医生 : 当您来看医生时,请说实话。不要向我们隐瞒
前几天就和大家分享到我们吉打这里发生了大事件
因为孕妇隐瞒,而且本身有新冠肺炎
导致接触过这位孕妇的医生和护士都被通知隔离
以下的信息是来自 Dr.Kevin Goh :
我是一名在Pantai Hospital Laguna Merbok 工作的麻醉师。
18/3(星期三),我从睡眠中被叫醒,准备进行紧急剖腹产。
我以最快的速度准备好,开车前往医院!
剖腹产照正常进行,母婴均处于良好状态。
在医院完成所有工作后,我照常回家。我还到父母家吃晚饭。
晚上11点左右,医院的COO信息告诉我,早上产妇的父母都被检测出COVID19阳性。
她的父亲实际上曾出席位于大城堡的传教士大集。
她在入院时填写申报表时撒了谎。隐瞒了她曾与确诊病患有过亲密接触。而在手术后发烧,她才决定公开相关信息。
听到这个消息,我的心瞬间沉了!
不是因为我可能被感染,而是因为我的家人将可能因为我的工作而面临危险。
当时为晚上11点,什么也做不了。
整个晚上我和妻子都是痛苦煎熬。
第二天早上(19/3),医院迅速采集患者的咽喉分泌样本,并将其送到吉隆坡进行即时处理。
等待结果过程是另一个痛苦。
结果,报告呈阳性反应!对于我和我的同事来说,无疑是另一场噩梦。
医院安排了我所有的手术室及接触过该产妇的医生护士及顾问进行测试。感谢上帝,我们所有的结果都是阴性的!
等待结果比等待SPM / STPM放榜更为紧张
即使结果是阴性的,我们仍需要隔离14天。
就只是因为一个自私的人。
医院因此关闭3天,以进行全面的消毒和清洁。
医生,麻醉师,员工,分娩室员工因此受苦。
当您接受咨询时,请说实话。不要向我们隐瞒任何信息。
至少如果您告诉我们事实,我们将可以做得更好,或在操作时穿着合适的个人防护装备。
不告诉我们就像谋杀我们,要求我们在没有枪和防弹背心的情况下进行战争!
信息来自 Dr.Kevin Goh
中文是翻译而来的,原文是英语
I m an anaesthesiologist working in Pantai Hospital Laguna Merbok PHLM. On the 18/3 (Wednesday), I was woken up from my sleep for an emergency Caesarean section. As quickly as I could, I got myself ready and drove as fast as
I could to the hospital to attend to the patient. Everything was done for the safety of my patient and baby in my mind. The caesarean was done as per normal and both mother and baby were in good condition.
After all the work done in the hospital, I went home to my family as usual. I even went to my parents house for a dinner. (For ur info, my dad is a 75 yo man who had undergone bypass surgery).
At night at about 11pm, the hospital COO messaged me to inform me that the patient’s parents were both tested COVID19 positive. Her father actually went to the tabligh gathering in KL. She lied when she filled up the declaration form during admission. She said she had no contact with anyone who was positive. She decided to disclose the information after she herself developed fever after the op. How selfish was she?
My heart sank after hearing the news. Not because I would be potentially infected but my family would be in danger because of my work.
Nothing could be done at 11pm. The whole night was an agony for my wife and me.
The next morning (19/3) the hospital quickly took the patient’s throat swab and sent it to KL for immediate processing. Waiting for the result was another suffering. Lo and behold, the result came back as POSITIVE. This was another nightmare for my colleagues and me.
The hospital arranged all my OT staffs, Labour room staffs and almost all consultants to be tested. Thank God, all our results were NEGATIVE. This waiting for the result was worse than waiting for SPM/ STPM results
Even though the results were negative, some of us still need to be quarantined for 14 days.
The hospital is closed for 3 days for proper disinfectant and cleaning.
Because of one single
Selfish person,
The surgeon, anaesthesiologist, OT staffs, labour room staffs had to suffer.
The hospital has to be closed.
Please tell the truth when u consult us.. Do not hide any information from us. At least if u tell us the truth, we will be more prepared as in wearing proper PPE while doing operation. Not telling us is like ambushing us, asking us to go to war without gun and bullet proof vest.
