【不要怪別人來逃避自己】(English writing below)
DO NOT BLAME OTHERS TO ESCAPE FROM YOURSELF
我們生命所面對的瓶頸和障礙，都是我們的陋習及缺點的成果。
不要這樣的成果，就必須正視自己的缺點。
不要急著推開別人善意的建議。我們都該感恩有人看到自己的盲點。
不要以為所有的人都在批評我們，因為就算好人也需要勇氣才能告訴我們如何進步。哪有人想要被別人討厭呢？
不要被講一下，就這裡痛那裡不舒服。幾歲的人了？被刺到，就當作在做針灸治療吧！刺多了，妳你的腦袋才會「沒有阻塞」、心量才能「廣大無邊」。
有時等了一輩子，就只遇到一個願意拉妳你一把的善知識。
妳你放天燈祈禱好運連連時，不就是希望天降神兵，助妳你一臂之力嗎？
奉著天旨的貴人既然來了，妳你又何苦避而不見。
還是，妳你始終執著於自己的「完美命運」呢？
有位說要報答我「大恩大德」的劉小姐，被問起閱讀我文章的觀後感，什麼都沒提，只大聲說了三遍：「很長！很長！很長！」
她說的也沒錯，也算是報了我給予她的恩。於是我最近開始寫些短文，盡我一份心意去照顧不同讀者的喜好。
幾天前，一位大衛先生私訊我，告訴我他的故事。在我未回覆時，他已說：「我看你幫不到我。」
大衛先生也在這臉書專頁，三月一日所發的視頻留言：「不知道你在說什麼。」
謝謝妳你告訴我。請給我點時間，我一定會努力再努力，發揮我最大的潛能去幫助更多更多的人。
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All the bottlenecks and obstacles we faced in Life are the cumulative result of our bad habits and shortcomings.
If we do not wish for such a destiny, we need to face our weaknesses squarely in the eye.
Do not push away the constructive criticisms of others anxiously. We should be grateful that there are people who can see our blind spots.
Do not think everyone around us are all critiquing us. Because even a good-hearted person needs courage to tell us what we need to improve. There isn't any person that does not wish to be liked by others.
Do not feel hurt here or discomfort there, just because someone say something unpleasing about you. You are too old to feel like that forever. If your ego feels pricked, take it as acupuncture therapy. Prick a few more times, and there will be no more jams in your brain, and you get to develop a more open heart.
Sometimes, it takes a whole lifetime of waiting, before we get to meet one virtuous teacher who is willing to pull us up from the deep trenches.
When you release a sky lantern, wishing for an abundance of good fortune, aren't you praying to the Heaven for a celestial army of soldiers to help you along?
Now that the Benefactor with the Heavenly Decree is here, why are you avoiding to meet him/her?
Or have you chosen to remain obstinate about your "perfect destiny"?
A Ms Low, who wished to repay my great kindness, was once asked about her insights after reading my FB article. She did not mention anything else, except exclaiming thrice, "Very long! Very long! Very long!"
She was right, and her comment probably counted as repaying me. This is one reason why I had taken to writing shorter posts recently. I wish to do my part to take care of readers of different preferences.
A Mr David PM me a few days ago, telling me his story. Before I was able to reply, he messaged, "I don't think you can help me."
In this FB page, he left a comment under my 1st March video, "Don't know what you are talking about."
Thank you for telling me. Please give me some time. I will definitely work harder and harder, to unleash my greatest potential and help more people in need.
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