最好的自己不在未來,就在現在。
認真回想,以前我好像在每一段關係中都是在扮演某一個角色,不由自主的在為每個對象做調整。不只有在戀愛上,有時候可能跟朋友、工作夥伴都是,尤其是在前輩面前,常常我都會本能反應似的改變自己。聲音要甜一點嗎?笑話要低級一點嗎?從穿衣服就可以看出,我今天是要跟誰吃飯。雖然是微調,但透露出了一件事,我好像不夠喜歡真正的自己,所以才會擔心大家也不會喜歡真正的我。我告訴自己即使累,但如果持續努力,有一天就能變成大家都喜歡的Lara。
久而久之我和世界的相處模式只有「由外到內」,會依照別人對我的反應去斷定我的下一步。大家會覺得我很好相處,我卻越來越不快樂。現在我慢慢開始懂了,原來我把順序弄反了。我該優先處理的是自己內心的感受,其他人買不買單,其實跟你一點關係都沒有。就像找另外一半,如果我跟夢中情人在一起,但我根本無法在他面前做自己,最後還是會走不下去。
我現在33歲,So What? 終於懂,「當下的自己」才是人生時間軸上最重要的!
對了,有人好奇這次「{}」的意思嗎?簡單說是「大括號」,在數學運算式中稱作「空集合」。數學不好的人就想像一個清空的行李箱吧。「空」不是無,而是無限可能。括號還有另外一個更好懂的意思,就是「優先處理」。將過去整理過後的自己,回歸純粹,態度成熟自信!(失戀後重新出發的人應該很有感觸吧!🤣)
Your best self is not in the future, but in the Now.
Looking back, I seem to have been playing a role in almost every relationship I was ever in. I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. Whether it was with friends or colleagues (especially seniors), I would modify myself almost instinctively. Should my voice be sweeter? My jokes dirtier? If you wanted to know who I was eating with that day, all you had to do was look at the clothes I was wearing.
The changes were subtle, but they still reflected a truth: I didn’t feel like the real me was enough so I was worried that other people would also find her lacking. I told myself that if I just kept working at it, I would someday become a version of Lara that everyone accepted.
Eventually I only knew how to get my cues from the external world. I would always base my next step on feedback I got from others. Most people considered me easy to get along with, but I grew more and more unhappy.
I think I had it all wrong. My first priority should have been listening to my inner voice. Whether or not other people agree with it is not in my control nor of my concern. Take looking for a partner. Even if I found the person of my dreams, it would never last if I couldn’t be myself around them.
I am 33 years old. So What? I finally understand that "the present self" is the most important thing on the timeline of life! It’s time to prioritize me!
By the way, is anyone curious about the meaning of "{}" this time? Besides the more commonly known representation of parentheses as prioritization, these curly brackets are called “the empty set”. The empty what? If like me, math is not your strongest suit, think of it as an empty suitcase. "Empty" doesn’t mean nothing, but infinite possibilities! What will you fill your life with this time?
2021全新專輯《來者何人{}》
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#再也沒有你 #NoMoreU #SoWhat30
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representation of others 在 Facebook 的最讚貼文
"I have been a Christian my entire life, but my lifestyle had not been a worthy representation for Christ even though the Lord had blessed me richly.
I was a CEO in a non-profit organization and had tried my best to be a good influence for my employees and those I served. But I lived a secret life dominated by pot smoking, alcohol, and pornography. I knew I was leading a double life. Needless to say, despite my best intentions, I lost my job, my reputation was tarnished, and all that I had built up was torn down.
During that time, I kept asking God to forgive me and change my heart. I knew I couldn’t become the person I wanted to be without the help of the Holy Spirit. But no matter how much I tried, I couldn’t change my behavior. Then, I found your program on television and as I listened to your teaching on God’s grace, my spirit started to stir within me. It took many months of listening before anything changed in my life.
Pastor Prince, your message of grace was the turning point for me. When I heard God loves me and cares for me even as I struggled with my sins, my heart was moved and I knew it was time to change. You said to remind myself, even in my sin, that I am the righteousness of God in Christ. I did that and I also started partaking of the holy Communion daily. I also received a vision that inspired me to change the way I was living.
With the help of the Holy Spirit, I lost the desire to smoke pot, drink, and watch pornography! Today I am delivered from my shameful addictions and have joined a local church where I can enjoy the company of fellow believers. I earnestly seek God’s will for me and ask for Him to complete the plan He has started in me.
Thank you, Pastor Prince, for your teachings because they changed my life so that I could become the person God wants me to be. With the years I have left on this earth, I wish to serve God and be an instrument of His grace and love. God bless you for reminding me how much God loves me."