#tellthetruth #dontbeselfish #dontbeliar #proudtobeanaesthetist #pantaihospitallagunamerbok
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positive mind中文 在 逆嘶亭 Facebook 的最佳解答
香港近年愈來愈多父母希望孩子學英語或普通話,選擇犧牲廣東話。教授就以其研究及自身經驗為例,表示不要為了英文和普通話而放棄廣東話。「最近我和太太研究小朋友的語言發展,發覺會說廣東話其實對學習普通話有很大幫助,因為大部分普通話都是由廣東話演變過去。但大眾不是這樣想,他們覺得說普通話時會受廣東話影響而犯錯。其實這些錯誤大概只有百分之三,大部分的影響都是正面的。只是Positive transfer有個特色,就是很難看得到。」
政府、家長看輕粵語,以往研究廣東話口語的本地學者亦不多,大部分人都傾向研究中文書面語和英文,選擇做廣東話研究的反而大多是外國教授。馬詩帆教授回想道:「九十年代時我們幾個廣東話發燒友都頗寂寞。試過有位德國籍同事坐地鐵看《小男人周記》,誰料被人質問他為什麼要看這些垃圾書。我不明白為什麼大家覺得廣東話可以說,但不能書寫、不需要做研究、不是文學。」
精通中英、法文、德文等多種語言,為何對廣東話情有獨鍾?馬詩帆教授說那是因為廣東話變化多端,表達方式活潑新鮮,不時有新東西可以研究。「剛開始學廣東話時,我覺得太太經常命令我做事,因為那時我還未學識『啊』這個句尾字有不同的用法。」在英國人耳中就像是直接叫人「You do this」、「You do that」,沒了「Could you」、「Would you mind」的禮貌。
不過廣東話的吸引之處正是因為它和其他語言有很大的分別。「句尾加一個『呀』、『喎』,意思便已不同,要說當中有什麼分別會想到頭痛。現在我仍未完全清楚每個句尾字的用法,例如幾年前開始聽到的嚕(lu1)字,我就不懂得用。這個嚕字告訴我們,語言會一直改變,我肯定九十年代還沒有這個字。」教授續說。
廣東話的文法同樣有趣。「『好犀利呀你』、『去到邊呀佢』,『你』、『佢』放在最後。九十年代寫廣東話語法書時,我將這些句子放入去,很多人反對說這並非語法,只不過是偷懶的說法。但我的直覺告訴我這裏頭有一種語法。」二十多年後的今天,有不少人研究這個現象,證明了教授的直覺。
學而優則教
九十年代外國人要學習廣東話並不容易,因為英文參考書不多。除了透過和太太、親戚聊天練習,教授也喜歡看香港電影、電視劇、以廣東話書寫的文學作品,以及聽廣東話歌,《秋天的童話》、《妙手仁心》、《小男人周記》、《一生何求》,以至近期的高登小說《男人唔可以窮》都是他的至愛。見到有趣的對白,教授都會抄下來問太太。「當年沒有什麼廣東話語法書,雖然有廣東話字典,但不太有用,非常缺乏廣東話語言學的資料。」於是這對夫婦兼語言學教授乾脆親自編寫英文廣東話參考書,將自學廣東話的筆記變成了Cantonese: A Comprehensive Grammar一書。
至於兩人合力撰寫的另一本著作The Bilingual Child: Early Development and Language Contact更加奪得了Leonard Bloomfield Book Award,是香港唯「二」得獎的語言學家。書本封面與書裏其中幾位雙語兒童,其實就是教授的3個子女。夫婦倆實行「One-parent-one-language」政策,教授只講英語,太太則講廣東話,訓練小朋友的雙語能力,同時研究兒童雙語發展。
香港近年愈來愈多父母希望孩子學英語或普通話,選擇犧牲廣東話。教授就以其研究及自身經驗為例,表示不要為了英文和普通話而放棄廣東話。「最近我和太太研究小朋友的語言發展,發覺會說廣東話其實對學習普通話有很大幫助,因為大部分普通話都是由廣東話演變過去。但大眾不是這樣想,他們覺得說普通話時會受廣東話影響而犯錯。其實這些錯誤大概只有百分之三,大部分的影響都是正面的。只是Positive transfer有個特色,就是很難看得到。」
政府、家長看輕粵語,以往研究廣東話口語的本地學者亦不多,大部分人都傾向研究中文書面語和英文,選擇做廣東話研究的反而大多是外國教授。馬詩帆教授回想道:「九十年代時我們幾個廣東話發燒友都頗寂寞。試過有位德國籍同事坐地鐵看《小男人周記》,誰料被人質問他為什麼要看這些垃圾書。我不明白為什麼大家覺得廣東話可以說,但不能書寫、不需要做研究、不是文學。」
positive mind中文 在 搖滾太妃糖 Yoga & Life Facebook 的最讚貼文
古時候的人,如果要尋找上師,往往得經過口耳相傳的探訪,再歷經千辛萬苦跋山涉水後,才得以拜見隱居於深山洞穴的上師並向其虛心問教;而現在的我們,只要彈指間連上網路,便可以從youtube的影片中飽覽無數名師的教學頻道,欣賞他們輕盈優雅的體位姿態。這樣的我們是幸運的,但從某個層面來說,也可能不是,關鍵在於我們在這些爆炸的資訊中,在這些聲光影像的感官刺激中,能否保有清明的覺知來辨別學習最終的意圖。
