實在忍無可忍,一定要叮嚀所有過去和未來的客人們。
我年紀很大了,受不了太大的刺激。
拜託,你們可以Zoom好來嗎?😓😑
一、Zoom視訊的視角 = 拍護照照的視角
護照自2020年起就已成為古董,但大家這一生應該有拍過證件照吧!
對了,就是要頭髮整齊,讓我看到你的雙耳、雙眼、鼻子、嘴巴、頸項和肩膀,到胸部。
我批八字時,需要看整個面相。不要讓你一半的臉掉出鏡頭外,這樣很像鍾無艷,也不要嘴巴不見掉,這樣我很像在跟一條羅漢魚視訊。
我看面相包括看你的嘴巴、牙齒和說話時的嘴形。是的,看相就是需要那麼仔細。
如果你的螢幕太低,那就找書本或舊報紙,把螢幕墊高一點。別讓我整一個小時半只看到你的雙下巴,會把你的面相比例給看錯。
不要一直告訴我不好意思,方法是人想出來的。
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二、光線
太暗,我看你如見鬼。
太亮,我會看不清你的膚色。
拉開窗簾,不要背向陽光。
有必要的話,就直接開燈!
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三、勿放什麼椰樹沙灘/金門大橋的虛擬背景圖
什麼虛擬背景圖都不要放啦~
我的家美最重要,我不在乎你的家美不美,我只是來看命的。
如果你的Wi-Fi不是很強,電腦功能不是很厲害,這類的虛擬背景圖會讓你的視訊畫面卡卡的。
有時你轉個身,整個右邊不見了,或部份的頭髮少了,讓我覺得我好像在看恐怖片,嚇人啊~
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四、環境和聲音
有些海外客人其實非常用心。為了與我視訊,特別去買有麥克風的耳機🎧,讓我能更清楚的聽到他們的聲音。😍
沒有使用耳機和麥克風的客人,往往他們的聲音會有種空氣般的回音,如果他們本身講話又小聲,我的耳機聲量開滿,我還是聽得滿辛苦的
也有香港和馬來西亞客人租過會議室、鐘點房間或單人工作室,就是為了不受家人的干擾,能安心的與我視訊。😍
最有趣的是,去年新加坡阻斷措施時,有位男客人跑到屋外的走廊坐在地上與我視訊。只是外頭風聲有點大,我好幾次都聽不清楚他的聲音。
曾有客人在咖啡廳與我視訊。咖啡廳裡的高談闊論聲和器皿的敲擊聲,頻頻從我的耳機闖進我的耳朵,哇~我的耳朵那時真的是活受罪,還要裝一副氣定神閒的樣子。
天啊,兩次過後,我寧願退錢,也不再見這樣的客人了。耳朵只有一對,我要保護好啊!
在這裡聲明:一般我們買手機時的那種有麥克風的耳機,就已能視訊。沒有戴耳機和麥克風的客人,我一概會拒絕諮詢,把費用原銀奉還。
五、孩子
曾試過諮詢的前20分鐘,一直被女客人的小孩打擾,進來哭著要媽媽主持公道。
如果你家中有六歲以下的兒童,會時不時來敲你的門,我建議你還是先別約我。你這樣會分心,無法聽好我交代的事,而我也得一直等你去安撫你的孩子,就無法在限定時間內看完你的八字,這樣對誰都不公平。
六、我只見客人一人
這個規矩,從我一出道就定下來,也清楚的寫在網站上,根本不用一而再的來試探水溫。
但這兩個星期,還是有客人硬闖關,事先安排自己的配偶/孩子坐在電腦的另一面,要他們聽我講他的八字。
我從不改我的規矩,也沒有八字或風水是我非看不可的。
讀書這麼高,連自己的命都不能自己負責,這已經不是能改到命的人了。
你一定要你的配偶陪你聽,那你需要的不是我來教你改命,是你的配偶來安你的心。
將來若還有這樣的事,我會直接中斷視訊,把錢退回去。
七、「我第一次用Zoom!」
可是從報名那天到今天的諮詢,你有兩個月的時間去摸索。
兩個月,怎麼還是錯誤百出?因為客人根本沒有事先準備和練習。
結果我就這樣等了20分鐘,還得等對方下載軟件。
Zoom不難使用,但如果是你沒有花時間去摸索,就不要撒謊,直接說,我就直接退現錢。
品德是改命的資糧,不要為了自己能脫身就隨便編一個漏洞百出的謊,還說自己是好人。這...不會臉皮太厚了嗎?
