【值錢的是你的家庭】(English writing below)
What Values Most Is Your Family
在我見客的歲月中，如果孩子的八字有自殺傾向、自殘傾向或有焦慮和憂鬱的症狀，我都會警告父母，而我已經做了很多年了。
有一次看風水時，我告訴一位父親，為了讓孩子將來學業更好，我要求他陪孩子閱讀故事書。
這位父親本能的反應，說：「沒有時間！」
我問他每天晚上忙什麼。他說了很多，包括一些為孩子打雜的事。我提醒他，這孩子的八字，一定要他陪孩子閱讀才有效，而這孩子一定會很喜歡。
這父親想不也不想，就說：「是啊，他很喜歡！」
孩子年幼時，是父母為他們培養強壯心靈的最佳時機。錯過了，你拿命去拼，也補不回來了。現代父母會給予孩子物質營養，卻忽略孩子更需要感覺到父母給予心理營養。
林文采老師說：「沒有心理營養，心理的巨大能力也就無法實現。」
如果「天時地利人和」中，孩子得不到人和，又沒有天時的優勢，那就得靠地利了。
我國的建築物建得越來越近，這不是好事。因為在風水上，在裡面的人會容易感覺到壓力，一點小事就動怒，及把自己困在焦慮、憂鬱的心魔監牢裡，還把鑰匙丟得遠遠的。
遇到客人有空間小的家時，我都會勸他們，不要做太浮誇的室內裝修，簡單實用就好。不要添購大型傢俱或放太多東西，以免佔據太多空間。
把牆壁拆掉，製造一個更大，更廣闊的空間，是個極爛的主意。這往往為裝修商帶來更多的營利，卻委屈了你家庭的財富和健康。
如果你家的空間很小，住的人又多，不要不切實際地愛美，而犧牲了自己和家人的財富和心靈健康。
我看風水一向很講究，我的客人肯定會如此跟你說。不是因為他們給我的紅包，而是因為我心疼孩子們，我更希望能救一個是一個。
願天底下的孩子都能夠健康、快樂地成長，將來也能夠對家庭、社會和國家做出貢獻，以報達父母、社稷和國家的養育之恩。
我小學時就想自殺！自殺者有因果報應嗎？:
👉 https://youtu.be/wYpxaopLGwg
孩子，李老師知道路很難走，但活下去，你一定就會找到你生命的價值。❤️
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In the course of my work, I have warned parents if their children’s Bazi show signs of suicidal inclinations, self harm or proneness to anxiety & depression. More than many times.
Once during a Feng Shui audit, I told a father, to help his son’s academics, I hoped for him to read to his son.
The father instinctively said, “No time!”
I asked what he was busy with at night. He told me a long list, including the many “chores” he did for his children. I reminded him that for his son’s Bazi, he must be the one to read to his son for best results, and his son would love it.
Without a second thought, the father replied, “Yes, he loves it!”
During the young age of children, it is the best time for parents to build a strong mindset in them. Should you miss it, it is gone forever.
Modern day parents have no problems providing their children with material nutrition. However, they neglect (sometimes deliberately) that the children needs emotional nutrition from their parents most.
Teacher Lin Wen Cai wrote, “Without emotional nutrition, the enormous powers of the mind cannot be realised.”
In the cosmic trinity equation of “Favourable Time, Favourable Place and Favourable Human Effort”, if the child lacks the innate advantage of the first variable and the last variable is being compromised on, then he/she will have to rely on the the second variable - Favourable Place.
It is not a good sign that in Singapore, buildings are built closer and closer because in Feng Shui, that means the occupants are more prone to feeling stressed, flaring up at the slightest thing and cooping themselves in their mental prison of depression and anxiety, to the extent of throwing away the prison keys.
That is why I always tell my clients of homes with small space - do away with the fanciful home decor you have in mind. Keep it simple and practical. Do not have bulky furniture or excessive stuff, so as not to take up the space.
Hacking down walls to create this “open space” illusion is also a disastrous idea. It makes more money for the contractor but compromises on the health and wealth of your family.
If your home is small and there are many occupants, don’t get too vain in your interior decor pursuits and sacrifice the wealth and happiness of your family.
I am very particular in my Feng Shui audit. My clients can attest to that. Not because of the red packet they give me, but because I have a soft spot for children and I wish to save whoever I can.
May all children grow up safely and happily, and be able to contribute to their family, society and country, so as to repay the debts of gratitude to their parents, and the society and country for raising them up.
I wanted to commit suicide in primary school! Is there karmic punishment for suicide spirits?:
👉 https://youtu.be/wYpxaopLGwg
My dear child, I know it can get very tough to walk this path, but as long as you stay in this path, you will find the true value of your life. 💕