Anonymous | Ohio, United States
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Beloved, what God has done for others, He wants to do for you as well. As you read this story, I pray that it builds up your faith with the confident expectation of good for your future. Be encouraged because your breakthrough is next!
Visit JosephPrince.com/stories to read more stories like this. #JosephPrince #JosephPrinceStories #StoriesOfVictory
representation of others 在 美國在台協會 AIT Facebook 的最佳解答
【交流的聲音】
東京奧運正如火如荼展開中!當全世界都正關注奧運賽事時,別忘了,帕拉林匹克運動會也將在下個月於東京開跑喔!想了解身障運動員的故事嗎?新一集美國國務院Podcast節目「交流的聲音」邀請殘疾鐵人三項運動員、衝浪好手暨GSMP全球運動導師計畫學友Daniel Gómez與大家分享他如何用自己的熱忱來幫助他人,在生命挑戰中找到新希望,並捍衛身心障礙人士的價值與促進社會包容。歡迎點次連結收聽:http://bit.ly/SubscribenowVoE
New episode alert! Our latest guest on Voices of Exchange inspires us to find hope in life’s challenges while channeling our passions through helping others. Find out how paratriathlete, surfer, and #GSMPExchangeAlumni Daniel Gómez de la Vega is fighting for representation and inclusion for people with disabilities.👏
Hear his story now: http://bit.ly/SubscribenowVoE
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representation of others 在 JENN LEE Youtube 的最讚貼文
🖤觀秀注意事項🖤
1. 強烈建議您配戴耳機觀賞,享受旅程
2. 若網路順暢,請將畫質調至2160p,以利最佳看秀畫質
🖤PLEASE NOTICE🖤
1. Strongly suggest! Enjoy the trip with your earphones.
2. Please watch the video with 2160p to get the best quality.
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「大人不過是長大的小孩」- 華特迪士尼
以實驗性概念延續21秋冬系列耐人尋味的「宇宙恆變」、「活在當下」之理念,以觸動人心的創作帶領觀眾進入充滿『家人之愛』的虛擬世界,探索生命與成長的根源!
一同窺探歷經懷胎十月、初為人母的設計師Jenn在不同身份、心境與情緒轉變下,如何深刻演繹情感的波動與感觸,展示母愛光輝與溫柔無限的蛻變之作!
再次攜手全球最大華語電影獎項─金馬獎特效得主「再現影像」挑戰觀眾的視覺感官,延續JENN LEE 21秋冬的虛擬星球,以第一人稱視角的遊戲感帶領觀眾走進異次元的繽紛叢林,一窺星球上的人們與家人間關於「愛」與「情感」的故事。3D方式呈現2D充滿兒童插畫感的自然世界,再將視覺藝術家JUN YAO ZOIE LIAO設計出的童趣服裝印花3D化,成為虛擬視界裡各種獵奇可愛的生物,鮮豔細緻的畫面營造強烈的視覺效果。
音樂方面與享譽國際獲獎無數的台灣實驗電子音樂創作者Meuko! Meuko!合作,以充滿愛與希望的輕快節奏營造童趣氛圍,特別收錄Marz23狂野嘶吼、白癡公主對女兒阿甜的告白、黃宣神秘低喃以及設計師Jenn與老公Dennis對於愛的詮釋,更能聽見寶寶純真的笑聲,宛如徜徉於恆變宇宙中的呢喃奏樂。
JENN LEE 22 SS- Families
“Adults are only kids grown up”- Walt Disney
This collection is a deeply personal one as it reflects the changes in designer Jenn’s own life as she starts her new life as a mother and what this new journey means to her. This is shown not only through her collection, but also through the bold yet childlike visual motifs through the film.
Award winning production company Renovatio Pictures has returned this season to create a vibrant world filled with color and life as it explores the different forms of love. JENN LEE invited local celebrities, friends and family to take part in this fashion film as it transports the audiences to a world of its own. The unique first person gaming perspective further draws the viewer into this immersive experience as you dive into each unique storyline.
Jenn Lee has worked with talented Taiwanese illustrator JUN YAO ZOIE LIA to create key symbols that reflect the inspiration of this collection. One of the key images that stands out throughout this is the drawing of the umbilical cord, a direct reference to Jenn Lee’s new journey as a mother and a physical representation of the connection between loved ones.These illustrations are animated in the film to help tell the story of the impact that connections and memories have on our lives.
As the global pandemic continues to shape the way we interact with people and we embark on new journeys, Jenn Lee has expressed herself through this collection and hopes to encourage others to not be afraid to express themselves and appreciate the connections we have around us.