小事都不願做好,絕對不會成大器。
八、暈車
有些客人用Ipad或手機來視訊。
重點是,他一支手拿著手機,一支手拿筆寫筆記。他一邊寫,另一支手就一邊搖晃。他做在床上,移動一下,手機就彷彿大海嘯幾下🌊
我一天如果見三個這樣客人,我的視線就搖晃了5個小時。工作完畢後,頭也會痛得厲害,無法完成晚上製片的工作。
沒有自拍器三腳架,也應該有些書本或東西來頂著手機。
各位,多點善心,為我著想一下吧⋯⋯
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To My Dear Zoom Clients
I have been enduring it for a really really long time. That's it! I am gonna put a stop to this after today and send out this reminder to all my past and future clients.
I am getting on in years, and cannot stand too much stimulation.
Please.... can you guys do a proper Zoom?
Number 1: Going on screen in Zoom = Taking a photograph for your passport.
Since 2020, the passport has become something of an antique but I believe everyone has taken some kind of ID photos! Yes, the ones with your neatly combed trusses where I can see both your ears, nose, mouth, neck, shoulder all the way to your chest.
I would like to see your full face during the Bazi Consultation. Please don't allow half your face to fall off the screen and you end up looking like Zhong Wu Yan! Please also don't hide your mouth making me feel like I am talking to a Arrowana.
When I analyze your facial features, it includes your mouth, teeth and the shape of your mouth while you are talking. Yes, it is down to such level of details.
If your PC / Laptop monitor is too low, please find a book or old newspapers and stack it on top. Please don't let me only see your double chin for that 1.5 hours, as I would probably get the proportion of your face wrong.
Don't keep telling me you are apologetic. Think of a way out.
Number 2: The background lighting.
Too dark, you risk looking like a ghost.
Too bright, I cannot figure out your skin color.
Draw open the curtains, but don't face your back to the sunlight.
If necessary, just turn on the lights!
Number 3: Background images of coconut trees on sandy beaches or the Golden Gate Bridge.
There is no need to put on a virtual background. I only care about how my hone looks, I am not bothered by yours. I am only here to see your Bazi.
If your WIFI signal or your PC / Laptop performance is poor, using the virtual background can often make your Zoom video choppy. Sometimes when you turn your body, one side of your body or some part of your hair will disappear. It's really like one of those spooky movies scaring the wits out of me.
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Number 4: Background environment and noise.
Some of my overseas clients really put in effort for our Zoom sessions. They bought a headset with a mic so that I can hear them properly and vice versa.
Those that did not use a earphone or a headset often sounded echo-ish, and if they spoke softly, I would have to turn on the volume on my side full throttle and still have a hard time trying to hear them.
There are some clients from Hong Kong and Malaysia who would rent meeting rooms, hotel rooms or private work spaces by the hour so as to reduce any disturbance from others and better focus on the Zoom session with me.
I recalled an interesting incident during the Circuit Breaker last year. A client from Singapore Zoom-ed with me along the corridor outside his house. Most of the time, I was hearing the howling of the winds rather than his voice.
Some clients sat themselves in coffee places for our session. These places are often filled with loud chatters and the clanging of cups and plates, and my ears suffered terribly. Yet, I have to continue to be seen as composed and attentive.
Goodness me, after 2 of such experiences, I decided that I rather refund these clients and never see them again. I have only 1 pair of ears and I want to protect them at all costs!
A normal earpiece that comes with the purchase of a handphone is good enough for Zoom video calls. For clients who do not have a earpiece/headset and a mic, I would end the consultation and refund the monies.
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Number 5: Children
There was once where a session with a female client was repeatedly disrupted by her kids, running in crying for their mother to settle their quarrels. If you have children below 6 years of age, and likely to interrupt our session, I suggest you don't book a consultation with me.
You will be distracted, unable to focus on my advice and I have to wait for you to clear up the situation with your children, eating into the allowable time for me to complete the consultation. This is unfair to both you and me.
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Number 6: I only meet one person, that is the Client.
I have set this requirement the day I stepped into this line of work, and it is clearly written in my booking form. There is no need to try your luck under any circumstances.
But in the space of 2 weeks, there were some clients who rode their luck and got their spouse / child to sit on the other side of the screen to listen in on our consultation.
