Video - Being independent ...
How do we teach our kids to be independent and not clingy ?
You should start them from a very young age ....from the day they were born .
Here's some tips ...
1. Let them be
Placed back the baby into the crib after every feed
2. Music
It helps to soothe the baby feeling comfortable.
3. Surrounded with toys
Allow the child to play by themselves which keeps them occupied .
4. Watch from afar
A child feels comfortable knowing Mommy is there in the room .
5. Take your time
When a child cries , do not panic and rush to them . Walk slowly and ask him why ...
6. Dont carry them too often
Babies love doing so and soon becomes a habit hence will cry each time you put them down . That's when trouble starts ...
7. Pat the baby to sleep
Never dodoi the baby to sleep . Just lie next to him till he falls asleep by singing a lullaby .
8. Encourage them
Talk and communicate with them .
Encouraging words do help to build confidence in our toddlers .
9. Educational and DIY activities
Keep your child occupied with toys they love , paints and artwork .
The Boys can play legos for hours without interrupting ....
10. Don't be too protective
Expose your child to outdoor activities . Just sit on the bench and let your child play freely . Its okay to fall as long as the environment is safe . It builds character ...
By doing so the child will be comfortable and confident being on his own .
Just sharing
Salam Everyone
Love As Always
PS - Its easier for twins as they have
each other to rely on ...
Do get a copy of ' My Way Of Parenting ' Book . Its all there ...