我們要來與大家介紹一位老師-Sharmila Desai,她是一位優秀的女性練習者,你或許不曾看過她的體位法影片,也甚少看到她在社群媒體上宣傳自己的教學。她從1997年開始與Guruji及Sharath學習,是KPJAYI的認證老師(Certified),也在Sharath的委託指示下,編撰了一本關於八肢瑜伽與母親的專書-Yoga Sadhanas for Mothers. 本就低調的她,在結婚成家之後,更有感於Guruji的諄諄提醒「活在當下」,因而決定全心陪伴孩子成長,所以在前些年鮮少有公開的教學活動。
我們有幸於2015年在Mysore認識她,也因為信安與她擔任同時段的助教,而有了更深一層的連結和默契;感謝這次她邀請我們參與她在首次在果亞Purple Valley舉辦的瑜伽營,讓我們有機會與她更近距離地互動,貼近感受她的溫柔力量,以及她多年專注於練習所自然呈現在生活中的從容和智慧。
以下將分享一份Sharmila老師的訪談,她接受中國一個瑜伽相關的網路平台的越洋郵件專訪,她花了非常多的時間,完全無私地分享她練習八肢瑜伽的歷程和體會,特別是以女性及母親的角度為出發點,相信能讓更多人更了解八肢瑜伽帶給我們生命的轉化意義;她總是謙虛地說,這些瑜伽的智慧都是她向前人所學習來的,因而她有義務要將這些智慧分享給更多的人。
訪談全文共分為五個部分,我將依序分段連載;以下為第一部份。
(以下英文原文為Sharmila老師提供連結,由我轉錄自該網路平台,中文部分也重新整理翻譯。原訪談之中英文可參考連結,附於文末。)
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Part 1: The Ashtanga Path
第一部分:八肢瑜伽之路
How do you find the practice? Can you tell something about your days with Guruji?
您是怎麼開始練習八肢瑜伽的?可以分享您與Guruji學習的故事嗎?
I was living in India on a fellowship from Columbia University and working on a project celebrating fifty years of Indian Independence in 1997. It was also the year that I met my Guruji, Shri K. Pattabhi Jois, in Lakshmipuram Mysore who introduced me to the path of Self knowledge through Ashtanga yoga.
Meeting and learning from Guruji was everything I had been searching for and more - a heightened amalgamation of all the dancing, prayer, community service and study I had done previously. Guruji had the ability to have his students fully harness a one pointed concentration (ekagrata) and feel the divine (ishvara pranidhana) when he taught yoga. He aptly dispelled any darkness through the Light of his teachings.
I began learning yoga from Guruji in the afternoon class for Indian students in Lakshmipuram. I did not own a yoga mat at the time so I practiced on the carpet and I learned very slowly. I remember simply practicing suryanamaskara and sitting in padmasana for a long while. Time stood still. Guruji taught me more over the years and I am so grateful for that very gradual growth. It properly established the foundation of the practice with everything gently flowing to and from that base.