Meuko! Meuko! provides the soundtrack to this film and is mixed with different voices from the characters in the film.
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李維錚 Wei Chen Lee
劉芸庭 Yun Ting Liu
林昕穎 Xin Ying Lin
吳霈萱 Pei Xuan Wu
毛紫函 Tzu Han Mao
周采丰 Tsai Feng Chou
盧蘊睿 Yun Rui Lu
楊詠茹 Yung Ju Yang
葉重佑 Chung Yu Yeh
何絜霓 Chieh Ni Ho
葉芮妤 Rui Yu Yeh
任宸漢 Chen Han Jen
李俐穎 Li Ying Lee
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🖤視覺特效製作🖤
再現影像製作股份有限公司
Visual Effects By Renovatio Pictures
視覺特效總監 郭憲聰
Visual Effects Supervisor Tomi Kuo
特效製片 黃棨雋
VFX Producer Peter Huang
CG 數位視覺設計師 吳怡萱
CG Digital Artist Ella Wu
去背遮罩師 陳姵均
Roto Artist Hulk Chen
概念美術設計師 吳怡萱
Concept Design Ella Wu
行政企劃 呂旻穎
Administration Moira Lu
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🖤Families🖤
黃宣 YELLOW
黃榮勇 Pawan
陳艾美 Amy Chen
阿夜 Marz23
阿娥姐 Monica
白癡公主 87 Princess
阿甜 A Tian
百勒絲 Fairy Pai
雷門 Raven
呀比 Yabi
張維宸 Way Mask
張䕒尹 Mini
李繼堯 Yolanda
王淑緞 Shu Duan Wang
程琪 Kare Chen
樂高 Lego
程舒唯 Edie 艾迪
費俊偉 Dennis Fei
李維錚 Wei Chen Lee
費維 Wei Baby
臭咪 Stinkymimimi
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🖤Illustration Design and graphic design🖤
廖俊堯 JUN YAO ZOIE LIAO
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🖤Photographer 🖤
費俊偉 Dennis Fei
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🖤Sponsors 🖤
文化部
KCC 墾青集團
DENNIS FEI
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🖤Music 🖤
Meuko! Meuko!
🖤Intro music🖤
庫巧兔 Cloudy Ku - Hermitage Bliss
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PR Contact (Taiwan): ellenliujennlee@gmail.com
PR Contact (UK) :roxannechen@dyelog.co.uk
representation of others 在 Lindie Botes Youtube 的最讚貼文
Is it ever ok to be jealous of someone's language skills? What about when you feel inadequate or feel like you're not as good as anyone else? Is it alright to compare yourself to others if you use it as a form of motivation? Valeria and I discuss these things in today's video. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments!
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
01:00 YouTuber pressure
02:00 Online language community
02:18 She used to hate me lol
03:47 Interacting with the community
05:04 Comparison and humility
06:29 Female representation
07:12 All communities have jealousy
08:51 Perfectionism & comparison in languages
10:51 Positive comparison
11:30 You don't see the hard work of others
12:27 Perfectionism affecting speaking
13:52 Judgement that won't come
14:28 Fearlessness
15:18 Beginners have it easier?
16:00 Underrepresenting your level
16:18 End
Sorry for the abrupt end; our cameras died oops
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representation of others 在 Tiara S. Dusqie Youtube 的精選貼文
HELLO EVERYONE! :) ( MORE INFO BELOW!)
Firstly, I just wanna say thanks to all of you guys who have stuck by me, by Rustyshoes92 since the beginning. Think of this revamp as a step forward where I've made Rustyshoes92 grow into what I hope and want it to be- a representation of me as a person. Through this process I've figured out exactly what I want my channel to be, what I want to do with it and how I'm going to manage it. Nothing much will change in terms of content. Think of it as me switching things up once in a while, and touching on topics that aren't necessarily beauty related. Think of it as me learning and experimenting how and what I can do to make my videos better for you guys and for myself as well.
Another part of this channel that I want to stress on is how I hope and want it to inspire others. I think that as long as I inspire one person out of the 1,600 subscribers I have, it's enough for me. I want to inspire others to be comfortable with their own skin, and to never stop learning and seeking knowledge. I want to share what I know (about makeup and other stuff as well) and my experiences with you guys.
In a recent interview I did with Michelle Phan, I realised what I was lacking in my channel and that was vision. I didn't have a solid understanding of the sense of purpose of why I make videos on YouTube in the first place.
Now I do.
So, Hello Everybody.
I'm Tiara, and this is my channel, Tiara S. Dusqie.
:)
Thanks again, and I love you all !
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