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【瑞士新冠肺炎】對瑞士政府的政策匪夷所思

被義大利、法國、和德國包圍的瑞士，從2月24日發現第一例感染新冠病毒之後，感染人數幾乎每天都急速增長，短短三週現在已經650幾例了、有4人死亡。這個數字如果換算成Infection rate = cases/population，瑞士已經是世界第四名，看了不經有點害怕!

還記得當時瑞士政府還信誓旦旦說已經準備好面對新冠病毒的入侵，沒想到更令人害怕的就是在最近宣布說，由於醫療資源的不足，現在輕症的人不再採驗，自己留在家中隔離，如果變嚴重再說，只有重症患者才會採檢，隔離的時間也從十四天變成十天，十天後，如果48小時內沒有再出現症狀，就可以恢復正常生活。如果和患者有密切接觸的人，隔離五天。所以意思就是說，如果現在輕症不採驗，得到的人也可能不相信或是不知道自己中了，認為是普通感冒，然後出去趴趴走，還是可以傳染給其他人。另外，瑞士政府還呼籲人民展現自我責任心，該待在家的就好好待著，不要亂跑，可是目前並沒看到具體規定，說明如果亂跑會怎麼樣。

瑞士衛生部門似乎始終相信年輕人、原本健康的人得到新冠病毒會自己痊癒，也不鼓勵戴口罩；而六十五歲以上或是原本有疾病的人才是高風險群，政府必須好好照顧這些人。其實任何疾病對於老人或是本身就有其他問題的人本來就都是高風險，並不是只有新冠病毒，更何況新冠病毒是個新的病毒，連專家都還沒有完全的了解，這樣子一宣布只是顯得瑞士政府束手無策，有點放給他去那種感覺。

根據今天的衛生部門記者會，這邊的學校目前也完全沒有要關閉的趨勢，瑞士政府還認為關閉學校不會減緩疫情，因為一是小朋友得到新冠病毒的機率很低，加上他們會自己康復，二是如果小朋友放假，要上班的父母勢必會把小朋友帶去給外公外婆爺爺奶奶幫忙照顧，如果老人帶小朋友外出反而會增加感染的風險。我們對於瑞士政府的這個解釋也是匪夷所思，也不是所有小孩的外公外婆爺爺奶奶都在瑞士，如果真的學校停課，不是應該要有其他相關對應政策嗎？基於以上這些政策，難怪有人說瑞士人 get up early, but never wake up!

在工作上，有些公司是已經鼓勵員工在家上班，可是瑞士小屋媽媽和爸爸的公司目前雖然要求員工每天攜帶電腦回家，隨時準備辦公室有關閉的一天（能夠完全在家上班）。小屋媽媽的公司彈性雖大，例如對於搭車交通工具有疑慮的，都可以和主管討論在家上班，但還沒直接鼓勵員工在家上班，只有說必要時和主管討論。公司內禁止握手，會議盡量遠端舉行等等措施。不過這幾天在公司裡和同事聊天發現，真的還是有人認為這病毒就像是流感，反正他每年也會感冒，有什麼好怕的? 甚至還有人說得到病毒的機率，比開車上班出車禍的機率還低，有什麼好怕的? 或是有人還說都是媒體在散播恐懼，不要看新聞就沒事了! 現在也還有到處去滑雪、去玩的人。所以這到底是他們太樂觀還是我們太害怕呢?

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#就算外國媒體大肆報導還是沒有同事知道台灣防疫做得有多好
#據說今天奧地利和義大利邊境由於管制的關係塞車80公里
#Coronavirus
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送上幾段挺有意思的文字
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👉1.Don‘t educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be Happy .
So when they grow up they will know the value of things not the price

不要教導孩子追求財富；教導他們追求樂趣。如此，當他們長大後，會瞭解事物的價值而非價格。

👉2. "Eat your food as your medicines. Otherwise
you have to eat medicines
as your food"

把食物當藥吃，否則你終將把藥當食物吃。

👉3. The One who loves you
will never leave you because
even if there are 100 reason to give up they will find one reason to hold on

愛你的人不會離開你，即使有一百個理由令他放棄，他也會找出一個來堅持愛你。

👉4. There is a lot of difference between human being and *being human*.
A Few who understand it.