1997年時,我正以哥倫比亞的獎學金在印度生活,並為一個慶祝印度獨立五十週年的計劃工作著,就在那年,我在邁索爾的Lakshmipuram遇見了我的Guruji(上師)—Shri K. Pattabhi Jois,他透過八肢瑜伽引領我走向追尋自我的道路。
遇見Guruji並能與他學習,深入融合了我過往在舞蹈、祈禱、社會服務和學術研究的所有經驗,這正是我一直以來所希冀追尋的。Guruji教授瑜伽時,能讓學生全心專注投入,並且從中感受到至上神性,他的諄諄教誨,有如驅散黑暗的一盞明燈。
我最初和Guruji練習瑜伽,是在Laximipuram開設給印度籍學生的下午班,那時我甚至還沒有瑜伽墊,只在地毯上練習,而且進度十分緩慢,我記得我就只練習拜日式和蓮花坐姿好長一段時間,時間有如靜止一般,年復一年,Guruji慢慢教我更多東西,我很感激這樣漸進式的學習和成長,一切皆由根基溫和而生、自在流動,奠定了我練習的基礎。
You are an accomplished dancer, how do you see the connection between dancing and yoga on both physical and spiritual level?
您是一位傑出的舞蹈家,您認為舞蹈與瑜伽在物質和精神層面有什麼樣的連結?
The everyday discipline of Indian classical dance prepared me for Ashtanga yoga as taught by the Jois family. As sadhanas rooted in India they share common elements - both are steeped in Indian mythology, are expressions of devotion and connect the inner and outer worlds of consciousness. Studying Indian dance required tremendous self motivation with a daily practice of two to four hours outside of class and much like Ashtanga yoga one could only move forward after mastery of the present lesson as the Guru saw it. The method to learn was slow and thorough, daily with an emphasis on foundational expertise and also not necessarily in a linear pattern. Only through precision in form, rhythm and rasa could the Divine be invoked.
印度古典舞中的每日紀律,讓我做好準備向Jois家族學習八肢瑜伽。印度古典舞和八肢瑜伽皆是根植於印度的一種修煉形式,因而兩者之間有許多相同的元素:富含印度神話的色彩、並為奉獻的體現形式,用來連結內在和外在世界的意識。學習印度舞需要強大的自我驅策力來堅持每天課外二至四小時的練習,並且,只有當你的老師認為你已經完全掌握了目前所練習的部分之後,才能進階到下一個練習,這正和八肢瑜伽不謀而合。這樣的學習是緩慢而透徹的,日復一日著重於對於根基的徹底掌握,不強求線性的前進,唯有透過精確的形式、節奏和精髓,方能喚醒內在的神性。
You are the only Indian woman to be certified (among 48 certified teachers globally), what this certification means to you?
在全球48位認證老師中,您是唯一一位獲得認證(Certification)的印度女性,這對您來說有什麼意義?
On a physiological level Certification represents a lived understanding of the subtle energies in the Ashtanga yoga system that happens through commitment, respect and concentrated discipline over many years at the source. On a human level the certificate means to me a responsibility to bring the limbs of yoga into all aspects of life - to be a good human being who lives the positive transformation everyday.
Certification is not a course - it is not something you can plan for or measure in hours. You simply dedicate yourself to learning the tradition under the auspices of the teacher without expectations; If Certification is meant to happen along your path it will. And if so, you then keep steady in further studying the tradition. The path of yoga is eternal and one must always continue to seek and to be humbled.
We students are so fortunate that Sharathji and Saraswatiji continue to share with the world the purity of the lineage so we can experience a direct link to the ancient wisdom transmitted through successive generations.
在生理層面,認證代表了對於八肢瑜伽系統裡的精微能量體現於生命中的了解,而這是透過許多年的承諾、尊重,並且回歸源頭,專注於紀律的練習才能發生的。在人文的層面,認證對我來說,意味著我有責任要將瑜伽中的每一肢練習融入生活的各個面向,帶來正向的轉變,成為一個更好的人。
認證並不是一門課程,這不是你可以計畫預期或者通過時間的計量累積來達到的目標,你只需要在老師的協助之下專注學習這套系統,不懷抱任何的期待,若你注定要拿到認證,你就會拿到;而即便拿到了認證,你仍要持之以恆地深入學習傳統,瑜伽之路學無止境,我們必須永遠謙卑地探尋。
作為學生的我們是如此幸運,有Sharathji和Saraswatihi持續與全世界分享純淨正統的八肢瑜伽,讓我們得以經驗這世代相承的古老智慧,並且親身感受與其直接的連結。
You have some of the most “famous” students, such as Sting and his wife Trudie, can you share how is that experiences of teaching celebrities?