I never change my stance, and there is no single client that I cannot afford to lose.
If you insist to have your spouse sit in, it is apparent that you do not need me to help transform your destiny. Rather you really need your spouse to put your heart at ease.
If such things happen the next time, I will end the session immediately and refund the fees.
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Number 7: "My first time using Zoom"
But you have 2 full months to prepare before our actual consultation. You did not end up wasting time exploring the software and I wasted 20 mins waiting for you to download the software.
Zoom is an easy software to use but if you did not spend the time to familiarize yourself with it, please quit the lies and tell me directly. I will refund the consultation fees on the spot.
Our moral ethics serve as the foundation for our transformation. Stop weaving web of lies to get out of sticky situations, and still claim that you are a good person. Isn't this too thick-skinned?
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Number 8: Giddy spells
Some clients use Ipad or their handphones for the Zoom session. Crucially, they hold the device with one hand, and take notes with the other. As they write, the other hand holding the phone becomes shaky. If he is doing that on his bed, his handphone would shake like a tsunami wave every time he changes his position.
If I see 3 such clients within a day, it would be 5 hours of shaking visuals for me. That would mean a splitting headache at the end of my work day, and not being able to work on my videos at night.
Even if you don't have a tripod stand, at least prop up the device with a book or something.
Please everyone, please be kind and have mercy on me......
me before you意思 在 蔡佩軒 Ariel Tsai Youtube 的最讚貼文
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今天這集要來跟戀愛大師,喔不對,是曖昧大師Sam,聊聊Dcard上的渣男十大語錄,老實說我覺得每一句都很渣,可能我是女生,實在不能理解男生講這些話到底是什麼意思?!不過對感情有獨到見解的Sam,對每一題都進行精闢的解析,觀點非常有趣!
因為沒辦法當「妹」,所以當「妹妹」、「暫時分開」就是「Yeah!我可以把別的妹了」
原來男生是這樣想的嗎?!快來聽聽Sam是怎麼說的吧!
最後Sam也公開他的理想型條件,喜歡Sam的女生們可要好好聽清楚囉!
今天這集的內容比較活潑,所以節目的最後也送上活潑的《Cheerio》,曖昧卻無法更進一步嗎?!也許是時候說再見了喔!
《Cheerio》歌曲收聽:https://youtu.be/0EaWcjmT3gs
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Probably the funniest episode ever on my podcast. Listen to me practice saying f*ck, talk about relationship sh*t, and discuss the most voted top 10 things f*ckboys say with Sam. LOL.
Have you ever gotten these lines before? Do you know what they really mean? Or... are you the one to say it?
Don’t forget to check out the first half of our convo in the previous episode (EP10) if you haven’t already!
**Song at the end: CHEERIO: https://youtu.be/0EaWcjmT3gs
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me before you意思 在 進藤喜彥 Yoziness Youtube 的最佳貼文
歡迎大家來到我這週的影片!🥳
今天的影片是久違的Vlog!!這個禮拜沒跟來住我們家 我整個超興奮就想說來拍Vlog了😂因為即使我們在一起這麼久了我們真的沒有去對方家裡住過!這七年以來應該也才住過一兩次而已!所以這次的過夜對我們來說是很特別的😍雖然是說Weekly Vlog但是我們總共才拍了四天左右😂
也很感謝在澳洲的朋友寄了秘密包裹給我!真的是滿滿的驚喜也覺得還蠻不好意思的🥺
他寄給我跟梅根的東西真的超好!不管是吃的還是用的大家都筆記寫起來!😂
而且健身器材也到貨了!終於可以在這疫情期間健身了😍
希望大家有喜歡今天的影片!如果有喜歡的話記得幫我按讚訂閱分享✨
那我們就下週再見囉!
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me before you意思 在 酒意思 SIP WITH JOYCE Youtube 的精選貼文
各位觀眾,酒意思 Sip with Joyce 新的短視頻來囉!
這集,酒意思 Sip with Joyce 將帶著大家一探浙江傳統美食:麥餅的究竟,並邀請到了Joyce的好朋友 Arial Chou 設計師來為我們製作這道菜。中式的傳統美食也能搭配葡萄酒嗎?趕快來看看 酒意思 Sip with Joyce 的短視頻,瞧瞧侍酒師Joyce 這回又推薦了哪些葡萄酒做餐搭吧!