人與為人之間有著很大的不同，只有少數人能了解。

👉5. You are loved when you are born. You will be loved when you die. In between ，you
have to manage...!

出生時被愛，到撒手離世還被愛；在這之間，你必須好好經營。

【謝謝你，但我的命我自己來】(English writing below)

「你明明很早就可以被男人養，為什麼不要？」

「每個人都應該爲自己的人生長本事。我想做的，是出於污泥而不染的大蓮花，沒想做溫室裡的小花。」

我家族裡的女性，幾乎清一色都是女兒當自強。我姑婆78歲，一個人住，沒嫁人沒孩子。外公娶妻時，就帶著年幼的她一起住。外公過世二十多年，外婆（也就是她的大嫂）還在世時，姑婆到了六十幾歲，都還給我外婆一些家用。

她不過是個打雜工的婦女。給外婆的家用，全靠自己努力工作賺取的。

姑婆沒讀過什麼書，而我是一個大學生，怎麼可以遜色於姑婆呢？

小時候，因為家裡欠債累累，三天兩頭就有債主「奪命追魂」的打家裡電話或「登門造訪」追債，而我一個小女孩，就經常被推出去應付這些凶神惡煞的陌生大人。理由是，他們看到小孩，口氣會軟化些，可以再拖延幾天。

當時我真的很怕，但，不出去，就會被罵被打。長那麽大了，有時會莫名其妙的害怕，幸得佛法的熏陶，以那種前面有虎，後面有熊的恐懼感，磨練出我內在『破釜沈舟』的堅韌精神。

要就不做，要做，我就絕不手軟。這樣才有意思。

這種被「嚇大」的童年，讓我很小便許下承諾，以後絕不讓任何人或東西威脅到我。

我知道很多女人都有想在家不做工的夢想。我的八字也確實有這種命，三十歲過後可以不做工，靠男人養。

但像我這般出色的人才，如果不出來貢獻於人類，而選擇那條路，豈不是太對不起祖宗十八代的強大基因，和師尊師父的教誨嗎？

出道以來，我的玄學功夫幫了不少人，我的文章也引不少很多人深思長智慧。

我這十多年練出來的功夫，去哪裡都吃得開。現在的環境風水越來越差，人的問題只會越來越多，只要有真功夫，我的行業只會越老越吃香。師父常開玩笑說，以後老了，如果沒生意，還可以到四馬路觀音廟前擺攤問事，過過日子。😄

萬一還有來世，我的潛意識起碼還會帶著這種不屈不饒的精神投胎。

如果一心想靠一個男人上位，沒有自己獨立的能力，他變心了，我怎麼辦？

以前母親也有很多男人想包她，但她也為了我們這些孩子，而一一拒絕。靠自己的本事，也把我拉到這麼大。

我媽還說，一個男人如果不要給妳名份，就別浪老娘的青春。

大人的身教，永遠都勝過於言教。

大人有怎樣的命運，孩子也必有類似的命運。

我，不想苟且偷生。現在我想賺錢，就賺錢，想寫文章和大家聊天，就寫文章，又可以繼續進修玄學，學佛修法，開發自己的佛慧。

這對我來說，是自己奮鬥很多年而得到的自由。我想要我孩子學的，就是這樣的精神。

錢，花自己心安理得賺來的，最過癮。如果是不道德不合法交易換來的錢，花的人，無論是我還是我家人，都得負上因果。

我這文章不是在貶低選擇被男人養的女性。每個人的初發心不一樣。我祇是想喚醒妳們走回原本清靜無瑕的尊貴人生。我的女客人當中，選擇這條路的，錢雖來得快，但都沒有幸福的下場。

沒有人，會比我更在意更努力的，創造我的理想人生。

若我沒這本事，我願意虛心學習。我也很慶幸，此生有兩位很厲害的大導師。

我的命，我自己來。

如果連自己的命都改不了，我有何本事收人家的紅包，爲他人改命補運呢？

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"You could have chosen to be kept by a man early in your life. Why did you not?"