您有一些非常「有名的」學生,例如Sting和他的妻子Trudie,您能跟我們分享與這些名人的教學經驗嗎?
Many of the people who I teach and who excel in what they do have a depth and seriousness in their professions that spills into their yoga practice. That silence, dedication, quality of attention that has lead them to success replicates in their practice and in their reverence for the gift of life. Most of the bonds I form with people through yoga become familial grounded in our shared human values based in compassion and a holistic lifestyle.
許多我所教過的、並且在他們的專業領域表現出色的學生,將他們在其專業中所展現的的深度和認真,也帶進他們的瑜伽練習之中。那些引領他們走向成功的人格特質:沈靜、奉獻、專注,同樣呈現在他們的練習以及他們對於「瑜伽」這份生命至禮的虔誠之中。我透過瑜伽與人們建立的關係,大多變得越來越緊密,因為我們有著同樣的人文價值,那是建在慈悲心以及追求身心靈整體的生活形態。
Asana is a tool for us to find inner divine and Self, but sometimes asana can lead to ego and injury, how should we avoid this during our practice?
體位法是讓我們找到內在神性和真我的一樣工具,但有時候體位法也會導致我們膨脹自我或致使受傷,我們應該如何在練習時避免這些情況?
Learning from a true teacher - one who keeps the intent centered on the eight limbs and connects the practice to inner spiritual development - is essential. Everything we are seeking already exists when we are truly present. As a practitioner there is no need to grasp for anything or to push oneself in an asana causing injury. When we practice yoga with devotion and patience developing the tools of the tristhana method the asanas unfold in a non harming unitive way.
I personally find reading the scriptures also helps keep our intention clear. Ancient epics and yoga treatises direct our mind to support the path of the practice. Mythology imaginatively assures us of why we practice, helps us clarify our intent and guides us so we do not become attached to the fruits of our work.
向一位真正的老師來學習,一位專心致志於瑜伽的八肢、並且將練習與內在心靈發展相結合的老師,是非常重要的。當我們真正處於當下時,會發現所有我們追尋的一切皆已然存在,作為一個練習者,沒有必要去強求什麼,甚或為了迫使自己達到某個體位法而導致受傷;當你以奉獻和耐心練習瑜伽,並且建立起結合三大要素的練習方法(Tristhana),體位法便會自然和諧地呈現出來。
我個人認為閱讀經典也有助我們維持清明正確的意圖,古老的史詩和瑜伽專文能引導我們的心念,更堅定練習的道路;神話故事以跳躍想像的方式確立我們練習瑜伽的目的,幫助我們釐清思路並且引領我們,對於表象的成果不過度執著。
#Tristhana: Asana, Breathing, and Dristhi (體位法,呼吸,以及凝視點)
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這根本就是一宗世紀大騙案!做父母之前,總有過來人跟我們說,BB哭鬧不外乎「食、痾、瞓」,餵飽奶,換完片,抱他一下,自然就不會再哭。但實戰開始,你就發現BB哪有這麼容易「服侍」,有些BB沒病沒痛都會日喊夜喊,哭得父母心煩頭痛,新手父母更可能會質疑自己,是不是自己不懂照顧孩子。
但其實BB無定向歇斯底里地哭三個小時以上,是有學名的,醫學界稱之為「colic」,中文譯作「腸絞痛」,亦是坊間一般所指的「肚風」或「百日哭」。很多人以為這是跟嬰兒飲奶時,肚子入風有關,但原來這個是誤解。「腸絞痛」的真正成因,至今在學術界依然是一個謎。
科學家試過從心理、生理等不同角度去探究,始終都未能有一個完滿的答案。無證據證明腸絞痛跟嬰兒腸胃發育或者腹部健康有直接關係,跟父母育兒技巧亦似乎無關。不過,我們仍然嘗試綜合相關資料,希望有這個煩惱和擔心的父母可以對嬰兒的無故哭鬧有更多了解。
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