究竟哪一瓶葡萄酒才是麥餅的靈魂伴侶呢?快滑到 酒意思 Sip with Joyce 的網站找答案吧!
https://www.sipwithjoyce.com/food-wine-pairing/mai-bings-soul-mate-grner-veltliner
感謝我的好朋友 Arial 的熱情參與。沒有她,我就不會知道有麥餅這道菜,也不會有這個單元。想要多瞭解 Arial 的朋友們,趕快到她的Youtube頻道 Soft Structure 刺蝟的柔軟密室 與她一起藉著手作來療癒身心吧!
Soft Structure 刺蝟的柔軟密室
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz2rmhrfzPaJrML3YUDjQ4g
想要找更多、更精采有趣的餐酒搭配請至 酒意思 Sip with Joyce
網站: https://www.sipwithjoyce.com/
臉書:https://www.facebook.com/sipwithjoyce
IG: @joyce_foodnwine | https://www.instagram.com/joyce_foodnwine/
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Hello everyone! Here comes my 5th food and wine paring video!
Have you ever had or heard of Mai-bing before? Mai-bing is a traditional dish originated in Zhejing province of China. A true specialty to the region. In this video, my very good friend, Arial Chou, the creator of Soft Structure 刺蝟的柔軟密室, will show us how to make the dish. As usual, I will pick a few wines that would go very well with Mai-bing. Enjoy!
Which wine would be Mai-bing's soul mate? Find it the answer out on my website:
https://www.sipwithjoyce.com/food-wine-pairing/mai-bings-soul-mate-grner-veltliner
Thanks Arial for joining and working on the fun project with me. Don't forget to check out Arial's youtbube channel on Soft Structure 刺蝟的柔軟密室 as she shares her thoughts in life through activities that help her to recenter herself. Join her, if you desire a place to relax, rethink, and rejoice.
Soft Structure 刺蝟的柔軟密室
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz2rmhrfzPaJrML3YUDjQ4g
Looking for more food and wine pairing ideas, please visit 酒意思 Sip with Joyce
Website: https://www.sipwithjoyce.com/
Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/sipwithjoyce
Instagram: @joyce_foodnwine | https://www.instagram.com/joyce_foodnwine/
me before you意思 在 電影經典台詞#7【我就要你好好的】 Me Before You Movie ... 的推薦與評價
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我這不是來了嗎
先說明我先生就是沒有錢的肥宅,他自從肝癌轉及脊椎就癱瘓了,嗯,也已經掛了。
不過我們沒有綠綠的部分啦,照顧病人很忙的
只是單純討論一下即便有貼心女主角,男主角還是一心想死的部分
因為這是電影 the end.
真實的人生是你看著心愛的人但是卻甚麼都不能做。
我只能看著他疼痛,看著他面對化療副作用,看著他從走路無力到臥床,看著他明明
已經失去控制大小便的能力,卻仍然想做排尿訓練,意謂著每6小時要導尿一次,
更白話一點,你每6個小時都有一個珍珠奶茶吸管粗的導尿管插進你的重要部位。
到最後連滑手機的玩遊戲的力氣都沒有,只能看著醫院的電視。
更現實的是你也不能一直陪著他。
要工作,要顧小孩,最後可以天天24小時一路相陪的是剛雇用沒多久的印尼籍的外勞。
外勞來之前我負責顧晚上,而我也只是去睡覺給他看而已。
而他躺在床上也不能做甚麼,除了我講小孩的趣事,討論網路的話題,朋友的八卦,
更常時候就是我看著我的書,他看著我,就這樣。
最多,捏捏我的胸部然後嘆口氣說自己甚麼也不能做了。
我準備了卡片,想要他寫給小孩,但太晚了,他連拿筆的力氣都沒有了。
不過他沒有尋求安樂死,直到去世那天還在跟醫生討論下周化療的事情。
因為這也是他少數能自己做決定的事情,他決定戰鬥,只可惜他的癌細胞跟他一樣機車。
遺憾嗎?不會。我們都盡力了。
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※ 編輯: gonego (223.138.135.62), 07/18/2016 10:55:54
S大是很暖心的人喔
會更珍惜所擁有的,
了解甚麼才是真正重要的事情
謝謝
謝謝
我們好好的
沒有大家想像的那麼偉大或者堅強,我有很強大的支持網啦
這篇應該是很勵志的,即便不是有錢帥哥,還是可以有愛的
共勉之
※ 編輯: gonego (223.138.135.62), 07/18/2016 16:33:11
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