"Everyone should grow abilities for their own lives. What I wish to be is a big lotus that blooms out of the slushy mud, pure and untainted. Not a little flower that is incubated in a greenhouse."

I come from a family, where almost all the women are strong and self-reliant. My 78-year-old grandaunt lives alone, never marry and has no kids. When my grandfather got married, he brought my young grandaunt to live with him. In the twenty over years he passed on, when my grandmother was still alive, grandaunt would still give a monthly allowance to my grandmother (her sister-in-law), despite being 60 over years old.

She is just a lady who works odd jobs. The monthly allowance she gave my grandmother is from her hard-earned money.

Grandaunt did not receive much of an education. I am a university graduate. How can my abilities be inferior to hers?

During my childhood, my family was laden with heavy debts. Every other day, there would be creditors incessantly calling the house phone or banging on the house door, asking for repayment. As a young girl, I often get pushed out to deal with these fierce-looking strangers. Reason being, when they saw a kid, they would often soften their tone of voice, and give a few more days for repayment.

I was frightened at that time. But if I didn't do what I was told, I would get scolded or beaten badly. Even after I grew up, there are times when I would get ridiculously afraid. I count myself lucky that the Buddhadharma has an uplifting influence on me. The terror of facing a bear in front of me, and having a tiger chasing behind gradually moulded my tenacity.

Either I don't do it, or when I do, I will burn my boats so that it's either success or nothing.

A childhood where I was constantly frightened had me promising myself this: I will never let anyone or anything threaten me.

My Bazi did indeed indicate that I can opt not to work and rely on the financial support from a man.

But for an outstanding talent like me, if I do not come out to contribute to mankind and choose an easier way out, wouldn't I be letting down the great genes of my ancestors of the past 18 generations, and the teachings from my Grandmaster and Shifu?

Ever since I started out, my work had benefitted a lot of people and my writings had helped grow the wisdom of many readers.

The skills that I hone in the past 10 over years give me freedom to earn money wherever I am. With the environmental Feng Shui worsening, the problems of mankind will only snowball and multiply. As long as I have the real skills, my line of work will only get more valuable as I age. Shifu often jokes that, if I have no business when I am old, I can still consider setting up a fortune-telling stall in front of the Guan Yin Temple at Waterloo Street, to pass time. 😄

Should I have to go through another reincarnation, at the very least, there will be this seed of unflinching courage and perseverance planted in my subconscious. Because I made the effort to.

If I opt to rely fully on a man, and have no independent ability of my own, what will happen to me when he has a change of heart?

My mum also had many offers from men, who wanted to make a mistress out of her. But for the sake of us, the children, she rejected all of them. Through her own perseverance and efforts, she still managed to raise me.

She also said if a man is unwilling to give you a legal status, don't waste your youth on him.

The adults' teaching by example will always carry more weight than what they preach.

The kind of Destiny the adults have will also be similar to the kind of Destiny their children will have.

The me right now does not have to live an ignoble existence nor live my life according to the mood of a man. When I wish to make money, I go make money. When I feel like writing to talk with all of you, I write. In my spare time, I continue honing my skills in Buddhadharma and Chinese Metaphysics, and develop my wisdom.

To me, this is the freedom that I had fought for many years. Such is the spirit that I wish for my children to learn.

Spending money is most satisfying, when this money is earned with a peace of mind. If the money is obtained through illegal/immoral ways, there will always be karmic consequences to bear, be it the spender is me or my family.

This article isn't written to look down on other women, who choose to be kept by a man. Everyone has a different motivation in life. I only wish to awaken you, to continue treading on your original pure and pristine path in life. Among my women clients, those, who chose this easy route to money, do not have a happy ending.

For me, I just think that no other person will be more bothered and diligent than me, in creating the Destiny I covet.

If I do not have the ability, I am willing to learn humbly from the right teachers, and I am very fortunate to have two great ones in my life.

I will formulate my own Destiny.

If I can't even transform my own Destiny, what right do I have to receive the red packets from others, to help them with their fortune and luck?